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[–]1rife_omeqa 217 points218 points  (40 children)

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Even if she said all the right things on her profile page she'd still throw up red flags from the photo alone.

She's got the all black thing going from boobs to feet because she wants to hide her rolls and a slightly transparent top pleading for guys to 'please look up here instead of at the rest of me'. Then the weird arms/stand/pose thing. Screaming insecurities.

This is the shit that saddens me regarding the feminist approach. Instead of being told by her peers to hit the gym and work on her appearance, she's being told to expect men to ignore her failings and demand to be accepted for what she is. The accountability get's shifted from her to all men.

I don't mean for this to be a personal critique or to come off as an attack on her, because it's not. However, she spends time picking outfits that hide her insecurities and highlight her boobs. If she spent that time in the gym or counting her calories she could wear whatever the fuck she wanted and look amazing. She isn't ugly or hideous. She's investing time in covering up what she doesn't like about herself rather than improving it. Wrong approach.

[–]Lilcheeks 78 points79 points  (7 children)

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She isn't ugly or hideous.

She'd probably be pretty cute if she didn't weigh so much, and yea that outfit isn't fooling anyone.

[–]mbr902000 70 points71 points  (6 children)

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She looks like a busted can of biscuits

[–]Lilcheeks 15 points16 points  (0 children)

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Warm gooey biscuits haha

[–]ProfessorTwo 9 points10 points  (0 children)

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holy shit i lost it on that and then came to the realization you weren't trying to be funny.

[–]incraved 2 points3 points  (2 children)

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Lol that's funny even though I don't really know what it means

[–]mbr902000 0 points1 point  (1 child)

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You know when you crack a can of Pillsbury biscuits and the dough oozes out the sides....

[–]incraved 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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Eh I never bought biscuits in a can

[–]CapnScumbone 3 points4 points  (0 children)

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oh god...oh man, i needed that laugh.

[–]Thundercock720 23 points24 points  (3 children)

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I just can never get over the fact that she can shoot out of her league and its im the dick for saying no, but if i shoot out of my league im a complete joke and get laughed off, she doesnt deserve someone fit because shes not fit, shes overweight, she deserves a dietician.

[–]17 Endorsed ContributorJP_Whoregan 8 points9 points  (0 children)

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that's why we call it a "hamster", my friend.

[–][deleted] 5 points6 points  (1 child)

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To be fair, when shooting out of her league, she is laughed at and taken as a joke. Just not by anyone who would tell her that.

[–]Thundercock720 2 points3 points  (0 children)

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But even then i cant turn around and be all like, i dont find you sexually attractive, or she and her pudgy amazon friends will eat me.

[–]positiveeagle 8 points9 points  (0 children)

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...and not its a real smile either. Sad, really.

[–]RojoEscarlata 2 points3 points  (2 children)

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Have you seen the video of feminism made by /u/thewhitestraighmale ?

It was posted a few days ago, at my phone ATM but I'll look for the link when I get home.

[–]1rife_omeqa 1 point2 points  (1 child)

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No. Worth watching?

[–]tenin2010br 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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Kinda, he's releasing more videos so it's worth it to see where he's going. The beginning of it is hilarious.

[–][deleted] 15 points16 points  (20 children)

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She's also not going to live past her 50s (60) if she doesn't lose a serious amount of weight. Fitness is attractive because it's good for you. When feminists try to dictate what's attractive, they're trying to wish away the existence of nature.

Edit: If you're honestly offended that I said fat people die a lot younger, fuck off and stop white knighting.

[–]Balls_so_hard 17 points18 points  (3 children)

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I find fitness in a woman attractive because it indicates she has self control and shares similar values to me. Sure it also helps that people in shape LOOK better than people who are not in shape but when I look at fat people, I don't judge them for being fat I judge them for being unable to make good decisions.

[–]ilike2partyhowaboutu 15 points16 points  (0 children)

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Exactly! Being obese is a glaring revelation that the person has self-control issues.

Being in shape is a life choice.. not something you just do a few times a week...

[–]INomYou 7 points8 points  (0 children)

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But it's mah glandular system, shitlord.

[–][deleted] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

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You're genetically wired to be attracted to fit people. It's certainly true that people who take care of themselves have admirable values, but this woman is direct evidence of someone who wants a fit mate, but doesn't share pro-fitness values. We want fit mates because of genetics and natural selection, not because of values.

[–]nsummy 12 points13 points  (2 children)

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LOL that is a little dramatic, there are plenty of people in their 70s that are much bigger than her. Its not like she is morbidly obese!

[–][deleted] 7 points8 points  (1 child)

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Do you believe that she's going to somehow stay the same weight? If she starts taking care of herself she won't be fat, and if she doesn't she's going to get a lot fatter.

[–]MrMagwitch 4 points5 points  (0 children)

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[–]MrMagwitch 3 points4 points  (0 children)

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[–]MrMagwitch 4 points5 points  (0 children)

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[–]BooksofMagic 24 points25 points  (4 children)

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I am working out, but I'm still a little big. I want someone who is into physical fitness

Translation: I don't have the willpower to improve on my own so I want a BF who will make me go do for my own good. It's just too hard making myself do anything so I need a man to make me do it.

My wife (former fattie) was the same way for years. Then she found her motivation on her own and lost a lot of weight. I joined her whenever she went to the gym and since then I lift weights and run on a semi-regular basis. Now eventually she became much happier with her body and stopped going to the gym regularly. At this point I started to get the vibe that she wanted me to start kicking her ass to go work out. I think that's BS being responsible for her working out so I told her straight out - "If you want to work out with me, great! I'll tell you when/where and even adjust the time if needed to accommodate you. But I'm not going to kick your ass to go and I'm not going to allow you to keep me from going. Your motivation has to come from within, not from me kicking your ass. I refuse to be blamed for your lack of will power." She hasn't complained since.

[–]1KyfhoMyoba 5 points6 points  (3 children)

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I agree. I'm going to play Devil's Advocate for a moment (don't hate), and say that she's looking for some motivation. She didn't say the guy had to be Bobby Buffbod, she said "into fitness". She's trying, and finding it difficult. With this filter in effect, she can (hopefully) eliminate guys that she might ordinarily like, but would hold her back from or, more likely, just not propel her toward her fitness goals.

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    [–]assinmygenes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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    Probably goes to planetfitness for some pizza and doughnuts after 10 minutes on an elliptical.

    [–]BooksofMagic 3 points4 points  (0 children)

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    Certainly I can appreciate what she is trying to do. That being said, with the way she looks in that picture, the only men she is going to attract are the ones who like her the way she is right now, so won't be motivated to push her to change. If she wants to start attracting more fit men, then she needs to start changing herself first. It's exactly what we are trying to teach the men here and it applies equally to both sexes.

    [–]OttifantSir 67 points68 points  (4 children)

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    Quite the ironic imgur title on that picture :-)

    [–]SlimFastForYou 23 points24 points  (3 children)

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    oh the URL G0Ldgem

    [–]dirtboxchampion 50 points51 points  (2 children)

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    I believe it's misspelt: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Golem

    [–]autowikibot 13 points14 points  (0 children)

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    Golem:


    In Jewish folklore, a golem (/ˈɡoʊləm/ GOH-ləm; Hebrew: גולם‎) is an animated anthropomorphic being, created entirely from inanimate matter. The word was used to mean an amorphous, unformed material (usually out of stone and clay) in Psalms and medieval writing.

    The most famous golem narrative involves Judah Loew ben Bezalel, the late-16th-century rabbi of Prague. There are many tales differing on how the Golem was brought to life and afterwards controlled.

    Image i - Prague reproduction of Golem


    Interesting: Golem100 | Golem (Dungeons & Dragons) | Golems (Discworld) | Golem (comics)

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    [–]Manuel_S 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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    GREAT gag there. Upvote for you.

    [–][deleted] 32 points33 points  (7 children)

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    Just like we all know, women want a leader. When I spent time on OKC, I noticed this trend too. Women, who are over weight abd barely work out, want to find a guy who is already ripped. They want him to see her for "her inner beauty" so she can be encouraged by him to work out.

    The idea, in their eyes, is that she gets a hot guy now, and you get a hot girlfriend as a reward. Ya know, after you put in a ton of effort helping her get fit.

    [–]SpaceMoonstar 46 points47 points  (2 children)

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    And as soon as she gets fit, she dumps the guy because of all the newly gained attention she hasn't experienced before.

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      [–]parkman47 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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      So true.

      [–]Superposition69 9 points10 points  (1 child)

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      I just saw a motivational picture on facebook telling the story of the fat cow who lost weight from over 200 lbs. down to the 130s. her bf has always been a goober, though as she was getting hotter, he improved his overall style and posture and theyve both experienced the "ugly duckling" life history. Good for them, but the tens of thousands of hambeasts liking this picture are now believing that the fat is like some form of gift wrap that us dudes have to motivate to unwrap itself. so now we should be lucky to get the fat girls.

      [–]Endorsed Contributor2comment 9 points10 points  (0 children)

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      I might like gift wrap if my name was Hannibal Lecter.

      [–]kratol 0 points1 point  (1 child)

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      Nope, if they are happy on some level with what they get, they will say to themselves "why bother to get fit when I'm going good how I am now".

      Or they will dig their heels in completely against exercise and good diet because they have resentment about the world discriminating them for being fat.

      Only some women want someone to push them to lose weight. Remember Lindy West exists.

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      I do know a woman who did. And not because of a man. She did cross over the wall though. She's put in a ton of effort over the last two years, its actually impressive.

      [–]Emiel000 24 points25 points  (5 children)

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      I hate these people. I'm gonna eat what I want, I'll just always be ' a little big ', but I want my guy to be physically fit. Hypocrit woman

      [–]parkman47 10 points11 points  (2 children)

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      It's the hypocrisy that really kills it.

      Women always want better than them, not an equal.

      [–]Zergrushin -1 points0 points  (1 child)

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      Well, can you blame them? I want to date women who are out of my league.

      [–]parkman47 5 points6 points  (0 children)

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      I want to fuck women who are out of my league; I want to marry and spend my life with someone who I feel is equal to me. I want a partner. I want some balance.

      [–]Hughtub 8 points9 points  (1 child)

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      She might as well add "I'm looking for a Blue Pill guy"

      [–]2asd1100 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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      well her body and (i'm guessing) her attitude is a gigantic always on shit test..so she'll probably find one

      [–]2 Mredpillschool 31 points32 points  (32 children)

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      As always, avoid online dating. It's preselection at it's worst:

      http://puerarchy.com/2013/07/31/how-pre-selection-affects-your-online-dating-profile/

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        [–]dan_fletcher 48 points49 points  (9 children)

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        Everywhere is great hunting for the top 20%

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          [–]olaf_from_norweden 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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          yo this is Tinder not ur mom's Psalm of the Day. let me hit dat.

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            [–]Adach 0 points1 point  (2 children)

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            Have you had any more luck than a conversation?

            [–]Moneyley 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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            but when you hit the top 1% you end up paying too much- Mitt Romney

            [–]Endorsed Contributor2comment 2 points3 points  (1 child)

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            Can I use actual guns on these she-beasts, or is a bow and arrow considered more sporting?

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              [–]sir_wankalot_here 10 points11 points  (11 children)

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              I don't know. As soon as the profile states something like "must be _____", I ignore it.

              If the profile states stuff like :

              • must have stable job
              • must have university education
              • I deserve ______

              That is a signal she is a gold digger. I might send some asshole reply just yonder if I can get a response.

              Usually of the woman has an interesting profile, doesn't have pictures of herself in her underwear, I send a message of what ever enters my head first. I have actually met some interesting women who where fun to talk to.

              I don't really know.

              [–][deleted] 3 points4 points  (6 children)

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              Girls like that deserved to be fucked and chucked for being such petty bitches though.

              [–]sir_wankalot_here 1 point2 points  (5 children)

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              Go for it :-) I used to play them along, as in asking them what they have to offer on a relationship. The bitch has such a high value of herself that she thinks that her amazing pussy should be all you need. They also have the illusion they have an amazing personality. They usually react poorly when I ask them why shouldn't I just hire an escort which is cheaper.

              Their common response is I will never find a woman. When I reply back I already am in an LTR, they ask how come I am allowed on OKC ? They then accuse me of lying, I ask them if they wish they can call my wife right now. They then claim that they have better attriubutes then my wife.

              It gets boring when you can see what will happen before it happens. But if I was younger and more horny, I would probably fuck them and dump them :-) Unfortunately I was already fairly old before I kind of grasped RP ideas.

              [–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (4 children)

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              You go on OKcupid even though you're married?!?! I'm all for RP principles and ideas, but doesn't your wife want to kill you?

              [–]sir_wankalot_here 1 point2 points  (3 children)

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              Where I am polygamy is illegal but somewhat accepted. So I know quite a few men who have a legal wife and extra wives on the side.

              My wife's theory is that most women are against polygamy because they are insecure. From my observations most men especially married men are against polygamy because they are pussy whipped. Most of the men I know who have extra wives interact with other men but they don't really have male friends.

              Personally I had problems accepting that I am polygamous. Looking back I suspect that my father might have had other women on the side. And I know that my grandfather did.

              But it seems to have improved things. So my wife might ask me about who I am seeing and stuff like that.

              [–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (2 children)

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              Interesting... isn't polygamy, strictly defined, multiple wives? If you have one wife but other partners on the side you're in an open relationship right? Just curios, I'm in the 99% of the population that doesn't know really anything about this stuff. (Other than what Iv'e seen on TV)

              [–]sir_wankalot_here 0 points1 point  (1 child)

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              Yes polygamy means multiple wives. So the one guy I know has a legal wive with kids, and then other women in other houses with kids also. I don't know the inner workings, but the women must know what is going on.

              The other guy I know has a legal wife, but GFs on the side.

              My limited experience. There is polyamory and swingers. Polyamory there is some sort of "relationship", swingers just have casual sex.

              For polyamory to work, most people agree there has to be "rules". So like with me, I can talk to other women, anything more then that my wife has to know. Wife is not allowed to do things with guys. If another woman gets involved both my wife and I have to agree on the woman.

              When we had a GF, her and wife would chit chat all the time. And it seemed to relax both of them.

              I have a theory that most women naturally have bi-tendencies. For men there is cockolding, the female version is called cuckqueaning.

              The psychology behind cockolding the man for some reason wants to be humiliated.

              Cuckqueaning seems to be different, the woman seems to get excited because other women are attracted to her man. Usually both women complain to each other how bad I am. Meanwhile doing what I tell them to do. So this seems to agree with TRP principles.

              I never tried picking up another woman IRL for this. Mainly because I want to be discrete and I am not sure how to do damage control IRL.

              Women lie on their profiles. So usually I send them a message. Then slowly broach the subject, this might take up to a month plus. And quite often they seem curious about it. So you can't judge from the profile. If the woman agrees to meet it pretty much a go.

              The woman we where seeing for two plus years actually had a lot of guys asking her out. Usually she rejected them because they where "boring".

              I am curious about other people's experiences.

              [–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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              wow. just wow. Cannot believe you get to see other women and she can't hook up with guys, good for you!

              [–]icallmyselfmonster 5 points6 points  (2 children)

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              Gold diggers? I have had girls straight up whoring. :

              Hey, you are about to read something that may potentially degrade me and scare you but I'm gonna send it anyway. I'm a REDACTED art student working on my third year of college starting a degree this summer. I'm looking to find the perfect guy I can get to know, chat to, and satisfy in return help me afford things in life (I'm not talking anything massive, but every little bit counts). This could be whatever you wanted, our agreement would put you in control. So this is my shot in the dark the find the right guy and maybe we can both benefit from my idea. I hope to hear from you. (And please, if this isn't for you just do not respond, it is difficult enough sending a message like this).

              [–]Endorsed ContributorVZPurp 14 points15 points  (1 child)

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              Whores are generally more honest than gold diggers.

              [–]sir_wankalot_here 2 points3 points  (0 children)

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              Exactly. There are two types of whores. The first plays the I am exploited by horrible men, and gets white knights to rush off to save them. The second category will tell you straight out I am a whore because it is easy work, and I can make lots of money.

              The art student whore wants to lease her pussy as opposed to rent so she can have a guaranteed income. A sensible economy decision. In return the guy gets access to her pussy as per the agreement.

              [–]fruitofmyloom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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              I'm not white so I play the "exotic" card online. White women are the most interesting with respect to their... openness to filthy sluttiness when you open them up. Next up are Indian chicks, then Asian, then Jewesses.

              My favourites though are the Jewesses. Once you get them open, they are yours.

              [–]wonderfulish 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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              I'm 5'8" and I've never had a problem finding dates online. I am fit, well-educated, and decent looking though.

              [–]Sirinon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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              Y'know one of my best lines in online dating is "btw, how tall are you ?" keep in mind our heights are clearly written on our profiles anyway.

              her: oh I'm about x, is that too short ?

              Me: Ha no, I only ask cos I'm like 6'4.

              Her: yes!!! ( or something similar )

              Me: Do you prefer taller guys ?

              the next responses from her are usually highly suggestive or outright sexual, outlining that I am tall had an insane affect in online dating.

              [–]isthatyourdaughter 0 points1 point  (1 child)

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              When are you going to put up some new articles on Puerarchy?

              [–]2 Mredpillschool 2 points3 points  (0 children)

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              Soon, I hope. I've taken a bit of a break because I'm working on a book!

              [–]Endorsed ContributorRedSunBlue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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              Online dating can be good if you leverage the ability to make a lot approaches very quickly using scripts and other computer wizardry.

              Even if your specific combination of physical assets gives you an abysmal response rate, you can build a system to send 100 messages at the click of a button and see who bites.

              Of course, the quality of the responders probably won't be so great. Them's the nuts, I guess.

              [–]notseriouslyserious 21 points22 points  (17 children)

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              If this is right, the avg weight of a woman in 2002 is ~164 pounds, so in a sense, she's probably technically of average weight.

              EDIT: For those of you more statistically minded who are thinking we should be using median weights instead, then this here show that women age 20-29 has a median weight of 132 pounds. Not as bad as 164, but unless she's at least 5'7", that's still on the chubbier side.

              [–]Hymen-Ripper 52 points53 points  (8 children)

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              Yeah, but I'm not looking for average. The average woman is an obese cow. If I work out every day and eat right, I expect nothing less from the woman I'm dating.

              [–]down_with_whomever -4 points-3 points  (4 children)

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              For you, around what weight (assuming average height) becomes "obese cow" and around what weight is appropriate?

              Edit: For the people answering me, my question is because Hymen-Ripper wrote the average woman (164 pounds) is an obese cow, but the obesity rate is 36% for American adults (36% is not average) So I was very curious what he considered to be obese.

              [–]Epicureanist 0 points1 point  (2 children)

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              It really depends, things are different for everyone. I know women who are slim, but weigh a fair amount either because of having muscle or heavy bones. A better descriptor would be bodyfat. Going along with that, I'd prefer a girl with 1 or 2 abs, but those women are rare and i'll settle for just a slim figure stomach.

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              Lol "heavy bones"

              [–]olaf_from_norweden 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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              "my medication makes my thyroid heavy it's not fat."

              [–]Fantastical14 5 points6 points  (1 child)

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              She is definitely not 164lbs....

              [–][deleted] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

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              she might only be 4'11"?

              [–]nninja 3 points4 points  (0 children)

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              What?? The average woman weighs as much as me wtf. Ok granted I need to gain weight but still.

              [–]Lilcheeks 1 point2 points  (2 children)

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              I think there's an important distinction to make... average woman you'd want to have sex with or just average amongst the entire population of women. She's more towards that 2nd category.

              [–]notseriouslyserious 5 points6 points  (1 child)

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              Well you probably wouldn't want to have sex with the average OKCupid woman anyway

              [–]Lilcheeks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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              Logically I'd think the average okc woman would be a bit lower on the scale than an average woman in general, so yea.

              [–]Koss424 0 points1 point  (1 child)

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              I was just going to say when she says average to fit, she assumes that she is average (and sadly she might be)

              [–]Tiberius133 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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              Because average is just an average. As opposed to ideal, which is what we really want in ourselves and others.

              [–]bytesunfish 5 points6 points  (1 child)

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              Did anyone else notice the irony of the link having the picture id as G0ldgem....

              [–]incraved 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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              Lol, I wonder if this made on purpose or randomly generated

              [–]Allferik 2 points3 points  (0 children)

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              Man the reason she got a decent rating or average whatever is because of all the ugly, thirsty, desperate as dudes on okcupid who just want anything they can get. I'll take this girl on a date and leave her at the gym. I am good looking and fit.. If she wants me she better plan on being my sugar momma

              [–]1Hyooge 7 points8 points  (20 children)

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              The sad thing is, she gets lots of attention from pussy hungry dudes who slot into the "average/fit" category.

              Not for me thank you, I'll go for the girl who actually lifts.

              [–]tenmileswide 6 points7 points  (19 children)

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              Not for me thank you, I'll go for the girl who actually lifts.

              Where are these women? At every gym I've been to the men that lift easily outnumber the women that lift 20:1.

              [–]1Hyooge 9 points10 points  (12 children)

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              I'm still hunting bro. The only hot girls I see in the gym are cardio bunnies that are there simply to show off.

              [–]ButterMyBiscuit 8 points9 points  (8 children)

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              There are a handful of women at my gym who lift. One is a terrifying huge powerlifter, one is ugly, and two are SMOKING hot.

              [–]down_with_whomever 8 points9 points  (4 children)

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              One is a terrifying huge powerlifter

              I'm over 6'6. Send this one my way.

              [–]ButterMyBiscuit 3 points4 points  (3 children)

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              Heh, honestly not sure you want that unless you have a powerlifting woman fetish. She's along these lines, but less huge in the upper body, and the arms are nowhere near that big.

              [–]down_with_whomever 1 point2 points  (1 child)

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              Wow, gross.

              Still, send her my way.

              [–]thecajunone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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              Lmao

              [–]Superposition69 1 point2 points  (2 children)

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              same spread in a good crossfit class; find a busy crossfit gym, you'll find what youre looking for. crossfit is good for their bodies.

              [–]conjunctionjunction1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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              IMO crossfit makes women too manly.

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              seriouslyyyyy

              [–]fats_dominos 0 points1 point  (1 child)

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              The only hot girls I see in the gym are cardio bunnies that are there simply to show off.

              There was an attractive woman whom I would see at the gym wearing very heavy eye shadow. She would go on the elliptical for half an hour, but she never even broke a sweat as her makeup never ran. Talk about a waste of time.

              [–]1Hyooge 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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              It's must be a validation place for girls like that... I'm certain there was a post on here about the difference in men and women, especially in the gym. It was about how women simply do not put in the level of exertion into their training that men do and only a very tiny proportion of girls actually contort their faces when lifting.

              The main thing that pisses me off is when girls have to tell everyone they go to the gym but I can bet I put more work into one session than they do throughout their membership. I never voluntarily chat about my training unless someone explicitly asks.

              [–]nsummy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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              If you want to meet women at the gym, go to a crossfit gym, its a goldmine.

              [–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (2 children)

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              At every gym I've been to the men that lift easily outnumber the women that lift 20:1.

              At every gym I've been to the men easily outnumber the women 20:1.

              ftfy

              [–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (1 child)

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              Yeah if you're going to curves

              [–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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              At almost every gym Iv'e been to it's almost all dudes, and only a handful of women. It kinda sucks because the women are usually fatties trying to lose weight, save a few bunnies there for the attention.

              [–]dreamingawake09 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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              I see them all the time at unis and areas near a uni...usually for the fact that the big schools have rec centers and gyms.

              [–]enticingasthatmaybe -1 points0 points  (0 children)

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              Running clubs... You'll thank me later

              [–]Hormander 13 points14 points  (3 children)

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              Dat whale. Man, the harpoons.

              [–]Endorsed Contributor2comment 1 point2 points  (2 children)

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              Maybe we can call the Japanese to haul this one off.

              [–]Hormander 8 points9 points  (1 child)

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              Sorry but the American feminist whale is a protected species

              [–]Endorsed ContributorVZPurp 3 points4 points  (0 children)

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              That's never stopped the Japanese before

              [–]positiveeagle 3 points4 points  (0 children)

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              Translation: I want someone hotter than me, and that will teach me how to be hot.

              [–]Endorsed ContributorRedBigMan 5 points6 points  (1 child)

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              Seems like if she wrote that stuff in her profile that is in her picture she's looking to ditch her fat friends and get some skinny ones.

              Remember, the company you keep often dictates your success. If you are friends with a lot of fatties then they're going to try and sabotage your fitness success with donuts and bonbons.

              [–]MagicGainbow 3 points4 points  (0 children)

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              Tru dat, one of my buddies lived with his gf and a girl both were friends with(they were flatmates before but my buddy wisely went for the hot skinny one) and every time she was on a diet she'd force everyone else on it, but when someone else lost weight she'd be the first to bake them a huge fucking cake.

              [–][deleted] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

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              She looks god damn awful. I'd rather have sex with a hippopotamus!

              [–][deleted] 5 points6 points  (1 child)

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              ok she definitely looks uh not so good. however i think its not really hypocritical, to be big and want someone not big, its just a preference really.

              For example I'm a not fat, I'm semi muscular and in shape but look ok lets say i'm right in the middle and sometimes i really want skinny girls and sometimes i want bigger girls, doesn't mean I'm hypocritical.

              It's just she's being a little unrealistic.

              I do wonder if she would look good if she lost 40-60 pounds, something tells me her personality sucks just from what i can glean from her picture and those demands she's making.

              [–]olaf_from_norweden 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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              Besides, more power to anyone for being uninhibited in what they expect from the world.

              I thought that's what this sub was all about.

              [–]InferiousX 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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              No pictures usually but I see a lot of this on CL ads too.

              "Curvy girl with 'more to love' looking for a guy. Must be in shape."

              How about, "Go get fucked?" and not by me.

              [–]YOU_ARE_A_TOY 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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              Who cares? Let her do what she wants. If you're not into her, don't message her, move on. Stop lingering on those things, she's probably out having fun and you're analyzing a profile you're not interested in.

              [–][deleted] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

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              strong bulk going on, how much has she added on her DL ?

              I know plenty of guys who are into 'fitness' related stuff who;d do her.

              [–]throwawaygonnathrow 4 points5 points  (3 children)

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              Meh, I don't see a problem. She's aspiring to something better. According to her, she wants to lose weight, and she wants to be with a fit guy. It'd be hypocritical if she was content or even defensive of her fatness yet expected higher standards from the men she went out with. I wouldn't fuck her at that weight but nothing wrong with seeking something better. Besides, I don't see anything in that post where she says that she is allowed to be a BBW and that any guy who says otherwise is oppressing her.

              The real issue is the women who decry "artificial standards of beauty" as an instrument of the patriarchy. That's where I draw a line.

              [–]LastRevision 6 points7 points  (2 children)

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              She's smart enough to know the right thing to say. Big deal. You'll often see the unemployed trainwreck girl say, "I'm a work in progress...." which translated means "you'd better not be."

              [–]throwawaygonnathrow 0 points1 point  (1 child)

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              Well sure. I just don't see the point of calling her out. Not egregious enough to me to be interesting. Like the poster said, this is an average OKC woman... and it really is. This is like 70% of the fat chicks on OkCupid, it's just shooting fish in a barrel to rip on them. And hey, for all I know, she could be one of the few that reform and become a former fat chick at some point.

              It's just weird to rip on her for saying "I want a guy I'm attracted to" when she doesn't necessarily impose a double standard on the viewer. What's she supposed to say? "I'm fine if you're fat and ugly, because let's be real, so am I." I'm sure she probably puts either "curvy" or "average" in her profile (which is obviously disingenuous), but at least she acknowledges that she's "a little big." Understatement of course... but a slight improvement over just some myspace angle pictures with no disclaimers as to her fatness.

              [–]LastRevision 2 points3 points  (0 children)

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              "Understatement of course... but a slight improvement over just some myspace angle pictures with no disclaimers as to her fatness."

              That always got me. I swear, some of these girls have way bigger balls than I ever could- I remember when I was on OKC back around when the site first launched, during the MySpace era, and the way some of these girls would show up looking easily 50-60 pounds heavier than their picture would blow my fucking mind. Fifty pounds on a girl is like me showing up 100 pounds heavier than my picture... I get that the hamster logic is "it's still a picture of me!!!!!!!!~11" but COME ON.

              [–]Lipophobicity 3 points4 points  (7 children)

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              I honestly don't see the issue, she isn't obligated to be attracted to people as chubby as her. She posted a full body picture and isn't trying to trick anyone

              I get the point OP is trying to make about unrealistic SMV expectations on dating sites, but it isn't her fault for trying

              [–]MrsStrom 16 points17 points  (0 children)

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              It's not her fault, but it is indicative of the larger, social problem. Women her age tend to forget, and are told, that age doesn't matter and that they're still beautiful just the way they are, no matter how fat or wrinkly they get.

              Edit: spelling

              [–][deleted] -1 points0 points  (4 children)

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              Her unrealistic expectations and camera tricks are being exposed.

              E: you downvoters like my blue pill knowledge a lot eh?

              [–]LegalPusher 2 points3 points  (3 children)

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              Plus the whole "pants up to her boobs" / girdle thing she has going on. She'd definitely balloon out if she took that stuff off.

              [–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (2 children)

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              When I online date now I tell the girls in advance that I will leave them where we meet if they're one pound more than the pictures they sent me let on, and same with if I see a new angle of their face (a hideous one) that their pictures prevented me from seeing. Same with girls who show up in those disgusting elastic pants.

              [–]conjunctionjunction1 0 points1 point  (1 child)

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              Yoga pants? Those can be hot on the right physique.

              [–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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              I don't like to see them for a first impression on a night date

              [–]veyron1001 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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              Since she is obese, she has no right to a fit or athletic man. Her options realistically are skinny or fat/average guys.

              [–]16 Endorsed ContributorGayLubeOil 2 points3 points  (1 child)

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              I have zero sympathy for obese people. The amount of calories she needs to maintain that weight is something like 5k. If your a fit guy the chubsters will only bring you down and make it harder to achieve your goals. Dont surround yourself with losers. Yes eating 5k calories makes you a loser.

              [–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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              It doesn't take 5k to maintain her weight. She probably doesn't do anything physical and even if she did, there's no way her TDEE is even over 2500-3000. With that stated, I agree with the no sympathy. Poor education and diet render her figure.

              [–]aboutarookie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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              I actually have really good luck with online dating , I'm your typical douche with a nice body and shirtless pics with nothing in my bio and I get messages from girls . I'm still the one sending most of the messages first but I have fucked a lot of woman off of online dating , like a lot . Mostly 8's , couple 9 and 10's.

              The biggest thing I get is woman say I look like a player and I'm not their type , this is bascially saying to me hey I wanna fuck you send me your number .

              [–]FrEaK40 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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              Guess my girlfriend is un-average then hahaha

              [–]StatelessConnection -3 points-2 points  (1 child)

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              Is this sub satire? She's looking to get healthier, and wants someone who's there already or moving in that direction.

              [–]stuffandthat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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              She wants someone to validate her existence.

              [–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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              Waist constrictor explosion in T-5 seconds.

              [–]ilike2partyhowaboutu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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              No no no no.. women like this never goto the gym.. they hit up a free yoga class a few times a year where they spend the whole class in the child's position almost crying because "it's so hard"

              That's their work out.

              Then they just starve themselves so their wildly fluctuating blood sugar levels combined with their shaved monkey horomones somehow believe that no matter what she does or says.. every man should see her as a beautiful perfect woman.

              OkCupid is great for picking up a quick fuck.. but most women there are completely, absolutely brainwashed into thinking they deserve 6 foot tall guys with 100k+ jobs and six pac abs.

              [–]HAQ_be -4 points-3 points  (8 children)

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              "before McDonalds" rekt :D

              [–]MrsStrom 10 points11 points  (7 children)

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              Or worse, going to Hamplanet Fitness, and eating the donuts and pizza they provide.

              [–]SlimFastForYou 4 points5 points  (5 children)

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              Planet Fitness actually provides donuts & pizza? lmao TIL

              [–]dreamingawake09 7 points8 points  (4 children)

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              Hell yeah they do, and the dislike it if you're lifting and grunting(which is a normal reaction) because you're "intimidating others"...dafuq kind of shit is that?

              [–]MockingDead 4 points5 points  (2 children)

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              I set off the Lunk Alarm when I go. I have weird hours at my job, and travel sometimes now, so I got it to have a gym near me all the time.

              I also work part-time at the Pizza Place that supplies them. They buy like 30 pizza's a month

              [–]StatelessConnection 3 points4 points  (1 child)

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              Stop going, join an actual gym.

              [–]MockingDead 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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              I usually hit my Y, but sometimes they are closed when I can get to them.

              [–]cipahs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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              Don't they know that grunts are the mating call of gains?

              [–]1Jaereth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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              What the fuck... Well, I guess the healthy don't need a doctor, so maybe it's just a business strategy on their part...

              [–]CaffeineHi -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

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              She looks cute.

              [–]MahlerNinth -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

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              Soundtrack to this profile should be "Moby Dick" by Led Zeppelin.

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                [–]Endorsed ContributorpuaSenator[S] 1 point2 points  (1 child)

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                This is TRP, not TRPW

                [–]Isuckatusernames29 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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                I stand corrected.

                [–]lbspredh -5 points-4 points  (4 children)

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                I used to go to macdonalds after the gym, and I never got close to as huge as that whale

                [–]SlimFastForYou 2 points3 points  (3 children)

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                I've never been to a Scottish restaurant. How's the food?

                [–]lbspredh 4 points5 points  (1 child)

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                hah you're funny.

                Interesting side note; they deep fry everything and it's pretty fucking awesome, 10/10 would recommend