all 177 comments

[–]The_CEO_of_Beta 113 points114 points  (36 children)

sorry, this has been archived and can no longer be voted on

I've been in this exact position before, as the guy. I failed her by never making a move even though she would keep telling me that the times she had with me were some of the happiest she's ever been.

This guy is like me, a nice guy. I never escalated because I was too scared. I never touched her, stayed respectful, and did not even make any flirty suggestions. I've been told doing any of these things is RAPE RAPE RAPE. I just kept my cool and waited for the moment that every single public speaker who has spoken on sexual harassment has ever said would happen, that she'll eventually give clear consent to escalate.

That moment never came. She instead went for another guy who wasn't afraid to grab her ass in public, even when she was angry he did that. She would still fuck him later of course.

[–]ibuprofiend 66 points67 points  (5 children)

sorry, this has been archived and can no longer be voted on

"Rape" rhetoric has made approaching girls impossible for a lot of guys. It's no problem for the "bad boys," thugs, addicts, and other impulsive, risk-taking personalities that are generally alphas, but everyone else is stuck waiting for that magical "Yes." But of course that "Yes" is never going to come because women like being taken and dominated.

[–]frazzleddd 45 points46 points  (3 children)

sorry, this has been archived and can no longer be voted on

Even more terrifying is waking up the next day and going bout your business for a week and then being charged with rape when her friends convince her that all drunk sex is rape. Happened to a friend of mine. Shits awful

[–]ibuprofiend 72 points73 points  (2 children)

sorry, this has been archived and can no longer be voted on

I hate how women are herd animals. Going after girls would be a lot easier if it was just about getting her interested, but no, you have to impress the whole fucking Spanish Inquisition panel of her 10 closest friends/enemies, since she needs social validation and can't actually think for herself.

[–]frazzleddd 22 points23 points  (0 children)

sorry, this has been archived and can no longer be voted on

I know. Its sooo fucking easy when they're alone but as soon as their dumb cunt friends start yapping it just adds on that little bit of extra weight to slow it all down

[–][deleted] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

sorry, this has been archived and can no longer be voted on

I've never dominated a girl, but I've also never felt like making the move/kissing/feeling her tits was a risky move. I mean if you watch a movie you start by kinda getting your shoulders to touch or your legs overlap, and still flirt/make her laugh. And by that point it seems like it's just so obvious it's time to kiss and more, even if you are never some dominant or aggressive. Just ask her out, flirt, make some physical contact, and then go for it.

[–]1bradyo2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

sorry, this has been archived and can no longer be voted on

Ahh yes, I'm sure this same story rings bells with a lot of us here...

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

sorry, this has been archived and can no longer be voted on

This happened me too once. I made all the nice guy mistakes. It was a major wake up call.

[–]LickMyUrchin 1 point2 points  (1 child)

sorry, this has been archived and can no longer be voted on

Who has been telling you that flirting is RAPE? Seriously what bizarre society are you from?

[–]t21spectre 13 points14 points  (0 children)

sorry, this has been archived and can no longer be voted on

Western politically correct society

[–]sweely 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sorry, this has been archived and can no longer be voted on

This is literally the story of my life. I used to be so scared of escalating physically. Always thought even the smallest of physical flirting meant rape. So many lost opportunities over this...

However, I've been doing really well for the past years so it's all good by now :)

[–]5 Endorsed ContributorStayinghereforreal 236 points237 points  (44 children)

sorry, this has been archived and can no longer be voted on

I could not believe a woman was actually admitting this

Why not? She thinks she is a great person and she is, perhaps, willing to let him Win the Prize that is her.

That guy may also be similarly clueless, so they are made for each other....well, at least until she gets tingles for Poolboy with a side order of divorce Cash and Prizes.

[–]ImnotTHATdrunk[S] 61 points62 points  (38 children)

sorry, this has been archived and can no longer be voted on

Because women typically wont admit it to themselves much less another person.

[–]1rife_omeqa 49 points50 points  (1 child)

sorry, this has been archived and can no longer be voted on

Saying "But if I am still single in like 10 years then I could totally see myself marrying him" is not an admission in her eyes.

It's nothing to be ashamed of or be coy about. It's natural. It's what she is planning to do and what everyone else expects her to do.

We see it as an admission because we understand the motive behind it. We know what she's going to get away with. She doesn't and as such has no problem talking about it. It's normal, all women do it, all men expect women to do it.

[–]sweetleef 9 points10 points  (0 children)

sorry, this has been archived and can no longer be voted on

It seems strange because it contradicts the PC charade we have adopted in the past 50 years. Acknowledging the obvious instinct of a woman to gravitate to men most likely to support and protect them while doing the least possible in return is now labeled as taboo, like racist jokes or looting and pillaging.

Obviously this labeling doesn't eliminate the instinct, or acting on it, it just prohibits acknowledging it openly.

[–]jacobman 21 points22 points  (7 children)

sorry, this has been archived and can no longer be voted on

She doesn't feel like she's admitting anything. In her mind, he's a great guy to settle down, but she's looking for something fun right now. She thinks, hilariously, that later, what she finds fun, won't be what she wants. I've heard a lot of girls say similar things as this girl. They don't see it the same way as you. They just think of it as different times of their life.

[–]wizdum -2 points-1 points  (6 children)

sorry, this has been archived and can no longer be voted on

I'm new to this sub but what is she admitting? I've said the same things as a man about women. Even to friends I'd see myself settling down with.

Girls want to fuck warriors, but as women, want to have children with stable providers.

Boys want to fuck sluts, but as men, want to settle down with a good woman.

I think it is more true that men don't change their 'stripes' as much. The warrior badboys rarely turn into the dependable provider father. But a lot of sluts settle down to become the faithful wife mother.

Then after the kids are grown we generally cheat with sluts/warriors ;-)

[–]5 Endorsed ContributorStayinghereforreal 7 points8 points  (1 child)

sorry, this has been archived and can no longer be voted on

But a lot of sluts settle down to become the faithful wife mother.

Then after the kids are grown we generally cheat with sluts/warriors ;-)

Divorce courts and family law exist because your construct is not reflected in reality.

[–]MartialWay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

sorry, this has been archived and can no longer be voted on

Divorce courts and family law exist because your construct is not reflected in reality.

THANK YOU. They can FAKE being a good wife/mother (long enough to get the slave band on your finger) but don't mistake that for BEING a genuniely good wife/mother.

[–]jacobman 7 points8 points  (0 children)

sorry, this has been archived and can no longer be voted on

There's a difference though. Guys want to fuck sluts simply because the sex is easy, not because they're not attracted to other girls. Women often aren't attracted to the nice guys that they say they would settle down with because those guys often lack confidence. If the women were attracted to them, they would date them right now. As always, exceptions, blah, blah, blah...

[–]theVet 15 points16 points  (1 child)

sorry, this has been archived and can no longer be voted on

That is absolute bullshit. A good chunk of men and even those who can get laid regularly would prefer a stable happy relationship to messing with a different slut every week. The problem is that most women aren't relationship material and the girl in OP's post just outright admitted to it.

The feminist adage of "power, freedom and happiness" is in reality just propaganda to act like a whore and feel empowered by that.

[–]boscoist 5 points6 points  (0 children)

sorry, this has been archived and can no longer be voted on

A good chunk of men and even those who can get laid regularly would prefer a stable happy relationship to messing with a different slut every week.

Reporting in to confirm.

[–]NeoBushi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sorry, this has been archived and can no longer be voted on

Unemployed guys are warriors?

[–]5 Endorsed ContributorStayinghereforreal 78 points79 points  (19 children)

sorry, this has been archived and can no longer be voted on

People will admit their motivations and goals all the time. All you have to do is listen without much comment, and affect a steady mien. The interpret that as though you agree and support their decisions. The less you say, the more people will tell you, I find.

Some of the stuff even absolute strangers will start saying amazes me.

[–]The_Taoist_Sociopath 57 points58 points  (6 children)

sorry, this has been archived and can no longer be voted on

smile and nod and the most awkward silences will torture most people into saying their most deep secrets to gain your attention and response.

[–]tlaneus 25 points26 points  (0 children)

sorry, this has been archived and can no longer be voted on

Your name perfectly fits that comment!

[–]OpiumPhrogg 4 points5 points  (0 children)

sorry, this has been archived and can no longer be voted on

Some of my best work has been done in the wake of awkward silence.

[–]ColdEiric 3 points4 points  (3 children)

sorry, this has been archived and can no longer be voted on

Always say less than necessary.

[–]Human_v2 18 points19 points  (0 children)

sorry, this has been archived and can no longer be voted on

Rofl wut? If it's necessary, you need to say it. Try 'Never say more than is necessary.'

[–]pushajudas 7 points8 points  (1 child)

sorry, this has been archived and can no longer be voted on

Zero points. I'm pretty sure this would be upvoted like crazy if he labeled it the fourth law in the 48 Laws of Power.

[–]Bascome 12 points13 points  (8 children)

sorry, this has been archived and can no longer be voted on

This is so true, story time.

My best friends wife was cheating on him, repeatedly for most of his marriage. She even tried to fuck me, his best friend and best man at the wedding. Everyone warned him but me (he thought it was because I saw what he saw in her) I knew he wouldn't listen.

Fast forward 15 or so years and she is still cheating on him but this time with an inner city jobless man with 2 kids from 2 other women. She proceeds to get pregnant with his 3rd child.

At this point I am called in to help them sort it out as I am the one person they both trust (she trusts me for rejecting her, he trusts me for lying about her for all these years) After just 20 minutes of talking I draw out of her her true goals and she actually tells her husband who gave her 3 kids and a big beautiful home citizenship and provided for her the entire time this.....

"I am bored here and I just want to go out and have some fun. If it works out fine but if it doesn't and this new guy is not the one I want I want to come back as if nothing happened, is that ok?" He agreed.

The real sad part is that it took me a month to explain to him why that was not a good idea for him to actually follow through on.

[–]HMNbean 9 points10 points  (5 children)

sorry, this has been archived and can no longer be voted on

Why the fuck would anyone agree to that? That's like asking for someone's wallet full of cash and saying maybe you'll return the wallet by itself when the cash runs out.

[–]Bascome 5 points6 points  (4 children)

sorry, this has been archived and can no longer be voted on

I was flat out shocked when he said, looking at the floor, defeated.... "ok"

This guy makes nuclear subs for fucks sake he makes 120k a year and was homeless as a teenager living a car with his sister. He is a self made man if anyone is.

Now he is beta to a whole flock of women, new wife new daughters and new mother in law.

I finally gave up on him a couple years ago, hope he is happy but I can't watch him make choices anymore.

[–]5 Endorsed ContributorStayinghereforreal 7 points8 points  (0 children)

sorry, this has been archived and can no longer be voted on

You should tell him that directly, and then tell him his ongoing self-destruction makes it impossible to hang with him. Tell him this is like he is drinking or gambling himself into an early grave, and you cannot watch it any longer.

[–]HMNbean 1 point2 points  (0 children)

sorry, this has been archived and can no longer be voted on

That's a damn shame.

[–]MartialWay 1 point2 points  (1 child)

sorry, this has been archived and can no longer be voted on

NEVER let the mother-in-law move in. You can't be outnumbered in your own house, it won't end well.

[–]Bascome 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sorry, this has been archived and can no longer be voted on

He sold his house moved in to theirs. Even worse if you ask me.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

sorry, this has been archived and can no longer be voted on

hey man, I think it's really awesome you took the time to let him know why this was a shitty deal for him, as obvious as it may have seem to the rest of us. You're a good guy.

[–]2 Endorsed Contributorvengefully_yours 1 point2 points  (0 children)

sorry, this has been archived and can no longer be voted on

Second wife wanted that. She wanted to live with me, not fuck me, but have me pay all her bills and support him too. When she left to go fuck him that night, I packed up all her shit, left it outside, and ended my marriage with a text.

Bye bitch.

[–]1FloranHunter 8 points9 points  (0 children)

sorry, this has been archived and can no longer be voted on

Some of the stuff even absolute strangers will start saying amazes me.

You can actually flat-out ask strangers for intimate details about their lives and they will usually tell you. If you share a friend or are otherwise introduced and amicable then there is very little they won't share.

[–]macsenscam 2 points3 points  (0 children)

sorry, this has been archived and can no longer be voted on

So true. As a "nice guy" I hear the same thing from chicks all the time. Usually the problem is that the guy they should be with doesn't have enough balls to "take it to the mat," as they say.

[–][deleted] 8 points9 points  (2 children)

sorry, this has been archived and can no longer be voted on

Eh, a lot of girls admit early on that they want to settle down with a "nice guy" one day

[–]Squid_Patrol 12 points13 points  (0 children)

sorry, this has been archived and can no longer be voted on

"nice guy"

Beta Bux

[–]1FloranHunter 5 points6 points  (0 children)

sorry, this has been archived and can no longer be voted on

Her phrasing reads to her and other girls as being unrelated to alpha fux beta bux. She hasn't examined her motivations enough nor empathized with men enough to understand what she's actually saying. BP men can't tell either.

[–]whoops_fap 9 points10 points  (1 child)

sorry, this has been archived and can no longer be voted on

They aren't even self aware enough to know they're admitting anything.

[–]charlesbukowksi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

sorry, this has been archived and can no longer be voted on

the inner nature of a person leaks out when they're socially vibing. social vibing/vetting meaning bullshit and non-logical or aimless conversation. this is why women are so naturally (evolutionarily?) attuned to social savvy as opposed to ambition driven like men. It allows them to screen for any especially undesirable characteristics. e.g. lack of confidence, discomfort, shame, prejudices, deception.

[–]LibertarianLibertine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sorry, this has been archived and can no longer be voted on

It's the 'backup', I think it's even been on some tv shows n shit where couples make the agreement to marry after being single at 40. May have been on How I met your mother

[–]bitzin 21 points22 points  (1 child)

sorry, this has been archived and can no longer be voted on

Women never consider 'being alone'. For a man, being alone is having no female interest. Most men can go years without any direct female interest if they initiate. For women being alone is simply deciding not to date the guys who are interested in them. They have this life plan or timeline because they know all they have to do is say "yes, this guy!"

[–]elevul 5 points6 points  (0 children)

sorry, this has been archived and can no longer be voted on

They have this life plan or timeline because they know all they have to do is say "yes, this guy!"

Then the wall hits.

[–][deleted] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

sorry, this has been archived and can no longer be voted on

Yep. Your standard bluepill woman and your standard bluepill man. Unfortunately for the man, the bluepill reality/mindset only benefits one of them.

[–]Endorsed ContributorRedBigMan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

sorry, this has been archived and can no longer be voted on

Why not? She thinks she is a great person and she is, perhaps, willing to let him Win the Prize that is her.

After she gets plowed by the 1989 Denver Broncos.

[–]87GNX 2 points3 points  (0 children)

sorry, this has been archived and can no longer be voted on

I don't want the prize.

[–]17 Endorsed ContributorJP_Whoregan 63 points64 points  (9 children)

sorry, this has been archived and can no longer be voted on

Aw, c'mon, dude....what strapping nice guy doesn't want some 35 year old consolation prize poon?

"But if I am still single in like 10 years then I could totally see myself marrying him using him to satisfy the Beta Bux side of my hypergamy after I hop off the cock carousel."

[–]carrotplanter 77 points78 points  (8 children)

sorry, this has been archived and can no longer be voted on

But they never hop off, they get thrown off it.

[–]2RedPill4LYF 39 points40 points  (7 children)

sorry, this has been archived and can no longer be voted on

Then proceed to deny the fuck out of what happened, slowly growing more bitter and miserable as the truth sinks in. Blue pillers call this a revenge fantasy, I call it what happened to my sister and all the other women I know in my daily life.

:)

[–]Endorsed ContributorVZPurp 4 points5 points  (0 children)

sorry, this has been archived and can no longer be voted on

The intelligent ones go with serial monogamy.

[–]culofiesta 2 points3 points  (5 children)

sorry, this has been archived and can no longer be voted on

Curious about your sister. I've seen this story a lot but never from the perspective of a brother. What happened?

[–]2RedPill4LYF 6 points7 points  (4 children)

sorry, this has been archived and can no longer be voted on

A short reply cannot possibly do the red pill story that is my entitled sister justice. Having said that, long story short, my sister was a bitch party girl in her youth, and the only thing that has changed between now and then is her slamming into the wall face first forcing her to pretend to have a personality.

My memories from my youth are only of her and I never getting along despite not wanting to fight. She was unreasonably selfish. When our parents (she is my half sister; mother married my father after having my sister with a deadbeat) would leave for work in the summer time, she would kick me out of the house and invite boys over. She was rebellious for absolutely no reason. She would sneak out every weekend because she was always "grounded" for her shitty attitude.

When she would leave home for hours on end well into the middle of the night and early morning, she would drink, do drugs, and fuck new guys all the time. She was a total cuntocalypse to her only good nice guy boyfriend that I got along with.

She wrecked more than one vehicle my parents bought her and trashed her first house partying constantly, wasted college money on anything but college. She was involved with the police multiple times, and tried to convince the courts she was molested by my beta dad.

She's just the worst possible person in all respects. She's an idiot and I'm ashamed to be related to her. Currently she has popped out her third bastard child and has a loser boyfriend that cheats on her. This isn't even all there is to say, but you can only imagine how I'm just getting started if it's this easy to spit this all out off the top of my head.

[–]culofiesta 0 points1 point  (3 children)

sorry, this has been archived and can no longer be voted on

Your sister should date my brother- complete fucking loser

[–]2RedPill4LYF 1 point2 points  (2 children)

sorry, this has been archived and can no longer be voted on

Does he have tattoo sleeves up and down his arms, ratty face, deals drugs, several children out of wedlock?

[–]culofiesta 0 points1 point  (1 child)

sorry, this has been archived and can no longer be voted on

He's too scared to get tattoos though he does deal.

No kids. I doubt if he can even get it up now.

[–]2RedPill4LYF 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sorry, this has been archived and can no longer be voted on

Think my sister hypergamied the best loser she could get.

[–]1KyfhoMyoba 36 points37 points  (6 children)

sorry, this has been archived and can no longer be voted on

what I find so funny is that this chick doesn't even know she's switching lanes (AF to BB)! She doesn't even know that there ARE lanes. Women just. Don't. Get. It. I've been RP since Xmas and I'm seeing this every. Single. Day. I see examples everywhere. My job gives me lots and lots of contact w/ a lot of people every day, and I'm just amazed! Not a day goes by w/o a RP example. In the past week: two male customers w/ SOs cheating on them. Both are 3 for 3!! I talk to them and can pinpoint EXACTLY where their women lost attraction for them and when the cheating started. The guys are astounded. Yeah, I know, great parlor trick.

[–]1FloranHunter 22 points23 points  (2 children)

sorry, this has been archived and can no longer be voted on

Women just. Don't. Get. It.

Despite rhetoric to the contrary, very few women empathize with men to anything above a very trivial degree.

[–]CommanderAmerica -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

sorry, this has been archived and can no longer be voted on

One day Floran.

One day.

[–]sweetleef 7 points8 points  (0 children)

sorry, this has been archived and can no longer be voted on

They get it just fine. They do what they've always done, what instinct drives them to do.

The man who thinks they will ignore that instinct because some bitter ivy-league cunts wrote articles saying they should is the one who doesn't get it.

[–]theVet 8 points9 points  (1 child)

sorry, this has been archived and can no longer be voted on

Women aren't logical when it comes to these things. They "feel" the right decision they do not think about it. That's their one and only thing that decides their action or inaction.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sorry, this has been archived and can no longer be voted on

Exactly.

[–]MRAfront 17 points18 points  (0 children)

sorry, this has been archived and can no longer be voted on

I could not believe a woman was actually admitting this

You have to understand that for women today that is the "normal" thing to do, riding the cock then marry some beta chump desperate enough to commit to any women not matter how used to is as long as he gets his annually bj during birthdays if lucky, work his ass off to get something that she gave for free in better condition to random men for free.

The only thing to do is not make women avoid this but make men realize the scam, if just 10 % of the male population do this the shit will hit the fan.

[–]dray121212 15 points16 points  (4 children)

sorry, this has been archived and can no longer be voted on

Lol I heard a woman say, out of all the boyfriends she had had 5+ ''I could have married him''...and that was the one boyfriend she cheated on

[–]still_very_alive 15 points16 points  (3 children)

sorry, this has been archived and can no longer be voted on

The one where she got caught, perhaps.

[–]charlesbukowksi 8 points9 points  (0 children)

sorry, this has been archived and can no longer be voted on

they say there are women who have never had an affair but none who have only ever had one

[–]dray121212 3 points4 points  (1 child)

sorry, this has been archived and can no longer be voted on

naw she never got caught...guy never found out lol

it was the only bf she cheated on, and it was with the eventual new bf

[–]still_very_alive 4 points5 points  (0 children)

sorry, this has been archived and can no longer be voted on

naw she never got caught...guy never found out lol

it was the only bf she cheated on, and it was with the eventual new bf

Well now that's just sad. Expected, yes. But still sad.

[–]still_very_alive 28 points29 points  (3 children)

sorry, this has been archived and can no longer be voted on

Don't hate women, just accept how they actually are. If they outright tell it to you, well, that just makes it easier.

[–]FedUpWithTheBullShit 20 points21 points  (1 child)

sorry, this has been archived and can no longer be voted on

Paraphrase from Patrice O'neal....

'If you're playing around with a snake, don't get mad when it bites you. It's what they do.'

[–]AlteredMentalStatus 5 points6 points  (0 children)

sorry, this has been archived and can no longer be voted on

Dante Nero (Beige Phillip Show) always says "You can't get mad at a fish for swimming."

[–]2RedPill4LYF 42 points43 points  (10 children)

sorry, this has been archived and can no longer be voted on

My best female friend is 5.5 lookswise, has a seven year old kid, and is broke as fuck. Still thinks she deserves 11/10 ripped 6'0+ alpha prince charming to come marry her. She also recently abused a beta orbiter and had the nerve to say she felt taken advantage of literally in the same breath as bitching about him complaining about wasting all his money on her as he claimed she led him on, which there is just no way around the fact that she did.

Women are fucking hilarious when you understand their nature. Shit is going to change big time when red pill views start permeating the mainstream more thoroughly. It has already begun in the media. Red Pill ideas are becoming the norm slowly but surely.

[–]StarkAtheist 21 points22 points  (6 children)

sorry, this has been archived and can no longer be voted on

"It has already begun in the media. Red Pill ideas are becoming the norm slowly but surely."

Do you really think so, brother??

I mean... MOST sitcoms and cartoons (Family Guy/Simpsons) has the beta/stupid/fat/emasculated husband and the nagging, bitch of a wife. The best example is one of the most successful shows of all time, "Everybody Loves Raymond." GUH. I couldn't make it through one episode of her bitching.

I hope you are right, in that, it DOES permeate the media in ALL its forms, but right now, we are the minority. Most TV shows and movie support the blue pill lies and fantasies.

Keep fighting, though...

[–]2RedPill4LYF 25 points26 points  (5 children)

sorry, this has been archived and can no longer be voted on

The first show that immediately comes to mind would be Rick and Morty. The show's creator displays an acute understanding of beta and alpha terminology at convention interviews and it shows. Each episode sprinkles red pill wisdom pretty blatantly. In the pilot episode, Beth, Morty's mother, complains to Rick that he can't be taking her son out of school to do whatever he wants because Morty isn't a girl, and I quote, "It's not like he's a hot girl that can just bail on his life and skate by on her looks."

In another episode, Rick gives Morty a speech about marriage after pointing out how bored Beth is in her relationship, telling him not to bother. "Love is just a chemical reaction that compels animals to mate. It hits strong and slowly fades in a failing marriage. I did it. Your parents are going to do it. Break the cycle, Morty. Rise above, focus on science."

There's also an entire episode that makes fun of all the current gender politics in the most hilarious way possible.

Rick gives absolutely no fucks. It's a fantastic show and I highly recommend it even without the red pill references.

[–]FedUpWithTheBullShit 17 points18 points  (1 child)

sorry, this has been archived and can no longer be voted on

"He's not a hot girl. He can't just bail on his life and set up shop in someone else's."

Minor fix but yeah, other than that, you're dead on. Love that show.

[–]2RedPill4LYF 3 points4 points  (0 children)

sorry, this has been archived and can no longer be voted on

I knew I didn't get it quite right, but I'm glad you went the extra mile for me since the actual quote is even more red pill than I rememebred.

[–]turtleshellmagic -1 points0 points  (0 children)

sorry, this has been archived and can no longer be voted on

I fucking looooovvvee Rick and Morty. It's hilarious.

[–]StarkAtheist -1 points0 points  (1 child)

sorry, this has been archived and can no longer be voted on

Thanks for the tip--I will def check out and support this show.

Still, brother... the point is... that show is the 1 %, unfortunately.

[–]2RedPill4LYF 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sorry, this has been archived and can no longer be voted on

It's pretty popular right out the gate. I wouldn't be surprised if more shows started adopting that brand of humor.

[–]nSaneMadness 7 points8 points  (2 children)

sorry, this has been archived and can no longer be voted on

I've known so many women like this . 5-6 at best, single mother, no job, surviving off the government, but thinks that they deserve the ripped rich guy.

They delude themselves into thinking that just by existing they're entitled to their desires.

[–]2RedPill4LYF 9 points10 points  (1 child)

sorry, this has been archived and can no longer be voted on

It's baffling. She's worn out, has body tattoos, and the deadbeat that sired her child has been in jail multiple times and is still in the picture due to child support. Would I fuck her? Sure, I'd hit it and quit it, but she's more useful to me in this capacity. Would I want a relationship? Hell no.

Why would anyone want to date a single mother? Let me rephrase that. Why on earth would an alpha choose to date a single mother exclusively?

[–]cjbanned 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sorry, this has been archived and can no longer be voted on

If Scar Jo was a single mom I'd date her exclusively.

[–]chillmonkey88 11 points12 points  (0 children)

sorry, this has been archived and can no longer be voted on

I was going to post something similar to this but I'll share in comments because it ties in the same subject...

We were hanging out in a group of 7 of us 3 guys four girls. 2 couples, 2 single moms and myself(the 2 sm were my friend's new gf he met and I met all three women for the first time, I knew my other friend's gf) ... anyway our conversation over a few beers at our favorite brewery turned among the lines of dating and sex. (Everyone is 27 yo for ref.) we were passing out stories of funnest dates and embarrassing sex and it gets to 1 the moms I just met. She said a week prior she went to coffee and then got manicures with the guy she was with on a first date. They had a fun date and he was very nice and successful($$$). Then she noted that he offered concert tickets for her and 2 other friends he had gotten. She said she was going to take him up. I poked a few questions like... "when is the next date?" And "what did you think of him? He seems like a good guy for you?" Implying taking it to the next level since they did have an actual fun date I thought... she with out any thought said... "ewww! No! I don't like him like that. He's too nice and I like him that way and wouldn't want him to change..." The other one agreed and said "yea, he is too nice and I like when they stay that way... He doesn't even have tattoos?!? But the next time you see him let me know and we'll go to the mall and he can buy us stuff"... I just shook my head and carried on the convo. With the others as they chuckled on at his expense...

Beta b.u.c.k.s.

[–]magicalbird 7 points8 points  (0 children)

sorry, this has been archived and can no longer be voted on

Then she dropped this BOMB: "But if I am still single in like 10 years then I could totally see myself marrying him."

The woman is using the best of the situation since the guy is jacking off to the validation he gets just by being with her

[–]RedPillWisdom 7 points8 points  (1 child)

sorry, this has been archived and can no longer be voted on

Consolation prizes are everywhere. On military bases you can see them with hair colors not found in nature, sporting tramp stamps and sleeves. When I walk through the PX and see them with their belly shirts, muffin tops and dragging an assortment of snotty kids, I have to stifle the urge to do a Charleton Heston "soilent green is people" scream feat, yelling at these young soldiers:

"Buddha on a Pony! Look at yourselves! You actually fuck them!"

[–]culofiesta 1 point2 points  (0 children)

sorry, this has been archived and can no longer be voted on

They are called dependopotamuses

[–]PlusGoody 6 points7 points  (0 children)

sorry, this has been archived and can no longer be voted on

He got the dates and didn't make a move. She was very attracted and is now hamstring that it her lack or attraction, not his, that called it off. That's not beta bucks it's best gay friend who is still in the closet.

[–]windycityman 12 points13 points  (10 children)

sorry, this has been archived and can no longer be voted on

Beta as fuck. This girl clearly wants it and thought highly enough of him to give him multiple chances at it. She was basically naked in his bed already all he had to do was be a man and he could be tapping that whenever he wants. When you take a girl out you make a fuckin move. What the hell is wrong with these guys?

[–]TheSKSpecial 22 points23 points  (0 children)

sorry, this has been archived and can no longer be voted on

Because what used to be the chance to making a fuckin move has been turned into "you need to have enthusiastic consent or else RAAAAAEP".

[–]fruit7 6 points7 points  (8 children)

sorry, this has been archived and can no longer be voted on

I wish I could repeat the couple of dates I had with this girl after joining this community. I was super nice to her and took interest in her interests. We held long conversations and she said I was a lot of fun - I should have tested her emotions by getting them to fluctuate a bit, with flirty/goofy comments, and I shouldn't have bought her ice cream and candy on our second date without flirting with her before or afterwards. (We only went on two dates and then I told her I had feelings for her afterwards - Gah, if only I could go back)

[–]Dark triad expert: - http://illimitablemen.com/ - [3 Points]IllimitableMan 23 points24 points  (1 child)

sorry, this has been archived and can no longer be voted on

You've still got the pussy on a pedestal man. Strong people learn from their regrets, they don't live in the past.

[–]fruit7 5 points6 points  (0 children)

sorry, this has been archived and can no longer be voted on

I really don't - I'm pissed that I lost a good opportunity but I'm not crying about it.

[–]_JustKnight_ 12 points13 points  (5 children)

sorry, this has been archived and can no longer be voted on

Wtf dude... you talk as if she was something special. None of them are special. There is 3 billion of them around us. Get that shit through your head.

[–]boscoist 1 point2 points  (4 children)

sorry, this has been archived and can no longer be voted on

Ive been out enough and dated enough to say that you are wrong. They are not inherently special, but through coincidence of timing and geography, someone of LTR material may have passed through /u/fruit7 's life and he regrets how he handled the situation. Those 3 things make them special to the ones looking for such a thing, because they are so uncommon to find.

[–]_JustKnight_ 1 point2 points  (1 child)

sorry, this has been archived and can no longer be voted on

You seem very sick, here have some redpills... they'll cure the delusions of oneitis you have been suffering from.

[–]boscoist 2 points3 points  (0 children)

sorry, this has been archived and can no longer be voted on

Its not oneitis, its actually finding someone who is LTR material.

[–]wanderingfun 1 point2 points  (1 child)

sorry, this has been archived and can no longer be voted on

You aren't finding that in two dates.

[–]boscoist 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sorry, this has been archived and can no longer be voted on

Then two dates aren't enough to disqualify them from that category either.

[–]dixiedownunder 5 points6 points  (1 child)

sorry, this has been archived and can no longer be voted on

Shit. That's exactly the line I got 13 years ago when my fiancé dumped me for some guy with a boat! LOL

[–]iStillEatSnakes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

sorry, this has been archived and can no longer be voted on

Story time?

[–]valhalladclxvi 3 points4 points  (0 children)

sorry, this has been archived and can no longer be voted on

At least you know she is being honest with you.

[–]AuctionSniper 2 points3 points  (2 children)

sorry, this has been archived and can no longer be voted on

I'm more interested at the fact that the people on this subreddit have friends like this...

[–]Dat_Black_Guy 8 points9 points  (0 children)

sorry, this has been archived and can no longer be voted on

that aint no type of friend i want. Word friend gets tossed around too loosely these days anyway, I GOT 3 friends. Males i grew up with or went to school with my whole childhood. Known these guys 10+ years. Might as well be brothers. Some bitch/chump you sit next to in your World Studies class aint yo friend.

[–]Endorsed Contributoraaron_the_just 6 points7 points  (0 children)

sorry, this has been archived and can no longer be voted on

She sounds like a good gateway girl, i.e., the girl who wishes you'd sleep with her, but you won't, so instead she introduces you to all of her hot friends.

[–]fatfaggotfuck69 2 points3 points  (0 children)

sorry, this has been archived and can no longer be voted on

This is how they think. The percent of girls I was friends with in college who have aggressively pursued me since we got out and I became successful is ridiculously high. My favorite was this one girl I was admittedly very interested in for a pretty long time. However I never made a move because she was always in a quasi secret relationship with a fat guy her family all hated. A couple of months ago she went way out of her way to meet up with me, and dropped this:

"Your sister is right, we should just get married. We should have gotten married 10 years ago."

Now, we have never been on a date, I know for a fact my sister never said such a thing, and she is still dating the fat guy who actually does want to marry her. I told her it sounded like a terrible idea.

[–]17 Endorsed ContributorArchwinger 2 points3 points  (0 children)

sorry, this has been archived and can no longer be voted on

When I was young and idealistic (e.g., stupid), I never once dated a girl I couldn't potentially marry one day. If things had worked out differently, I'd have married any one of my girlfriends over the years. Even today, I still think that dating someone you could never marry (dating, not just fucking) is a complete waste of time.

I had an awesome girlfriend my last year of high school, and long distance (I know) early in college. She was a good girl. Nerdy, cute, upper middle class, good family, virginal, I was her first boyfriend. Even she, with no experience with guys at all, outright said that she figured we were going to eventually break up and see other people, and maybe get back together in a few years if it was meant to be.

Women buy into this narrative that all women are supposed to date a bunch of people to experience life, before they ever settle down and get married. If you're a young and fun-loving woman and you meet the man you're supposed to marry, and magically know this with 100% certainty, you're supposed to pass on him and continue to date other people instead, and save him for last. That just makes for a better and more interesting story than marrying young and being an awesome wife to a man you love. That's boring. Women thirst to be part of a good story. They can't stand to have lives other women wouldn't find interesting.

Women all know that nice guys finish last. That's why they're comfortable setting aside a "marriage material" guy until later, just like the girl in the OP. She knows in 10 years, he'll still be available. Or if not, some other guy like him will. Nice guy providers are all interchangeable anyway.

[–]SlickJamesBitch 6 points7 points  (0 children)

sorry, this has been archived and can no longer be voted on

Thatz just one personn shitlorddd /s

[–]StarkAtheist 6 points7 points  (1 child)

sorry, this has been archived and can no longer be voted on

Out of the mouths of cunts.... I mean babes.

[–]Endorsed Contributor30303030303030 1 point2 points  (0 children)

sorry, this has been archived and can no longer be voted on

I could not believe a woman was actually admitting this

they are all sure they deserve a good husband at the wall

[–]monsieurhire2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

sorry, this has been archived and can no longer be voted on

I heard this so many times growing up, it ain't even funny.

[–]jonesbusiness 1 point2 points  (0 children)

sorry, this has been archived and can no longer be voted on

Women are players too. The biggest. That's why that whole "let's be friends" thing was invented. It's a way for them to put a dude in a box "just in case" she can't get the dude she really wants. It's straight pimp stuff.

[–]HeadingRed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

sorry, this has been archived and can no longer be voted on

I was that guy for a couple of women. One even told my GF at the time that she plans on stealing me away from her once she turns 29.

Keep in mind every woman probably has at least one guy like that.

[–]madmikev2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

sorry, this has been archived and can no longer be voted on

Its the fact that she "wants to have fun before then" that is fundementally flawed. Not unless the guy wants to to do that too, then they ARE made for eachother.

I say they should admit their feelings and screw eachother for the next 40+ years.

[–]hamstercide 0 points1 point  (1 child)

sorry, this has been archived and can no longer be voted on

What does "making a move" mean? Getting physical? Touching? Kissing?

[–]punis1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

sorry, this has been archived and can no longer be voted on

Kino escalation.

[–]srsh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sorry, this has been archived and can no longer be voted on

Actually, I admire her honestly. Her friend is willingly following along, and would probably consider it a win if he wound up marrying her after years of this crap.

[–]phe_nom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sorry, this has been archived and can no longer be voted on

Back in my beta days I had a girl I was friends with say something similar. She said that when she is 28, if neither of us has anything going on, we are getting married. I agreed at the time as pussy wasn't exactly throwing itself at me. People say you are what you eat, but looking back, I was certainly a pussy and I sure as shit wasn't eating any.

I hope to god she has forgotten about this as there is no way in hell i would marry her. If she hasn't, you will get a post from me in 2 years telling the story of how this ends. (Hint, she will not have her cake and eat it too)

[–]wizdum -1 points0 points  (0 children)

sorry, this has been archived and can no longer be voted on

Oh come on. Everyone settles for less. I've made mutual agreements to that effect with female friends.

Still wasn't ready to settle down when she reminded me we had reached our 30 pact though hah.

But surely everyone does this? I guess it you were always desperate, never met a "good enough, great girl could totally love her but think I could do better", then you could see this as some evil manipulative woman... but what a weak, sad psychological position to operate from.