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[–][deleted] 313 points314 points  (50 children)

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Well, keg beer is usually gross so you're probably not winning many girls over with that.

This comment from the thread has 118 upvotes. I'm now convinced that reddit has never been to an actual college party before. Keg beer is gross and girls won't drink it you say? Are you fucking kidding me? Are you fucking kidding me?

[–]Gnoppong 122 points123 points  (10 children)

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The amount of chicks I have seen do a Kegstand...

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    [–][deleted] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

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    Then blow 4 guys in the corner. I miss college

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      [–]Sturmgeist781 36 points37 points  (0 children)

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      They do it for the attention. Lets be honest here.

      [–]IceColdT 7 points8 points  (0 children)

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      What difference does that make? The point is they will do it if need be. Most college students don't drink because they enjoy the taste anyway.

      [–][deleted] 89 points90 points  (1 child)

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      I saw that too and nearly fell over.

      I also thought it was odd how the same poster then suggested inviting them to a movie night or something similar would be an easier in with them. Because if you can't get college girls to party with you, "Do you girls wanna come watch Lord of the Rings with me?" will undoubtedly work.

      [–]2 Endorsed Contributorvengefully_yours 11 points12 points  (0 children)

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      Let's watch twilight or the notebook instead, works every time, but you will want to shoot yourself while watching.

      [–]PhilipeNegro 46 points47 points  (1 child)

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      Also, where do they think draught beer comes from, elves?

      Dunces.

      [–]seishi 10 points11 points  (0 children)

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      Bartenders pour bottles into the tap, Duhhhhhhh!

      Kegs are for Taoists.

      Hahah, Autocorrect for rapist. Going to keep that.

      [–]serialstitcher 23 points24 points  (1 child)

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      Holy shit, what a completely insane comment. My god do they not know taps are fed by kegs? Wtf? So they only drink bottles? Stone nutcases.

      [–]t21spectre 7 points8 points  (0 children)

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      Most women drink 500 calorie sugary concoctions with a shot of liquor thrown in to be called a "drink."

      [–]16 Endorsed ContributorTRPsubmitter 47 points48 points  (7 children)

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      I'm now convinced that reddit has never been to an actual college party before.

      It IS /r/askhamsters. Most of the commenters are probably 160 lb white chicks with horn-rimmed hipster glasses who prefer to hangout at a coffeeshop and look down on partiers.

      [–]Lilcheeks 5 points6 points  (3 children)

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      No, really... I don't know why any guy would go to that subreddit to get "a woman's perspective" unless it was just to see how ridiculous the answers will get.

      [–]Hamilton5M 24 points25 points  (1 child)

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      Popular / normal women are not going to hang out on reddit, let alone some pat on the shoulder circlejerk.

      "I feel dirty about the sex I had"

      After 200-300 messages from the lonely squad / hamplanets

      "You're right, it was rape I will call the police"

      Fuck that subreddit, EVERY sex scenario becomes rape. Make a throwaway, and post. I GUARANTEE the word rape will come up almost instantly.

      "Last night I have four beers and sex, now I feel like I was dirty and not in control of myself"

      OMG RAPE RAPE

      [–]Lilcheeks 14 points15 points  (0 children)

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      If you've never been there what you wrote would seem like an exaggeration. Too bad it isn't.

      [–]redditguy1515 2 points3 points  (0 children)

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      Seriously, you want to know how to throw a good party? Ask people that throw good parties, not the girls that casually stroll in for the free booze.

      [–]tedted8888 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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      I think I saw statistics once. Reddit as a whole is about 60-70% male. Inverse sex ratios for pintrest.

      [–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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      I was really happy that subreddit was a thing, but then really sad that it wasn't more active.

      [–]myschadenfreude 13 points14 points  (0 children)

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      Right! Where do you think draft comes from at your cool little microbrew? A unicorn's ass? No, a keg.

      [–]Gold_Leaf_Initiative 5 points6 points  (0 children)

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      If you get it from the right place keg beer is superior to bottled beer

      [–]1Sergnb 13 points14 points  (0 children)

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      "most girls don't drink beer"

      Who are these people even friends with

      [–]Anderfail 14 points15 points  (2 children)

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      It's Reddit, do you really have to ask? This is a website that was made for fucking nerds, of course these motherfuckers haven't been to a college party, most of these people are likely losers (both the men and women). This website is not nearly as representative of the normal population as it thinks it is.

      The people who party tend to go to places like TheChive or other such places, not Reddit.

      [–]ButterMyBiscuit 6 points7 points  (0 children)

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      Man, that's pretty bad. I was a beta nerd in college and STILL went to at least a half dozen keggers, including a frat party. Not to mention dozens of other parties that weren't keggers.

      [–]texture 7 points8 points  (1 child)

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      Ever seen someone mention having sex with a drunk girl? Reddit loses their minds. It's as if they're completely unaware that 90% of the western mating ritual is getting drunk at a party or bar.

      They seem to be people with very little actual real world experience who live by ideological maxims they read and internalized.

      [–]Chirp_Downvote_Celly 2 points3 points  (0 children)

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      Never forget that Reddit was founded upon hipsters and the internet crowd long before it went mainstream. The bulk of users are shy, socially awkward losers who have never come within 100 yards of your average college house/frat party.

      It's easy to lose sight of that now that normal people have recognized Reddit as a useful tool to network and learn, but initially this was a site where outcasts who weren't edgy enough for 4chan came to post memes and talk animé.

      [–]1veggie_girl 4 points5 points  (0 children)

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      Those idiots... The keg has nothing to do with it. And besides, when you go out to a restaurant/bar and order micro-brew, it comes in a keg. Beer from a keg tastes absolutely delicious given that it isn't crap beer. It all depends on what product you have inside the keg.

      [–]hairaware 2 points3 points  (0 children)

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      Girls love keg stands! Keg beer is actually far tastier then bottles or cans if kept warm and not foamy.

      [–]JGH8763 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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      Reddit is fucking nerds. I don't like it anymore. Probably because I'm sick of being sort of nerdy and every time I come on here it's a bunch of nerd shit, even on the good subs. Red Pill is excluded to a degree.

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        [–]TheAceofWands 7 points8 points  (0 children)

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        In my experience at college parties you aren't drinking anything because of the taste, you're drinking to get drunk. Every party I've ever been to where kegs were available had both males and females chugging the shit out of it, even Natty.

        [–]meerkat2 0 points1 point  (1 child)

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        Also there are good cheap vodkas. Grand Teton is like $19 for a liter, thats less than a dollar per shot and it gets awesome reviews.

        [–][deleted] 236 points237 points  (33 children)

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        Don't take this wrong way, but that's the thing: no one can tell. It's not like we make Rapists wear a big red R on their chests so we know who they are so people can avoid them. Because of that a lot of women will avoid the situation instead of put themselves at risk just so they don't basically play Russian Roulette with their bodies.

        She literally believes "every man is a potential rapist." She thinks going to a party is playing russian roulette with her body.

        Almost 200 upvotes

        This is the same type of mentality of girls who have mutual drinken sex with men and then see themselves as victims. It's sexist and disgusting.

        Imagine if men everywhere started believing hardcore MGTOW sentiment.

        "I won't get married because that's playing russian roulette with my money."

        "I won't get in serious relationships because that's playing russian roulette with my time."

        The funny part is, over half of marriages end in divorce. Only a tiny, tiny sliver of the male population are rapists.

        [–]ibuprofiend 29 points30 points  (4 children)

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        "I won't get married because that's playing russian roulette with my money."

        "I won't get in serious relationships because that's playing russian roulette with my time."

        Ironically, these things are actually true, while "rape culture" is a complete fiction.

        [–]The_Motivated_Man 4 points5 points  (3 children)

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        Those are literally the two reasons I stay out of long term relationships. Simply put, I haven't met a woman that I've felt is worth half of my time or money.

        Is that the wrong attitude for MGTOW? I mean, I just do whatever I want to do, whenever I want to do it.

        [–]ibuprofiend 14 points15 points  (1 child)

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        That's how I think too. Women just aren't worth pursuing in LTRs.

        Sex is fucking awesome, but women's greatest appeal has always been love... that "happily ever after" feeling of being connected to someone forever... And that's just not something I can believe in any more. I've learned that a woman's "love" isn't about you, it's about your appearance or your bank account... it's simply a response to your SMV, and it will completely disappear as soon as she can move up to a guy with higher SMV.

        So feminist bitchery has destroyed women's biggest appeal, and I see no reason to invest serious time or money in a girl who has nothing better to offer than sex.

        [–]djvita 3 points4 points  (0 children)

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        i think the whole point of TRP is letting go of the fact that if you are nice, or whatever, you will get from a girl unconditional love /affection and be happy.

        unfortunately, that's far from the truth. treat it like business, be cold and calculating but charming.

        [–]2 Endorsed Contributorvengefully_yours 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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        That is exactly how its supposed to be, do what you want, not give up and be a hateful hermit because you can't get any. Its the difference of not putting women first, second or even in the top five priorities in your life, and deciding why bother because you can't get laid anyway.

        [–]Clbull 54 points55 points  (20 children)

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        I'm sorry. I cannot wrap my head around feminist logic.

        [–]PM_ME_BOOTYSHOTS 82 points83 points  (0 children)

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        Logic

        That's a bit of a stretch.

        [–]oscyfx 44 points45 points  (0 children)

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        That's because you can't make sense out of non-sense.

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          [–][deleted] 26 points27 points  (4 children)

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          It's more than just fear. It's the absolute need to be the victim in the situation. The effect it has on one's ego is tremendous. You'll see it anywhere, not just in feminism.

          Look at TRP. Look at how some men just have to be the victim of women, have to posture themselves as superior to women in the snidest possible fashion.

          We need to be better than this, people.

          [–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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          Thats just phase 2, read the sidebar.

          [–]HuddsMagruder 3 points4 points  (0 children)

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          It's like cocaine for the weak-minded. The amount of power and recognition granted on the internet when playing the victim is the new opiate for the masses.

          Women are some of the more common practitioners of the victim mentality, but are by no means the only ones.

          [–]ExistentialDread 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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          You nailed it. The #2 problem in our culture is people lying to "empower" themselves by playing victim. The #1 problem is the white knighthood that always lines up to save the day.

          [–]dancingwithcats 4 points5 points  (4 children)

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          You'll hurt yourself trying so don't bother. That's because it is not logic. The whole term 'feminist logic' is a non sequitur.

          [–]KilgoreTrouserTrout 4 points5 points  (3 children)

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          You mean "oxymoron." A non sequitur is an unrelated comment, like if I chimed in "I like pancakes."

          [–]dancingwithcats 6 points7 points  (2 children)

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          It's an oxymoron as well, but a non sequitur is 'a conclusion or statement that does not logically follow from the previous argument or statement,' thus the word 'logic' being tied to the word 'feminist' is a non sequitur ;)

          [–]KilgoreTrouserTrout 5 points6 points  (1 child)

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          Thanks for clearing up my misconception. I mean that sincerely :)

          [–]dancingwithcats 2 points3 points  (0 children)

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          You were not wrong though. It is an oxymoron too! ;)

          [–]Not_Reliable 5 points6 points  (0 children)

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          So you're saying you cant even

          [–]Endorsed ContributorRedBigMan 0 points1 point  (2 children)

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          Yep a big 'R' on your chest if your a rapist is totally cool...

          A big A on your chest for adulterer/affair/slut totally not cool...

          By now this double standard should be well ingrained into every red pill man.

          [–]cookiecutterbullshit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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          Actually we have a list that's maintained of everyone convicted of a sexual offense...

          [–]Menadian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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          And suddently every man will be obliged to wear a shirt with a big red R...

          [–]BlockPartyRock 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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          That's because there is no such thing.

          [–]Endorsed ContributorYouDislikeMyOpinion 12 points13 points  (1 child)

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          Very nicely put with the roulette, and how you spun it around with the MGTOW example.

          [–]2 Mredpillschool 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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          Point awarded..late

          [–]redpill_ta 2 points3 points  (2 children)

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          And now for something completely different:

          The real victims of this mentality are women.

          Think about it. They live every single day in complete paranoia. When ever they go out they are afraid to death. When they are at home with their BF they are afraid. They are always afraid.

          Imagine living like that. It's just another example of how feminists hurt women most.

          PS: Actually, come to think of it, I would be very interested in seeing some research done on how many of these radfems actually do suffer from clinical paranoia.

          [–]LastRevision 7 points8 points  (1 child)

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          "Think about it. They live every single day in complete paranoia. When ever they go out they are afraid to death. When they are at home with their BF they are afraid. They are always afraid."

          They say they do, homeboy. They don't really. The most they're afraid of is someone unattractive hitting on them. They're still going home with the sexy stranger bad boy.

          [–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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          I know one personally. She's a big bad feminist at work, but every Saturday night (provided I'm free), she sure enjoys being thrown around and fucked silly. Many times, it's just a ruse.

          [–]JShabs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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          This is to right to be wrong, and I love the quotes.

          [–]Gucci_guwop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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          That's pretty astounding when you look at today's society. At what point in life did I go from being an innocent child to a potential rapist. With this logic, guys are a potential anything. Potential bank robbers, potential arsonists, potential identity thieves, potential murderers. Males are accused of having a tendency for rape....and being sexist. The irony!

          [–]DanG3 383 points384 points  (43 children)

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          Promote the party as "Guys Only." When the women ask (and they will) why is it guys only say, 'We got tired of inviting the women and them not showing or being bitchy." Women feel compelled to invade male only spaces.

          [–]16 Endorsed ContributorDemonspawn 133 points134 points  (16 children)

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          I have to laugh, because I know this will work ;)

          Especially if you make it monthly or on some other schedule. The first event might not get women, but the second one will start attracting girls.

          [–]DECEMBER_NARWHAL 11 points12 points  (5 children)

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          "Monthly"? This sounds intriguing. Please elaborate.

          [–]16 Endorsed ContributorDemonspawn 41 points42 points  (3 children)

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          For example, throw a first weekend of the month party. You can have others, but make sure one is scheduled the first weekend of every month.

          If you want, give it a name like First Friday, or Second Saturday (second weekend of the month). Makes it a bit more catchy and it will draw more attention.

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            [–]LOUDinMadison 35 points36 points  (0 children)

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            AWALT

            [–]PM_ME_BOOTYSHOTS 13 points14 points  (0 children)

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            The wait between them builds anticipation. Its like how the off season in sports builds anticipation of the next season to a fever pitch. If something has a set schedule, then people plan for it and around it.

            And having a good wait between each one makes them matter. If there's a party here every Friday, its just that week's party, but if there's a party once a month, then its a much bigger deal.

            [–]DanG3 21 points22 points  (8 children)

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            After they ask - after the first Guys Only party - respond (on an individual, word of mouth) basis, "The guys decided at the last party to invite "ladies" on an invitation only basis, but you have to bring your own beverages if you don't want our beer." Then go to stone faced radio silence ... and ... wait for it ... "Well, how do I get an invitation?" (Be sure to order extra beer.)

            [–]2 Endorsed Contributorvengefully_yours 19 points20 points  (7 children)

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            Use the Ben Franklin effect, make them bring something. Don't offer them free anything, force them to earn admittance.

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              [–]2 Endorsed Contributorvengefully_yours 7 points8 points  (4 children)

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              If you have the right frame, the show me your tits for a beer will work. I've used it often, and its my go to when I can tell she is interested but shit tests and asks for something. Show me your tits, then you can go get one. Keep that frame and she will fuck you soon, sometimes even if her tits don't come out.

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                [–]2 Endorsed Contributorvengefully_yours 6 points7 points  (0 children)

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                Now there is an idea, like boobs for beads at Mardi gras, boobs for beer sounds like a great way to get women involved.

                [–]Newbosterone 1 point2 points  (1 child)

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                If the OP had the right frame, he wouldn't need to ask how to get women to the party, and wouldn't think that asking women how to get women to the party was a good idea.

                [–]2 Endorsed Contributorvengefully_yours 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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                Gotta agree with you there, you don't ask a fish how to catch a fish.

                [–]RPDBF 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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                we just do 5 at the door and have 3 kegs and jungle juice

                [–]2 Endorsed Contributorvengefully_yours 4 points5 points  (0 children)

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                Call it the fourth annual, or something that implies its been happening for some time now and people will assume they are just now hearing about it. That will work to get women there, they will flock like flies on a dead sheep carcass. The key will be to only let some in, like every third then fourth girl, even if they aren't that hot. It will give a sense of exclusivity and status.

                [–]ZeroAntagonist 35 points36 points  (3 children)

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                [–]t21spectre 6 points7 points  (0 children)

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                Sounds like the people who would show up to that would make it a gay old time...

                [–][deleted] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

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                Only place to get actual advice.

                [–]myschadenfreude 7 points8 points  (0 children)

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                That is crazy enough to work.

                Or the campus will shut it down for lack of inclusion or probably just drum up some underage drinking charge to break it up.

                [–]Dark triad expert: - http://illimitablemen.com/ - [3 Points]IllimitableMan 14 points15 points  (11 children)

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                Women feel compelled to invade male only spaces.

                Most people on TRP will agree with this, now the million dollar question: WHY?

                What's the difference between a space open to everyone that is populated by males and a space open only to men that is populated by males? It's like in the first instance they think they're uncool because they have no preselection, but in the second instance they feel purposely excluded and that perhaps they might be missing out so like moths to a flame they want in. Funny how psychology works.

                [–]Drunken_dog 2 points3 points  (0 children)

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                They ruined a lot of cool traditional pubs that way, now their just like any other bar.

                [–]through_a_ways 3 points4 points  (3 children)

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                People like what they can't get, women love what they can't get.

                [–]Tsilent_Tsunami 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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                Once you begin distinguishing intelligence levels and personality types, you begin to see this only applies to certain categories, and/or demographics. Yes, for certain types of people, what you say is correct.

                [–]IDefyAxioms 0 points1 point  (4 children)

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                I love it whenever you post because you always bring the psychological side to the table that always gives me a really good understanding of concept.

                Did you major/minor in Psych or are you just an avid researcher?

                [–]Dark triad expert: - http://illimitablemen.com/ - [3 Points]IllimitableMan 1 point2 points  (3 children)

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                Thanks. I do significant reading, no significant psych background. Studied psych for 2 years pre-university level but would not attribute it to my understanding of "how humans think and behave", for the most part I found it to be an interesting albeit entirely unpragmatic subject. An ex had a psych degree and was incredibly machiavellian, I learnt a lot from her directly and indirectly.

                You can learn more about people from the 48 laws of power within a week than a psychology class will teach you in 1 or even 2 years. Psych as a subject has a lot of academic fluff in it. Someone said it gets better at the postgraduate level (so masters and up) but if you're really into understanding the human mind that's a long time to wait to get to the good stuff. You're looking at 3-4 years bachelors level of drivel to begin with, add years on if you study pre-university. From my experience it was all too focused on ethics and research methodology, ethics and research methodology make up a huge part of psychology and they are both boring as fuck and teach you very little about the human mind but are more so "the framework and rules of conduct of which within psychological research can take place in."

                Some of the studies were interesting, but I don't see how knowing that a taxi driver pre-GPS days' hippocampus would grow larger to accommodate his job really helps me or the average guy better understand others. The same goes for knowing cortisol causes stress or that oxytocin is a bonding hormone, these are useful little facts to know but not immediately applicable and thus, helpful.

                [–]blinkyone 0 points1 point  (2 children)

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                Just to add to this: Academic psychology ≠ psychoanalytic metapsychology

                [–]Dark triad expert: - http://illimitablemen.com/ - [3 Points]IllimitableMan 0 points1 point  (1 child)

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                What does this symbol mean? I presume "not the same as" ?

                [–]blinkyone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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                Yes. Psychoanalytic theory can be applied and utilized more-so with TRP than academic psychology, as with all your aforementioned tenants about it

                [–]Azediae 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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                If you go this far you might as well make an actual male-only scheduled gathering and discuss business plans, ideas, etc ...but why do that when you can be chasing pussy, right? /sarcasm.

                But really, this isn't a bad idea. Just ...kinda funny ;]

                [–]Endorsed ContributorpuaSenator 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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                Back in college we actually did this. We set up a huge "guys night" type party with tons of food and beer. We specifically did it because a few of us were having girl issues and were fed up with bitches flaking on us, so we intentionally made it a night where no females were around and we could just get stupid and have fun. And you know what? They all came crawling out of the woodwork when they found out all chicks were banned. Literally just about every girl we knew were trying to convince us to let them hang out. They even eventually banned together and ended up crashing the party.

                It's crazy to think, but that's literally how it is when you say "women feel compelled to invade male only spaces."

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                Promote the party as "Guys Only." When the women ask (and they will) why is it guys only say, 'We got tired of inviting the women and them not showing or being bitchy." Women feel compelled to invade male only spaces.

                That's not terribly affective - you're expressing bitterness (the least attractive emotion). The only way that works is if you convince them that you're all having a great time first. Saying "we got tired of the women being flaky" or something similar because you're having so much fun without them is high value. Saying "we got tired of their crap" is medium or low value if you can't convey a sense of "we were having fun without them".

                If they ask if they should bring something - it's often better to say yes and come up with something. When they invest in spending money and time on the party, they're more likely to be interesting and trying to have a good time when they get there.

                [–]2 Endorsed Contributorvengefully_yours 2 points3 points  (1 child)

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                I thought the same thing, even better is to leave them hanging so they fill in the blanks themselves by simply saying 'its a man thing' and leave it at that.

                [–]Drunken_dog 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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                No, say it was a more relaxed, friendly party were everyone was more focused on having fun without the without the inclusion of woman.

                [–]nourathrowway 124 points125 points  (1 child)

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                Perfect demonstration of: -desperation reeks -social proof

                Guy is perfectly nice and asking a reasonable question. But women hear other women are rejecting him so they go straight to taking a shit all over him.

                [–]johnbranflake 45 points46 points  (0 children)

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                The first two comments basically tell him the truth, he needs preselection. They wont go unless other girls are going that they "know" (know the SMV of).

                [–]myschadenfreude 44 points45 points  (2 children)

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                So...wait... The question was "How do I get more girls to attend my parties?" And the overwhelming answer was: "Stop throwing parties." It was in varying degrees, but that's what I got.

                Then the insert rape culture here comments. WTF?

                Guy wants to have more inclusive parties and meet people of the opposite sex (heaven forbid) and he gets chewed on? For fucks sake.

                [–]cbarrett1989 10 points11 points  (1 child)

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                Welcome to reddit dude. He'd have more luck with answers in /r/justneckbeardthings.

                He asked the wrong sub for advice and to be honest he was an idiot for asking 3rd wave feminists on how to get more bangable women into his parties and parts beyond.

                [–]myschadenfreude 6 points7 points  (0 children)

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                He landed in a pit of vipers there. The road to hell is paved with good intentions.

                [–]EarthNeedsCentrism 70 points71 points  (3 children)

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                CTRL-F "rap(ist)"

                30 fucking results. are you fucking kidding me lol

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                  You can be functional all you'd like, you just have to sit there quietly smiling and hoping you're the lucky one the female will offer herself to. I'd you do anything to convey your interest , you're simply a creep.

                  [–]RPDBF 2 points3 points  (0 children)

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                  lmao

                  'This was actually the first thing I thought of when I read this post. I often find myself considering situations in the light of "oh man, I want to go to Steve's house but if one of these guys raped me I wouldn't even have a leg to stand on in court. Getting into his car? I'd just feel like such a jackass."

                  =/ rape culture"

                  These people are insane

                  [–]moosik85 70 points71 points  (8 children)

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                  Why would women attend parties anymore, they can get all the attention their ego needs online.

                  [–]Ragu35 18 points19 points  (3 children)

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                  Free drinks

                  [–]gopher88 48 points49 points  (2 children)

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                  I hear you have to blow a line of guys in a night club for that now.

                  [–]drallcom3 7 points8 points  (2 children)

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                  Easy, more attention.

                  [–]Gnoppong 64 points65 points  (9 children)

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                  This is bullshit. These hambeasts don't know shit about the college party scene. These same women would have dropped anything they were doing to go feed on some alpha cock at a frat party when they were in college IF THEY WERE EVER INVITED. These kids are asking for sincere advise on how to improve their lame sausage fest but instead he gets every Femenazi redditor's 2 cents on how he is scum for trying to make his parties more enjoyable. You want to appear as the cool guy so you and your friends can enjoy female company at your social gatherings? Oh right that's manipulation you misogynist...

                  [–]lemonparty 107 points108 points  (2 children)

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                  I really only go to parties for two reasons. 1. There is a guy that I want to fuck already going. 2. My friends are going to be there.

                  One chick answered honestly.

                  [–]jackp0t08 3 points4 points  (0 children)

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                  Yeah, all it takes is one guy with a girlfriend. She invites some of her friends, pictures get posted to Facebook, other girls realize that they can appear cool to their peers at OPs party.

                  [–]ibuprofiend 34 points35 points  (1 child)

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                  What percentage of normal college girls post on Reddit? I have to think it's less than 25%. The only girls I know who are "Redditors" are either crazy, ugly, fat, or feminist.

                  [–]ButterMyBiscuit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

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                  I know one fairly hot girl who spends a lot of time on reddit, but it's more aww and pics than anything else. I imagine she's the type who would be on tumblr, but prefers reddit.

                  [–]Rhinexheart 0 points1 point  (1 child)

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                  So you are saying its always about the guys themselves' values, not the party itself?

                  [–]jobs33ker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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                  the value of the dudes is what CREATES a cool party atmosphere. If i was to comment on the original thread i would just have said "you guys obviously have no game". They are trying to fix their "parties" when the fact of the matter is the party is just a reflection of how pathetic they each are, individually.

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                  I actually am the OP from that post. The truth is these parties aren't really that bad. And if they are we just go to a bar or something. What I really didn't mention in that thread was that I throw house parties over the summer to get all my old friends back together. No, not a lot of women come. But it's not really the main point. Recently though we talked about trying to change it for next weekend, and it didn't work. So I posted asking for some advice.

                  I don't know why Reddit took that so personally, like throwing a party is a matter of life or death. You know, there are worse things in the world than throwing a party where not a lot of people show up. Even though I guess to reddit standards we "failed", I really don't see a big issue here. It's like some of these people have never left the house before, or tried to do anything in life that involved some level of uncertainty or difficulty.

                  [–]MrRexels 13 points14 points  (0 children)

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                  Hope you read some of the stuff here and stick around for a bit. You might get a couple REAL tips on how to be the kind of guy women invite to parties and not the other way around.

                  [–]1 Endorsed Contributorjsl2837 17 points18 points  (0 children)

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                  Patrice O'Neal - 'Fishing'

                  Moral of the story: If you're a fisherman, don't ask fishes how to catch fish. You will get nonsensical answers.

                  If they can tell you what works on them, how are they getting caught in the first place?

                  [–]RPDBF 9 points10 points  (0 children)

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                  Just realize most of those people are probably at home looking at cat pics why your at least trying to throw a party.

                  [–]DanG3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

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                  The (my) point is (IME) ... if you want people to want something, tell them: They can't afford it, they will have to earn it, it's exclusive, it's by invitation, it's for only a few people, it only happens if ... etc. It works on most people ALL the time (sic). But, it especially works with women because they ruthlessly compete with each other FOR THE ATTENTION AND VALIDATION OF MALES. If a you (or a group of males) include (validate) just ONE woman all the others will climb Mount Aetna to be the next in line. (Want proof? Take a look at what happens at Black Friday sales.)

                  [–]2elysius 3 points4 points  (0 children)

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                  If you're really said OP (don't care enough to count all the 2s) and you still want to get more women to come to the parties, you really have to do this: reddit. com/r/TheRedPill/comments/29w43v/the_best_advice_reddit_has_to_offer_on_getting/cip3qbi (I had to break the link to make the stupid fucking bot happy).

                  Except just maybe don't answer that (who wants to come to a party no one used to go?), just say "oh, it's only for the guys to get together and relax" or something not butthurt.

                  I guarantee you it's gonna work: therationalmale. com/2014/06/03/male-space

                  Then, make sure to post the results to r/AskWomen again. And let us know.

                  [–]Cosmicandy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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                  Those who cannot create, hate.

                  Keep taking risks and continue putting yourself out there. Any motherfucker can be a critic, and throwing one party is infinitely more productive and useful to everyone than that entire thread.

                  I don't know what you've heard about TRP so far, but stick around and you might learn a thing or two to help with women.

                  [–]jeffrey92 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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                  I feel like a lot of guys posting here aren't exactly in-tune with the current college culture and you might have better luck following advice from a pua/seddit arsenal. Here's my 2 cents as a 5th year at a university that has a bit of party culture. (May need to take this with a grain of salt, I'm in a fraternity).

                  Girls will drink whatever you throw at them, true. But here in CA we can get handles of shitty vodka for under $10. Show a girl a shot of vodka and a cup of beer, 9/10 will take the vodka. Personally I'm okay with that because I like beer more and it's more expensive. Having a keg and only a keg results in a bunch of free-loading dudes showing up and just hanging around till the keg's killed. Girls know this and so by advertising your free keg, you're actually hurting yourself.

                  I disagree with the comment that girls like a dude fest ("guys only party" - wtf?). Girls like parties with tons of other girls. They'll go to them and complain about there being too many girls, but the fact that there are other girls shows them that these guys are high status guys that have girls lining up to go to their parties already. You don't need them there, you already have girls going.

                  The problem with being a dude in college is that it is really competitive. Girls, especially the hotter ones, get hit up to go to several parties every night. So if you don't have any social connection to the girls before inviting them to your party, it's going to be difficult. So if your social group doesn't include many girls (aka you go out to the bars and you don't know at least a couple girls at every place you go to), stop now and work on your sober social game and/or get more involved on campus.

                  Like I said previously, I'm in a fraternity so when I want to throw a party I usually just hit up guys and tell them to bring/invite a few girls each. Usually this works, but if it doesn't, there is another route you can take. And that is to text blast every fun person you know about the rager going on at your place and to bring booze. If it picks up momentum you'll end up with a bunch of random people at your house, including random girls. From there go search out the cute ones, tell them you live there, and get their numbers. If you play it right chances are they'll come to your next party, without you having to invite a bunch of random people over.

                  [–]oldschoolmailman 26 points27 points  (0 children)

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                  Gotta love the ending- "fuck it, it's not worth the effort" It really isn't.

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                  Some good advice hidden in there.

                  I really only go to parties for two reasons.

                  1. There is a guy that I want to fuck already going.

                  2. My friends are going to be there.

                  and

                  Take a moment and imagine that you and a bunch of your friends are being invited to a party. They're mostly nice dudes and they're offering you some free food, but every time you go, someone always ends up asking if you want to help them move their furniture.

                  Now you don't hate moving furniture, in fact you're happy to do it for people you like. But the last time you politely declined someone they got really offended and started giving you attitude. And then you heard from your friends that there's a rumor that you're an asshole because you never help anyone.

                  Now again, you really like these guys, but it seems like every time you go, there's at LEAST three or four dudes who are kind of sizing you up to see if you might be interested in helping them move. They glance at your arms when you're talking and clearly don't care about what you say, and ask awkward questions about your schedule, fully aware of their intentions.

                  Of course, hooking up is a mutually enjoyable experience, unlike moving furniture (it's just the first thing that comes to mind), but the feeling that you're being brought around for something you may not be interested in isn't in itself enjoyable.

                  [–]SillyInternet 42 points43 points  (4 children)

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                  I myself love the furniture moving analogy because EVERY FUCKING TIME I GET ASKED TO MOVE FURNITURE IT'S BY A WOMAN.

                  [–]InscrutablePUA 7 points8 points  (1 child)

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                  Don't ever help a woman move

                  [–]FortunateBum 4 points5 points  (1 child)

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                  Now you don't hate moving furniture, in fact you're happy to do it for people you like.

                  What? There are people who don't hate moving furniture?

                  This is the dumbest analogy ever. Nobody moves just for the fun of it. Retarded.

                  [–]Viperys 3 points4 points  (0 children)

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                  Well i for once move my furniture if i can't sleep at night. Usually rearranging beds, desks and other stuff helps to get asleep after that, idk why.

                  [–]myschadenfreude 10 points11 points  (5 children)

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                  If you didn't want it* you wouldn't have a pickup truck.

                  *it = moving furniture.

                  /s

                  [–]2 Endorsed Contributorvengefully_yours 6 points7 points  (4 children)

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                  Oh shit, I just realized I am asking for it, I have two trucks and a car trailer. No wonder I am constantly moving couches, refrigerators, and beds.

                  [–]myschadenfreude 11 points12 points  (3 children)

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                  Get off the "Couch Carousel" and settle down with a good stable living room set, man!

                  [–]2 Endorsed Contributorvengefully_yours 1 point2 points  (2 children)

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                  I will get a sofa or perhaps a love seat.

                  [–]Endorsed ContributorRedBigMan 16 points17 points  (3 children)

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                  Easiest way to fix the women problem... just circulate the invites with 'No Girls Allowed'. Boom instantly they'll all want to invade the fledgeling male space.

                  [–]thegman84 19 points20 points  (1 child)

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                  I can confirm this.

                  I threw a party last year and put up a flier at work titled "Man Night". The plan was cigars, scotch and grilling over a bonfire......it wasn't even that I didn't want women there, I just figured they wouldn't want to come.

                  Two of the feminst hamwagons threw a fit and even tried to get the boss to reprimand me for advertising a "male only" party at work. The boss basically shrugged off the hamwagons and said there wasn't any company policy against organizing exclusive social events.

                  [–]cbarrett1989 5 points6 points  (0 children)

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                  Femitards will have their jimmies in a perma-rustle over shit like that. That's seriously the best way to get women to show up is to explicitly state they are not welcome. That basically activates the "renegade, doesn't play by rules" gene in women and they show up in droves just to be "edgy."

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                  That's not MGTOW. That's True Forced Loneliness/Incel.

                  MGTOW would be if he could get girls to come but didn't want them anyways.

                  Just thought I'd set the record straight.

                  [–]ibuprofiend 10 points11 points  (1 child)

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                  MGTOW would be if he could get girls to come but didn't want them anyways.

                  I disagree with this. I see MGTOW as an attitude towards women and separate from your actual success with them. If you are truly uninterested in pursuing girls, then you're MGTOW regardless of whether they're attracted to you or not.

                  Of course, whether the guy here has actually been disgusted into MGTOW or is just doing a sour grapes thing will remain a mystery though.

                  [–][deleted] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

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                  You're right. MGTOW is a state irrelevant of whether girls desire you or not.

                  The guy just clearly desired women, so he is not a MGTOW in my eyes. I respect true MGTOW very much.

                  [–]RojoEscarlata 5 points6 points  (1 child)

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                  MGTOW aren't defined by their ability of seize pussy, but from where the decision came.

                  If a man after learning how bad current women are takes a personal decision to don't play the game he is a MGTOW, in the case he drops off the game because he never gets to play, then yeah he is an incel

                  [–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (1 child)

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                  No, that's more redpill Alpha behavior. MGTOW, and I relate to this more myself, is a rejection of marriage, dating, courtship, and doing your own thing regardless of female, or societal approval.

                  Also, some people actually enjoy, and thrive in solitude, and don't actually feel lonely at all. I'd say that if you can't spend a couple of hours all by yourself without feeling lonely then something is wrong with YOU, and you have a dependent personality.

                  Maybe it's just me, but I think living by your own standards in solitude is more alpha than being miserable living under someone else's standards, because you fear loneliness/incel. It's pathetic when you think about it.

                  [–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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                  MGTOW has several levels. Here's one proposed format.

                  1: Rejection of LTR 2. Rejection of casual dating 3. Rejection of economic involvement 4. Complete/near-complete rejection of society.

                  There are some other takes on this. I think at the heart of it is the phrase "going your own way," finding your own path to happiness by removing the detrimental societal stake from the overall equation. TRP and MGTOW overlap very heavily.

                  [–]OOvifteen 13 points14 points  (6 children)

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                  What do you guys think about the comment by Max here http://puu.sh/9XTMQ/9ebf1f2812.png

                  [–]theozoph 11 points12 points  (0 children)

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                  Same bullshit about women and men being identical with the same instincts and same psychology, except for "culture". So in a liberal culture, a woman should be glad plenty of men want to have sex with her, because that's how a man would react...

                  Watching young liberals argue is really like watching retards do it. You have to laugh.

                  [–]chainlinks 12 points13 points  (5 children)

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                  Theme parties.

                  I went to a small school where the social scene was absolutely dominated by sports team and frat parties.

                  We got around this by throwing theme parties.

                  • international party: every room in our house was a different country with a different signature shot

                  • rave party: replaced all the lights with black lights and only played techno

                  • gangster party: everyone dressed like thugs (I went with 1950s thug with my pants around my ribs and a sweet top hat, many people were confused)

                  Bitches love themes. It gives them an excuse to dress up.

                  TL;DR get creative

                  [–]XXXmormon 2 points3 points  (0 children)

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                  This is true. My girlfriend has confirmed that all the best parties are themed parties because all the girls get to dress up without having to spend a lot of money.

                  [–]Planner_Hammish 5 points6 points  (1 child)

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                  Pimp and bitch

                  Golf pros and tennis hoes

                  Tight and bright

                  Beach/Under the sea/hawaiian

                  Austin powers/james bond

                  1920s/50s/60s/70s/80s parties

                  [–]Phokus 12 points13 points  (1 child)

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                  I have a somewhat different take on this than TRP. I think it's rational for a woman to be wary of being invited to a party full of random guys and alcohol, ESPECIALLY if there aren't that many other women.

                  HOWEVER, the hypocritical part of how women behave is that if the men in question are good looking/high status enough, they will throw themselves at the chance of going to their parties with booze. Since we're talking about college, these will typically be the men in the most popular frat houses or who are part of the football/basketball program (some lesser sports may also apply). Suddenly the creep/risk factors aren't considered anymore (even though these types of men are typically the most sexually aggressive and who probably believe they are entitled to sex the most).

                  Women make absolutely no sense.

                  [–]HolographicWhaleTail 14 points15 points  (0 children)

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                  No, it makes sense. They would rather get gangbanged by high status men than be at a party full of betas.

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                    [–]subcover 5 points6 points  (0 children)

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                    I guess the whole concept doesn't work. The women have sort of valid objections, and it's too hard to overcome them.

                    Key with women: never beg them. Do not bend over backwards, or treat them like they're gold, to get them to your party. Just fucking don't bother with them. Make them unwelcome. Be misogynistic.

                    RP and PUA sites have the methods for interacting with women. It's pretty complete. There is no other "normal life" where you do things differently or different approaches work.

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                    If anyone is looking for some advice on how to get more girls to come to your party I've got a quick method that i use. I usually plan the Party around the times that I know a couple of my Friends SO's are free and I invite them over first and tell them to bring over as many females as possible and they usually come through for us with about 4/5 each and combine that with just inviting a bunch of other girls you know or want to get to know and you should get a pretty sizeable showing.

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                      [–]Nespos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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                      This one's not that hard. He doesn't know these girls well enough. Sounds like there's not much interaction between him/his male friends and these girls outside of the invitations. Knowing them from work or school may mean seeing them often, but it doesn't necessitate much friendly interaction. If he builds some actual rapport with them, they'll feel comfortable going.

                      [–]hermit087 2 points3 points  (2 children)

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                      Ahh the old saugage fest house parties, I've definitely been there before. Even then I pretty much knew why: women have no need to hang out with low status guys at some house, even if they are relatively cool and attractive. If all of the guys there already have girls that they brought with them THEN maybe others will want to show up do to the power of preselection. Otherwise the girls are just going to go to clubs or higher status parties where other girls are already at.

                      We are college aged so not all of us can go to bars yet.

                      And here the guy makes the mistake of thinking his age disadvantage is okay just because its something he has no control over. Guess what: hot 18 year old girls have no problem getting 21+ guys to hang out with, and they can probably still get into clubs even if they are underage.

                      [–][deleted] 4 points5 points  (31 children)

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                      What about the obvious? These guys are unattractive, they have horrible social skills and their house is not ideal or convenient for a party.

                      [–]Dark triad expert: - http://illimitablemen.com/ - [3 Points]IllimitableMan 6 points7 points  (1 child)

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                      Not a socialite with an mtv crib and a six pack? Not worth knowing. There's standards and preferences, then there is this narcissistic as fuck society where if you're not in the top 20% echelon you may as well be a tramp.

                      [–][deleted] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

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                      That's not what I'm saying. I have friends that throw killer parties and other friends that can't give away free beer. Being a good party host takes work.

                      [–]subcover 3 points4 points  (28 children)

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                      Third post like this. TRP is undergoing an aggressive invasion by trolls trying to demoralize and distract us.

                      [–]1PaulRivers10 1 point2 points  (2 children)

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                      EDIT: The whole free beer thing needs some explaining... we usually get a keg or something. So when they ask if they should bring anything, I just say, "No, we have a keg."

                      This keeps sticking out to me. I wonder if their question is some sort of shit test itself. As in - low value guys provide free beer to try to get women to come to their parties. High value parties and guys require that people bring something because they can - because they're high value and they don't want to spend their own money on it.

                      [–]subcover 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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                      Well I'm in an adult social circle (married with kids type people mostly) where we have house parties at Christmas and some other occasions. And it's usually optional to bring drinks. If you ask they'll always say "no of course", but actually many people do and we do. We have a case of wine we bought and keep in our basement, and we bring one bottle to each party. This helps lighten the load on the hosts.

                      I don't see how this is high value or low value. It's just polite behavior. But if we showed up without a bottle, that would be OK too.

                      [–]u432457 3 points4 points  (0 children)

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                      creep, loser, rapist, sexist, asshole

                      This does accurately describe someone who tries to find out ways to get women drunk so they can fornicate. Sorry, TRP, you're not wrong, you're just a creep, rapist, sexist, asshole. I'm holding judgment on the loser part pending you getting married and reproducing.

                      [–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (1 child)

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                      Dude and friends arent attractive thats most likely it

                      [–]subcover 5 points6 points  (0 children)

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                      TRP is about how to succeed despite that. Because guys most certainly can.

                      [–]danweL 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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                      What is your method of advertising for this party? Facebook event?

                      [–]nrjk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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                      Maybe you should have some activity/theme so they won't feel like they'll just be standing around being hit on the whole time.

                      Oh, really. I didn't know costumes were the impervious shield to repel men from hitting on women. /s

                      Also, isn't throwing a themed party kind of a girl thing to do? I don't mean that as an insult, but girls generally like to play dress up from my experience? Most of the themed parties I've been to have been hosted by girls. It's always an eye-roller. How much fucking work to I have to put into my costume just to get drunk? If it's anything beyond "put regular clothes on", it's kind of annoying...I do like wearing togas because they're comfortable and easy but I'm not a stereotypical frat guy from my college years anymore.

                      [–]MikeRacer46 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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                      It's like these people have their own version of Godwin's Law. The difference is the rape discussion comes in much sooner and completely derails from the actual topic.

                      As for those kinds of parties, only a dumb ass would have sex with a drunk girl, even a slightly inebriated one. The current atmosphere in colleges and the tendency of spontaneous rapehunts are just too deadly. If she's too drunk to have sensible words to say, stay away.

                      [–]TheD_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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                      In college, I got a handle of Grey Goose. Everyone loves gettin loose with the goose! Naturally, that shit did not last. Did anyone wanna drink White Wolf after drinking goose? Fuick no. You know what? I still have the handle bottle, hence I filled it with bottom shelf vodka. Could anyone tell the difference? Fuck no! At 20, being a skinny-fat obnoxious, broke, twerp dick I had more girls/cool dudes who wanted to pre-party afterparty and drink some goose with me.

                      Never did I have it be so easy to pull before.

                      [–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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                      Especially since they're discouraged from bringing their own drinks, and some guy at the party will probably be operating the keg. If I learned anything at the "safety" seminar I had in my first week of freshmen year, this is how you wake up in someone's bed with no memory.

                      One of the top comments... she sounds like she knows how to party