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[–]primevalist 150 points151 points  (13 children)

She was chosen. Think about it. She loves that out of all these women with same name, she was the one. He's good looking, and if he's spending 5k on a gf's trip he must have money too. She wonders if he's better. She wants a taste. Now she's upgrading. If she fails to upgrade, she still gets a trip, a lot of fucking and a provider to come back to.

[–]1Jaereth 56 points57 points  (6 children)

Pretty astute here. It's like a worry free test drive of someone who's already proved he's higher SMV than her current guy.

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    [–]ThePedanticCynic 30 points31 points  (3 children)

    We don't know that he didn't. Bill Burr once told a story about how a friend of his had a girlfriend who went on a weekend trip with another guy. While she was away this guy simply found another apartment and moved all his shit out. There was no discussion, there was no closure, there wasn't even a real breakup. She came back and he was living somewhere else.

    I hope that's this guy's plan.

    [–]TheRealMouseRat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

    wow, if I ever live with a gf, and have to dump her, then this will be my method of choice. just freaking move when she is away.

    [–]1exit_sandman 1 point2 points  (1 child)

    So do I.

    I don't really believe in blackmail, outright saying "if you go, I'll dump you" may bring her to her senses (or it may just push her to take her chance), but she shouldn't entertain that idea in the first place.

    I would say that I was against it, but wouldn't act butthurt over it (in fact, I would be quite happy to get to know her true colors before wasting more time on her), and would simply break up with her.

    [–]NoSolaceWasPromised 2 points3 points  (0 children)

    Don't blackmail ever.

    Break up. If she comes crying back, you have more leverage in the relationship.

    If you blackmail and she "comes to her senses" she'll use that as reasoning that she did you a favor by not being a whore.

    Dump her, test her reaction, play knowing the cards are in your favor from that point regardless of the result.

    [–]SWABteam 6 points7 points  (0 children)

    No shit man. I can only imagine. You smile through when your woman is talking about the bitch she hates at work. How fucked does this guy have to be that she would even think of brining it up.

    [–]tatertotmonkey 3 points4 points  (0 children)

    God, that poor, poor sap of a boyfriend. It's terrible that he has no one to speak truth into his life.

    [–]CosbyTeamTriosby -1 points0 points  (1 child)

    TRP is all about reading a a woman's ego; and it does that extremely well. But we have to ask ourselves, can we read our own egos?

    [–]itsmehobnob 42 points43 points  (39 children)

    If you were the guy in Nova Scotia how would you play this?

    I see three options:

    1. Be cool with your girlfriend going.

    2. Try to forbid her somehow

    3. Break up the minute she accepts the invite

    The first 2 are bad options and will definitely lead to trouble in the long run. Ending it the second she applies is the only way to get out at all ahead (and might make her re-evaluate her priorities).

    [–]1grendalor 35 points36 points  (9 children)

    Yes, it should have been walking papers immediately, really.

    1 is what he is doing, which is beta as all get out. And also probably lying, too. It's doubtful he really is cool with it, but he's suppressing that probably because he's afraid to lose her. So she has power and he doesn't. Total beta pussy boi, really.

    2 doesn't work long term, even if it does in the short term. You want a woman to want to comply, to not want to be away from you for several weeks with a strange man and so on. You don't want to force it on her, because she will eventually resent that and it's also a tremendous sign of weakness. You want to attract her so she wants this for herself, not because you threatened her or tried to forbid her.

    3 is the only reasonable option here, and of course he didn't take it. Tells us all we need to know about him, really.

    [–]WordsNotToLiveBy 13 points14 points  (7 children)

    From my end: I see only two options I'd give her...

    1. Go... but that means we're done.

    2. Don't go... that means you value our relationship.

    End of story. I'm not going to force any decision. That's her two choices.

    [–]ThePedanticCynic 7 points8 points  (6 children)

    The problem is you can't frame it that way. If she valued the relationship would she even have brought it up? That she wants to go at all is seriously damaging to the relationship.

    Ultimatums never give you the right answer. You'll just get her to sacrifice a 'maybe' for a sure thing, but she'll resent you for it and find someone who is a sure thing just to spite you.

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      [–]ThePedanticCynic 2 points3 points  (0 children)

      If she valued the relationship at all, she might consider it and then decide against it. If she values the relationship highly enough for you to consider your relationship stable, she wouldn't think twice about rejecting the offer.

      Fair enough.

      I also copied your comment since i assume you're going to delete it. Replying to empty air annoys me.

      [–]rpscrote 1 point2 points  (2 children)

      I'm of 2 minds on this.

      She probably wouldn't have brought it up if she valued the relationship ... but the programming runs deep. Girls are constantly programmed to "see the world" (e.g. cc foreigners) and that it's totally okay blah blah blah. She might honestly think going on a trip does no damage because she's still in the fem-matrix. I think knowing the answer to this would be 100% based on context and knowing the situation.

      Though going on a trip with a random dude is like 95% chance of BP...

      [–]ThePedanticCynic 1 point2 points  (1 child)

      If she believes the programming she's stupid, and not worthy anyway. At least of me. I prefer intelligent women.

      [–]thewestcoastexpress 29 points30 points  (6 children)

      This is a perfect test to see if the girl is LTR material. The whole event reveals the opportunistic nature of women (and humans in general). The whole thing is a risk vs reward scenario.

      The reward of a cheap around the world trip is worth the risk of losing beta boy. Either the risk of actually losing him is low, or the consequence of losing him is low. Either way, the risk vs reward balance is evident.

      [–]ThePedanticCynic 7 points8 points  (5 children)

      If this is human nature i'm beta as fuck. I have been offered similar things of value and declined them to preserve the relationship. When i'm in a relationship, her feelings actually matter to me. Game is one thing, being a total dick is another.

      If this situation were reversed and a model offered to take me around the world for 3 months, i would have declined in a heartbeat if i were in a serious relationship. You simply don't do that kind of thing to someone you care about.

      That she even brought it up means she didn't care about him.

      [–]esnir 2 points3 points  (2 children)

      i'm with you here matey. i'm the same kinda dude... got values and a sense of fucking honour... i simply don't LTR anyone now. single for life. now and always. being single is great, abundance of chicks, and no one to answer to, no one trying to turn you into a beta provider. learned it the only way, the hard way, but glad i did. i simply do not trust women enough to ever commit to them. i like their company, i like kissing them, i like fucking them, i like cuddling them.... but it's this hypergamous, opportunistic, no fucking loyalty shit that i do NOT like, and because of it, no chick is ever getting beyond plate with me.

      this should, i hope, be a wonderfully painful way of learning that "dem hoes ain't loyal". he's the winner here if he decides to realise he's a beta boy and swallow the pill. doubt it though. she's got the power, and she resents him for letting her have the power. oh well, chumps gotta get chumped if they stop being chumps.

      [–]useyourmouth 10 points11 points  (1 child)

      He could plan to break up with her when she gets back. She might at least feel a tinge of guilt when considering sampling other D. In the meantime, he has 3 months to increase his own SMV and find other girls. Maybe consider plating the traveller when she gets back.

      [–]ThePedanticCynic 2 points3 points  (0 children)

      If he really puts effort into it he can be jacked in 3 months. Let her return to a six pack, then have him inform her he's going on a 3 month 'vacation' to his hot 'sort of' friend's apartment. See how she reacts then.

      [–]1Jaereth 8 points9 points  (8 children)

      You could do 2. Just simply tell her, not angry or bitchy, but just tell her "I do not want you going on this trip period". If she still goes, make sure you have a new GF by the time she gets back.

      I think this is dudes problem. He probably couldn't get a new GF. Is there any pictures of current BF?

      [–]LeatherJacketQ 1 point2 points  (7 children)

      I agree with you that 2, depending on how it's done, isn't all bad. Sometimes a girl needs leadership, now how she responds to that is up to her.

      [–]ThePedanticCynic 6 points7 points  (0 children)

      There's leadership, then there's micromanaging. Telling her not to go on a 3 month fuckfest with a hot guy neither of them knows is kind of like explaining how to eat to a shark. Some things are just understood.

      She knows the answer, she's just ignoring it because she hopes to upgrade without risk.

      [–]tallwheel 3 points4 points  (5 children)

      How about a bit of reversal plus some dread? "I just found a new female 'friend' too. She'll be keeping me company while you're gone. Don't worry though, this is totally sort of like as friends."

      [–]ThePedanticCynic 1 point2 points  (4 children)

      This would have resulted in the fastest mathematical calculation in history. Newton would have smiled as she calculated the risk of losing her beta vs gaining an upgrade.

      [–]spiralings 6 points7 points  (0 children)

      yep

      The endless 'my boyfriend won't like it' 'my girlfriend won't let me' I hear everywhere in life drives me batty.

      Let people do whatever the hell they want, you don't have to be there when you get back...That. Easy.

      [–]t21spectre 5 points6 points  (0 children)

      4) Right after she leaves, pack up her shit and drop it off at her parents house. Say nothing to her, let her parents tell her what happened and ruin her trip from the start.

      [–]JackGoldsteinWrites 3 points4 points  (0 children)

      LOL if anything other than #3.

      [–]lorean 1 point2 points  (0 children)

      I'll let you decide what to do (give her enough rope). The day she leaves on this trip I will break up with her (to hang herself).

      [–]RPGoon 1 point2 points  (4 children)

      There will be a massive shit storm in the news if you break up immediately. It could be good or bad for various reason but I wouldn't want that media attention.

      I think the best strategy is to downgrade her to plate status without telling her. After a while nobody will give a shit about the story and you are free to find another girl.

      [–]redpillexplainsit 5 points6 points  (3 children)

      except she'd be free to fuck another guy guilt-free, and is already ten steps ahead of you. Plus traveling the world and can fuck multiple guys every week.

      [–]drrtyfrrnr 1 point2 points  (2 children)

      There's actually no reason that should bother you once you are broken up. The fact that it does would show that you have a scarcity mentality.

      Men and women are different, and while it may be the goal of a guy to fuck multiple girls every week, pretty much any reasonably attractive woman can do that if she wants. It'll only harm her, and increase the overall happiness of the (male) population in Italy, Spain etc.

      [–]DoctorWelch 81 points82 points  (3 children)

      Dude, that fucking "this is totally sort of like as friends" quote made me laugh so damn hard. It's like she is struggling with all her might not to just blurt out that she is going to fuck this guy during the trip.

      If anyone ever qualifies something with "totally sort of like as" then you can be sure the truth is the exact opposite.

      [–]jiveraffe 28 points29 points  (0 children)

      sort of Ask Dimitri Martin, "sort of" is one of the worst ways to fill a sentence. Zum Beispiel, 'you're going to live. Sort of.' Or 'I love you. Sort of.'

      It's the most noncommittal phrasing possible.

      [–]Endorsed Contributor2comment 8 points9 points  (0 children)

      They are friends. Sort of. Friends with Benefits. Right off the bat.

      But this is a great example of the new hypergamy. It's not just women trading up for higher and higher guys. It's a girl trading up for greater and greater opportunities the world offers (that guy wasn't going to offer this to some 60 year old broad with the same name) on a completely temporary basis no one average guy can really hope to match perpetually. World trip? 3 months? Go find yourself girlfriend (hopping on a lot of strange cock)!

      And why most modern women ain't worth LTRing. No matter how good the relationshit, something comes along that swoops her off her feet and she expects the same anchor to tie herself to to be there some time later when the rising tide and good times has receded.

      [–]WordsNotToLiveBy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

      My interpretation of that is -- she's totally sort of like fine with them hooking up, but he better not fuck it up by being creepy b/c that ass is already green lit for him.

      [–]My_Penis_Huge 104 points105 points  (6 children)

      ''The boyfriend should tell her, "No problem, darling. You go on this trip with a strange male. I'll be OK while you're gone, because I have posted an ad for a strange female who wants to stay at my place for a month. But don't worry - she'll sleep in another room." I wonder how Ms. Gallagher would like that.''

      [–]Night--Writer 56 points57 points  (2 children)

      The hamsters who approve of this girl taking the trip would explode like a rupturing volcano and instantly say "THIS IS COMPLETELY DIFFERENT YOU MYSOGINIST!"

      [–]InsaneShitstain 4 points5 points  (0 children)

      Thats passive agressive and is not keeping frame at all. Either he just break up or tell her he doesn't agree with the trip.

      [–]My_Dog_Jax 1 point2 points  (0 children)

      It's ok only if he borrows the other guys list and picks a girl with the same name. I mean fair is fair haha!

      [–]1Dev_on 62 points63 points  (26 children)

      where is that guy posted last month when we need him?

      "go ahead, fuck whoever you want" and then moonwalks out, never to be heard from again. I like that guy. This guy? not so much

      [–]red_pill_throw_away 17 points18 points  (11 children)

      Who is this moonwalking nexter? I think I missed this post. Link?

      [–]i64 7 points8 points  (7 children)

      I'd love to see that link too thanks in advance.

      [–]abcd_z 14 points15 points  (6 children)

      It probably isn't the one Dev_on was referring to, but I immediately thought of the TRP post entitled "Sunday TRP humor - girl requests open relationship while on vacation, boyfriend starts immediately fucking another girl, girlfriend melts down."

      Due to the subreddit rules I can't link to it, unfortunately, but it shouldn't be too hard to find.

      [–]TerryYockey 2 points3 points  (1 child)

      if there are no such rules against linking that thread in a PM, I would greatly appreciate it if you sent it to me.

      [–]abcd_z 4 points5 points  (0 children)

      Yeah, that's fine. The rule is just to prevent vote brigading, but the TRP bot doesn't discriminate between links to TRP subreddits and links to non-TRP subreddits.

      So stupid.

      Anyhow, I sent you the PM.

      [–]1Dev_on 1 point2 points  (0 children)

      no, it was a xpost from relationships. girl ask for open relationship, guy says fuck whoever you want, leaves. never talks to her again. she goes mad on reddit

      [–]abcd_z 4 points5 points  (2 children)

      It probably isn't the one Dev_on was referring to, but I immediately thought of the TRP post entitled "Sunday TRP humor - girl requests open relationship while on vacation, boyfriend starts immediately fucking another girl, girlfriend melts down."

      Due to the subreddit rules I can't link to it, unfortunately, but it shouldn't be too hard to find.

      [–]01-559-2620 2 points3 points  (1 child)

      Just search for "Sunday TRP Humor" its the firs thing that comes up

      I find it quite hilarious how she wrote this entire story along the lines of: I want a open relationship because i will have oppurtunities to fuck other guys and i really want to and you are a couch potato and its unlikely you will fuck anyone else.

      Classic

      [–]ThePedanticCynic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

      That's exactly how you know she didn't have any respect for him, and simply saw him as beta bux.

      Along with everything else she said.

      [–]erikangstrom 8 points9 points  (13 children)

      Question though, how would be the best way to handle this as the boyfriend? Now, at first I'm thinking just tell the girl no. But then this fosters a sense of resentment which would pain the relationship anyway. So would you just default to next from the get go?

      [–]otivito 9 points10 points  (2 children)

      I can tell you my wife wouldn't have gone when she was my gf. If she even considered it I'd be like, look don't let me hold you back from the trip of a life time. Go. Have fun. When you get back, don't look for me. I'll be just fine without you.

      [–]orvken 4 points5 points  (0 children)

      But but but! Don't you trust me darling? Don't you love me? Why can't you trust your own girlfriend?

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        [–]OneTouchHowMuch 6 points7 points  (0 children)

        You tell her that she can go on vacation with anyone she wants and to have a great time. Then you pack up your shit and leave. She is no longer your gf after bringing it up.

        To even ask/bring it up with you is beyond disrespectful and shows she is not worthy/loyal enough to be your wife/LTR.

        Where's that 2XC post of the girl who brings up the idea of open relationship with her bf of 5 years and he instantly says "You can fuck whoever you please" and then nexts her with surgical precision. That's how you do it. And don't look back.

        A girl who cannot comprehend the implications of this trip and how it makes you and your relationship look is completely unprepared for being a good life partner.

        Remember, men, when your LTR decides she wants to wander and go with other men, YOU FUCKING LET HER and then instantly next her. Ignore the whole "Fight for me" bullshit that they will manipulate you with. It's all just a ploy to get you to become her provider.

        [–]newlifeasredpill 62 points63 points  (11 children)

        I have a "pretty" serious boyfriend. We are "planning" on buying a house. Im not really looking for anything at all.

        Bitch is gonna fuck the beta who bought the ticket and at least ten other guys.

        Then she will tell the boyfriend at home that it "just happened"

        [–]yumyumgivemesome 52 points53 points  (1 child)

        She will trickle truth the boyfriend afterward. "I'm so sorry. There was a night where I drank way too much, and he tried to kiss me. I kept pushing him away. I think he finally was able to kiss me when I started blacking out..."

        [–]ThePedanticCynic 14 points15 points  (0 children)

        Alcohol is the go-to for cheaters. It's not that she wanted to! It's that the alcohol made her!

        Bitch, alcohol isn't an aphrodisiac, it's a disinhibitor.

        [–]crazydave1979 11 points12 points  (6 children)

        never know.maybe he will buy that house for himself while she is gone.

        [–]B_Campbell 34 points35 points  (1 child)

        "Totally sort of" is the best line in the article. Because she's seriously probably not going to get with this other guy. Unless she does. BF needs to cut his losses now.

        There were 18 girls with the same name and he just happened to hit it off with the cute one. Lol.

        [–]1Jaereth 10 points11 points  (0 children)

        I know. "Totally sort of" is like she's trying everything in her power to say she will without a doubt keep the trip platonic, but she just can't quite do it because she already knows.

        [–]FMBiochem 5 points6 points  (1 child)

        Then he has to find a girl with the exact same name (and Canadian) to put on the mortgage. Here we go again!

        [–]crazydave1979 7 points8 points  (0 children)

        or just leave her name off of it and move without telling her

        [–]tallwheel 2 points3 points  (1 child)

        Maybe he was shit testing her, and she failed massively.

        [–]babyicanchange 24 points25 points  (0 children)

        But he can lick the dried cum off of her once she returns, how lucky for him!

        [–]WordsNotToLiveBy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

        Only the super sluts work that way. Most of the average chicks cheat with a purpose or person in mind. Jordan Axani already made a good impression on her through their skype sessions. Enough for her to imagine being intimate with him.

        Whatever she says to her family, friends, or media doesn't change that she's attracted to this guy and she's definitely considering the possibility of hooking up with him. Barring any unforeseen events that dampen the mood, she seems like she's down with it.

        [–]imalatewhiterabbit 161 points162 points  (146 children)

        I made the mistake of making a joke about this, a mild one, on Facebook, and now I am a woman hater and was even threatened by a white knight. Whoever gave the advice to keep your opinions to yourself was 100% spot on, and, atleast in regards to TRP, I'll be keeping my opinion squarely to myself going forward. Being vocal about the hypergamy isn't going to change it, they are only going to attack you like a pack of wolves.

        Valuable lesson learned.

        [–]crazydave1979 23 points24 points  (4 children)

        i would just delete every friend that had a problem with the comment.. i think I'm down to 30 at this point

        [–]1Jaereth 13 points14 points  (0 children)

        Right on. I was thinking one day "Why do I go on Facebook to read a long list of comments that piss me off?" Since then if anyone posts anything that I find stupid or offensive I just immediately unfriend them. I went from 300 to about 50.

        But they are now 50 people I actually enjoy interacting with.

        [–]LittleCrazee 2 points3 points  (1 child)

        Exactly. Not sure why it even matters if a bunch of halfwits are mad at you. It's rather entertaining to get them all frothing from their inability to change my opinions.

        [–]foldpak111 2 points3 points  (0 children)

        I'd rather be isolated than be cool in BP peoples book

        [–]1grendalor 89 points90 points  (97 children)

        Of course. You never talk about this stuff, even jokingly, in muggle-world. The programming is too strong -- you will be tarred and feathered. You just take the insights, information and self-improvement and turn it loose in muggle-world, all to your own benefit.

        [–]Dark-Ulfberht 126 points127 points  (36 children)

        It depends on the context.

        There's two types of people in this world: those who are paying me and those who aren't.

        If you're paying me, I'll keep my mouth shut about my views while I'm working for you. If you're not in that category, I'll say whatever the fuck I want and dare you to say something about it.

        Oooh, you're going to defriend me on Facebook? I'm fucking quaking in terror.

        [–]JackGoldsteinWrites 17 points18 points  (3 children)

        Regardless, it's drama.

        You don't need drama, let alone Facebook drama.

        Let BB do what BB does, makes AF easier for the rest.

        [–]alclarkey 49 points50 points  (8 children)

        ^ What he said. As for the white knight offering threats, tell him "Where and when?"

        [–]MightyTaint 19 points20 points  (3 children)

        "Where and when"? More like "lol".

        [–]lorean 11 points12 points  (2 children)

        Exactly. He's beneath you. Not worth your time.

        [–]mateodeloso 11 points12 points  (0 children)

        Or avoid it all together cause you're apart of project mayhem.

        [–]AEther_Flux 2 points3 points  (1 child)

        Doesn't hurt to have a year or two in martial arts training (I live to train).

        [–]dickinlips 11 points12 points  (4 children)

        Not a smart game plan.

        http://gettingracistsfired.com/

        [–]Olipyr 6 points7 points  (3 children)

        Isn't that against Tumblr's ToS to post peoples information for malicious intent?

        [–]2 Endorsed ContributorFLFTW16 22 points23 points  (2 children)

        Since when was playing by the rules in the progressive's rule book?

        [–]ThePedanticCynic 5 points6 points  (0 children)

        Don't confound progressive with feminist. At least some progressives have a brain.

        [–]mzackler 2 points3 points  (3 children)

        Except that the world is much more interconnected than that and who knows who you will be working for next, or who you will need a favor from.

        [–]loknarash 8 points9 points  (0 children)

        What if master gives Dobby a sock?

        [–]GC0W30 32 points33 points  (11 children)

        Gotta stay quiet. Am bi guy, went on date with another bi guy. He disclosed his count, at 30, is 3 guys and 1 girl.

        I repeated some advice from on here about women to help him out...

        And he got weird enough that not only did I not close, but no second date. I got an OKC message from him saying that he can't be friends with someone with my views... like you can't be friends with a serious racist. "You can call them facts, they are still just opinions."

        I'd been with 30 chicks at his age, I think I have a better clue than him.

        So, fair warning: TRP is offensive enough that it can even keep you from getting dick.

        [–]Blake55 3 points4 points  (10 children)

        What advice was that? Haha.. You can't save them all!

        [–]GC0W30 16 points17 points  (9 children)

        He's a soft, low-income beta. 5'10" and 180 with a 7.5" rod, so not being fat or short-dicked is basically the only thing he has going for him.

        I just gave him the most basic of lessons... chicks want one thing, say another, the 20% of hottest guys are the ones girls want to fuck, if you're not at least a little hot then they're just going to use you like an emotional tampon with an attached wallet... but if they're hardcore attracted to you, most women will cheat on their husband with you and WANT the condom to fail, or never even ask to see a condom... even if the marriage is going well with their husband....

        Lots of other basic shit that could really help a guy like that, but after I dropped him off I'm sure he ran back into the apartment he shares with his ex-girlfriend and her new boyfriend, and the one other guy who is fucking his ex-girlfriend (he's fucking none of these people) and chugged a bottle of blue pills... then went right back to playing video games.

        [–]rudeboyplakka 8 points9 points  (5 children)

        I learned this the hard way.. Made one comment about Ray Rice and Adrian Peterson, using no RP terminology, got over heard by a fatty now every female at my job treats me like Satan

        [–]ultimatebacon 8 points9 points  (3 children)

        I don't understand fatties... what does she care what type of terminology you use? she is not gonna get fucked anyway.

        [–]foldpak111 16 points17 points  (14 children)

        The programming is too strong. I lost a lot of friends because I didn't go to college. The funniest part is that it's actually a scam to keep you in debt seeing as 85% of grads move back innwith their parents. Then you got the guys joining the military actually believing they are fighting for freedom and good ol' America. The free time is spent white knighting girls that won't sleep with them. But you know what? A lion doesn't concern himself with the opinion of sheep. You got to just let them live and die with their silly idea of what it means to be successful.

        [–]ceo_greasyduck 5 points6 points  (3 children)

        College is only a scam if you major in something unemployable like Art History.

        Anything STEM, law or business related will make you money.

        [–][deleted] 4 points5 points  (1 child)

        There's a massive excess of lawyers in the West in general, most countries don't need more and getting a decent job is incredibly hard now, I wouldn't recommend it. STEM and business are still good though.

        [–]rpscrote 1 point2 points  (0 children)

        1000% this. The only law worth doing is STEM-degree necessary law. And at that rate you might as well stay in STEM. There's even too many patent lawyers now too in most places

        [–]foldpak111 1 point2 points  (0 children)

        Most people major in something unemployable.

        [–]TheeRyanGrey 3 points4 points  (3 children)

        It's this kind of selfish logic that has paralyzed my entire generation of men. It's the reason feminists have a large voice that dwarves ours.

        We're not united, most of us are out for ourselves and that's bullshit.

        [–]ThePedanticCynic 6 points7 points  (2 children)

        Feminists have a large voice because stay at home moms and unemployable Women's Studies grads have nothing to do all day. Men work for a living, and it's more difficult to organize.

        [–]SILENTSAM69 7 points8 points  (1 child)

        Since I already have my woman I have no care about puss in people off. I love posting this kind of shut on Facebook. It really puss es off the SJW people I went to university with.

        [–]IMissOsama 6 points7 points  (0 children)

        Mobile issues, I know them all too well.

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          [–]spassa 15 points16 points  (3 children)

          never argue with an idiot, he will pull you down to his level and beat you through experience -- someone

          [–]AesonClark 6 points7 points  (1 child)

          [–]ThePedanticCynic 2 points3 points  (1 child)

          I used to have a feminist friend on facebook. Every time she posted her feminist shit i would respond with a short comment, like "This isn't true" and a link refuting her stance. Nothing inflammatory, nothing even debatable. Just a link most of the time.

          Eventually it came to the wage gap, and the feminist lies about that, and i posted a link detailing why choice is more relevant than gender. She responded with an essay of rants that ended with her calling me mentally unstable for my 'views', despite her clear inability to refute a single one of them.

          Feminism is synonymous with ad hominem, and i find it extremely satisfying when they show their true colors. I bet she got some 'you go girl' from her fellow irrationalites, but i also bet there were a few people who had their eyes opened by the exchange.

          We're not vocal to convince the other side, feminists, they're lost; we're in it to usher the undecideds towards truth.

          [–]libertypole 9 points10 points  (9 children)

          why do you care what idiots on facebook think?

          [–]LordOfMurderMountain 4 points5 points  (8 children)

          This. As a matter of fact, why is he on Facebook at all?

          [–]kovu159 10 points11 points  (7 children)

          Facebook is pretty essential if you're involved in a lot of social groups. That's the only way I know everything that's going on between uni parties, my fraternity, school clubs, social sports, work events, etc etc. There's no other one place that tracks all that.

          [–]foldpak111 5 points6 points  (0 children)

          Like a pack of omega wolves

          [–]chillmonkey88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

          You can speak your mind about trp truths... they're everywhere all the time... you must learn to change the vocabulary to make it appeal and everyone will surely agree...

          [–]eagleclaw457 1 point2 points  (4 children)

          You know this is something I have been wanting to address about this sub. How can we talk about being a man, standing up for what you believe in and yourself, but then be quiet and clam up about addressing issues like this girl situation?

          I totally understand its a pain in the ass that the people on facebook were being rude and close minded, but I think at some points in your life you should push your agenda aka your beliefs.

          [–]SWABteam 1 point2 points  (0 children)

          Why even be friends with people who you would not want seeing your posts? Sounds like you need to purge your friends list.

          [–]TheeRyanGrey 1 point2 points  (3 children)

          You sound like Sony cowing out except your situation is much less threatening making you a giant pussy.

          Who gives a flying fuck what people who you don't respect think. Who cares what people who aren't your competition think.

          If you are scared from speaking yiur mind by fucking Facebook you're a gigantic pussy. You're the guy too scared to speak up for what you believe in out of fear.

          What's the point of this entire sub reddit, this entire commitment, if you're going to back down to fucking Facebook

          ,

          [–]imalatewhiterabbit 1 point2 points  (2 children)

          You understand the difference between suicide and picking your battles? No you clearly don't. You would make a poor battlefield commander, charging headlong into certain defeat. Your mentality sucks. Don't be a fuckin buffoon.

          [–]UniversityofToronto 28 points29 points  (2 children)

          LOL the guy had 18 women apply for the chance. He made them fill out a questionaire and gave them skype interviews. Funny how the man happens to choose one that looks very pretty.

          [–]baconreader9000 7 points8 points  (0 children)

          then she goes on to say in the interview that she doesn't know why she got picked... ooh she knows!

          [–]InferiousX 23 points24 points  (1 child)

          Someone needs to Secret Santa the guy who's staying home a set of balls.

          [–]666Evo 35 points36 points  (6 children)

          The women's comments... hahaha!
          Paula: "Really? Why can't a girl travel with a friend? Her boyfriend should trust her. If they have a great relationship, it shouldn't be a factor!"
          Just trust her? Sure! Just trust the boyfriend who's invited the Victoria's Secret model to stay over the holidays too yeah?

          Lisse: "if Elizabeth wants to travel the world..let her..who is her boyfriend or anyone to stop her. Elizabeth is not her boyfriend's property to hold her back. Have a safe and great vacation guys !"
          Just a disgusting self centred view of the world.

          Chiz: "Her boyfriend is smart and his decision is very mature. It is some kind of a test for her before "buying a house" and go further. If she is meant to be -she will come back, if not -pfffff, no worries."
          What? She's coming back. She's coming back with a STI because, "It just happened!"

          Edit: Had to add this one...
          Andrea: "Congratulations to them both!! If their relationship is strong, her boyfriend should be happy for her to have this opportunity at such a young age! Instead I think his envy that he isn't going along will be what pulls them a part, if they don't make it through the end of this trip! Who cares of its Christmas... They can celebrate when they get back! True love will always prevail and this is a life changing opportunity for her! Good on her for having such adventurous spirit!,"
          Andrea. Come now, dear. This entire comment is "He should just let her fuck whoever she wants and be happy he's allowed to look at her! That's a strong relationship!"

          [–]foldpak111 4 points5 points  (1 child)

          I would let it be known I'll spend time with other women while she's gone. Then I'll dread to the max when she gets back by going to the gym after work but not telling her where I went. Maybe rub a little woman's perfume on me.

          [–]newlifeasredpill 4 points5 points  (0 children)

          Of course you are free to travel with him sweetie. I would never keep anyone from doing what they want.

          Now if you DO go then I want you to never contact me again.

          Free will honey. Can't beat it with a stick

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            [–]Evileddie13 16 points17 points  (1 child)

            Lol, saw the interview...bf is FUCKED. Guy with the tickets is awsome! All this media attention plus 'charity'...instant celeb status. She looked 'nervous'...lol..just a vaginal contraction away from a lip bite, do me look. They are so going to fuck. I'd bet money they come back as a item. We should start a kickstarter boyfriend and send him to Vegas.

            [–]1tombreck2 216 points217 points  (44 children)

            Guy taking her on the trip is the bigger beta; he's gonna pay for all her drinks and then watch her go home with some French guy

            [–]BlackHeart89 103 points104 points  (31 children)

            Nah. He was going to spend the money either way. Hell, if his game is tight, she may pay for her own shit. I bet he'll push for sharing a bed to save money.

            Although it would be better to just find chick to bang out of country, the bf is definitely the bigger beta. Sending his chick off on a vacation to get fucked by some other dude. Then he's probably going to marry her selfish ass too.

            EDIT: If the new guy was ugly, I bet she wouldn't go. I can promise you that.

            [–]Antibuddy 94 points95 points  (24 children)

            Yeah no kidding, here he is.

            He works for an international real estate development and advisory firm. High power, high money. And he started an organization with his brother to help people travel. This girl is going to melt into a fucking puddle the moment they hit Europe. No way her bf even stands a chance.

            [–]Talkshitgethit 78 points79 points  (3 children)

            The only thing that would've made this perfect, is if the man's name was Chad.

            [–]Ommin 10 points11 points  (2 children)

            He started an org to help people travel? Sounds to me like this is all a marketing scheme for him, and if not a business scheme then a decent relationship scheme: tons of women around the world now know he's rich, powerful, and single.

            [–]Goupidan 1 point2 points  (1 child)

            To make sure they don't sleep together, Marriott caught on the story and booked two bedrooms for free for them, everywhere.

            [–]1tombreck2 3 points4 points  (3 children)

            He bought a woman plane tickets for around the world without sensing that she was about to dump him.

            He doesn't have any game; if he had game then he would have been going with one of his plates.

            [–]ChoppinTheTarts 4 points5 points  (0 children)

            Well I suspect even if he was one his plates wouldn't have exactly matching names.

            [–]t21spectre 12 points13 points  (2 children)

            He is a moron. Just broke up with his GF and traveling through Europe and Asia and he's bringing some random chick along. He could save money not paying for random's shit and fuck tons of girls throughout his travels.

            You don't take sand to the beach.

            [–]RedPillLawyer 11 points12 points  (2 children)

            I posted a variant of the exact same sentiment in a previous thread mentioning this round world trip. They are both BB in this situation.

            [–]Hatorader 24 points25 points  (1 child)

            The bf doesn't necessarily have to be the BB just yet. Because if my gf wanted to do that I'd say ok go for it, and just silently next her and never talk to her again or see her again. But to the outside world it would look at first like I was letting her go on this trip. That's what he could be doing.

            [–]1Zanford 5 points6 points  (1 child)

            Yeah but it's a sunk cost. He was beta to plan the trip and buy the tickets, but now that he has them it's reasonable to try to capitalize on it.

            He should def. not splurge on her while they are traveling tho. Get the hotels he would have anyway and make her share his bed. Buy her alcohol maybe but not food or museum tickets. etc. Subcommunicate that if she strays off with another guy during the trip, she's gonna be finding her own way home and will not get his time or hotel rooms anymore.

            [–]foldpak111 12 points13 points  (0 children)

            "Plus they have a puppy, their bond is too strong."

            Hahaha

            [–]2alisonstone 24 points25 points  (1 child)

            The plane tickets are only worth $5000. That is nothing compared to how much it costs to actually go on a trip that long (you will be spending money in all the countries you visit, at least for hotels, food, cars/taxi, etc) and the opportunity cost of missing out on work. Personally, I'd prefer to work and spend the evenings with my significant other doing simple stuff like cooking or watching TV rather than traveling the world with strangers.

            Women often complain that her boyfriend spends too much time at the gym or playing video games when it is like 1 hour per day. But here is a woman taking off for over and month and likely emptying or maxing out her credit cards in the process ("free vacation" is typically just the travel fees). That just shows that she isn't serious about her current relationship at all. Anybody who is serious would rather pay a few extra thousand dollars to go on the trip with their significant other.

            [–]redpillexplainsit 4 points5 points  (0 children)

            So much for buying a house with her BF. He'll be paying the mortgage while she spent all her money on traveling the world.

            [–]1grendalor 32 points33 points  (0 children)

            She's going to be fucking within a day of leaving Canada, max.

            Could be this guy who is taking her on the trip, could be local guys. Women get very horny when traveling (desire to sample the local seed), so she'll either be fucking trip guy or some of the local alphas within a day or two, for certain.

            Beta bitch boi at home in Nova Scotia has some learning to do.

            [–]AugmentedFury 8 points9 points  (0 children)

            if that boyfriend has any dignity he would throw that bitch like a piece of garbage to the curb.

            The comments on the article from of course females are so cringe worthy.

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              [–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

              but couldn't it be argued her b/f would be disrespecting her by denying her once in a life time dream vacation?

              He shouldn't deny or try persuade her to not go, simply "You go, just don't come back expecting to find me."

              [–]themanbat 8 points9 points  (5 children)

              This reminds me of an ex. We had known each other since high school, but only seriously dated for the past two years. Before we dated, she had married and had two kids, but then divorced, and I, still carrying the torch from high school, was all too happy to make her my girlfriend. We've been talking about marriage, but I need to finish school first. I start studying for the bar exam, and thus have less time to spend with her. She's into cycling, and meets the owner of a bicycle shop. He immediately starts hitting on her and giving her discounts. She tells me about it right away, and I say, "Haha, well buy all the bike stuff you need now then." I figure she'll go back for the discount once maybe and that will be it. Nope. She starts going back to the shop every week to hang out. He texts her a ton, and she always volunteers to show me the texts to maintain that it's all on the up and up, but clearly he wants to date her.

              This guy likes to compete in bicycle races, and invites her to go along with him to some big bicycle race out of town as part of his "support team." There are supposedly several other people going, and hotel rooms will be shared.

              I say, "Whoa, I don't think you going on a sleepover with this guy who has been practically begging to bang you is a good idea. Definitely not comfortable with that."

              After complaining that I'm being unreasonable for a while she says, "You can't control me. I can do what I want."

              I say, "That's right. I'm not trying to control you. You can do what you want. I just want someone who has some respect for my feelings."

              She says, "I'm going and that's that."

              I say, "Fine. Do what you want. We're done."

              She was shocked. Then hysterical. Then did all kinds of shenanigans to try and meet with me again to talk it out. No thanks. This was far from the only problem, but it was definitely the last straw. I was done.

              [–]kankaswag 2 points3 points  (3 children)

              "You can't control me. I can do what I want." - the words of a cheater

              [–]drrtyfrrnr 2 points3 points  (2 children)

              "I'm my own woman! I'm not your property!"

              [–]tulio2 11 points12 points  (1 child)

              ya know... i'd comment about this but i can't say anything that should be taken seriously until i know... what kind of a puppy?

              [–]RedPill_S 8 points9 points  (0 children)

              This is pre-meditated hamstering.

              "This is totally sort of like as friends,"

              It's not as friends, but it sort of is, so if anything happens it was meant to be!

              "I have a pretty serious boyfriend. We've been together for a while. We're planning on buying a house and we have a puppy, so yeah I'm not really looking for anything at all."

              Not REALLY looking for anything at all.

              [–]StarkAtheist 5 points6 points  (0 children)

              I absolutely LOVE all her qualifiers... like her having a "pretty serious boyfriend" and "I'm really not looking for anything."

              She just needed to add "kinda" and "prolly" a few times and she can justify ANYTHING she's going to do on this orgy of a vacation.

              "I am prolly not gonna get TOO drunk... and he kinda came inside me."

              [–]LukesLikeIt 7 points8 points  (0 children)

              He should pretend he found a girl on craigslist willing to do a similar thing with him and see how she reacts. I bet she'd change her tune pretty quick.

              [–]Mightyskunk 5 points6 points  (1 child)

              Oh my goodness. Have you seen the interview with her yet? Her face already says this trip is going to be bad for her dude.

              [–]stankbucket 6 points7 points  (0 children)

              When she said "I want to be a social worker" I knew all I needed to know. My ex is a social worker and she and every other SW I met through her were simply batshit crazy.

              [–]anti_erection_man 4 points5 points  (0 children)

              She will suck his dick so much her boyfriend might notice a change in taste when she comes back and kisses him.

              [–]Antibuddy 24 points25 points  (9 children)

              This is a lose-lose-lose situation for the bf. Right now, he's losing. When she fucks this guy and possibly ends up with him, he's losing. But what you guys need to also understand is that if he left her he would also lose.

              The story gained national media attention. Instead of it being "her boyfriend is waiting patiently at home during this unusual turn of events," it would be, "she was in a relationship but her boyfriend left her because of this." It would be seen as a complete overreaction on his part and his name would effectively be worth shit locally. Even if his name isn't published, people who know her would know the situation.

              Take a moment to feel sorry for this guy. This is the state of affairs we find ourselves in. Backed into corners, no decent options, forced to pretend to believe fabricated realities. If you feel disrespected by a situation like this, if you feel like it's too inappropriate to tolerate, then you're insecure or you're paranoid or you're a controlling, abusive monster. You're the bad guy.

              But it's cool because men make a a few more cents per dollar than women, or because if you're tall enough you have a slightly higher chance at a high-responsibility position. That's the trade off for being held hostage emotionally and socially. What a shitty fucking deal.

              [–]Endorsed Contributorcocaine_face 18 points19 points  (4 children)

              His name wouldn't be shit locally.

              Holding the position of, "No, going on trips with other men for months is not cool" or even, "I don't think our relationship can work with that distance" would be fine, and respected.

              Whining and being like, "No, she can't go!!!!" would be looked on poorly, if he did that though.

              [–]Antibuddy 5 points6 points  (3 children)

              You make the mistake a lot of people make in thinking that others actually pay attention to the details of your conversation. A quick trip through the legal system would open your eyes. There would be one single fact: he broke up with her because she wanted to go on this trip with another guy. HOW he did it won't mean shit. No one will care. Once people hear that, they will already have their biases formed and there's nothing you can do.

              [–]Endorsed Contributorcocaine_face 2 points3 points  (2 children)

              So somehow people aren't going to pay attention to how he broke up with her, but are somehow going to remember his name and think poorly of him for a long time? Totally.

              [–]Antibuddy 4 points5 points  (1 child)

              Yeah man. Are you serious? Have you never witnessed significant drama? No one gives a fuck about you or your details. People are idiots. They can only comprehend and remember so much. If you aren't close with someone, they'll only remember broad facts about you. When it comes to acquaintances and friends-of-friends, you can take the nuances of your situation and shove them up your ass. The fact this isn't obvious to you means you need more experience, and you probably need to keep a low profile because you're likely to fuck up, thinking that people will understand "as long as they know the deets." Come on, man.

              [–]redpillexplainsit 6 points7 points  (1 child)

              VIDEO OF BF'S INITIAL REACTION: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TWvH7jEpMdA&t=0m57s 0:58-1:30

              [–]THGM_BG 3 points4 points  (0 children)

              Just FYI, this one is fake.

              [–]sarcasmicMAN 3 points4 points  (2 children)

              I think we should connect with other high status males for advice. Someone else here said it that guys need to link up. Stop this sausage fest nonsense, degrading talk to other males it only hurts men. I bet if this guy had a network of brothers like women have this wouldn't be happening to this poor dude. I used to think i was just a wolf howling at the moon because no one had the same ideas as TRP. This poor dude is probably watching "the one" walk out and he's devastated.

              [–]rpscrote 5 points6 points  (0 children)

              Fucking LOL: "What do you want to do with your life?" She says "Keep the student mind set .... you know... and hang out with my dog."

              She mentions hanging out with her fucking dog but doesn't mention her boyfriend even once. So fucking selfish

              [–]TimPartendale 2 points3 points  (0 children)

              Saw this story pop up on my facebook feed an hour ago and smiled, "I know TRP will love this shit."

              Come onto TRP, and lookie here! Top post.

              I'm hoping that we get a followup from the media indicating that she dumped her old boyfriend for the jet-setter.

              [–]colucci 4 points5 points  (0 children)

              Even my gf laughed at this guy.

              [–]Seuguh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

              Lmao this so funny. I have a friend who has a girlfriend. They've been together for a year now I think? Anyways, she recently got flown to Canada by an older male "friend" of hers, while she's in a relationship with my boy. Funny thing is my boy has a job (27), nothing too major but he gets by; he told her he would take her to Canada when he has the money. She told him that he (my boy) knows that she always wanted to go to Canada and the opportunity just presented itself to her and he should be happy for her. My boy is pretty Beta and was arguing how fucked up it is for her to accept the offer even though she's in a relationship with him etc.

              I told him to drop her, I layed some TRP on him, but that didnt help. God help his soul.

              [–]wakingslowdiver 2 points3 points  (0 children)

              ''don't know if I would call Jordan Axani a complete stranger. His story has been in the media for months. With that in mind, I would probably have no problems if my wife was this girl. The trip is going to be documented and shared online and with the media attention they are getting free and separate rooms from the Marriott. That says to me that the odds are in favour of them not doing anything with each other outside of enjoying their vacation. Many people say that this woman is disrespecting her b/f by taking this trip, but couldn't it be argued her b/f would be disrespecting her by denying her once in a life time dream vacation?''

              this is how bluepillers think. the delusion is strong.

              [–]agent_conway 2 points3 points  (0 children)

              If hoes were loyal there wouldn't be a song stating the exact opposite

              [–]thinktankman 3 points4 points  (0 children)

              deserves everything that is coming to him

              [–]NorthernSpectre 2 points3 points  (0 children)

              Oh god this physically hurts to read..

              [–]Night--Writer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

              The comments on that article are a hamsters wet dream.

              This is as blatant as hypergamy gets and she's chalking it up to always wanting to travel? I hope this guy who's dating her cuts his losses to bad luck and never looks back.

              [–]Bowsa2511 2 points3 points  (0 children)

              Yeah.... boyfriend's not the only one that's getting screwed

              [–]aaronpaws 2 points3 points  (0 children)

              Commenting mainly because I need to see what happens with this.

              But also. Fuck that bitch. Is she really that oblivious?

              Come to think of it. Fuck her boyfriend and fuck the dude who started the whole thing. All three of them are bat shit.

              [–]usku 2 points3 points  (0 children)

              Was wondering how long this article would take to post here. When I read it earlier, I thought 2-3 weeks max before she gets railed in a foreign country.

              Wonder how long till we see her current boyfriend post in Ask Beta...

              [–]redwormcharlie 5 points6 points  (0 children)

              Guy looks fit, and young. She'll bang him, no doubt.

              [–]balancespec2 4 points5 points  (2 children)

              Poor chick's BF got his life ruined by Reddit. His heart must have sunk when he saw the news looking for a chick with the exact same name as his gf.

              [–]loknarash 12 points13 points  (1 child)

              Random guy locks eyes with boyfriend while meeting girl for the first time, deep tonguing her while groping her ass. Girl cums a little, meekly whispers, "It's all platonic skinship sweety, I didn't feel anything from that" as her knees are giving out. Guy is mad rubbing her pussy as he shoves her into his car and peels off for the airport. Upon touchdown in Europe, random guy watches numbly as his 23 year old cum receptacle is swiftly captured and pounded by 20 dune-dwellers in the airport while he is arrested and beaten by security for bringing too much shampoo. Ah, progressive liberalism.

              [–]BabyUnicornKebab 4 points5 points  (1 child)

              As someone who has backpacked through most of Europe with girls as "friends." All I can say is lololololol. She's gonna get banged out by either the guy she's traveling or the first dude with a funny accent that starts spitting game to her. Seriously I don't care how sweet/smart/innocent looking she seems, she will slip up. Girls who travel alone are a big red flag to me, and I think anyone who has traveled alone will agree.

              [–]rpscrote 1 point2 points  (0 children)

              yes, for the love of god yes. they dont even try to hide it, literally go hunting for some foreign dick because its somehow magical and special. Really good filtering mechanism though -- when I went abroad with a bunch of chicks a very small minority actually did not slut around, LTR'd the only hot one.

              [–]AnotherLostCause 1 point2 points  (0 children)

              There is some epic hamstering going on in this story. I am sure it will end well for the boyfriend.

              [–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

              Well...

              I mean maybe he's into the whole being cuckolded thing and decided to roll the dice, you know? lol

              [–]yummyluckycharms 1 point2 points  (2 children)

              Obviously the boyfriend is an idiot - the guy booked rooms expecting to take his girlfriend - meaning one bed.

              Also - i dont get why commentators are calling the guy a high status male? He works in semi-crown corp where he makes probably 70k and they can afford to send him away for 3 months. Ummm.....hello? If your company can get by without you for 3 months, then he probably isnt very important.

              [–]Mightaswellmakeone 1 point2 points  (0 children)

              There was a Bill Burr post here the other day. In the clip, Bill talked about how a bf broke up with his gf by moving when she was out of town. If the guy here does anything less, it's unacceptable.

              [–]GhostOfAladdin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

              If my girl decided this was cool...id know i'd screwed deep down.

              [–]Killigraphy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

              The guy looks like a stud, definitely gonna fuck her. Its both convenient and expected that he would pic a girl above a 5 to go with him...I didn't exactly expect him to drag around a warpig with him to see what are definitely gonna be romantic/fuck sites.

              She can hamster all she wants, she wants at least one more go around the carousel.

              [–]LittleCrazee 2 points3 points  (2 children)

              I honestly hope he snubs the bitch and doesn't bang her.

              Any cunt willing to leave her "pretty serious" boyfriend who she's planning on buying a house with to travel the world with some random dude isn't worth my cum.

              [–]Talkshitgethit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

              Women will swing branches if your frame isn't tight, she'll fuck a higher status male regardless, might as well be you.