Bit of backstory:
Met this girl in a bar when she was "out with her friends" (gonna call her Kerry). We chatted but she resisted any attempts to escalate. She took my number and texted me 2 days later suddenly turning agressive as hell wanting to come to my place to "hang out". I'd say she's a solid 6.
After we'd banged for the third time I was teasing her about being so resistant when we first met and found out she has a fiance. Well too bad I'd been with her a couple times already so it didn't really matter. One of the "friends" she was with at the time was her fiance's brother.
Fast forward about 3 weeks and she's become one of my secondry plates who comes to visit on weekends. She eventually spills the feels (I dont remember this word for word but its close enough).
Kerry: Do you think we could ever be more than friends?
Me: Nope, I could never trust you.
Kerry: What? Why?
Me: Well Kerry, you told me pretty late that you are engaged. I dont think you could ever be loyal to one guy.
Kerry: What?! Yes I could! If I really loved him! (She's clearly pissed at this point)
Me: Well do you love your fiance? How could you say yes to a guy you dont love?
Kerry: Yes I do and I dont see how thats any bussiness of yours! (she starts to get dressed to leave)
Me: (laughing) Alright Kerry. You did ask, I was just being honest.
Kerry: You're such an asshole! I cant believe you! I thought we had something special!
The rest of the talk doesn't really matter because she got dressed and left. Got to love that hamster though, you are allowed to have all the fun you want and if someone holds you to a standard, well dont worry the hamster will make you out to be the victim.
I'm not sure this is relevant but probably warrants mention. What she does when she comes to visit me is she tells her fiance that she's stressed, tired and her back is sore so she goes for a "massage" on weekends. She stops by her massage clinic on her way to me and buys a voucher from them, her fiance gets a text about money deducted on their credit card from "x massage parlor". Thought this may be valuable info. I have a few of these vouchers myself that she gave me for back massages and crap.
TLDR: Cheating plate wants to be more than a plate. I say no cause she cant be loyal. The hamster makes me to the asshole for breaking something "special".