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[–]sterlinghtsmi 302 points303 points  (23 children)

My mom is going out tonight with a dude she met in a parking lot. :/

[–]1menergize[S] 124 points125 points  (15 children)

I just got done with my evening. IF this was your mom, she's going to walk crooked for weeks brah.

[–]Archeoleon 4 points5 points  (14 children)

Check his posting history. Unless you're going to date a 60 year old i doubt that it is really his mother. His first post says he's 42, he's a troll.

[–]RojoEscarlata 48 points49 points  (0 children)

A troll

Back in the day we just called it “joking"

[–]1menergize[S] 13 points14 points  (10 children)

haha, it was more wishful thinking. The odds are astronomical, all of that aside.

[–]3 Endorsed ContributorSkorchZang 17 points18 points  (9 children)

That was fuckign funny though! and an absolutely top notch FR

[–]1menergize[S] 9 points10 points  (8 children)

Thanks bro. She just texted me, "I needed that. Thank you."


[–]3 Endorsed ContributorSkorchZang 7 points8 points  (7 children)

I've got a weakness for this kind of chicks... I forget what the exact name for it is, some japanese thing. But it's usually the daughters of cops or military dads, they got a super unapproachable exterior yet a mild almost contempuous tone of voice, sarcastic to a fault, and where other girls want to tell you about their life story she'll be like "ten four", or "30min". Super laconic. You're there wondering "30 min what?" and then realize she mean she's coming over in 30 min..haha

The type always responds spectacular to bullshit-cutting dominance and dark triad, you were obviously spot on making the call.

[–]1menergize[S] 6 points7 points  (5 children)

I'm going to investigate this for the sake of what you've explained. I bet somewhere she has an ultra authoritative male figure in her life that she views as the image of what a man she should be.

[–]TestosteroneFilled 4 points5 points  (4 children)

I bet somewhere she has an ultra authoritative male figure in her life that she views as the image of what a man she should be.

No offense but if that were the case she wouldn't have fucked a guy she met the same day mate.

[–]1bicepsblastingstud 0 points1 point  (3 children)

Nah, it depends on whether her father figure had a good mix of provider traits or was all hard-ass authoritarian, all the time.

This isn't scientific, but I've found that girls who have purely authoritarian fathers (with few loving/provider traits) tend to have zero tolerance for bullshit, but also leave a huge string of discarded sexual partners in their wake.

[–]PenetratingGranny 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybebit was me banging his 60yr old mum. I knew I was in when she started putting those little sachets of butter into her purse. See the thing with trying to game older women is that it really doesn't matter what you say, they will dry up regardless.

[–]juanqunt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your humor meter is broken. Negged.

[–]ilovemyself101 4 points5 points  (2 children)

please update, thats too funny redpiller fucks redpiller's mom

[–]1menergize[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Posted an edit. Not many details, but, I highly doubt it was sterling's mother. However. I wish it was, because the epicness that could ensue would be something that would eclipse most of the randomness and coincidences I've experienced thus far in my life.

[–]sinfulmentos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is just jokes man

[–]ChaletBoy 96 points97 points  (4 children)

It's funny, she was probably interested the whole time but didn't bother putting in an ounce of effort forth. Now she is dressing up in a LBD and plans on getting ravaged from a guy in a pet store parking lot that threw a couple of canned lines her way and made his intentions clear.

Women have true abundance mentality. And they are petty.

Reminds me of a plate this weekend...."I don't have sex on the first date, I respect myself too much, but you're making it hard not to follow that rule" Fine. I lose all interest in making out and fall asleep, 630am she nudges me awake....."this is like our 2nd date now".

Getting real tired of the game. Sluts gonna sloot.

[–]1menergize[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I know where you're at. I was there before my last LTR. This is my advice to you: Up your standards. Make it a game again. If you see a HB6.5-HB7 that you would normally approach, even though my philosophy is ALWAYS approach, don't.

Just don't. You're not at a point to always approach, imo. You may have, from what you've written, hit the top 20% already. Even top 10%.

It's going to be tough at first because you're reconditioning something that you've learned. But true abundance means that if you see some woman that you see fits within previous standards and those previous standards offered you a pavlovian response, it's going to be a hard thing to break. It's chemistry.

So, recondition yourself. Turn it into a challenge. If you can bear not fucking every hot chick that crosses your path just because you can, everything becomes a bit more clear. The women become an accessory to your success, and life takes a turn.

Personally, I make well into the six figures at my current occupation. I never use this in my game though, but I would not be at the point I am at now, if I put women first the whole time. They don't want you to brag about your hard work and success. They want it to be effortless, like you're a fucking anomaly.

They want you to be the hot air balloon that they get to hitch a ride on but are fearful you might pitch them out of at 10,000 feet, at any point in time.

Take this into consideration. And re-work your definition of success in the game that we play, and see if it becomes more fulfilling.

[–]100 Modbsutansalt 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You let a woman sleep in your bed without having sex? Weird. Then again this reads more like a freeze-out, so I guess it worked in your favor.

[–]fakeAk -3 points-2 points  (1 child)

Reminds me of a plate this weekend...."I don't have sex on the first date...

If you didnt fuck her yet, she is not a plate.

[–]www777com 16 points17 points  (1 child)

"No offense, but I don't want to be friends."

I think the above line was perfect. You know why you failed the first time? It's because you were not real. She knows you don't give a damn about what kind of dog she has. She knows the real reason you asked is because you were attracted to her. That's why she was apprehensive--you're being fake by pretending to be interested in her dog. She knows you're another umpteenth guy trying to open her up.

On the second approach, the light banter (the neg rat thing) shows her you're playful. You even indirectly asked her out on a date with the dogs-play-date thing. She knows you're being for real here (by expressing you want to go on a date with her) but have enough tact to not be so blatant but yet still playful. She playfully shit tests you with the we-can't-be-friends thing. Then, with your line about not wanting to be friends, you're basically saying, though indirectly, "look, do I have to spell it out for you?! I just want to go on a date with you!" And that line worked on her because she knows for sure you're being for real--not fake. That's why I think you line was perfect because the whole time, she's trying to read the subtext and that line spoke loud and clear what you really want and she correctly surmised, "good, he's not trying bullshit me".

[–]antariusz 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I like the way you translate womanize into English. It's literally the embodiment of "just be yourself". She wanted a man who was interested and direct with her, not trying to fuck her through becoming friends with her dog.

[–]1GRRMkills 11 points12 points  (1 child)

I have to admit, I would've given up on this girl, but you made up for the mistakes in store with some pretty on point game after. To me, this is more of a reminder to keep trying since you've got nothing to lose anyways

[–]Masonjarteadrinker2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think I would have also, with that stupid ass response she gave, props to OP for giving it another shot. I'll think about this next time that happens to me, got nothing to lose anyways.

[–]Temptationn 5 points6 points  (3 children)

So bed bath and beyond is the new place huh?

[–]1menergize[S] 10 points11 points  (2 children)

Lmao. No. But in all honesty, the grocery store from the hours of 11 AM to 4 PM is your best bet for day game. Anyone else is lying to you.

[–]Maaahoney 5 points6 points  (1 child)

It's also filled with old women that cut coupons. Target is the place for college chicks. They are everywhere!

[–]1menergize[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is also sound advice, specifically target near the shampoo aisle, if it's near the makeup section like ours.

[–]Hamilton950B 8 points9 points  (3 children)

I particularly like this: "It's a fucking dive, but dress up anyway. We're not going for the setting."

One question. I understand being late, it lets her know you're in control of the situation, but isn't 40 minutes risky? Did you text her during the 40 minutes?

[–]RojoEscarlata 0 points1 point  (1 child)

Not fail scenario, if the girl shows she will wait and the breaking point is pretty obvious since she will text/call you the moment she feels that you are being too late.

[–]1menergize[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah this is true. I've been REAL late to a date before, like almost an hour, and the girl called me to say she wasn't staying if I wasn't showing soon.

Still banged her.

[–]1menergize[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was 40 minutes late because she showed up about 10 early, and then I had a stop to make at my brother's place that took longer than I thought it would. That being said, I knew that I was late, and did not initiate a text with her. However, she texted me once I was about 20 minutes late, and said "I'm here waiting whenever you show" and I just said "k"

In reality, I guess I was only 30 minutes late, but she was waiting for 40.

[–]Mire_Lurker 11 points12 points  (1 child)

Noice. You're a bit of an over analyzer but that can be a good thing.

You should finish your report with an edit later on.

[–]REDitor100 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The more you get into the mastery of anything, you notice more details. Especially if you aren't a natural, you're definitely going to be analytical and it does nothing but help you.

[–]Kaladar 16 points17 points  (23 children)

I like your style and your results speak for themselves.

But I don't think the obvious sexual language is necessary to get your point across. Specifically I think you head there too early.

Why not keep the conversation harmless but let your intentions show more in your frame, eye contact, body language, and smile?

Of course if your way works, "I ain't mad atcha". I just want to put my perspective out here to share.

[–]1menergize[S] 13 points14 points  (4 children)

Why do it at all? I want to fuck her, I don't need friends. But she does. Because male friends give women validation, because they're friends. Thus, the friendzone. We don't want to be there. We don't want to be with the group of men that care about her job and the dynamics she has at work, and her family, and friends, and all the stories of gossip and shit talking she wants to tell us about her personal relationships.

Because really, most friendzoned guys just get to hear about all the shit that's wrong in her personal life. How do I know this? I was there once. It was almost a decade ago, but I vowed never to go back there.

You shouldn't either.

That's the simplest explanation I can give. When you text her, or call her, you want her to think, "I'm getting a good one tonight. I'm going to have a hard time picking something up tomorrow." End of thought.

That's just my philosophy though. Your mileage may vary. It's about frame, because if your frame doesn't match what you are telling the woman, she's going to smell it. Just like the one in the store smelled it on me, I was going for way more than a conversation, but I held conversation, and the interaction became incongruent.

If you want to be on a more intimate level, let her see that. Period.

[–]Kaladar 4 points5 points  (3 children)

I appreciate your insight here and I think we have very similar views on this.

We definitely agree that making our intentions known is key, I won't debate that.

My response was not to say that your core method was flawed but to provide some insight into a way that you could tweak your approach for even greater success.

I am suggesting that your message to her does not change, but the medium by which you transmit the message does.

In your story you were blunt with her and used your words. Sometimes this can work.

I suggest that you transmit the same message through non verbal means.

My goal is to one day bang a chick without having so say a single word,probably impossible, but you get the picture.

And to kind of give you a little history on me and where I'm coming from. I have had to try and game a lot of foreign women in my day, they don't get all of our jokes and lines, so body language, eye contact, smile was all I could rely on and it was more than enough.

[–]1menergize[S] 3 points4 points  (2 children)

With women that don't speak english it all changes. You say even less I think, but I understand where you are coming from. I think we are agreeing here on most parts for sure.

I, personally, I have tried even less talk and more nonverbal, or even different verbal cues, but with my height which at 5' 7" I view on the shorter end of average, I have to really stand out and be different. I'm working against guys with ?" (unknown inches) on me, and at any point a guy that's 6' 1" with weak game can match a guy my size with slightly better game.

My shit has to be direct, and on point. Period. Any less for a guy my height, even with my build, puts me at a disadvantage against guys with worse game and better natural SMV (height, build, etc.).

This is just truth, and nature. But, I still agree with the points you raise. I think it will depend on a wide array of things, but, in my situation, I think after some years of testing that this method is probably optimal for me. However, it may not be optimal for EVERY person, I think it will be more optimal than most of the strategies that men are employing, thus why I share it.

It should be dually noted that some guys with naturally high SMV (I'm talking Brad Pitt/Johnny Depp status), might be better served by playing a bit more of the game within the comfort stage because there can be even more LMR with men that have the tip top genes. I had a roommate that had this problem. Which is counter intuitive to us as men, but it's true in some cases. I know in the post I make a point that if you have any SMV that you should escalate, but in this case, I'm talking about the tip top 2% of all men, which, mostly, won't be on this subreddit nor seeking this advice because their passive successes will keep them satisfied.

[–]16 Endorsed ContributorCyralea 1 point2 points  (1 child)

It should be dually noted that some guys with naturally high SMV (I'm talking Brad Pitt/Johnny Depp status), might be better served by playing a bit more of the game within the comfort stage because there can be even more LMR with men that have the tip top genes

Huh. That actually explains a lot. I've always wondered why my experiences with LMR often varied with that of my friends.

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[–]LeatherJacketQ 3 points4 points  (17 children)

Why not be direct if you can be direct?

[–]Sarbo 11 points12 points  (11 children)

Some women can't handle that kind of pressure, her heart starts racing she panics and leaves.

[–]Red_SoloCup 5 points6 points  (5 children)

The way I see it, if they try to get you to escalate and you don't, you just bought yourself an all-expenses paid one-way ticket to the friendzone. If they want you to be direct, do it. Also, it'll pay off in bed later.

[–]Sarbo -2 points-1 points  (3 children)

Oh no doubt if you think they are trying to get you to escalate you should, but unless you're a 9 or a 10 you still have to start towards the bottom and game her.

[–]1menergize[S] 10 points11 points  (2 children)

Starting towards the bottom immediately qualifies you as BB status. Just fuck all that man. If the bottom end of the game was going to work, you're attractive enough to her, if not she's literally going to tell you to get lost and fuck off.

If you get that feeling, try again elsewhere.

If not, then escalate, as fast as she lets you. If it's too fast, she won't run away, she'll let you know with nonverbal cues. Slow down, recalibrate, the build a bit of comfort if she shows a bit of hesitance. Then re-initiate the kino, and escalate again. You will progress every time if you are doing it right.

If you are doing it wrong, you'll get the same rejection every time you go to escalate, whatever that rejection was.

[–]Sarbo 2 points3 points  (1 child)

I guarantee if your first line with this chick was "you want to fuck later?" She would panic and run away. You can't start jumping right into the end game, but you can escalate as fast if she is receptive. That being said, how'd the night go?

[–]1menergize[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

But I didn't say "You want to fuck later?" I gave her little hamster the idea of our dogs meeting to run with, and let him do the work. And that wasn't even the situation that eventually surfaced with her at my house. Which is the greatest part.

I watched for indications that she was interested, the hair grabbing, giggling, and went for the number. I got it, this validates her interest in me. This validates everything I needed to then assume I am going to have a chance to escalate this to any level I wish later.

Whether or not that gets executed is another story. In this situation, the night went fine. We had drinks, and it was a standard pull back to my place and close. Then she drove home after I mentioned that I normally don't have people stay the night.

[–]1menergize[S] 0 points1 point  (4 children)

All women can handle that pressure. Whether or not your frame and physical non-verbal cues match what you are going for... that is a whole other question and issue.

We're talking hundreds of thousands of years of evolution, with hundreds of years of social influence sprinkled in. Heavy social and media influence, but nonetheless, nothing compared to what is in her genes. What is natural, and primal for her. It's communicated with words, where previously cavemen would just grab and carry a woman where she needed to go.

Is it something that is natural to all men? No, the opposite is natural now because of the logic of men and the effects of social influence (my opinion). Was it natural to me? No. Can it be learned? Yes.

[–]Sarbo 1 point2 points  (3 children)

I agree with you but you also have to keep in mind the social dynamics are a lot different now, most women go 20+ years before a real man comes around and taps into her on a primal level.

[–]1menergize[S] 0 points1 point  (2 children)

But once he does, it's primal. She can't resist or decide that. How that primal instinct is accessed can vary very slightly from woman to woman, but for the most part, it involves triggering the part of her brain responsible for handling interactions of a sexual nature.

The only way to trigger that part of her brain? Be direct.

[–]Sarbo 0 points1 point  (1 child)

I understand what you're saying but if you're too direct it won't work. Just like you I'd rather be too direct than not direct enough.

She's been taught her whole life to suppress her desires so if you try to hard to fast without building comfort she's going to experience cognitive dissonance and essentially flee.

This isn't the caveman days anymore, appealing to her primal instincts is huge but that alone won't guarantee a close. Escalate exponentially. Keep up the good work.

[–]Cog_Dissonance_Bot 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In psychology, cognitive dissonance is the mental stress or discomfort experienced by an individual who holds two or more contradictory beliefs, ideas, or values at the same time, or is confronted by new information that conflicts with existing beliefs, ideas, or values.

[–]Kaladar 7 points8 points  (4 children)

Fair question.

I would say that direct plain talk is a man's game. When we speak to each other, we want information, leave the emotions and color out, just give me the 1s and 0s. We would like women to come up to us and be like "let's bang".

With women, their concern is they don't want to "appear" to be sluts, they want to be seduced not convinced. They are emotional and insecure and other stuff this subreddit can go for days explaining...

Imagine in your mind a guy having a conversation with a woman, the words don't matter, but he's smiling, he's giving her direct eye contact, she blushes, he moves in closer and talks with a deep slow voice. A smooth guy like this could be asking her the weather while seducing her. He is subtle, his frame is strong, and his sexual energy engulfs her.

A guy like this is capable of success with more women because he can seduce them while not triggering any of their slut alarms to go off.

I do not claim to be this man, but I have been working on it and know first hand the powers of this more subtle yet aggressive game.

The goal is to seduce the girl with everything besides your words so that she can go back and say "yea It just kind of happened"

[–]RedHeimdall 2 points3 points  (1 child)

I agree. Especially during the daytime, I think it's better to be a little more subtle, a little more indirect. Night time, at a club, buzzed and dry humping on the dance floor? Go ahead and dispense with the subtlety.

[–]1menergize[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not all women are the same, but the vast majority of the ones we want to land and that we are actually interested in as the TRP community, are going to be the ones that respond to the more direct game.

If you go indirect, and eat up a bunch of blue pill philosophy on the approach and it works, you're nothing more than a beta bucks to her. It worked because that is what she was looking for.

If you are not the most aggressive man she has been with, that succeeded because he did not give a fuck if she didn't want him because the next would want him... then don't expect much from the long term end of things.

Because the next guy WILL be that. At least more-so than you were, and that's a promise because he IS the next guy, and he had MORE of whatever you had, on a more intense level.

[–]1menergize[S] 4 points5 points  (1 child)

I think you may have it backwards. At a club, everyone's trying to get it in, so to stand out, you kind of have to really put off a vibe that you will get it in, but you dgaf whether or not you do.

This shows abundance.

During the day, if you act like you don't want her on that level your results will suffer, horribly. I'm talking like you could probably increase your number of successes by 300-400% (yes that's 3-4x what you are doing now) just by being more direct.

You will stand out more. If you don't stand out, you are no different than the check stand guy she has a chat with while buying groceries, or the dude that is selling her the wine she buys to drink at home by herself because the guy she met in the parking lot at the store didn't decide to ask her to share a bottle with him instead.

[–]RedHeimdall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope, my day game results improved significantly by shifting to less direct.

But direct vs. indirect, it's a spectrum we're talking about here... On one extreme your opener is "Nice tits, wanna fuck?" and on the other extreme you make smalltalk about the weather for 10 minutes. Neither extreme is optimal, we want to be somewhere in the middle. Depending on the context of who you are as a guy (your SMV relative to the girl's, your social skill level, what kind of approaches you're used to doing, etc.) you may want to target a different place on the spectrum.

What I'm saying is that I agree with the standard advice and have found it to be generally true: that in day game you aim more toward the indirect end of the spectrum than in night game, where you aim more toward the direct end of the spectrum.

[–]1runnerrun2 2 points3 points  (1 child)

I showed up 40 minutes late to the bar,

Did you do this on purpose? How did you explain it? This is one thing I'd never do personally because it'd piss me off if this was done to me. Am I wrong?

[–]1menergize[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not on purpose at all, just had a few things to handle, and she was about 10 minutes early. I guess I was 30 minutes late, as I said to another poster, since she showed up early. However, she was waiting for 40.

That being said... I'm almost always the second party to show up if we didn't ride together. They always wait.

[–]Poskito 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your FR! We need more positive posts like this on TRP.

[–]Maaahoney 1 point2 points  (1 child)

Awesome. And BBB was one of my pickup practice grounds for a while. Nothing but women and a few gay guys.

So, did you show up 40 minutes late on purpose? Sounds like that was done intentionally. Showing up late is still something i can't get myself to do.

[–]1menergize[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will show up late on purpose depending on the girl, yes, but no more than 15 minutes normally.

If I know her well, she's a plate, or this isn't our first date and we're just reconnecting, I probably won't push the envelope as much. Fresh girl, never fucked her, never been out with her -- she's waiting, at least 5-10 minutes.

[–]mkvi-ca 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Directly leading with a question will always end up in a shit response, you have their guard up already.

Asking what kind of dog she has is a good question, but I would lead it better.

"I'm not sure if [Insert colour of dog coat] is your colour."

Then you can converse with her guard down, and you're in.

[–]Talkshitgethit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I showed up 40 minutes late to the bar

I'd be real careful about doing that in the future, she obviously stayed and it worked out, but some will leave if you're going to be THAT late.

[–]bama79rolltide 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The part I enjoyed most was the recovery. This is what I think red pill mentality is about. Your abundance mentality spoke volumes. Game works, when executed lightly. Day game at his finest. Roosh would be proud.

Enjoy the evening!

[–]Olipyr 1 point2 points  (7 children)

I'm gonna go with she's a flake.

Unless otherwise noted by the OP. If so, congrats OP.

[–]Subhazard 16 points17 points  (4 children)

If a girl gets all dressed up and sends you a snapchat, she's not gonna flake.

[–]Olipyr 4 points5 points  (2 children)

We've all had them. Some of them just want the validation and satisfaction of rejecting a guy. That's just the vibe I got from the chick in OPs story.

[–]esco_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

lol if shes all dressed up ready to go on the night they are having a date, shes not flaking

[–]SemenMoustache 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Someone's dressed up, sent you a picture asking if she looks good, and then flaked on you?

I honestly think you're in a small minority here

[–]1menergize[S] 9 points10 points  (1 child)

She bought me three beers. We went to my house. It took 15 minutes to get her completely undressed and in my room.

It took 3 more hours to end up here, with her happily gone on her way to her house. This was closed in the parking lot man. I had no doubt.

[–]YoungHef 0 points1 point  (0 children)

|Frame Was King.

Nice story OP.

[–]Holden_Frame 0 points1 point  (1 child)

Very well done FR. Although you caught a bit of a break getting a second bite of the apple in the parking lot, you made it count.

What's especially great is that maybe she thought immediately saw you as some random "short guy" and you showed just how quickly that surface prejudice can be erased by becoming the "interesting / cool / fit / funny guy".

For reference - what was your / her ethnicity and height?

[–]1menergize[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm a 5'7" white male, she's about 5'2" mixed, but more than 75% white from what I gathered. Maybe a hint of some islander, or Hawaiian or something. I didn't ask, tbh.

[–]PublicallyViewable 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I grab my phone, go to the contact book, add a new record, type her name in, and I say, "Only getting more popular, here, put your number in my phone." She did, I joked with her about it being fake, called her (so she has my number now) and proceeded to tell her I would call her to grab drinks this week before I leave town.

I see this used a lot in TRP. To me, joking about it being fake seems insecure as fuck, as if you've gotten a lot of fake numbers before or as if you think she's out of your league and you're expecting her to not like you enough to give you a real number.

Can someone explain to me how it doesn't come across this way?

[–]CruzeControl1 0 points1 point  (1 child)

How old are you man?? I feel like you have a ton of experience with pick up. Great read btw

[–]ZeeyardSA 0 points1 point  (0 children)

FUCK THIS!!!!! WHERE the Fuck was I 11 years ago to not know about the RED PILL!!!! Motherfucker!!!

[–]acquiesce213 -1 points0 points  (1 child)

Is anyone here not a sociopath?

[–]fatfaggotfuck69 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You know, I don't think there is anything wrong with what this guy did, and I don't know him, but while reading it I did pick up a sociopathic flavor. There is something about his writing style that is off putting.

People should do what works for them, but you don't always have to be some hard ass to get attention. Being "nice" is extremely effective as long as you aren't boring and have stuff going for you. Be goofy but cool, and make them feel like you get them. Then be wild in bed. Do you think Chris Pratt has to act like an entitled asshole to get women?

[–]Ulfberht14 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Taking a drunk girl home. Sounds like rape OP.

[–]Hippostalker -1 points0 points  (1 child)

What protein powder do you eat?

[–]shuaiya -1 points0 points  (2 children)

"No offense, but I don't want to be friends."

Anyone can get up to this point (banter, jokes, flirting) but I guarantee a line like this doesn't work for 99% the people reading this sub and nothing they read is going to change that. You pulled it off, though, so hats off to you.

[–]smokingmonkey420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What makes you say that? Seems like a general line that anyone could use to me.

[–]1menergize[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Body language, voice intonation, and delivery.

I can tell you a joke that's some comedian's, but it's not going to be as funny if I don't deliver it like they do.

Ever told a joke or told a story that was HILARIOUS to you at the time, but nobody laughed? Same thing.

[–]mstrmatt -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Haha damn dude 5'7" and you had the confidence to pull that off? Well done man

[–]karmacrunch -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Too much analysis, get a life

[–]2b8I -5 points-4 points  (2 children)

Inspiring post. 5'11 manlet gatekeeper here, nice to know there's people shorter than me that can do it. I shall remember this as I go to the gymnasium tomorrow, in the hopes that one day I will be as alpha as you.

[–]Endorsed ContributorScumbagBillionaire 6 points7 points  (1 child)

5'11" is not a manlet... Are you delusional or just misinformed? You're taller than most American males at that height as well as taller than the global average.

Unless you live in a Scandinavian country there's no way you could be considered a manlet...