The quote in the title is pretty much the bottomline.
This whole movement is just bullshit. Basically, feminists are now providing women with a systematic inherent method to hamster away "regret sex" (aka sex with beta males they want to distance themselves from afterwards).
Now, if they didn't say "please insert your penis", then sex legally and literally didn't happen; it now must be something else because it can no longer be sex. "Eww No I didn't have sex with next door Johnny! In fact...he raped me! by definition"
Young women, of course, will not respond to beta males who do this consent bullshit. They may not even consciously realize it, but they will still respond to alpha males who ignore their shit. Cue cognitive dissonance and self-doubt in an entire generation of girls who will now inundate the school newspaper with how depressed they are with their decision making.
Young men, on the other hand, are too misguided and inexperienced and bluepill. They simply want to get their dicks wet, and they will buy into whatever system seemingly sets them up for that. "Well she SAYS this is what she wants...but I did it and it didn't work. Pls help!"
I guess on the bright side, the 20/80 rule will become more like the 10/90 rule.