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[–]oldschoolmailman 282 points283 points  (44 children)

As a male who's been sexually assaulted, I've learned to just shut up about it and move on. I've spoken about the subject before and been told to stop being insensitive, stop appropriating the experience of survivors, stop mansplaining how sexual assault works. After I reveal that I'm speaking from experience, people will begin tripping over themselves and telling me that other examples are different and women are in constant fear of being assaulted, etc.

The bottom line, most of these social justice warriors and feminists don't give a damn about real victims or verifiable science that disputes their claims. If you're a male victim, then fuck off. No justice for you.

[–]1thrownaway_MGTOW 66 points67 points  (4 children)

most of these social justice warriors and feminists don't give a damn about real victims

True. And true regardless of the gender or age of the actual victims.

They really DON'T give a shit about them.

What the "social justice warriors" care about -- and really ALL that they care about -- is how they themselves can USE the "victims" for their own political purposes (and all too often enhancing their own status & careers and/or eventually their own salaries & wallets).

[–]sumdumguy-throwaway 27 points28 points  (2 children)

not to mention their own egos. "I'm saving the world!"

[–]1thrownaway_MGTOW 4 points5 points  (1 child)

I suppose there are some that (at least initially) are so deluded... but I think the vast majority of the "social worker" and the "social just warrior" types are well aware that they aren't actually doing anything that is even remotely related to "saving the world" (or really "saving" anything or anyone) -- that aspect is more for status and political strategic value than anything else.

[–]oldschoolmailman 7 points8 points  (0 children)

or facebook likes so they feel better about themselves.

[–]oldschoolmailman 4 points5 points  (0 children)

In my experience, fat cows behind keyboards only seeking self-validation.

[–]Jedesikus 68 points69 points  (3 children)

"The only way to win is not to play"

[–]oldschoolmailman 11 points12 points  (1 child)

It's sad, but it's the truth that's displayed daily on this sub. There is no such thing as gender equality, men are expendable.

[–]RedPill115 9 points10 points  (0 children)

George Orwell's Animal Farm:
Years pass, and the pigs start to resemble humans, as they walk upright, carry whips, and wear clothes. The Seven Commandments are abridged to a single phrase: "All animals are equal, but some animals are more equal than others".

[–]the_trp_dude 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Hijacking the top comment to say that this was posted by a regular in /r/RedPillWomen who eventually had to delete her account for fear of being doxxed. The post is titled "Reddit hates me" and it's still on the front page of the sub as of now.

[–]randomevenings 48 points49 points  (3 children)

I've learned to just shut up about it and move on.

It's for the best. You don't want to be a woman and use it as a crutch for the rest of your life.

[–]oldschoolmailman 10 points11 points  (1 child)

I realized a few things:

1) It's very possible to survive sexual assault, accept it, and move on- contrary to much of the hysteria surround the issue.

2) Men literally cannot speak about it openly. You will be shamed, silenced, and publicly humiliated. I thought initially that women, self-proclaimed feminists (like the one who assaulted me) would be the first people to defend and support me. Fucking. Dead. Wrong. Turns out we have to deal with it in the way we are socially expected to deal with problems. Have a whiskey, shut the fuck up, and deal with it.

[–]randomevenings 6 points7 points  (0 children)

When I was a teen, an older gay man tried to rape me. It's in the past and it hasn't affected me. I'm not defined by it. I simply don't talk about it because it's private. That is how men think. I believe some women wear their victimhood like a badge of honor. Well OK, but if you are going to be proud of it, you can't keep claiming you are a victim for the rest of your life.

I'm very happy to be alive and enjoying life. Rape is not worse than murder like feminists want us to think.

[–]PeteMullersKeyboard 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Seriously. Fuck that shit.

[–]a_nus 6 points7 points  (3 children)

As a male who's been sexually assaulted, I've learned to just shut up about it and move on

One of my best friends was sexually abused by his nanny when he was young. He's made the mistake of telling some people who he thought were close to him. All he got was ridicule and people talking shit behind his back.

[–]alpha_n3rd 6 points7 points  (1 child)

He made the mistake of thinking that fucktards were his friends.

[–]oldschoolmailman 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If I could go back, I would have not told anyone. Despite the popular BP narrative stating otherwise, people don't give a shit about the real problems men face. Discussing them invites ridicule.

[–]ShekelBanker 23 points24 points  (15 children)

You're not alone m8, been there too. I was at a small house party (no more than 14 people) a few years ago and there was this Spanish girl that took advantage of me when I was drunk. Mind you I I wasn't even close to be drunk enough to not know what was going on, hence why I remember the incident as clear as day. Was thinking of pressing charges then (this whole incident happened before getting RP'd) but I realised how ridiculous it would sound to the police that "I was raped by a woman". What is worse (or better, depends on your perspective) is that I knew that woman too well for at least 2 years. At that point, what triggered hatred of women in me was not the red pill nor how feminism just wrecks the society and the legal system, it was that incident. I learned to shut up and move on too, but it just sends me into a deep rage when if you're a raped guy no one gives a shit about you, but if you're a woman you don't even have to prove someone raped you to send someone to the freezer for a few years.

[–]john-b 11 points12 points  (12 children)

This should be a big pointer for men. Never get shitfaced at a party full of strangers. Always be sober enough you could physically repel any would-be rapers.

[–]ShekelBanker 2 points3 points  (9 children)

Thing is that back then who would expect a guy getting raped by a woman? I didn't even give a shit about rape back then in my BP days, plus we were all there in high school (in Europe mind you, not in Leftist States of America)

[–]zuk1 1 point2 points  (8 children)

What? Where in Europe? Most of Europe is more left than USA surely. I'm English.

[–]alpha_n3rd 0 points1 point  (2 children)

This isn't really a right/left thing. This is a "the US is bat shit crazy about sex" thing.

[–]GhostOfAladdin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is like that in the US so corporations can sell sexual language.

[–]zuk1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i agree with that i was just disputing that the USA was more left than europe. which it clearly isn't! :D

[–]ShekelBanker 0 points1 point  (4 children)

You don't get a perspective about how better off most of Europe is until you see the shit that happens in US. I'm not asking you to trust me on this, but US is in general bad. What particularly struck me as bad in general was the ruthless tax agency (named IRS), and specifically: California is more expensive that a lot of places in Europe, Texas has some wacky people (could be me not used to their liberty), Florida is full of assholes (avoid driving there at all costs), New Jersey has horrible police constables, Michigan is generally poor (most of the Americans I know are from there), and in New York you got to avoid NYC because it's more expensive than London and a lot more crowded. American people in general, particularly those who never left US use a lot of stereotypes when talking to you, either about your country or the society you come from. Discussing politics of any kind is a big no-no for them, they resort to the American superiority complex when you make comparisons (eg. USA's much richer than countries in EU)... far too many things to mention in a single post.

[–]zuk1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't doubt all of that but I think by and large the USA is far less politically left than pretty much all of Europe. They don't even have national socialised health care for example.

[–]oldschoolmailman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've learned my lesson. Other RP'ers, take heed.

[–]a-orzie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I should be allowed to get shit faced! Rapers need to be taught not to rape!

[–]oldschoolmailman 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It took me a while to even realize what the fuck had happened. I was so brainwashed into thinking it was impossible that a man could be sexually assaulted. We are trained to think that all men are criminals, and that we are always the aggressor in sexual politics, presumed guilty. I thought it was my fault, that I had bought it on, invited it.

Only after a few weeks of feeling fucking disgusting and worthless and gross that I realized the event followed the exact pattern of a rape, down a fucking T.

The police would laugh in my fucking face. Even if they didn't, I'd be one blog post away from professional disaster and securing the guaranteed success of my attacker. I'd forever be labeled a false accuser, untrustworthy misogynist.

The only thing to do is to keep it to myself and gain knowledge and strength from that experience.

[–]beeeel 6 points7 points  (0 children)

if you're a male

Welcome to the progressive stack.

[–]Endorsed Contributorcocaine_face 4 points5 points  (1 child)

As someone who has also been assaulted in that way (though it was more of an unwanted extended touch while asleep, which I woke up and stopped), I got into an argument recently about this, and got told I was, "insensitive" when arguing with a woman about sexual assault.

I was like, "Whaaaa?"

[–]oldschoolmailman 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Some of the outspoken feminists that I've told have claimed it was false equivalency, men getting sexually assaulted is different than women getting sexually assaulted.

Surprisingly, they were right, though clearly for the wrong fucking reasons.

[–]flubberskin 2 points3 points  (0 children) started with female babysitters doing some very innaprorpitate acts, touchy feely female highschool teachers, physically abusive girlfriends, unwanted groping by chicks at clubs.... I was raped by a hambeast on my 21st birthday when I drank too much and tried to get home.

And any mention of those things only gets people laughing at me and "nice" or "yeah cant rape the willing"

So just don't.

[–]johngalt1234 1 point2 points  (2 children)

And the mindset they give real victims is to wallow in it rather than overcoming it and becoming stronger.

[–]oldschoolmailman 0 points1 point  (1 child)

I've certainly learned it's indeed possible to overcome sexual assault, not just survive it. I've worked through the issues, though I wouldn't be allowed not to. Men can't play the victim card.

Well, you can, but it certainly won't get you anywhere.

[–]johngalt1234 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its both a blessing and a curse to not be allowed to play victim for men. It is a curse since it may not allow you to work through your issues and its a blessing since you are not allowed to remain a victim but required to overcome it. The thing is the problem has to be identified before it can be fixed.

[–]ALargeBicep 1 point2 points  (1 child)

They do the same thing with white people.

"Oh you've been racially discriminated against as a white male? Great. Your problems don't count."

[–]1too_long_didnt_read 203 points204 points  (67 children)

You expected better of /r/todayilearned ? They are the most frequent posts in /r/undelete and their mods and supportive users brigade there often to downvote criticism.

Basically they do whatever the fuck they feel at any given moment. The rules are ignored. Whatever they like gets through and whatever they don't gets deleted. Don't bother posting there, it's a waste of everyone's time.

[–]oscyfx 152 points153 points  (37 children)

TIL to unsubscribe from /r/todayilearned

[–]16 Endorsed ContributorTRPsubmitter 18 points19 points  (5 children)

I've unsubscribed from TIL, AskReddit, ELI5 and all those subs a year ago. They're all shit.

[–]ComplainyGuy 9 points10 points  (1 child)

Science, opposed to sociological, questions and answers on those subs are still fun and useful.

[–]a_nus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's right. Take what's useful and ignore what's not. Understand how your sources of info work and go to your desired source to get what ever it is you're looking for.

[–]topspeedj 1 point2 points  (1 child)

I only use reddit for TRP now, occasionally venturing out into /r/all and a few other subreddits.

[–]1Ill_mumble_that 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I do like me some /r/ghettoglamourshots

[–]garlicextract 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ELI5 cracked me up from the start. How fucking American that subreddit is (I am American too). Now I'm sure the users are quite multinational, but "Please take this complex subject and dumb it down for me as if you were explaining it to a fucking 5 year old" is just so ridiculous.

[–]PostNationalism 23 points24 points  (21 children)

if you hate heavily censored reddits you'll also hate /r/politics and /r/worldnews

/r/anarchism is also surprisingly mod heavy

[–][deleted] 56 points57 points  (3 children)

/r/anarchism[3] is also surprisingly mod heavy

That's because it's a subreddit for communists dressing up their beliefs as anarchism, they are more authoritarian than almost any political group.

[–]Ojisan1 17 points18 points  (1 child)

I find /r/Anarcho_Capitalism/ to be much more to my liking. No subreddit is perfect but there's some good discussion that goes on over there.

[–]redditor1255 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its funny how the fringe right is far more open to discourse than the fringe left.

[–]PeteMullersKeyboard 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yeah I think that's why I was so afraid of those views for so long - everyone I ever saw who spoke of being an "anarchist" was really just an extreme full-on marxist with a violent streak. AKA not anarchist, at all.

[–]Ahabh 10 points11 points  (1 child)

/r/anarchism is a haven for muffin top suicide girl wannabes and totalitarian sjw's. I got kicked out of /r/anarchism for posting this

[–]ibuprofiend 14 points15 points  (6 children)

/r/politics and /r/worldnews

I subscribed from those long ago anyway. It's like viewing the world from the perspective of an angsty suburban teenager.

[–]JackieBronassis 2 points3 points  (5 children)

What are some good subreddits that substitute r/worldnews and r/politics?

[–]ibuprofiend 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Economist, NY Times, New Yorker, USA Today, etc.

Honestly I don't know of any good news subreddits.... I get my news from actual websites because Reddit = atrocious groupthink. Those sources are biased of course, but it's not as bad as on Reddit.

[–]17 Endorsed ContributorHumanSockPuppet 21 points22 points  (1 child)

I don't know if you were around for this (your reddit account is rather young), but a few years ago there was a huge uprising and exodus of members from the anarchy subreddit which occurred as the result of strict rule enforcement on the part of the mods.

You can't make this shit up.

[–]webdevtool 5 points6 points  (0 children)

/r/anarchism is mod-crazy and /r/sex is full of virgins. TIL the irony is strong with reddit.

[–]liverkiller 4 points5 points  (1 child)

HA, I recebtly realized I am NP'ed in both /r/anarchism and 2x and I've never posted a comment either negative or positive in either before.

If they wanted open and healthy debate they would allow all points of view but they shut people down before they even have a chance to submit.

[–]PeteMullersKeyboard 1 point2 points  (0 children)

/r/politics is laughable. Its just a giant echo chamber.

[–]oscyfx 0 points1 point  (2 children)

I haven't bothered with politics because I hate political debates. Mainly because of where I live, it's not really debating. Much like telling an SJW her (his? are there any male SJW's? I mean, do those white knights and women defenders count as SJW's?) facts are wrong. They just spin it so they can keep believing it, despite overwhelming evidence otherwise.

I've kind of figured /r/worldnews was mod heavy, though, since most of the stories tend to further the leftist's agenda.

[–]avoiceoftreason 4 points5 points  (1 child)

I haven't bothered with politics because I hate political debates. Mainly because of where I live, it's not really debating. Much like telling an SJW her (...) facts are wrong.

Debating isn't about convincing your opponent; it's about convincing the audience.

[–]oscyfx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You make a very valid point, sir.

[–]voodoobunny77 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Did too.

@OP thanks for the heads up.SJW are everywhere now.

[–]NolanHarlow 9 points10 points  (0 children)

To do:

1.Unsubscribe from /r/todayilearned

[–][deleted] 5 points6 points  (5 children)

Shouldn't we all just repost this TIL and spam those fuckfaces? Can TIL mods ban me from all of reddit?

[–]dronearmy 1 point2 points  (1 child)

Who cares? Create a new account if you get banned.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i'd lose all my internet experience points :( then my life would be meaningless :( my accomplishments would be forgotten about and i would fade into the mist :(

[–]Mattpilf 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They have the ability to stop certain links from ever being linked. Most often used for repost, but its built in, so unless we have endless mirrors, it won't work.

[–]nophoney 47 points48 points  (0 children)

TIL The TIL mods are cocksuckers.

[–]NolanHarlow 22 points23 points  (0 children)

And they live behind the following catch-22:

If you're a lone voice objecting to a post being deleted, they'll ignore you or give you bullshit snarky answers and then ignore you.

If you try to mount any sort of coordinated effort (you know, to show that there are more than a few people that give a shit about said post), then they'll accuse you of brigading and IMMEDIATELY threaten a ban.

You're screwed either way. Cowardly behavior all around from the mods. Not surprised though.

[–]topspeedj 9 points10 points  (5 children)

Here's a conversation a guy from /r/undelete had with one of the mods:

[–]2Marsupian 18 points19 points  (2 children)

He knows his stuff. Immediately switches topics and stays on it relentlessly. Never even acknowledges the original question but instead goes on the offense straight away. Absolute professional at derailing and "winning" arguments.

[–]topspeedj 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah, he'd make a skilful politician one day. Should we laugh or cry at that?

Anyway, I was more impressed with the attitude of /r/undelete. They all seem pretty objective and open-minded to TRP ideas. But I guess that comes with the theme of the subreddit itself.

[–]mikehod 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is what the police (in the US) do as well; they threaten to arrest you for 'obstruction' or some petty crime like blocking a sidewalk (a completely unrelated offense) when they really just want you to quit filming them abusing people and let them do what they want.

[–]rpkarma 6 points7 points  (1 child)

Holy shit. That guy must be actually retarded. Or 13. Hell, why not both?

[–]PeteMullersKeyboard 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Based on most of what I see over there I would not be surprised if it was both.

[–]TimPartendale 15 points16 points  (18 children)

Don't bother posting there

But I could see how TIL would reach a larger Reddit population than TRP, considering they have over 80 times the amount of subscribers. It would give an anti-feminist post a chance at reaching /r/all, and we could get to more BP dudes (hence saving lives).

TRP has a moderately bad reputation, if something comes from this sub it'll get down voted. If it comes from a more "harmless" sub then there's hope.

[–]648262 6 points7 points  (17 children)

Why do you want to preach to the masses?

[–]Humankeg 56 points57 points  (0 children)

So that one day if I have to call the cops on some bitch because she is assaulting me, I don't get thrown in jail instead.

[–]Pubic_Lice 16 points17 points  (11 children)

Imagine of judges would snap out of it, and stop awarding women custody 100% even if they have been shown to be abusive. Imagine false rape claim filers being persecuted. Imagine a world where /r/pussypass wasn't a subreddit.

[–]denart4 3 points4 points  (0 children)

On top of all the other reasons given above and under me. I believe every men has the right to have the knowledge that TRP has.

I was lucky enough to find TRP without bias that anyone gave me.

[–]droppern 0 points1 point  (2 children)

More input, more content and a bigger community

[–]648262 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He is not preaching about TRP, he would distribute content that is also distributed in TRP.

[–]ShitArchonXPR 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ITT: why I love /r/longtail and /r/undelete

[–]OsoFeo 114 points115 points  (17 children)

Really, people like that are the gift that keeps on giving.

One of the major factors in convincing me that the MRM and RP are largely correct was the extent to which its critics and enemies will go to censor its advocates and proponents.

Truth survives in light. Lies whither away.

[–]CatsGoingTheirOwnWay 72 points73 points  (16 children)

r/mensrights is banned from r/bestof. Let that sink in for a moment. They know that if they give MR, a community of 100k people access to a platform of 5m users the community would grow exponentially. And that's bad because god forbid a 19 year old guy with no one to talk to about these things learns that he shouldn't just laugh and go eyyy girl chill lol! whenever his hot gf smacks him for saying something that she deems stupid or embarrassing. Still haunts me 3 years later.

[–]Homosubi 23 points24 points  (8 children)

Don't forget that mentioning this sub is automatically deleted in /r/AskReddit.

By not allowing other viewpoints, your viewpoint automatically wins.

It's a sound strategy. I'm actually impressed by the totalitarian liberals. They are efficient and brutal in getting their way. They have a goal and no one is going to stop them for any reason.

[–]joe_bruised_ego 23 points24 points  (6 children)

Seems ridiculous to me that these people call themselves “liberals”. Liberalism is supposed to be about freedom of speech and being open minded to new ideas.

[–]BhiQ 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Reminds me of that video of feminists yelling "Fascism!" to silence a MRA crowd....

[–]16 Endorsed ContributorCyralea 6 points7 points  (1 child)

Liberalism is de facto the party of censorship. Liberal attitudes typically dictate that there should be more regulation, more laws against things they oppose, more government, etc. Think about it, who's more likely to get upset over calling someone a "fag", an extreme leftist or someone on the extreme right?

It's simply par for the course.

[–]joe_bruised_ego 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I assume by “liberal” you mean the US Democrats? Nobody outside the US considers them to be liberal or even left wing. They are an authoritarian far right party.

[–]ThePedanticCynic 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's double speak. It's the same way with feminism, where they claim that they only want the genders to be equal while fighting for even more rights for women rather than fewer.

They make the motto something that sounds reasonable, like equality or freedom; that way if anyone calls them on their shit that person is a misogynist or a fascist. Really, it's just used to suck in support so people at the top can can continue their anti-men campaigns.

[–]son_of_narcissus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Relevant first 20 seconds or so:

"Unfortunately, between then and now, the enemies of [classical] Liberalism succeeded in stealing its name."

[–]theozoph 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That was when their ideas were new. Now that they are the status quo, they are as repressive as any regime before them.

"Meet the new boss, same as the old boss."

[–]DrDalenQuaice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

/r/canada deletes redpill links too

[–]PeteMullersKeyboard 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's...utterly horrifying. Holy hell.

[–][deleted] 6 points7 points  (5 children)

did I read this correctly? subscribers of /r/mensrights are by default banned from /r/bestof?

[–]CatsGoingTheirOwnWay 22 points23 points  (2 children)

posting stuff from mensrights is banned. and by default, not in response to any incident.

[–]topspeedj 2 points3 points  (1 child)

Have they ever publicly explained why?

[–]theozoph 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Because feelz > reelz. As usual with SJWs.

[–]theozoph 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Not only that, but a /r/mensrights subscriber did an IAmA two years back, one that quickly gathered a lot of discussion and +450 upvotes, soon making the frontpage. 4 hours later, the mods deleted it for "not being relevant/already done". No amount of complaining got it back.

In the background, the mod forum was awash in horror as it was deemed "literally the worst thing [MRA's] could have done, presenting their viewpoint in a rational, reasonable fashion"... and pressure was quickly put on the IAmA mods to "do something" about it.

Reddit mods, especially in the more popular subs, have all been vetted and co-opted to be flaming liberals, and encouraged to silence all opposition to their ideology. Having been part of /r/MensRights for several years, I can attest that they've even managed to infiltrate its mod team and quickly shut down all non-liberal points of view as "too extreme" and "damaging to the sub's image". The old motto deriding feminists was canned, traditionalists and "Game" proponents were kicked out, and the remaining anti-feminists are already on the mods' shit-list. As soon as they will feel they've sufficiently steered the sub leftwise, they'll be next.

You see, to a "real" liberal, there is no such thing as "free speech", only hate speech and "problematic" speech, which will become hate speech in a few years, once society has sufficiently "advanced". There is no limit, no common sense, no one safe from being suspected of being "reactionary". The enveloppe can always be pushed further. What yesterday was "moderate" liberalism is today's hate speech. History only goes forward, toward ever-greater levels of indivualism, materialism, hedonism and "freedom", which must be defended by ever-greater levels of censure and "education".

If you're not frightened, you're not paying attention.

[–]RC_5213 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No. He means that posts from MR cannot be topics in bestof.

[–]johnbailey1 37 points38 points  (4 children)

Check out the threads in /r/undelete about the removals. Look at the comments by the TIL mods. They're hell-bent on getting rid of any posts about men's rights in TIL though they swear they're not biased. I included a link to another post that they removed that was about women being the biggest perpetrators of child abuse.

[–]1IVIaskerade 17 points18 points  (3 children)

It seems to be -Richard- in particular who is responsible for most of the removals. Looks like we might have a rogue mod over there.

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    [–]trpiece 2 points3 points  (0 children)

    He's moderating the amount of MRA leaning posts

    [–]ThePedanticCynic 2 points3 points  (0 children)

    I used to constantly argue with that mod in PMs. He's a massive piece of shit.

    [–]mutebychoice 41 points42 points  (12 children)

    There is such a bias here, the blatant sexism and inequality ruins lives and they don't even care. Im currently divorcing, separated since February. My soon to be ex wife shows up at my current place I'm living, starts shouting at the top of her lungs, after I asked her not to come because of her repeated angry calls and that she could have the check mailed since she wants to act like she gets out of the vehicle ,starts pushing me physically, takes the check and puts it in her car rather than leaving, continues to push me so I said fine and attempted to grab the check from the car, THEN she cares about getting in the car, hits me in the face with the car door and then slots in the car,still not trying to leave, so I tried to grab the check again and she Bites my arm, which wasn't on her ,she had to lean forward to do so. Finally after that I called the cops ,turns out a neighbor already had. So female cop shows up and asks me what happened, even admits that her getting out of the vehicle to push me is assault, but because I tried to grab the check out of the car I was charged with DV unlawful detention. She was not charged. She's since used the do not contact order to take property thats mine, make.threats to my mother, and file for a divorce asking for everything, even while I still pay my portion of the bills. To make sure she's not inconvenienced and her kids don't suffer. I've used every dine to my name to pay the criminal defense lawyer, and now I need to pay a divorce lawyer on top of it. Meanwhile my parents are losing their house and I can't help them with back taxes The prosecutor at the ongoing case even admits she should've been charged but isn't willing to dismiss so far, the "discretion" on who to charge is a lie, the male will be arrested. I will lose my career with this charge, my parents house, the car I'm supposed to use to get to work and pay her 3/4 of my check to her somehow(not even married 3/years) sorry to text wall,its obviously maddening and its literally ruined my life up to this point, I could go on and on, it'd way more fucked up than even this summary,and yes this is the summary, if needed or wanted I can give more. The point is you never call the cops and never be alone with an aggressive woman, keep your hands in your pocket.

    [–]healious 9 points10 points  (0 children)

    fuck it dude, move south west, then live in the fucking woods without a job, can't get blood from a rock, why even work at that point

    [–]Njncguy 7 points8 points  (1 child)

    That's a life changing ouch. The thing is I think you're saying it all dead on accurate. My sympathies to you.

    There IS a gross level bias against men, in many area concerning family and divorce.Hell, I know one guy who got falsely accused of abuse by an angry wfe. He could then only have visitation with his children with court approved supervision. Well, the supervisor (the guy's top exec sister) was then falsely accused. End result: he has had no contact with his children now in some 5 years. She even changed their names. The guy has been so crippled with alimony and child support ( and never ending legal fees wanting more) that he is 45 and living at home with his mom. And he works his tail off. Last Sunday he was up for a moving job at 6 AM. ... Basically, he is a slave to his ex- wife who grotesquely gamed the system.

    [–]bookhockey24 1 point2 points  (0 children)

    You can't game a system when the system is yours.

    [–]PeteMullersKeyboard 10 points11 points  (4 children)

    I feel truly disgusted reading this - I wish there was something I could do to help you out. In fact, I wish there was some sort of way that we could band together to help men out in such a situation. Truly appalled.

    [–]Jack41096 2 points3 points  (3 children)

    I can almost promise if we put together a foundation that donated 99% of its profits to these cases, we would be shut down somehow or have daily protests.

    it's a fucked world.

    [–]PeteMullersKeyboard 2 points3 points  (2 children)

    The sad thing is - you're right. It would be labeled as "sexist" because it only helped men. I want to fucking vomit sometimes when I think of the state of society.

    [–]mutebychoice 1 point2 points  (1 child)

    I wish I had the means and knowhow. Suppose we could try,at least get the conversation started ya know?

    [–]PeteMullersKeyboard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    Same - if I had the means I absolutely would.

    [–]ShekelBanker 5 points6 points  (2 children)

    Seriously now, I'd consider your situation a clear signal you need to leave the country and never come back. Even if you start completely off with nothing on your name in Europe or anywhere else, you can't be worse off than you are now. Admit that you can't do anything more, losing everything to that woman. Get as much money as you need for a plane ticket and 2 months living costs where you want to go, and just forget about the godforsaken country.

    [–]draketton 0 points1 point  (1 child)

    Fleeing the USA would be my endgame in a situation like that but I'd live under the yoke for a few months so I could do my homework. Some important questions would need answering. Where do I go, how do I stay for an extended period of time, what's the best travel option for a convicted and watched criminal, what precautions do I need to take when using the internet from my new home, what do I do if I'm caught slipping and get put up for deportation. Can't just stuff money in a bag and leisurely hop across the atlantic to wherever.

    [–]ShekelBanker 2 points3 points  (0 children)

    Indeed you must plan ahead, but I wouldn't worry about deportation because they don't issue international warrants to a guy who hasn't paid his wife a meager alimony; the paperwork needed for it is just not worth it.

    [–]Endevour 1 point2 points  (0 children)

    No matter how many stories like this I read (and there are countless), it never ceases to amaze me how someone you once shared an intimate relationship with can do a complete 180° and fuck your life up so bad you wish you'd rather be dead. Sorry to hear about this. I hope times will change for all men in the US.

    [–]ColbyChee5e 24 points25 points  (4 children)

    Every time I see a post like this I just always want to stay single.

    [–]Endorsed ContributorAerobus[S] 29 points30 points  (3 children)

    It isn't exactly a bad idea. I mean, there are advantages to being single. You can change your residence at the drop of the hat, planning your career is much easier (don't have to worry about effects it will have on a family), you can travel wherever you want, do what you want. It's like having the ultimate degree of freedom. The price is that you don't have someone to share those experiences with.

    Plus, if your into casual sex, as you travel the world (if you want to), you can always meet women and game them.

    You should see this:

    [–]PeteMullersKeyboard 1 point2 points  (0 children)

    Every day I'm single (after getting out of a very emotionally exhausting relationship especially) I am more and more inclined to stay this way.

    [–]WoahScienceCool 31 points32 points  (2 children)

    If you cant post this there, just keep posting it on other subreddits and forums.

    Add this story of yours as a BONUS cliff at the bottom to spread word about what cocksuckers TIL mods are as well, just to really sink in the point of the War on Men.

    Do not allow yourself to be silenced. If you do, then theyve won. For every forum or subreddit this topic gets deleted at, spread it to three more different ones, and so on and so forth.

    [–]NolanHarlow 4 points5 points  (1 child)


    [–]rpkarma 5 points6 points  (0 children)

    Not worth it. That's "brigading" (that's how the admins will see it) and then TRP could be in danger. Better to just unsub, ignore, and send that Richard cunt some abuse :)

    [–]acedeucetrey 20 points21 points  (2 children)

    The reason for this is simple in regard to the title of the deleted post, women are the default victims feminism has made sure of this. This post was deleted, as the OP pointed out, because this doesn't fit into that narrative.

    [–]jeffwingersballs 11 points12 points  (1 child)

    It's not just that women are the default victims, it's that they must never be held responsible, ever.

    [–]PeteMullersKeyboard 1 point2 points  (0 children)

    They are incapable of doing things that would be traditionally defined as "wrong" or "bad"

    [–]Endorsed ContributortrpSenator 17 points18 points  (0 children)

    Okay, see, I know what you're thinking. I know that you want to jump in and leave some kind of anti-feminist comment, but think for a second. Is this phenomenon really due to women wanting equality, or is it due to society perceiving women as lesser? I'll give you an answer, it's because society still views women as weak and frail. We're still taught that men are supposed to be big and strong, and the women are supposed to be dainty little flowers who couldn't hurt a fly if they tried. That's why this awful shit happens. If you think that feminists are the problem, you're only making this worse.

    LOL! Right...

    Let's disregard the fact that feminists are the reason men are the ones getting arrested like this in places like CA. Why? Because they initially made a law that said for any domestic abuse instance, the police MUST arrest the aggressor. The feminists just figured it would always be men... However, they had a brick of reality drop on them once police were now arresting women just as frequently as the men for being at fault.

    So then the feminists went back and patched up the law making it so the police MUST arrest the person who has the potential to do the most damage, regardless of fault (Hint: Men are almost always the more physically capable to cause damage.)

    [–]mysticdickstick 5 points6 points  (0 children)

    Where I'm from I've learned this: when a woman hits you, you do absolutely nothing then you go and talk to a big bad bitch, pay her if you have to, to beat the living shit out of the cunt that raised her hand against you.

    My first girlfriend was extremely abusive. Every time I would leave the house she would throw a fit which gradually escalated each additional time to the point where she eventually, after she already hit me a few times without me reacting to it grabbed a kitchen knife and said if I leave her she will stab me then herself and then call the cops. Yea I know, don't stick yo dick in crazy but I was only 20 years old horny and pretty stupid. That was the last string though. My good friend who was cool with some butchy chick told her to smack some sense into her... Few days later my girlfriend called me to tell me how I could stoop so low. Told her to get out of my life and forget I ever existed or she better get used to frequent hospital visits. She was fucking scared for her life and that was the end of it.

    [–]SQQQ 6 points7 points  (1 child)

    feminists can't tolerate facts.

    [–]Endorsed ContributorAerobus[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

    It hurts their feelings. Such misogyny. Much patriarchy. Much oppression. Wow.

    [–]morbid69 8 points9 points  (1 child)

    Sadly most subreddits are PC liberal circle jerks that have SJW mods on a power trip that silence any dissenting opinion. It's been seen time and time again. Doesn't matter if legitimate facts are presented, because apparently feelings > reality. This is one of the only good subreddits on this site, one of the few where political correctness doesn't run wild which I am very greatful for.

    [–]jquest23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

    It almost seems that no where you go on reddit, subs, main page, etc.. there are people on it, acting like people. I find this shocking.

    [–]funnyfaceking 13 points14 points  (5 children)

    [–]Endorsed ContributorAerobus[S] 4 points5 points  (3 children)

    Doesn't surprise me one bit. Him, and another mod I mentioned elsewhere in the thread (can't remember the name off of the top of my head), are feminazis and are actively censoring the topic.

    [–]funnyfaceking 1 point2 points  (2 children)

    It appears that /u/-Richard- no longer exists.

    [–]Endorsed ContributorAerobus[S] 0 points1 point  (1 child)

    Oh man.


    I messaged the founder of the TIL sub, linking him to pictures of /u/-Richard-. He said that he would look into the matter.

    I guess he got rid of Richard.

    [–]funnyfaceking 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    i messaged individual moderators about it as well, didn't get a response

    their mission statement on the sidebar says "You are loved." A moderator who says "suck my dick" to survivors of sexual assault kind of contradicts that message.

    I think only an admin at /r/ can nuke an account.

    [–]DurkaDerper 2 points3 points  (0 children)

    TIL the mod of TIL is an absolute cunt

    [–]bpcPunk 8 points9 points  (0 children)

    The messed up thing is that this is only going to push these types of posts to the fringe subs and reinforces the entire system.

    Few years down the line: "Oh you got diddled when you were 12? That's hillarious. Think it's funny that a chubby girl can't fit her jeans, you're an insensitive piece of shit."

    [–][deleted]  (8 children)


      [–]Endorsed ContributorAerobus[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

      It's in the sidebar. is TRP off-reddit site. There are other good RP blogs out there.

      I can talk to the mods about creating a post for this purpose; I don't want to derail this thread.

      [–]2 Mredpillschool 2 points3 points  (0 children) is our offsite meeting spot. We do have an archive.

      [–]thesaltysoup 0 points1 point  (0 children)

      Some poster said something about starting a board on 8chan. I wish I remembered where he said it, but I can't. It's 8chan/trp

      [–]NolanHarlow 7 points8 points  (3 children)


      What a bunch of shit

      [–]Endorsed ContributorAerobus[S] 10 points11 points  (1 child)

      People have already done that, and the mods have stonewalled. Two mods in particular, lanismycousin and -Richard- are actively censoring any mention of it. Be prepared to be banned my friend.

      Go on the mensrights post and the undelete post about this topic. People have screenshotted both of those mods flat out lying to the public.

      [–]SeriouslyReddicted 6 points7 points  (0 children)

      I'm going to message them as well. If they ban me, it doesn't really matter; I was planning on unsubscribing, anyway.

      [–]eatingonthetoilet 5 points6 points  (0 children)

      They like to perpetuate the myth that women are angels because they don't want to give up on their hope that a sexy angel with double-Ds will save them from themselves and love them for their comic book and toy figurines collection.

      [–][deleted] 10 points11 points  (1 child)

      And into the trash /r/todayilearned goes

      [–]Razzamafoo 5 points6 points  (0 children)

      Not sure why you got down votes... lol

      [–]RedDeadRepentance 11 points12 points  (0 children)

      Looks to me like it fell apart because people in the comments just started bitching about feminism.

      Can't say I'm surprised. Women go through all extremes to paint a perfect picture. Most male mods on defaults are egotistical cunts anyway.

      [–]topspeedj 4 points5 points  (0 children)

      Damn, some of those stories are just ridiculous.

      But anyway, when mods and websites pull this kind of crap on posts that are actually completely inoffensive and reference rigorous science, people tend to take notice and stand up.

      It's the Barbara Streisand Effect at work. If TIL hadn't deleted the post, this post here wouldn't have blown up with upvotes and comments.

      [–]jolly--roger 1 point2 points  (0 children)

      Welcome to reddit. Or more specifically, welcome to TRP, and you're not welcome to the rest of reddit as such.

      [–]Transmigratory 4 points5 points  (0 children)

      Ugh, and then feminists wonder why they don't garner respect.

      [–]noteventrying 1 point2 points  (1 child)

      facts dont real, only feels!

      [–]JesusFuckILoveAnal 1 point2 points  (1 child)

      I always wonder how people have the foresight to save this stuff before it gets deleted.

      [–]Endorsed ContributorAerobus[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

      After a while you develop a sixth sense of what will be censored.

      [–]tatertotmonkey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

      Manginas: Ruining rational thinking since forever.

      [–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

      /u/-richard- all your downvote are belong to us

      [–][deleted]  (2 children)


        [–]Endorsed ContributorAerobus[S] 1 point2 points  (1 child)

        There is a discussion about this topic on mensrights, undelete, and subredditdrama

        [–]SeriouslyReddicted 1 point2 points  (0 children)

        Thank you! I saw it a few minutes ago when I went to subscribe to /r/undelete. Thanks for making sure I found my way there, if I hadn't.

        [–]Idle_Redditing 1 point2 points  (0 children)

        What is the excuse from the r/todayilearned mods for this? I mean what they said themselves.

        Also, why do cops almost always arrest the man in these cases? What are they 'thinking'? Even if the guy has marks all over his arms from defending himself.

        [–]SikPon11 1 point2 points  (0 children)

        This is Reddit. This is the Internet. WTF do you expect?

        [–]denart4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

        IIRC some commenter in that post said there were more of those posts that don't fit the feminist agenda and he predicted this one would go down aswell. He was right.

        It is sad what reddit is turning into.

        [–]Misteralcala 1 point2 points  (0 children)

        We need to upvote this fucker to the front page. Censorship in the name of Feminism? Fuck you.

        [–]LaidBackStrat -1 points0 points  (2 children)

        I thought about reposting this OP (with credit) on a sub like /r/theoryofreddit that seems to be pretty impartial with things like these, but it would probably be deleted there too.

        [–][deleted]  (1 child)


          [–]LaidBackStrat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

          I'll do my own post and re-post the links from /r/undelete about this thread and others that have had the same treatment.

          [–]nothere_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

          fuck i saw that thread and meant to comment in it (before the match had started)meanwhile the same old reposts get frontpage coverage and useless comments and shitty memetastic puns are upvoted & promoted.fuck being a trivia base,its just a big gold circlejerk.

          [–]synpse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

          just like the police saying "anything you say can an will be held against you" So is true "anything a man does makes them guilty, and they cannot be the victim versus a woman."

          dateline is on NBC right now. about a woman who pushed a man out a window, and was convicted. she didn't take the plea. he fell 25 floors n died. window broke. wasn't "open".

          [–]Chezza96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

          Can it be reposted on to TIL by anyone else? If so, lets all repost it again

          [–]DrDalenQuaice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

          Has somebody tried resubmitting it with the title copied and pasted so as to completely circumvent the "editorialized title" accusation?

          [–]southernfriedcode 0 points1 point  (0 children)

          I actually saw that link earlier today and was thinking of posting it here. I didn't actually expect a mainstream study to be removed like's not some crackpot but a government agency.

          [–]16 Endorsed Contributornicethingyoucanthave 0 points1 point  (0 children)

          Looks like the user who posted it has been shadowbanned too: /u/Sashaa911

          What discussion sites other than reddit to people here use? I like the idea of a threaded discussion forum, but they're few and far between.

          [–]GhostOfAladdin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

          Girls touch me almost every time I go out. It used to bother me, now I'm used to it.

          But if I did that...

          [–]FiveRows 0 points1 point  (2 children)

          Anyone else notice all the false analogies in that thread? Anyone else getting sick of redditors arguing almost purely by bad analogy and others unwittingly buying into their frame? Can anyone argue a point in a more direct manner anymore?

          Maybe it's just because their points are so hypocritical and bullshitastic that it's the only thing they can do to derail the conversation away from real talk.

          [–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

          For me personally, it has been extremely obvious women are the more aggressive abusers. I find that they also often play "dumb" and the victim so that society will overlook their manipulations.

          I prefer to interact with them only if needed.

          [–]honestthrowout 0 points1 point  (0 children)

          You know...this angers me. In all honesty, I'm surprised this Sub even exists on reddit. What's to stop them from deleting this sub?