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[–]schoolboyQueue 207 points208 points  (51 children)

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The replies in the comments seem to be not full of shit for once though

[–]2lightfire409 48 points49 points  (4 children)

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Their is one thing /r/Relationships and /r/sex uderstand, and that its you dumb cheaters faster than a hot potato.

Though they usually buy into the sob story of a cheater if she's the one posting.

[–][deleted] 19 points20 points  (2 children)

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The average redditor buys into emotional appeals in general, which is why most commentaries on ethics, politics, relationships, or anything else are complete trash.

[–]2lightfire409 3 points4 points  (0 children)

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Fully agreed. The majority of reddit is incapable of sifting through the feel good bullshit.

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

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Exactly. Up vote.

[–]notseriouslyserious 40 points41 points  (0 children)

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Its actually easy to see why.

  • not married no kids - none of that "just sit her down and talk to her* shit

  • it happened recently - none of that "does this ONE instance invalidate the entire x happy years? It happen x years ago" bullshit

Im more surprised we havent gotten the "lol /r/thathappened" trifecta yet.

[–]DanReggins 29 points30 points  (6 children)

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Noticed that too. Is it a timing issue?

[–][deleted] 13 points14 points  (1 child)

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No, I think it's the level of this particular situation. Even the strongest hamsters can only go so far...

[–]cookiecutterbullshit 6 points7 points  (0 children)

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they have no context. If they could grab hold of ONE instance where this guy exposed a flaw or made one mistake, THAT would be enough fuel to start her up...

[–]turnballZ 35 points36 points  (3 children)

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Apparently the knights come out at dawn

[–]Endorsed ContributorRedBigMan 25 points26 points  (1 child)

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You would think the basement dwelling white knights only go to bed at dawn because they burn in the sunlight.

Also good job on getting good advice given for once. No self-respecting man would accept his GF/Wife back after she banged someone famous. Not even if it was George fucking Clooney.

[–]DasWood 13 points14 points  (0 children)

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That and he needs to get her out of his life before presumed father status for 18 years of payments for a kid that isn't even his. In addition to a STD that could possibly leave him sterile.

[–][deleted] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

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Some of us who commented are students of TRP.

[–]sikballa 50 points51 points  (35 children)

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Yea I was expecting white knights to defend the GF.

[–]no_game_player 2 points3 points  (1 child)

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It's almost like logic is contagious.

[–]Endorsed ContributorRedBigMan 19 points20 points  (0 children)

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No logic is not contagious, if it was we wouldn't have stupid people. Stupidity is contagious. Logic is an immunization to stupidity. Sadly we don't get enough people immunized against stupidity.

[–]turnballZ 137 points138 points  (10 children)

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If anything the sex with a famous person disqualifies the airhead from having a mate. Any self respecting guy wouldn't tolerate even hearing the justification.. her ass is out

[–]SpaceChris 61 points62 points  (15 children)

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As someone, who is often backstage (friends are promoters, tour managers etc.), this doesnt surprise me at all. There is also a reason, why lots of musicians have surprisingly "average" girls. They experience the disgusting female nature every day. Generally, (rock) concerts are a prime red/blue pill example. If you look closely, people fall back into their primitve programming. Status is everything. We really should discuss concerts and festivals. Very interesting social dynamics!

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    [–]thedarkerside 9 points10 points  (2 children)

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    The VIP pass probably bypassed all of that.

    [–]WhitePhillip 41 points42 points  (1 child)

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    She had a PIV pass.

    [–]Endorsed ContributorRS73 21 points22 points  (0 children)

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    I used to know a guy who toured with a famous band. They had something called "The Family Album." It was photos of hundreds of female "fans" fucking, sucking, group sex, etc. Mothers with their daughters. All kinds of crazy shit. The roadies got plenty of action because they'd tell the girls they had to fuck or suck them first to get to the rock stars. And they'd oblige. And in every town there were plenty of eager female volunteers.

    Sometimes the retard boyfriends would hang around outside the tour bus or hotel room for hours waiting for their little cupcake to finish getting filled up and covered with cum. Some guys will put up with literally anything.

    [–]The_Turbinator 19 points20 points  (3 children)

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    I work security for the largest nightclub and electronic music event organiser in Canada. I know exactly where you are coming from. It is unbelievable what these girls will do to get backstage. I don't care tho, when they come on to me, I will take advantage of the situation. Bitches are gonna be bitches, might as well enjoy ourselves ;)

    [–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (2 children)

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    Do you ever get them to suck/fuck then say "sorry bitch, you ain't getting anything special in return"? I feel like women like this deserve a slap across the face every once in awhile. It's not like they can threaten you with rape. It would be obvious in court they were whoring themselves out to try and meet celebs.

    Please respond, I'm genuinely interested.

    [–]The_Turbinator 3 points4 points  (1 child)

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    Yes as a matter of fact its fun leading them on, giving them a sense of hope, then after they have wasted the entire show on the sideline you straight up reject them. The look on their face, the disbelief, the shock, then, the anger. It is priceless.

    [–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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    Awesome. Knowing they're gonna spend the entire drive home/next few days bitching about how you "wasted their whole night" when it was entirely their fault must feel amazing. God, I want that high.

    Did you ever put that into mind?

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      [–]SpaceChris 13 points14 points  (0 children)

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      Well, don't expect that they bang chicks everyday in front of their boyfriends, lol. But one thing that happens regulary: Couple manages to get into the backstage. Girl chats with the band (Band be like: "hey, boobs"). No matter what pathetic bullshit they say, Girl is hypnotized by fame and money like a deer blinded by high beams. The poor bf is nonexistent at this point. You can tell what would happened if the poor beta wouldn't be there. Always cringeworthy and always good for a laugh (cruel stuff actually). Or: Me and a friend had vip tickets for a 5day festival. We took two female "friends" with us, who acted all "nice, distant and only friends" in the past. Seeing us being vip, getting special treatment and getting in everywhere made their vags tingle, i guess. We ended up getting BJs in the hotel pool, while their BFs stayed home. Then there was this heavy metal band from L.A. that was big in the 80s. They still have a loyal fan base, thus they toured europe. A few guys and girls intercepted the band at their nightliner after the concert. The band was ok with it, but "girls only".... seriously, what the hell were these doormats thinking was going on in that bus? :) The crowd is another cute phenomenon: lots of neckbeards and very few chicks. On your average metalconcert the p to v ratio is like 10:1. On top of that, most guys got their beer googles on. This means, a 5 or 6 with some revealing clothes gets treated like some VS super model.

      [–]M_Ahmadinejad 2 points3 points  (1 child)

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      What kind of probability is there that a girl that has VIP passes is going to hook up with the band? Is it high enough that I should never let a girlfriend do it? And if she insists and goes anyways to break up with her for it because it is more likely than not that she did cheat?

      [–]vaker 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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      What kind of probability is there that a girl that has VIP passes is going to hook up with the band?

      Is she hot enough?

      Is it high enough that I should never let a girlfriend do it?

      Why do you think she wants to go? Even is she doesn't end up with roadie dick in her mouth, she just demonstrated how much more she values some famous dick compared to you.

      If she insists, I'd find a better GF.

      [–]Ironhigh 46 points47 points  (6 children)

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      "man up" haha,wut? "It's just another dude(or maybe more than one) fucking your girlfriend, there's no need to be like that, man up"

      Just dump her for fucks sake, it's not like the famous guys would start dating a random slut, the dude needs to man up in the actual meaning of the therm, be independent, think about yourself before thinking about others, if a girl cheats on you, cheat on her then dump her, that's what I see as manning up.

      [–]ScannerSloppy 9 points10 points  (2 children)

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      Exactly. OP should man up and stay away.

      [–]srtor 6 points7 points  (1 child)

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      Actually that is the point. 'Man up' means act like a man- Dump that bitch. In Ancient culture it was 'thrash the women and and trash her'.

      [–]nivek7913 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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      Yeah I would have said "you're right I'm gonna man up and dump your slut daughter"

      Then send him the picture for being such an ass.

      [–]Offensive_Brute 10 points11 points  (0 children)

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      man up

      "Believe me I thought about it but beating the shit out of her wont make me feel any better. It'll just lead to a whole new setof problems for me."

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          [–][deleted] 38 points39 points  (0 children)

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          "Man up" = you're not a man unless you act in manner which pleases me.

          [–]JimmyTheIntern 34 points35 points  (1 child)

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          My first thought when her dad said "man up":

          Forward him what her "friend" showed you and say "Here. Now YOU man up!"

          [–]le_king_falcon 98 points99 points  (5 children)

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          Man up has always had one definition, which was to use as an excuse to completely disregard the target males feelings and guilt him in to compliance. Its why its so often used by women as it syncs perfectly with the rest of their manipulative arsenal.

          The sad thing is men use it too. In reality no real man should ever say the phrase "man up". He should fucking sit down and explain why said guy needs to change his actions. Leave the nebulous phrase and its implicit shaming to women.

          [–]sweetleef 22 points23 points  (1 child)

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          There's another definition of "man up" - it could be that OP should act as a man should, and according to what apparently nobody else in his life has any of: self-respect and honor.

          This situation is a deception and insult beyond what any man should tolerate. Any action beyond cutting off these scum off instantly would require him to debase himself and destroy his self-worth.

          [–]trpalternate 15 points16 points  (0 children)

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          That's what "man up" used to mean before it became a shaming tactic.

          [–][deleted] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

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          This is very true.

          When browsing online profiles, women with children are often looking for "a real man" or someone to "man up".

          Translated this means "pay for this other guys kid".

          [–]shorttempergg 9 points10 points  (0 children)

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          That second part was beautiful

          [–]CrustsRemoved 21 points22 points  (0 children)

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          Man up: Disregard your own needs and support my genetic material.

          [–]einexile 10 points11 points  (0 children)

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          The dad has a lot of nerve contacting him at all. Those are straight up fighting words.

          [–]Badhesive 1 point2 points  (1 child)

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          What do you expect, he probably provides very well financially for a wife who has guilted him into "manning up" as well. If I was the father, I'd probably offer to clear up any difficulties involved in leaving the house, like offer to pay any fees involved in stopping the loan, and maybe attempt to offer to pay the hotel fee. If at that point my daughters former SO decided to stick around, I would honestly tell him that I have little hope for their relationship and would be fine if he cheated back, because at that point it would all be a waste of time. This is why I never want children, logic just get thrown out the window when your enabling your child.

          [–]vaker 6 points7 points  (0 children)

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          If I was the father, I'd probably offer to clear up any difficulties involved in leaving the house, like offer to pay any fees involved in stopping the loan, and maybe attempt to offer to pay the hotel fee.

          Now that would be an honest, manly thing to do.

          Back in the day, before society got fucked up, the stupid cunt of a daughter would also have been punished for bringing shame to her family.

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            [–]Captain_Self_Promotr 39 points40 points  (3 children)

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            The gf probably came from a higher class family which puts the events in a more understandable context. Her father is of the mindset "you're lucky to even get my girl so be happy." His mother and sister are probably thinking "don't fuck this up for our chances as well, look at the size of their house!"

            [–]MAY_BE_TOM_BRADY 8 points9 points  (2 children)

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            Everyone involved is poison. OP should drop all cunts associated with defending these actions

            [–][deleted] 5 points6 points  (1 child)

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            It's sad his Mom and Sister are such cunts too.

            [–]suscitare 17 points18 points  (6 children)

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            So the mother is basically pimping out her own daughter to a celebrity? Talk about plumbing new depths of female depravity. smh.

            [–]Offensive_Brute 26 points27 points  (0 children)

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            no the mother and sister are relation to the OP. Only the father was relation to the whore in question.

            [–][deleted] 16 points17 points  (4 children)

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            No it's OPs mother pimping him to get something for her daughter.

            [–]Badhesive 11 points12 points  (3 children)

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            And probably the whole family. Sounds like OP landed a rich girl, so now his family is willing to say fuck all to his happiness, so they can get the benefits of social status from a huge wedding, bonuses like tickets to games and shows, large family vacations, and general hook ups or networking contacts to help other relatives get better jobs through the girls father. It's sick, but it's how women think.

            [–]UnclePuma 2 points3 points  (1 child)

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            On second thought, marry her, divorce her, take half. :D

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            ooooh I like that. But it's probably all her parents money. She isn't worth shit.

            [–]Scorpionwins23 62 points63 points  (5 children)

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            Fuck, that actually made me angry.

            [–][deleted] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

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            The worst bit is the text messages she sent. How many times have you got send messages like that from girls who may have been in questionable situations.

            [–][deleted] 23 points24 points  (3 children)

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            Same. In a weird way it makes me want to be in his shoes so i can handle the situation better than his beta ass. Bitch out all the family members (especially gfs dad) and disown that cunt of a girlfriend and next her

            [–]1deptii 11 points12 points  (2 children)

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            Same here. The fact that he even had to make a post and seek opinions from other people makes me seeth. No one should be questioning their self worth like that.

            [–]super-zap 11 points12 points  (1 child)

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            He's seeking outside opinions because important, loved, and respected by him people turned on him. He's likely trying to get a frame on things and figure out why there's such discrepancy between his ideas and others (sleeping with celebrity...).

            [–]Scorpionwins23 10 points11 points  (0 children)

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            Sometimes it takes something like this to realize that the people around you, the ones you are interdependent with, have no genuine concern for you. Denial can be easy when the ones you love do this because it's the same consensus everywhere you look.

            This is an extreme example (but not uncommon) and the guy is very lucky to have the wool lifted from his eyes in this instance, even if he does nothing, at least he knows now. I shudder to think how many men are oblivious to this appalling behavior.

            [–]Endorsed Contributoraaron_the_just 135 points136 points  (47 children)

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            My immediate thought was:

            (a) he can turn this girlfriend into a plate, or just hard next her.

            (b) The girlfriend's friend who sent him the pic probably wants to do him. He should get right on that.

            [–]JohnnK 152 points153 points  (25 children)

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            (b) The girlfriend's friend who sent him the pic probably wants to do him. He should get right on that.

            More likely situation is that chick was pissed off the dudes GF landed the famous guy instead of her and this was her way of revenge.

            [–]colovick 47 points48 points  (11 children)

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            Why not both? I had this issue when I was married... I'd turn down women I worked with, they'd get pissed and text my wife that I was trying to get in their pants...

            [–]Captain_Self_Promotr 31 points32 points  (0 children)

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            I'm thinking both as well. OPs gf is probabbly hotter, plays the chastity card, has a great bf- in her mind she wanted to call bs on her friends fake persona- she wanted the alpha band cock but her friend even took that from her and has the great bf too- can't have both. So she sends the text. If the old bf wanted to dump a fuck in her shed prolly take it too.

            [–]feelsbeforereals 6 points7 points  (9 children)

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            How'd your wife react. I fucking HATE shit like this.

            [–]colovick 10 points11 points  (8 children)

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            She'd yell at me for a few hours and not believe me... There were about 9 of them who'd go almost in rotation and I quit talking to coworkers period. I switched branches for a promotion after a few months then went back to fuck their brains out when my wife decided to try swinging... Needless to say we've been divorced for 4 years now

            [–]feelsbeforereals 6 points7 points  (7 children)

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            Wow. I would have divorced her instantly. It's unacceptable for your wife to act like that. I swear, western women are just oversized spoiled children.

            [–]colovick 7 points8 points  (6 children)

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            Honestly I married her because she was pregnant with my kid and I being a stupid teenager thought that explained why she was so crazy those last few months. Turns out crazy is just crazy, we broke it off 9 months after the baby was born.

            For clarification, I was a massive white knight in an alpha body and never understood why women threw themselves at me only when I wasn't looking for one and kept my mouth shut

            [–]17 Endorsed ContributorHumanSockPuppet 0 points1 point  (5 children)

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            Your story sounds really compelling. I'm curious to know more.

            [–]colovick 7 points8 points  (3 children)

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            well, where should I begin? I met the girl while I was mid-break up with her best friend, she was trying to get us back together and we ended up fucking a few times and I gave up on the ex.

            The new girl had serious family issues and such, so I ended up acting like her father as well as boyfriend and I'd do shit like take her to doctors for shit that her parents would ignore because I had a decent job for a kid in high school.

            Jump ahead after graduation, she begins getting more and more possessive over me and gets increasingly aggressive when she doesn't get her way, so I end up breaking up with her. She tries to commit suicide and I called an ambulance for her because I didn't want to go to jail for someone's stupidity (I was there when she did it, so I couldn't just leave). After getting her stomach pumped, she goes home after a few days of psych evals, I tell her it's still off and we fuck one last time before I go (this was within about a day of the conception date unfortunately).

            A month later I'm in my first semester in college and get a call that she's pregnant with my son and wants to keep it. Knowing how fucked up her family situation was, I didn't want my child raised around that, so I had her move in with me, we got married (fueling a fire) and I wrote off the past few months as hormonal issues, being crazy from being pregnant.

            Now while working full time and taking 16 hours of core classes, I added studying for a state board exam to make more money at my job (pharmacy tech at the time). she starts fighting with my father and we have to move out, and I pick up a repo pretty cheap and we live there while fixing it up.

            Thing is, during all this, I have girls at work hitting on me very openly, asking for rides to their cars after work then taking their shirts off or going for my belt... that kinda thing happens 5 nights a week with 8's and 9's (I was fit, but by no means good looking enough to warrant them practically worshiping me) and my then wife was "friends" with all of them from when we were dating and she wanted to keep tabs on me, so they all had her number. I would turn them down every night, sometimes having to say no for 10-20 minutes until they gave up and got out of my car peacefully, only for me to go home and have my wife throw shit at me or yell at me about trying to cheat on her with them.

            Her still being pregnant, I just assumed this was going to stop, so I put up with it and just quit talking or making eye contact at work... very miserable way to live.

            I ended up passing the boards and my boss refused to give me the pay hike but wanted me to start doing the tasks my new license allowed me to do, so I noped the fuck out of there after finding a nearby store to transfer to, which also fixed the accusations of cheating for a while.

            Shit calmed down and the kid was born, things got better for a few months, then I found out she was talking to people she met online, flirting, sending nudes, and one guy even drove 3 hours to fuck her in my bed (with talk of her taking the kid to live with him). I went fucking ape shit on her. She was a housewife, had no responsibilities other than cooking, cleaning, and not hopping on someone else's dick. I thought that was a fair request, but I digress.

            She broke things off with him and I left for a few days, coming back when I decided I'd try to make shit work for my son's sake. She suggested we try swinging, which to her would fix the jealousy and cheating if we could see other people, but it doesn't work like that unfortunately. Turns out, swinging requires trust and such beforehand. We met with a few couples, had some fun, she ran off and did her thing, I went back to my old store and ran through the girls there a few times, never telling them my wife was ok with it, and they never tried to tell her, so I was literally being treated like shit and almost ruined my marriage by not sleeping with them all that time... funny how things work.

            Anyways, after a while I decided it wasn't a good environment to raise a kid in and tried to break it off. She took that to mean she could keep doing it and I'd just be with her, which she liked a lot. We fought and shit and eventually it got so bad that I just had to leave and I moved into my friend's place.

            3 months later I get a call from her that I'm moving back in to her house because she's moving out of state with her new boyfriend... That was completely unexpected, but I did just that because she was literally going to leave the kid at the babysitter that day and pack her shit on a Uhaul.

            She moved out, I tracked her down and got divorce papers filed. It took roughly a year to get her served and by then I was with someone else, who I just broke up with this past fall after a 3 year relationship that she moved 1600 miles to have. There are other stories in between and since then, but that's basically my story thus far and I'd say it's a good example of what not to do... for the most part.

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              [–]Ciphermind 8 points9 points  (0 children)

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              I agree. It seems like the friend told the OP the truth because she's a decent human being.

              [–]thedarkerside 8 points9 points  (2 children)

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              Possible, but not quite plausible. If she'd been disgusted by this and she would really be a friend to the girl she'd told her to come clean, not "rat her out".

              There was something else at play here. Be it jealousy that she got to fuck the famous guy or that she wanted to get back at her for something else. There is a very very small chance that you're right, but I wouldn't bet on it.

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                [–]thedarkerside 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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                I am not sure how you can deduct any kind of intend by the friend. All we have is her saying: "I hate you show you this" but to read intend into it goes a bit far. We're all speculating here.

                You're also projecting your own: "This is what I think I'd be doing" onto her, which says more about you (or how you think you would act) than about her.

                [–]Captain_Self_Promotr 19 points20 points  (3 children)

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                It's definitely hard and generally ill advised to plate a girl you loved immediately after an event like this. Might take a few months or years. Hard next is probably the best course of action.

                [–]Endorsed ContributorRS73 9 points10 points  (2 children)

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                Absolutely right. There's no fucking way the guy is going to be able to plate her at this point. C'mon, plate her? He said he loves her and they were buying a house together. Any guy who can reverse gears on that and plate her after she fucks and sucks a band in front of other people is a guy that would not be in love and buying a house with a girl in the first place. You'd have to already be ice cold to manage that.

                [–]FinalEquin0x 2 points3 points  (1 child)

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                Keep in mind this guy is also not the most RP guy ever either, no way he could do that. It would take some major Dark Triad qualities.

                Also, he's invested in her/his family and their families know each other.

                Plating is a bad idea

                [–]happyhorse_g 15 points16 points  (1 child)

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                You friend, are a man apart.

                [–]sajimo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

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                just is just

                [–]Your_Maroon_Hat 6 points7 points  (0 children)

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                a) is going to be a lot of drama for a woman he's had countless times already.

                b) sure

                [–]JB31885 2 points3 points  (1 child)

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                b was also my first thought. Even if she was just jealous of her friend getting reamed by the band the best thing for this guy to do is turn around and get with her friend.

                [–]philipTraum 5 points6 points  (8 children)

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                What does point (a) mean exactly?

                [–]mysterr9 12 points13 points  (0 children)

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                Have you ever seen the variety show act where a guy spins numerous dinner plates at the end of long dowels? How he goes from one plate to the next in an attempt to keep them all spinning? Well, girls are the dinner plates, and the Red Piller is the performer. Understand?

                [–]Spartacus321 7 points8 points  (0 children)

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                He means he can either downgrade his girlfriend to a fuckbuddy, or he can just drop her entirely.

                [–]da-way 17 points18 points  (5 children)

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                (a) means that he should downgrade his girlfriend to fuck buddy (plate) or cut contact (next).

                Now go lurk moar and read the sidebar.

                [–]Ciphermind 8 points9 points  (0 children)

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                You've got to admit that TRP shorthand is pretty obtuse.

                [–]Jstyx11 37 points38 points  (14 children)

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                Such bullshit, made me physically sick to read that

                [–]1pcadrian 31 points32 points  (7 children)

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                Made me smile. I see it as just another man waking up from the Matrix. I'm just happy I didn't have to be yanked that way, but instead was slowly and gently awakened by this sub.

                [–]Sufferix 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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                It sucks that it happened but I'm happy that he didn't get raped in a marriage and divorce before being presented with this inevitable breakup.

                [–]morsX 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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                Amen brother. I was fortunate enough to already be partly TRP without realizing, so I never suffered this crap.

                [–]The_Turbinator 0 points1 point  (4 children)

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                I don't see him waking up, he seems to desperately want to get back and ignore it ever happening. He is desperately looking for an excuse to forget it ever happened. It's why he posted it on Reddit. Hoping someone would provide him with that excuse. He simply refuses to see the truth of the matter at hand. Clinging to that one hope of getting back with her. He is suffering the classic case of oneitis. I've seen many friends brought down by this disorder - it is like watching someone slowly loose their will to live in slow motion.

                [–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (2 children)

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                You are correct. I was one of the people who saw the post when it was new and wrote a long comment explaining his situation. The poor bastard even deleted the post after hundreds of people wrote him advice to break up.

                My post if your'e interested.

                Seriously, this is actually a fucked up situation for you. Do yourself a favor, dump her. She obviously has no empathy whatsoever to not even consider your feelings in this matter and to justify her actions.

                It's even weirder that her family is siding with her on this situation. Her Father is even trying to justify her sleeping with someone that is famous by telling you to man up? What the actual fuck is all I have to say. Is this someone that you seriously want as a potential father-in-law in the future?

                Also, another very important thing to consider is that you will never truly be happy with her anymore. Even if you were to "man up" there will always be that feeling in the back of your head, knowing that this situation happened at one point. You will never be able to trust her again. If she gets away with cheating on you this time, she is only going to do it more often in the future. I'm sorry if this comes off as harsh, but I don't want you to ruin the rest of your life by staying with her. Do not marry this girl, you deserve better. I personally think that by breaking up with her you are doing the real "manning up". Please respond, I want to hear your thoughts on my comment. Good Luck.

                [–]1pcadrian 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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                Sadly after reading some of his comments, I have to agree. More than likely he'll take her back.

                [–]Shit_The_Fuck_Yeah 12 points13 points  (5 children)

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                Same here. I am so pissed right now. Her family obviously wants her to retain the financially security of the beta while having the sexual experience with the alpha.

                DUMP THAT BITCH!

                [–]roue_ 9 points10 points  (4 children)

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                I wouldn't call the poster beta. He seems to have done a good job of sticking to his morals and nexting her.

                [–]blopdop123 10 points11 points  (1 child)

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                Read his posts lower down in the thread, he's doing his best to rationalize his way back into a relationship with her because they already bought a house together.

                [–]Shit_The_Fuck_Yeah 4 points5 points  (0 children)

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                re-read my post, I never called him a beta, I said her family wanted him to be a beta.

                Good for him for moving on, hopefully he doesn't get drawn back in.

                [–]colovick 2 points3 points  (0 children)

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                It's a relative term in this instance

                [–]jakethesnake76 12 points13 points  (0 children)

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                Ill try to update. I have to go home so i can change for work Monday. Ill most likely see her then, I have no idea what to say, where to go, if i still want this relationship, if i do stay if i can trust her, or not feel inferior...

                This kind of cognitive dissonance just creeps me out in Betas..

                [–]monsieurhire2 10 points11 points  (1 child)

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                Her family is defending her because they want to marry her off. I don't know how old the fiancee is, though. The dude is 29. If she's on the wrong side of 25, they're probably thinking they should try to get the deal sealed. It's only natural. Of course, she could easily find another guy, but 3 years is a bit of a time-investment for a relationship.

                The mentality that "fame" is a license to cheat is repeatedly propagated by the media, which wants to normalize the notion of a "free pass," as if men and women had equal opportunities for infidelity!

                You can go to a concert as a woman and probably get fucked by the musician if you are half-way decent looking because men have become conditioned to become complete and total slut who give away their dick like they have an endless supply, but good luck trying that trick if you're a dude at a woman musician's concert!

                The joke is, the "celebrity" is celebrated mostly by morons and idiots who have no personal lives of their own, and is therefore a meaningless distinction.

                She should definitely be dumped on her ass. OP seems to get that pretty quickly.

                [–]stuffandthat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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                Not only that, but the post says that they have just bought a house together. It's going to be a lot of work selling the house / paying off loans etc.

                [–]CrustsRemoved 44 points45 points  (12 children)

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                There was a time when this would upset me. Now I just see it for what it is. You can't overcome Hypergamy.

                [–]Endorsed Contributor30303030303030 74 points75 points  (11 children)

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                The only thing out of scenario is someone messaging him. Lucky, very. Normally she would just go on with her life, with him, like nothing happened.

                Her: where are u I just got back. The concert was amazing, I got you a gift. ;)

                Look at her all happy just after she cheated. No shame, nothing. Business as usual. Women, on average, are far better manipulators than men.

                High status men will fuck every single woman they want to fuck. She bought the vip passage, went without her bf, it's extremely fucking obvious she was interested. Snap of the fingers came and she was on her knees.

                I understand reaction of the women, her sister and mother, getting plowed by the man many women desire is something they all want. Father is a dummy.

                I know all that is material but she chose material or what we have. HAD.

                And it is extremely lucky you even know about it. If you take her back you are a moron and you deserve what's coming to you.

                [–]DanReggins 34 points35 points  (2 children)

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                The only thing out of scenario is someone messaging him.

                Ah, but check this out -- if OP is really a decent man, then I've seen situations where the cheating cunt's friends will leverage that opportunity to shove her out of the way and take her place.

                Fuck -- this was even on Maury when a bitch tried to cuckhold her husband. Cousin stole him away and told him the truth.

                Machiavellian tactics at work.

                Father is a dummy.

                Father might just get my fucking fist in his face.

                And it is extremely lucky you even know about it. If you take her back you are a moron and you deserve what's coming to you.

                Amen my brother.

                [–]Offensive_Brute 12 points13 points  (1 child)

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                Father might just get my fucking fist in his face.

                seriously though, why would he even take that call. uck him and his whore daughter.

                [–]Captain_Self_Promotr 11 points12 points  (6 children)

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                Serious. Makes me wonder if my gf has ever done something like that to me. Have been red pill for 3 years and in a relationship for 2. Even if you're 100% confident of fidelity you can't be sure.

                [–]dontthreadlightly 6 points7 points  (0 children)

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                That's the crazy thing, you really don't and can't ever know for sure because women are by far much more sneaky and better at hiding it. You just have to adopt a mentality where you make them literally think you could leave or find someone new at any moment. That's the only way to keep women, especially when they're younger, off of some other dudes dick. Every woman, in a relationship or not, thinks about fucking others guys. But the ones who have real red pill SOs are the ones who never feel the urge to act on it because they have enough on their plate already, trying to keep their man.

                [–]mirepoix 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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                Pretty good chance. My ex would always tell me about her girlfriends cheating and then going on like nothing happened in their relationships. It was always the same. None of them are the "type" to do it either. They are just normal girls who sound a lot like OPs girlfriend. They saw it as "one time thing," "crazy circumstances," etc. But it sure seemed to happen to a lot of girls. For all I know she did it too. No matter now though.

                [–]Sexualreddit0r 10 points11 points  (0 children)

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                The only thing out of scenario is someone messaging him. Lucky, very. Normally she would just go on with her life, with him, like nothing happened.

                So much, this. I can give a dozen examples of how I stumbled into many different gfs' fuckery by sheer happenstance. Everything from finding out one had been taking my car out when I was sleeping because she forgot to put the seat back, to catching one red handed with another guy. In that instance, she said she'd be busy all morning because she was doing spring cleaning and I went on a bike ride only to find the car in front of me at a stop sign, was hers and there was a guy in the front seat that she had "seen" in the past when we were on a hiatus. She had no explaination for this. If this happened once or twice, I'd charge it to the game (fool me once...) but this is par for the course, I'm afraid.

                [–]thr0waway33 37 points38 points  (17 children)

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                Saw this and knew it would be posted here. I didn't bother because I really think it's fake (even though the OP keeps replying to comments). First off, the conversation seems unnatural.

                Me: I know what happened at the concert. I know you had sex with them.

                Her:...how?

                Me: DOES THAT REALLY MATTER.

                Her: It was a once in a lifetime thing. A mistake. call me. NOW!!

                This guy accuses his gf of cheating - he says he knows she had sex, and her first reaction is "...how?"? I just don't buy it - by saying "...how?" she basically admits it's true. But if she admits its true, she'd go in "I was going to tell you"-mode.

                A more realistic reaction would be "what are you talking about??" / "how dare you say something like that?!". Cheating has serious consequences, so cheaters don't admit to cheating unless they know there's no other option (in which case they'll credit themselves for being honest and upfront).

                Second:

                Its me against the world. In the last 2 days I have received a dozen phone calls from her, her dad, MY MOM, my sister. All of them siding with her. Her dad even told me I just need to "man up", and when it comes to famous people "that it doesn't really count". I had respect for that man before that...

                tl;dr: Am I suppose to just man up?

                Words like "man up" imply gender roles, which is very taboo on Reddit. Reddit likes to make abstraction of biology - "can't we just treat both men and women as people?". This is just How to rustle's Reddit's jimmies 101.

                Third: a mom considers no woman good enough for her son. You think she'd just defend this slut?

                Fourth: How many fucking times does he mention the guy's famous? It's like:

                "Oh and did I already tell you he's famous? Should I man up? BTW HE'S FAMOUS HELLO REDDIT FAMOUS FAMOUS."

                [–]ScannerSloppy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

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                She acted like it was NBD because she didn't see it as actually cheating. He was FAMOUS!

                [–]TehGinjaNinja 15 points16 points  (0 children)

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                This sub has really gone to crap. As you've pointed out, this is obviously someone trolling the relationships sub for entertainment, but now it's at the top here. TRP is supposed to be about learning to see though other people's bullshit, not falling for the bullshit which confirms your biases.

                [–]Ciphermind 2 points3 points  (0 children)

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                /r/thathappened has made it cool to be a gullible fuck.

                [–]dontthreadlightly 2 points3 points  (0 children)

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                Tbh, I don't really think if matters if it's fake. Could have easily happened in real life.

                [–]thedarkerside 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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                I just don't buy it - by saying "...how?" she basically admits it's true. But if she admits its true, she'd go in "I was going to tell you"-mode.

                Keep in mind that this is him summarizing it, I didn't get the feeling this was all verbatim.

                Cheating has serious consequences, so cheaters don't admit to cheating unless they know there's no other option (in which case they'll credit themselves for being honest and upfront).

                That's true, but she was also blindsided and in shock probably reacted differently than she would if she'd seen it coming. Timeline matters here. If he got the text at 1am, she probably got home two or three hours later, so it'll be 3 to 4 am. Long day, lots of fucking, guy not there. He drops the bomb on her. I can totally see how her brain does not act in the way you would expect it to.

                Of course it could all be made up, the qeustion is: Why? Internet Points?

                [–]lono12 10 points11 points  (2 children)

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                Troll or not this kind of shit happens. Lol at all the posters saying it's his frame that wasn't strong enough. This is just a reminder that we have delusions of our own. No matter how in love the girl is or how alpha the boyfriends frame is, a girl will cheat if the guy is hot enough.

                Always spin plates.

                [–]sweetleef 3 points4 points  (1 child)

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                It's got little to do with being hot. They'll go for an obese humpback if he's famous or rich enough.

                [–]lono12 5 points6 points  (0 children)

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                By hot I mean all those things. Looks, Money, or Status.

                [–]Xein 8 points9 points  (0 children)

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                I think my favorite part is her reaction to him calling her out: HOW?!

                Notice... there's no remorse. It's like when you catch a little kid in a lie or get them stealing candy. They aren't sorry they did it. They're sorry that you caught them.

                [–]WhitePhillip 6 points7 points  (0 children)

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                Looks like she got a PIV pass.

                I'm a musician, and I can tell you for certain that one of the reasons people get into the business is the pussy. Not everyone is backstage wearing meat helmets getting blown by 3 girls at once but we all fuck groupies once in a while. Many of us fuck groupies a lot.

                The status combined with your music taking them on an emotional roller coaster makes bitches crazy for your dick.

                Never leave your bitch alone with a celebrity. Ever.

                [–]ThirdLegGuy 20 points21 points  (1 child)

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                Given the proper chance to be fucked by her favorite writer/singer/football player, almost any female would not hesitate a damn second, regardless of being in relationships or even married. Male celebrities are always top-tier alphas, ultimate prizes, but never obtainable. She knows she will never be able to keep that prize forever, so at least she is happy to have it in her arms once. Poor girl, now she has to settle back for somebody ordinary.

                [–]DanReggins 4 points5 points  (0 children)

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                Fucking hopefully less than ordinary -- some fat white knight brony loser.

                [–]DarkSayed 6 points7 points  (0 children)

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                They (mother and sister) are disgusting trash.

                If I got cheated on my mother would be more furious than me. Of course, she would also say "I told you that girl was trash, I tried to introduce you to lots of nice girls and you went for the trash."

                [–]DanG3 6 points7 points  (0 children)

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                The only one who can "win" in this situation is YOU - if you kick her to the curb. If you accept her back you have DLV'd yourself down the shitter in everyone's eyes, including hers. Internally, she won't respect you. This was no "accident," but rather a choice and exhibition of her character, which you/no one will be able to change. She will either do this type of thing again and/or her disrespect for you will be cause for something else to "just happen" in your relationship. Eventually she (her disrespect for you) will cause things in your relationship to be such that you will breakup with her anyway. Or, you will be miserable remaining in the relationship with her. Further, word will get around the women's matrix that this is the kind of woman and behavior that you tolerate. This will cause you to tend to attract lower caliber women

                Finally, if we Men accept/tolerate these kinds of behaviors of women, there will only be more of the same.

                [–]Kombaiyashii 8 points9 points  (1 child)

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                I think the issue here goes a bit deeper than "He's famous." I think that it's no coincidence that she just got him committed with a huge investment on a beautiful house. This turned him into beta-provider and now she felt safe enough to swing for the next branch. If he hadn't have found out, she'd obviously start going to more groupie places then millionaire clubs etc.

                All this guy must be thinking right now is "Why the fuck did I buy this house" not "but I love this slut." I hope he learns a lesson and kicks this piece of shit back to square one. He'll be better for it, she won't. A win win.

                [–]colovick 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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                Never cosign anything and never let a woman cosign with you unless you're married... A cosigner is nothing more than an idiot with a pen.

                [–]tobedwithoutsupper 18 points19 points  (4 children)

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                It was like 1am and I get a text message with attached pictures from one of her friends that went with her saying "I'm really sorry to have to show you this"

                Clever girl...

                I doubt she was just a hapless bystander here.

                [–]rebuildingMyself 2 points3 points  (3 children)

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                She wants OP's dick.

                [–]thedarkerside 6 points7 points  (2 children)

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                Or destroy her "friend".

                [–]rhythmguy 5 points6 points  (1 child)

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                Just shows how much women value friendships with other women... not like we didn't already know that.

                [–]MAY_BE_TOM_BRADY 2 points3 points  (0 children)

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                Any man that knows a group of girlfriends knows how quickly the dynamics and friendships are burnt/reborn within a small timeframe. If I had to go through the same shit with my boys I would be mentally and emotionally drained within 6 months.

                [–]SomersetRaglan 13 points14 points  (1 child)

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                Her father sided with her on this. There's the problem, people. When your father tells you you did nothing wrong, why would you think otherwise?

                The betas are ruining their daughters as much as feminism is.

                [–]MAY_BE_TOM_BRADY 6 points7 points  (0 children)

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                Dude if my sister pulled this same shit I would fucking fry her

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                The fact that he is even thinking about it is funny. I would have nexted her in a heartbeat and moved all her shit out to the lawn. Something I thought of though while reading the comments is how careful everyone in the western world is about everything. Whether it is driving, diet, exercise, children, animals, alcohol, etc... But those who do not know the red pill just put ALL their eggs into one basket (i.e. vagina) when it comes to relationships. Truly fascinating.

                [–]EricTheRedd 7 points8 points  (1 child)

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                Years ago when I worked in radio I had a press pass for Ozzfest and took my then-gf with me for my interview with Dragonforce on their tour bus. Sam, from the band, spent the better part of the interview hitting on her and tried his best to get us to stick around and "hang out." I excused us from the bus. We were laughing about it later and she told me flat-out she would've fucked him if she had the chance. She ended up leaving me years later for a bass player of a shitty college town band with a lazy eye.

                [–]1johnnight 3 points4 points  (3 children)

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                The concert was amazing, I got you a gift. ;)

                I bet it's a t-shirt with the band. Hand-signed. It has to be.

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                  [–]drrtyfrrnr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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                  DNA. It's more unique than a signature, OP should be happy.

                  [–]Boss_Monkey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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                  If that is the case, imagine the heartless bitch that could watch her man wear that tee shirt for years, knowing what she did to get it. Her Alpha widowhood appearing briefly as she takes it out of the dryer and gives it a sniff for the memory.

                  [–]ufaild 5 points6 points  (1 child)

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                  This gotta be fake. Too surreal.

                  [–]pewpewing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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                  Going to go with this too. It was believable up until the text messages.

                  [–][deleted] 5 points6 points  (1 child)

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                  I met a girl once who told me she was pissed at her boyfriend because he was upset her with over something stupid.

                  She proceeded to tell me that she was mad because he wouldn't let her go to Montreal with NIN (we were in toronto), when they invited her. I told her I agreed with him and then asked her if she would be ok with him going to Montreal with Gwen Stefani.

                  She got pissed at me and started going off about how it was completely different and that she was only going because she was into the music and that No Doubt was shitty music - completely missed the point and could not see the parallel.

                  She was a friend of a friend that I never had to talk to again, thank god, no idea how the situation ended up.

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                    [–]Sturmgeist781 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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                    Her:(a summary of a much longer text): It was a mistake, I'm sorry, It literally can and will never happen again, Hes famous for christ sake! I love you, call me. please.

                    Meh, go die in a fire.

                    Life is too short to deal with people like that.

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                      [–]Offensive_Brute 13 points14 points  (0 children)

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                      ask for permission? wat?

                      [–]1johnnight 7 points8 points  (0 children)

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                      Fascinating. Gender solidarity triumphs blood ties.

                      Edit:

                      I think we can get some valuable insight from this case. OP's mother and sister are telling him the truth from THEIR female perspective, but they can not understand the male perspective on this and how much they are hurting their son.

                      Female sex is a commodity with a highly variable price. If it's exchanged for a lot of money or status, it's a profitable deal. If it's exchanged for a low value, then it's upsetting.

                      So they are basically telling their son, that he has average value. If she cheated on him with a bum, he should be upset and they would be upset too (as fans of Team Women). But she cheated with a high value male(s), so from the point of view of the female OPEC sex cartel, nothing is wrong with that and that truth is what they blurted out in a moment of weakness. ("The first rule of the sex cartel is...")

                      Of course, to a guy the result is the same, but women don't get it and never will. They do not get that we get mad, when other men get for free that which we have to pay for with half of our life income. Especially bums (Michael's Story). If the other guy paid our woman a shitload of money, that would be maybe kind of understandable. But we do not get that thing about exchanging sex for status ("I got fucked by a rockstar.").

                      Edit: spelling & clarity

                      [–]TehGinjaNinja 6 points7 points  (0 children)

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                      Common guys, this is obviously just someone trolling the relationships subreddit. The scenario is too pat to be anything other than drama bait.

                      [–]physicalchemistry 11 points12 points  (1 child)

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                      My idea is almost Porn-worthy.

                      • step 1: play along.
                      • step 2: slowly detangle financial obligations
                      • step 3: Making a hardcore porn video with a well known and PAID pornstar ( the hotter the better)
                      • step 4: invite her whole family (18+ only) for something important
                      • step 5: play video.
                      • step 6: tell them " It doesn't count for it was with someone famous"
                      • step 7: run like hell /??????
                      • step 8: Profit.

                      As nobody will read this... i suppose the idea is hilarious, even though emotional revenge is petty.

                      [–]11411181 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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                      Anyone with half a quick thought in their head would just point out you're terrible in bed, thus ruining that element of "revenge".

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                        [–]rathaunique 2 points3 points  (1 child)

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                        a social construct forced upon the masses by western society to ensure the viability of the workforce that serve the elites.

                        famous guy in the example, true or not, is the elite. OP and his whore the masses. it wouldn't count in the Victorian age as servicing a knight or duke or King was duty. same rules apply today.

                        [–]tabularaja 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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                        it may not count societally, however the individual man is would be less accepting. Braveheart, anyone? I bet you more than a handful of peon hubby's left after their wife "performed her duty"

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                          [–]HoogaChakka 2 points3 points  (0 children)

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                          You are absolutely right.

                          [–]1pcadrian 2 points3 points  (0 children)

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                          A prostitute is famous in a sense, so is a pornstars: porn-STAR. So if he were to bang one now, how would his family react?

                          [–]GushyWetWet15 2 points3 points  (0 children)

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                          surprising for once that betarelationships actually told him to dump her and move on. i never would of thought to have seen the day when betarelationships actually gave logical advice rather than emotional

                          [–]Grumpi83 2 points3 points  (0 children)

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                          Dump her, and after reading the redditlog possibly your own mom and sister

                          [–]Kronouranos 2 points3 points  (0 children)

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                          Holy shit I wanna be famous. Hot chicks basically pay you to hang out with you in attempt to sleep with you? Damn

                          [–]Hughtub 2 points3 points  (1 child)

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                          He could always stay with her, and just fuck whoever he wants on the side. Have girlfriends, treat his ex as if she's not even there. Fuck her when he wants to, nothing more. No need to harm himself in any way. She's the bitch. Go on as if nothing is wrong. Bring back a girl and fuck her right there in the house. It doesn't matter if she catches you, unless she's a hypocrite.

                          [–]stuffandthat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

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                          And always use the excuse "She's of higher status than you"

                          [–]Endorsed ContributorpuaSenator 2 points3 points  (0 children)

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                          Everything about that post is horrid. That dude deserves a beer.

                          [–]1BadgerBurger 2 points3 points  (1 child)

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                          "I'll stay in this relationship under one condition. This week, I'm either fucking one of your friends, or an escort of my choosing and you're paying for it."

                          [–]vaker 2 points3 points  (0 children)

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                          And after that you dump her.

                          [–]WeAreAllSheep 2 points3 points  (0 children)

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                          Well at least one of her friends was honest and showed him what really happened...otherwise he would be kissing the drummer's jizz and eating out the singer's jizz that night.

                          [–]einexile 2 points3 points  (0 children)

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                          Some of you guys get so wrapped up in the evolutionary speculation and the animal side of human nature that you forget some important aspects of human psychology.

                          The first one that comes to mind is confirmation bias, and another is greed.

                          The women were probably cheated on and put up with it themselves; or they have cheated in the past, and are invested in a sense that they haven't meaningfully harmed the people they cheated on.

                          The greed aspect is admittedly driven by survival instinct, but it's a twisted resurrection of that instinct. I doubt the mother and sister would have starved to death if OP dumped this woman, but the connection somehow gave them a leg up and some of the comforts which are the modern equivalent of survival. What a lot of people want most is less to worry about. To know that if something terrible happens others will be there for them, that if they lose all their money someone in their family will be able to help them, and so on. The sister's drug problem is a clue here.

                          Frankly I find the girlfriend's behavior not so interesting, but the way this guy's asshole family betrayed him breaks my heart.

                          [–]turnballZ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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                          so, you sit the whole family down. Play them some Bowie

                          And explain the spaceship ride you were taking their daughter on, and how this completely fucked up the tail of the ship. So you gotta find a new piece of tail. Peace

                          [–]Hardparty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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                          the fucker didn't even post the pictures, what a tease.

                          [–]DesertSeahawk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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                          I want to know why, if they have a house (stupid mistake), she's allowed to stay there? She's the one that screwed up.

                          [–]nninja 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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                          Glad the comments all tell him to dump the garbage

                          [–]hermit087 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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                          I'm mad now...our society is just fucking lost.

                          [–]jcslzr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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                          i have experienced this from the audience....i went to a Luis Miguel concert (he is like a Mexican Brad Pitt) as soon as the guy was on stage, the girl who i was with forgot about me.....and we were at least 500 mts away... I just went to grab a beer and I have never seen so many pissed off guys in my life, we had just spend some pretty good money to be toss aside

                          [–]Darft 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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                          Her dad even told me I just need to "man up"

                          Would be fun to pay a famous person to fuck his wife. See how he feels about that.

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                            [–]johnsonyourefired 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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                            This is just ridiculous..

                            [–]mercuryg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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                            What i really hate is that he turns to fucking reddit for answers. Because he knows the answer deep down, beneath all the beta conditioning, all the Blue Pill he has been force fed for all those years, HE KNOWS WHAT'S RIGHT AND WRONG. When will he, and all poor suckers like him, just look inside his own heart for answers? Instead of listening to all the hamsters around him.

                            [–]Drop_knowledge 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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                            i would hope to have a friend on her side that would tell me about this. i can only imagine what kind of picture that was sent to him.

                            [–]BetamaxFaggle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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                            Wish I knew what the band was and how old OP and his girlfriend are.

                            Isn't it usually the case that the bands that sell the 'hang out with the band after the show' package are all washed up casino acts like Kansas?

                            [–]thekidfromthegutter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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                            they all sided with her, and he's just all alone and helpless just like this bro http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=V4akMaeZ0-k.

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                            bet the BF is loaded with a good future, and the GF and parents are just leeches only reason they are crawling back so pathetically

                            [–]watersign 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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                            Refreshing to see people saying that he needs to dump her..usually the faggots and liberals of reddit would be saying he's in the wrong and that he's a CIS misandrist lol

                            [–]slcjosh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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                            Hypergamy at its best, and the world hamstering to her defense. What a crock of shit.

                            [–]Dealbreaker-Jones 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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                            His own sister is siding with the GF, that is fucked up, man...

                            [–]swaggerjackerr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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                            Keep in mind this IS the internet and their tend to be fake stories out there...

                            [–]yea_tht_dnt_go_there 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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                            FDR cheated on his wife. Eleanor found out and said she'd stay with the future president if he never saw the girl again AND they never shared another bed again.

                            The kicker? After FDR was president she started having a lesbian affair.

                            Never underestimate the power of the hamster.