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    [–]fillmoreslimisback[S] 119 points120 points  (15 children)

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    I don't know how it is elsewhere, but here in the US if you get a woman to talking, and she feels comfortable with you, she will talk all fucking day.

    I've also found out that the further past the wall a woman is, the slower the hamster spins and the more red pill truth you can get from her. That conversation happened within a couple of minutes of walking down some aisles in this drugstore looking for that paternity kit. She knew she was past the wall and that she had nothing to offer me as far as looks, so the only thing left to offer is conversation.

    Try this, if you ever get a chance to have a conversation with a woman well past her prime but not senile and everything try to ask a question like "Hey, did you ever like a guy that wasn't any good for you ,but that you still found sexy?" You will be amazed at how much red-pill truth will come from that woman's mouth.

    [–]ALexusOhHaiNyan 43 points44 points  (6 children)

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    An old person, that isn't related to you, has alot of knowledge to drop. That's how I learned about the regrets of working too much, not loving hard enough, and the perils of being too concerned with what people think.

    Old folks are a priceless forgotten resource.

    [–]HalfysReddit 36 points37 points  (1 child)

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    That's my old Taekwondo instructor.

    "God gave men two hands for a reason - a woman on each side."

    [–]The_Linear_Spiral 4 points5 points  (3 children)

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    "Not giving a Fuck what people think"

    This is a lesson I'm still struggling to learn at age 30...

    [–]symko 4 points5 points  (2 children)

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    People that matter don't mind, people who do mind don't matter. A stranger will forget anything you did in about 20 minutes. Not giving a flying fuck is what is making me a better red-piller.

    [–]ALexusOhHaiNyan 0 points1 point  (1 child)

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    Careful though.

    "Not giving a fuck" is a terrible mantra that is part of this 'cult of self esteem' that is misguided, and I hear it alot. Not giving a fuck about what people think? Maybe it's because you're intolerable asshole that refuses to take responsibility for your action. Not giving a fuck about others feelings? Empathy is what makes us responsible human beings and a real man is responsible. Nuance is important and "not giving a fuck" is a shibboleth that doesn't do justice to just how gray life can be in terms of what's right.

    It's more about having the courage to be true to yourself and not doing what you think others expect of you. This is something to realize while you still have your health.

    [–]symko 4 points5 points  (0 children)

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    There is a scene in the movie "Apollo 13" near the end when they were attempting to perfect the reentry process. One of the NASA guys tells the flight commander about a problem and his response was, "can they do anything about it?" "No sir, they can't." "Then they don't need to know about it."

    When I say that,"I don't give a fuck." I see what you're talking about and yeah it's annoying. But having the info I need when it's needed and tossing out the unimportant details makes life more manageable.

    TL:DR don't sweat the petty stuff.

    [–]FuriousMouse 3 points4 points  (0 children)

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    I don't know how it is elsewhere, but here in the US if you get a woman to talking, and she feels comfortable with you, she will talk all fucking day.

    That explains why the old lady in the toy store started sharing her life's story with me a few years ago. How she hated her work but had to do it since not much else was available.

    Coming from Europe that was one weird encounter for me.

    [–]HeadingRed 2 points3 points  (0 children)

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    Women are more likely to be candid with men they don't know or will never see again than one who they will be around on a frequent basis.

    It's the reverse of men- more likely to BS strangers, more truthful with people we have known for a long time.

    [–]zephyrprime 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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    I never thought to ask an old woman stuff like that. I'll have to give it a try.

    [–]RedPill_S 5 points6 points  (3 children)

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    Not PC, but before I knew you were black, I read this in my own voice, once I knew you were black, I started reading it in a quasi mix between morgan freeman and samual l jackson.

    [–]sshore 15 points16 points  (0 children)

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    just seems like you don't know many black people to me. not racist, just ignorance. and I'm not trying to offend you with that last sentence, ignorance is not always willful.

    [–]garlicextract 2 points3 points  (0 children)

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    The first thing OP said is that he's black.

    [–]1johnnight -1 points0 points  (0 children)

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    Why not Dave Chappelle?

    [–]HeadingRed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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    PS- Please follow up with us as to the test results

    [–]Playaguy 15 points16 points  (0 children)

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    Can confirm, Sweden is fucked.

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      [–][deleted] 43 points44 points  (17 children)

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      feminism is worse in sweden than it is in canada.

      [–]IceColdT 16 points17 points  (3 children)

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      Must be pretty bad then.

      [–]tsotha 12 points13 points  (2 children)

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      Sweden's wacky rape laws were in the news recently when Julian Assange ran into trouble, and then there's the laws on prostitution - legal to sell sex, illegal to buy it. There's no question feminists are 100% in control of that country.

      [–]Teabaginz 9 points10 points  (0 children)

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      And they wonder why Swedish men look elsewhere for sex and/or marriage. East Asia is supposed to be really popular with them.

      [–]pushajudas 3 points4 points  (0 children)

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      That isn't too different from the US, despite laws saying it's illegal both ways. Here usually the customer gets arrested and the prostitute gets sent to some rehab centre then released without a record

      [–]Chet_Manly0987 11 points12 points  (19 children)

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      With all the cancerous ideologies (feminism, progressiveness, political correctness) that freely flows in that country, they are now the rape capital of Europe

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        [–]totorox 2 points3 points  (0 children)

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        the author of the video correlates the rise in rape cases to Sweden's increase in Muslim immigration, which does not seem to be a very valid correlation.

        I thought I had some sources, but have some pure propaganda instead

        http://imgur.com/quTMZ5M,cjRBdhC,gjEfHGO,M2wWCi2,uXgLSbf,jKWheWZ,NBbUaIz,MFRhEYb,yT8RYk2,GfBijLj,ZtlIOFn,8OuHsVd

        some of these pics are NSFW (nothing terrible, just childish drawings of sex acts)

        [–]Heuristics 5 points6 points  (7 children)

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        http://www.israelnationalnews.com/News/News.aspx/145161#.UyqjA_ldX_1

        Unlike in Sweden, Norway does not try to hide the statistics as much: "Police Report: All Assault Rapists in Oslo Follow Muhammad"

        [–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (6 children)

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        The Norway report is also aggressively contested (falling victim to many of the same problems as Sweden's report rates), and the source you're offering here is hardly impartial.

        I suspect that immigration plays a role, but it's not the main factor.

        [–]Heuristics 2 points3 points  (5 children)

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        Sweden does not have any such statistics, what are you talking about?

        [–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (4 children)

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        I'm sorry? Sweden has plenty of statistics on rape. The person you responded to mentioned how rape has gone up, but likely for reasons beyond immigration.

        [–]Heuristics 4 points5 points  (3 children)

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        No, Sweden has exactly no statistics at all with regards to the combination of rape and immigration.

        [–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (2 children)

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        Google produced this, so it doesn't seem to have been totally ignored. Forgive the source.

        [–]keyboard_mash 4 points5 points  (2 children)

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        You can't say that increased immigration isn't a factor in the increase of rape just because you don't think it is. The increase could largely be explained by the redefinition of rape, but that's not to say that the massive Muslim immigration has nothing to do with it, given that they're much more likely to rape someone.

        [–]nightshop -1 points0 points  (1 child)

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        Likewise you can't say that increased immigration is a factor just because you happen to believe that it is. Or that Muslims are "much more likely to rape someone". You're gonna have to back that up with something, buddy. Trexjoser at least sourced a very reliable article from a renowned news organisation. What exactly is your source on the number of rapes per religion of rapist?

        [–]totorox 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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        per religion

        Per race. I don't have the source on hand. Anybody could ask /pol/ though. (I can't, I'm banned:)

        Edit : Oh fuck, that's right, it's in Norway that we have a source about that. (see /u/Heuristics's comment below) Same shit though.

        On the general topic of Sweden-bashing but not on the topic of rape, here's http://www.whyileftsweden.com/

        [–]SirNemesis 1 point2 points  (3 children)

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        According to them, what Julian Assange did was rape...

        [–]chupamichalupa 1 point2 points  (1 child)

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        I'm ignorant to this shit, what did he do?

        [–]totorox 6 points7 points  (0 children)

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        He allegedly didn't inform his consensual, adult sex partner that the condom had broken. That's "rape" according to swede law. Said sexual partner has links to the CIA and a history of feminist bullshit of this kind.

        http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-1336291/Wikileaks-Julian-Assanges-2-night-stands-spark-worldwide-hunt.html

        [–]uncommonman 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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        And in Great Britain to.

        [–]theozoph 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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        Well, for an alternate point of view, your article deserves another.

        [–]dbabbitt 2 points3 points  (0 children)

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        America has also broadened their definition of rape, yet the rate is down.

        [–]fopdespotic 7 points8 points  (0 children)

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        Black american culture is a bit different from the rest of American culture in that they're around 40-50 years ahead of us in terms of the state taking over the role of the father and, essentially, normal, healthy interactions between men and women have been utterly destroyed because of it.

        So you'll find it in the U.S., but most likely it will be from a black person's mouth. Whites are well on their way to that point, while Catholicism and rigid xenophobia is protecting normal relations in Latino and Asian communities, respectively.

        [–]rebuildingMyself 2 points3 points  (1 child)

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        It's alright. France banned paternity testing to enable the same behavior

        [–]totorox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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        Anybody got any clue about what paternity testing products are available online ?

        [–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (1 child)

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        There is no such thing as shame or propriety in our society.

        [–]nataliieportman -1 points0 points  (0 children)

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        What exactly do you mean?

        [–]Manuel_S 1 point2 points  (1 child)

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        Parttime, you gotta put out now.

        How is sweden fucked beyond repair??

        [–]FuriousMouse 6 points7 points  (0 children)

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        How is sweden fucked beyond repair??

        The Swedish social system has let in immigrants without much thought on the quality of the people, backgrounds or the quantity since the 1970s.

        On top of that "tolerance" is taken to the extreme, where it literally becomes "surrendering" your values to hostile people who hate you.

        Add feminism to the formula and whatever shit they can come up with is accepted as truth and written into law.

        The results are catastrophic and Sweden is now the nr. 2 country in the world in terms of number of rapes, for example.

        [–]frendlyguy19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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        yeah

        [–]mudra311 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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        Yeah, its actually pretty easy. You can get strangers to disclose just about anything simply by agreeing with them and sharing related stories.

        [–]Sofrates 25 points26 points  (1 child)

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        Great story. I felt like I was there in the CVS with you. Please write more.

        [–]sundaybrunch11 2 points3 points  (0 children)

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        hah, yeah... it was pretty good story telling.

        [–]tlazolteotl 16 points17 points  (0 children)

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        18 years

        18 years

        And on the 18th birthday

        He found out it wasn't his

        [–]CarlsPudding 52 points53 points  (15 children)

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        Don't you just hate being right sometimes?

        [–]fillmoreslimisback[S] 37 points38 points  (12 children)

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        It let me know I was making the right decision. I had a happy ending(so far), but I know plenty of dudes that did the same and didn't.

        Even sadder, I know plenty of guys that are too afraid to do the test and even find out the truth.

        [–]MaxJohnson15 44 points45 points  (11 children)

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        I read an article in men's health that doctors will deliberately hide negative paternity results (lie directly to you) if they feel it's in the child's best interests. Scary as hell.

        [–]Sanju5 14 points15 points  (3 children)

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        What the fuck? That shit is infuriating. How is this shit legal?

        [–]mudra311 20 points21 points  (0 children)

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        It isn't. If its ever found out that the doctor did that, he/she could lose their license.

        Always get a second opinion or just have the test done at birth.

        [–]MaxJohnson15 11 points12 points  (0 children)

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        It's not. I just read an article on a debtor's prison in Alabama that puts poor people in jail for months when they can't pay off simple traffic tickets and then charges them $31/day to be in jail when they can't pay. Cue the vicious cycle.

        Legal or illegal is not always the question. Sometimes it's a matter of who is getting fucked by it and do they have the means / stubbornness to go through the inevitable long drawn out lawsuit to seek justice which we frequently have to pay for in this country. That's why the divorce laws are still the way they are. The only men wealthy enough to fight them are also wealthy enough to just cut a big check to get rid of their golddigging whore for good.

        [–]tsotha 3 points4 points  (0 children)

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        It's not legal, but really, how are you gonna find out? Even if you have the test redone somewhere else there's always the possibility the test results the first doctor got were wrong. To find out for sure you'd probably have to actually sue your doctor and get the documentation in the discovery process.

        Most guys would get the (false) results, shrug, and say "Well, I guess he/she's mine after all." It wouldn't even occur to them to redo the test.

        Personally I think paternity testing should be a legally mandated routine part of birth. Not that women would ever allow that.

        [–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (1 child)

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        Holy shit. Fuck that noise...are there any...links for it ?

        [–]MaxJohnson15 3 points4 points  (0 children)

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        [–]ManicMuffin 0 points1 point  (4 children)

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        How would they know?

        [–]redpillshadow 3 points4 points  (1 child)

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        You look like a good father?

        [–]ManicMuffin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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        I'd be too cool for their own good. Got in a fight, let's be you a sword and a nailgun.

        [–]MaxJohnson15 2 points3 points  (0 children)

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        The guy goes in for a paternity test and the doc shitcans the results because the kid is better off having access to daddy's wallet.

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          [–]CarlsPudding 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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          I see what you did there...

          [–]butter1rum 17 points18 points  (0 children)

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          Oh yeah, Lil Jr is mine and the experience of fatherhood has been very pleasant

          Glad to hear it!

          [–][deleted] 42 points43 points  (2 children)

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          I like to think of that bitch like she was a lil Red-Pill angel and this shit was "It's a Red-Pill life" starring me.

          I fucking laughed so hard.

          [–]heist_of_saint_graft 36 points37 points  (1 child)

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          in the eighties with her jerrhi curl flowing in the wind.

          That's where I lost my shit.

          [–]midnightmasses 21 points22 points  (11 children)

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          LMFAO

          Good to see more fellow black dudes here.... TRP is so obvious in our communities. For real. The black population in the US is like a case study of the "misandry bubble" sidebar article bro. The state is now our children's father figure. And we're so addicted to our social programs that were enslaved again.

          [–]fillmoreslimisback[S] 22 points23 points  (7 children)

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          I'll be honest, I've seen some of the best flat out honest discussions on race in this subreddit than I've seen on the fucking internet. It's one of the only places where people can drop the PC shield and a discussion won't turn into a "I hate niggers", "I hate crackas" type of thing.

          [–]midnightmasses 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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          Totally agree. I'd take the honesty of the white dudes in this sub over politically correct 'tolerance' any day man. Only when you can talk honestly and openly about shit like that can you accomplish ANYTHING.

          [–]Mustaka -1 points0 points  (5 children)

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          Why do black people call white people crackas anyways. Never got that one.

          [–]heist_of_saint_graft 3 points4 points  (2 children)

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          What color is a Saltine?

          [–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (1 child)

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          actually its probably from slave owners cracking whips http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cracker_(pejorative)

          [–]autowikibot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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          Cracker (pejorative):


          Cracker, sometimes white cracker or cracka, is a derogatory term for white people, especially poor rural whites in the Southern United States. In reference to a native of Florida or Georgia, however, it is sometimes used in a neutral or positive context and is sometimes used self-descriptively with pride.

          Image i - "A pair of Georgia crackers" as depicted by James Wells Champney from The Great South by Edward King, 1873


          Interesting: Georgia cracker | Florida cracker

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          probably from slave owners cracking whips http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cracker_(pejorative)

          [–]autowikibot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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          Cracker (pejorative):


          Cracker, sometimes white cracker or cracka, is a derogatory term for white people, especially poor rural whites in the Southern United States. In reference to a native of Florida or Georgia, however, it is sometimes used in a neutral or positive context and is sometimes used self-descriptively with pride.

          Image i - "A pair of Georgia crackers" as depicted by James Wells Champney from The Great South by Edward King, 1873


          Interesting: Georgia cracker | Florida cracker

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          [–]KidStrangelove 5 points6 points  (1 child)

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          came here to say something similar. It's great to see that The Red Pill is not limited by race, since critics often point to it as an "Angry White Thing".

          [–]whatever6 8 points9 points  (0 children)

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          There was a discussion about the black community weeks ago here. Someone demonstrated you guys are ahead by 10 or 15 years in the breakdown of the family unit. Modern society imposes less and less boundaries on female hypergamy and we are all heading in your direction.

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            [–]fillmoreslimisback[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

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            The brand I used was called Identigene. I might do another thread about it and how to use it if folks want it.

            Identigene

            [–]mudra311 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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            Saw an advertisement earlier on one of the TVs at the gym. Maybe its relatively new?

            [–]Imupnthis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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            Off the top try /r/askmen or /r/askreddit. Those are pretty mainstream and would pull a big crowd.

            [–]Satchmo84 9 points10 points  (8 children)

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            It really is interesting how rp appears in facets of life you didn't think about previously. My best friend from high school, the chronic carousel rider who thinks she can jump off and find the perfect man before 40, some of the music I used to listen to that I now can't stand because it's so blue pill, the things about women's choices that used to not have an answer.

            [–]Humble_harpdarp 14 points15 points  (0 children)

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            Man I'm living in Asia and I love how much less PC they are with the way they talk. A lot of them are really blunt with what they say, and have completely confirmed TRP. While saying this stuff in the states will piss people off, here it's just said as a simple truth.

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                    [–]theozoph 0 points1 point  (1 child)

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                    [–]robesta 7 points8 points  (9 children)

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                    Did you just test to be sure, or did something make you suspect?

                    My kids look and act just like me. I just got two Who's Your Daddy kits from amazon. I'll know for sure in a week.

                    [–]fillmoreslimisback[S] 25 points26 points  (8 children)

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                    I just did it to be sure man. In my marriage everything is going well so far, but I know better than to trust something as major as my child's paternity to my feelings.

                    Good job on getting the kits. I would advise all fathers(married or not) to do so.

                    It's a better feeling of attachment and connection with your child when you know for certain that they are yours.

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                      [–]fillmoreslimisback[S] 5 points6 points  (6 children)

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                      A lot of the bulletin points of red-pill philosophy were things I knew grew up with and were taught, but some things I didn't know or were aware of.

                      In the black community for the most part, you're looked up upon if you get married, wait until you are married to have kids and be gainfully employed. I mean in some cases that's all it takes. So you grow up thinking that you should do that to beat the odds and not be another bad stat.

                      I grew up in a pretty good two parent home with both parents very religious and supportive. I think my most blue pill trait is that it was my "duty" to be good and get married etc.

                      I was well onto my way to blue pill normalcy until college. I figured out red pill shit way before it had a name and I was a hoe pretty much through the whole thing. I fucked a lot of bitches man and it was good. But by the time I graduated my blue pill lessons from childhood were still in me. I thought that period of being a man whore was something you were supposed to do and get out and be serious. So I went about the business of getting in an LTR and about 7 years later(I was not rushing into that shit) I got married.

                      As for my wife she's a good chick(so far). She was raised in a two parent military home(they're divorced now. It's coming to light how much of a red pill mutha fucka her daddy always was). So it ain't that bad......yet.

                      The red pill has taught me that I have made some mistakes(I wouldn't have gave in to marriage knowing what I know now), but that I have done some things very right. That's what learning is all about though.

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                      I think my most blue pill trait is that it was my "duty" to be good and get married etc.

                      As i'm thinking over the rp-bp, I see a lot of my bp beliefs are rooted in my idea of "duty" as I learned from my father. Ironically, he wasn't very bp, it only appears that way from a distance.

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                        [–]theozoph 7 points8 points  (3 children)

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                        Nah, he's just keeping it real. Dread game works two way : if she steps out, you'll dump/discipline her ass, but if you go beta, she'll cheat/dump you.

                        No one's safe from that. Your little unicorn angel is only that until you fuck up and go too beta. Then it's AWALT.

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                          [–]theozoph 2 points3 points  (0 children)

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                          I took it more as a reminder not to get complacent, but I get your point.

                          [–]19 Endorsed Contributordrrrrrr 9 points10 points  (5 children)

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                          This here is why late 80s and early 90s produced some of the most misogynistic (re: honest) rap songs in rap's history.

                          [–]geenomike 0 points1 point  (3 children)

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                          Like what?

                          [–]19 Endorsed Contributordrrrrrr 6 points7 points  (1 child)

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                          Ok, a brief history of some RP rap classics criticized as misogynistic - The Great Adventures of Slick Rick (first song - Treat Her like a Prostitute). Ice Cube's I Ain't Tha 1 (very funny song.) It appears in a lot of the fundamental West coast albums - The Chronic, Doggystyle (Dr. Dre and Snoop, fathered g-funk rap in 92-93). Those were some of the first albums to stress the importance of condoms, preventing sperm-jacking, avoiding post-wall women (check out Snoop's line on Gin & Juice), and not wasting money on hoes. Tupac was influenced by this scene, and certainly had very RP songs, despite retaining a very positive outlook on women as a whole - part of why academics / intellectuals can think of Pac as a heroic martyr.

                          East coast rap in my understanding emulated a lot of these ideas in 93-96 classics, aka both Biggie albums, Reasonable Doubt by Jay-Z. Common's I Used to Love HER is a interesting piece, probably one of the most recognized "top 5" hip hop songs material, and the premise is that hip hop, once this meaningful unique unicorn girl to him, has been turned out and degraded to being this piece of commercial, club trash getting passed around by a bunch of gangsters. Now he's looking at this 32 year old whore and thinking damn, I used to love her when she was 18. He wrote this in 1994, yet basically predicts the future commercial raping of hiphop that would happen the minute women and white people figured out about it.

                          [–]geenomike 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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                          I grew up with these songs and always just accepted them for truth. Never really thought of them in the RP context. Thanks for the reply.

                          [–]Sturmgeist781 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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                          [–]hadvarian 9 points10 points  (9 children)

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                          Yes, AWALT and it's not a matter of generation. How a female behaves is a reflection of how her man has trained her. Congrats on keeping yours in line.

                          [–]NGGYUNGLYDNGRAADY 0 points1 point  (8 children)

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                          Awalt?

                          [–]vallav111 5 points6 points  (7 children)

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                          all women are like that

                          [–]NGGYUNGLYDNGRAADY -1 points0 points  (6 children)

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                          Thanks. Didn't see it in the glossary of terms.

                          [–]IDefyAxioms 0 points1 point  (5 children)

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                          Ctrl + f --> AWALT

                          [–]NGGYUNGLYDNGRAADY 0 points1 point  (4 children)

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                          I did that. It wasn't in the glossary of terms on the side bar.

                          [–]IDefyAxioms 0 points1 point  (3 children)

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                          Ah. You would have had to look at NAWALT, then simply subtract the 'N'. My bad.

                          [–]NGGYUNGLYDNGRAADY 0 points1 point  (2 children)

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                          Is there more than one glossary of terms?

                          [–]IDefyAxioms 0 points1 point  (1 child)

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                          [–]NGGYUNGLYDNGRAADY 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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                          I think I searched for AWOLT. My bad.
                          Thanks man.

                          [–]Deano101 1 point2 points  (3 children)

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                          What are the chances!? Congrats on the newborn, assuming he's yours ;)

                          [–]1KyfhoMyoba 8 points9 points  (2 children)

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                          He said it was, read the post

                          [–]Deano101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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                          He added that line after I read it, thanks anyway

                          [–]lolojahkno 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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                          It's basically walgreens with booze, we have a bunch of them across the street from walgreens in Lincoln every where

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                          I imagined Charlie Murphy saying this.....this pleases me. Interesting story

                          [–]MahlerNinth 0 points1 point  (2 children)

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                          Glad to hear you had the happy ending in this.

                          Slightly related q: so a couple of good friends of mine have both been married a few years and just had their first kids. What's the best/most diplomatic way to suggest a paternity test to them? (These are guys who both trust their wives a lot, so would almost certainly get upset at any insinuation of cheating.)

                          [–]fillmoreslimisback[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

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                          That's a tough one man. It was easy for me to come to my own conclusions, but i think it would be hard to convince even a close friend to do it.

                          One thing is to push the pros of it. It's discreet. He can use it in the house and send it off the same night and no one would ever know. It's not that expensive.

                          Tell him to think of it like this. When he dies and all that hard work he has accumulated has to be passed on, does he really want his life's wealth to be passed on to some other dude's kid and then some guy steps back in the picture and start playing grandpa all of a sudden?

                          At no point in history have men ever had the chance to be able to this. We live in a time where we can use science from our homes to prove the paternity of our kids. There's no reason to let the opportunity of being sure pass by.

                          [–]cascadecombo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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                          Just say you read a stat, and am curious if he ever considered double checking.

                          [–]dawg826 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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                          That's fillmoe for you haha.

                          [–]flam3srock 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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                          This is a real phenomenon, but maybe in this case she was just taking the piss?

                          [–]adamlikesprettygirls 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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                          Cosmic forces in action

                          [–]shamanbard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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                          Great post! I like how you wrote "blind ass ass". Could be a typo, "but blind-ass ass" is really funny.I'm stealing it. Deal with it.

                          [–]heeb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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                          Congratulations!

                          [–]sir_wankalot_here 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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                          Why you should talk to old ladies, they are a gold mine of info :)

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                          "I know better than to interrupt the hamster in motion." Classic.

                          Note to self, internalize this principle.

                          [–]bgat79 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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                          "You should've seen the look in her eyes as she was dreaming of that old alpha dick in her carousel riding days in the eighties with her jerrhi curl flowing in the wind."

                          i like the way you write son.

                          [–]tsotha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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                          Thank God the kid is yours. I have no idea what I'd do if I were married and my test came back "unrelated". Everything I'd want to do is highly illegal.

                          [–]nubswag -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

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                          This is a good theory post. You seem a little too bitter towards women however, and resentment will rot you from the inside man. Good luck.

                          [–]Hughtub -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

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                          Do this: go back and console in her that it turns out you are not the father (even if you are) and say, "it doesn't matter, I love her and I'm gonna take care of her." Do this JUST to be able to say "hey, you oughta do the test, and let me know how it turns out."

                          Worth a shot. You saying you love her no matter what might get her to think that HER faux baby daddy would do the same. Better to know more info than not. You're in a powerful position.