*This is quite long. Lots of information. I'm not going to TLDR. Read motherfuckers.
For the safety of my own job I can't specify the nightclub, let's just say it's quite famous. I perform security duties there and while I've done security my whole life, nightclubs are a different beast than anything on Earth.
1.Status is Everything. I used to frequent this night club before I began working there and let me tell you something: My success rate was average at best. I could grab the 6/7s at a decent rate, but even they would stick their nose up quite often and make me work for it. The 8-10s wouldn't even give me 10 words.
The second I put on my uniform--a uniform that looked exactly like the outfit I would wear to the club---these women began coming on to me without any provocation. They want to dance on me. They want to talk to me. They give me their numbers without me even hinting at wanting them. When I say the same girls, I don't mean women like them, I mean THE SAME EXACT WOMEN.
What women perceive as status and power and what is actual status and power are the same thing. Remember that.
2.Eye Contact is Strong. I've learned through years of security how important eye contact is. I make it with everyone who comes through the door, men and women. It's a fantastic criminal deterrent because people feel like you've noticed them and made contact, and now they don't want to disappoint someone they know. They're also easier to handle if something does happen.
This strong eye contact works absolute wonders with women. I refuse to look away first and women LOVE being noticed. I get most of the numbers simply by refusing to look away and women feel compelled to come figure out why.
3.Smiling is Stupid. Never Smile Without Great Reason. Ever notice how black guys never smile in pictures? Notice how bouncers and security rarely smile ever? This is on purpose. Smiling is a powerful tool, one that says a lot about you and the situation.
People, especially women, like making people happy. They are submissive at hearts which means they gain ultimate pleasure from pleasing others, especially a strong man. Not smiling makes you look unhappy and unsatisfied with their company, and women and weak men will do anything to make you like them. The things women have done to make me smile is hilarious---I had this white girl bend over, exposing her no pantied ass, and shake that shit just to make me smile. Not smiling is a very powerful tool.
4.There Is No Such Thing As Degrading Women. No one is forcing women or coercing them to be slutty. No one. No one makes women show up in the shortest mini skirts humanly possible. No one makes them cut their jeans into shorts until their butt cheeks show. No one makes them wear no panties then bend over to shake it.
Women could dress however they want to. They choose to dress this way because they WANT TO BE SEXUAL OBJECTS. Women could dance however they want to. They grind and dry hump BECAUSE THEY WANT TO BE SEXUAL OBJECTS. I have a massive dance floor but women beg me, literally BEG ME to dance on the poles. Beg me. They want to be sexually gratified, to be seen as sexual objects. They want to be wanted. They all want a Blue Ribbon that says 1st Place.
Never ever forget this. Your girl, as perfect and sweet as you think she is, wants to be a filthy slut for you. She wants you to make her a sexual object.
5.Wear A Suit, Nigga. Wear A Suit. Not much to say here. The difference between that untucked button up(woof, don't ever do this) and a man in a suit is MASSIVE. Handsome men in that sloppy button up look worse than average men in a nice fitting suit. Fitting part is very important. I'm not saying you have to go European Cut, but get that shit tailored my dude.
6.The 90/10% Effect is Painfully Obvious. When Tinder released its results about how a large percentage of women were swiping the same small amount of guys no one who reads here was surprised, but seeing it live is absolutely astounding.
Each night the bar is packed with dozens of guys in their shitty button ups tucked in watching a the same guys talk, grab, flirt, kiss, and grind every girl in the club. They stand there and order 20 dollar drinks that only cost 20 dollars because they're paying a Hot Girl Tax---which means you're paying extra because of the quality of women in the place---and they aren't getting anything out of it.
It's like paying for Social Security and then choosing to kill yourself the day before it kicks in. It's like paying for Medical Insurance and then never getting a check up. And these men willingly accept it, hoping some woman walks by and magically likes them.
7.Know Your Type Of Woman. I'm going to be frank: race matters more with women than it does with men. Most men react to most situations pretty much the same---The only difference is with tipping: British guys tips ALOT, Indian men not at all.
But with women it is fascinating. The most friendly, outgoing, and receptive women are Latin women followed by white women. Latin some dress more conservatively but are more likely to approach you with interest. White women dress sluttier than anyone in the club and usually approach you to impress their friends and get attention. They're also the most likely to ask what you're doing after work because they have a room.
Indian Women will never, and I mean ever, make eye contact. They either consider us beneath them or are too timid to hold eye contact with someone imposing. The point is, know what you're looking for and know what to avoid. Unless you're Brad Pitt or Channing Tatum, handsome, world famous, and powerful, every woman will not be into you. This is ok. Know your target audience and learn how to deliver to them.
8.Women Are Followers. We've all been there. We've all heard it. Women saying they're special, wanting to be treated unique. That's projecting. Women are followers and they KNOW IT. How do I know?
Because every girl shows up wearing the same exact outfit: Belly shirt and high waisted shorts. This is the style. This is the trend. They all follow it. They all knowingly wear the same outfit day after day. They all flirt with the same guys. They all drink the same drink.
Most importantly, when the crowd moves to an area, you can literally watch women impulsively move with it. They HAVE to be a part of the group and crowd. They crave, nay, they NEED to be accepted by it.
9.Direct Game is the Best Game. I've watched average looking dudes pull women 2-3 points higher than them by being direct. I don't mean walking up behind a girl and trying to grind on her. That's stupid and corny and will get you the "creepy look". What I mean is walking up to a woman, touching her as soon as possible, and bringing her into your center of gravity. Make your intentions known from the jump. These women are out here to meet people and don't have time to waste on men who are scared or hesitant.