1 year ago
I find out my first LTR is cheating on me. I break up with her. I bury myself in /r/relationships seeking support, advice and strategies. Ex-LTR wants to work things out. The image of her with someone else physically disgusts me. Maybe I need to come to terms with the past and move on with her.
Somewhere on reddit, /r/TheRedPill is mentioned. Out of curiosity, I enter.
6 months later (6 months ago)
I write two field reports, which you can find in my submission history.
At the time of writing, I had just had some of the most “bizarre” sexual encounters of my life.
- I fucked a slut with my best friends in a gangbang that is now folklore in my social circle
- I fucked a bride to be 6 weeks from her wedding date 4 hours after meeting her.
- (unmentioned in FR) I fucked a girl who my two best friends bet me I could never get.
- I fucked a “lesbian”.
I honestly felt like I was living someone else’s life. The entire spectrum of my sex life prior to TRP was drunken one night stands with fat chicks, ugly chicks, single moms and.. yea that’s all.
1 Year after finding TRP – 6 months after first Field Report – Today
Life is different.
The stories of sexual encounters like the ones in my FR’s have continued. I stopped coming here to share them because they don’t tell the story any different than my previous FR’s. And if you come to TRP long enough, the field reports are all the same.
Nonetheless, there have been tinder-sluts I fucked in the back of their cars in a parking garage, girls who’s names I didn’t know sucking my dick, girls begging me to let them sleep with me, professional acquaintances inviting me over for sex, and a regular rotation of plates. In the past year I’ve effectively tripled my body count from the 23 years prior.
Getting laid regularly is nice, but that shit is secondary to the REAL benefit I have gained from TRP. The benefit of frame. The realization that putting yourself first is the real way to succeed in life (who the fuck would have thought?).
Last week I gave my boss two months notice, so they would have time to find a replacement I could train before leaving. I can’t let this part of my life go on the way it has. I don’t believe in my work, I don’t enjoy it, and I don’t want to trade the minutes of my life for money to spend on things I can’t enjoy since I’m at work all the fucking time. I’m going to focus on my dreams and goals.
The Red Pill is affecting my career.
I started practicing Brazilian Jiu Jitsu. I regularly venture to the mat to be tapped out, choked out and dominated by men who are much better at it than me. It’s a challenge to my ego every single time. Younger, less successful men can tap me out. That’s a reality I face every day on that mat.
Prior to TRP, my ego was a fragile bitch. Anything that challenged my ego was removed from my life.
Women challenged my ego, because I was unsuccessful with them. So, I removed them from my life. I tried to tell myself that I didn’t need women anyway, and that I was fine with being alone every Friday/Saturday night.
Lifting weights made me feel inadequate, cause that dude on the bench next to me was putting up double my weight. Fuck that, not doing it.
My ego was hamstring, because facing your inadequacies sucks. It’s easier to deny they exist. The Blue Pill is fucking easier.
But, with a proper frame, you can even break your own hamster.
With a proper frame, you don’t take shit from the little bitch in your mind, the same way you don’t take shit from other people.
This is what I really have found value in with TRP. It starts with how you carry yourself and maintain frame in social settings, but it starts to invade other places and the same principles work.
Strange how looking out for yourself first actually gets you somewhere you want to be. Even more strange is how we’re all raised to think that any other strategy will work.
TL;DR You will hear here, that this is primarily a place to discuss "sexual strategy". That may be the intent, but the mindset you gain by applying the principles you learn here will help you in every way.
My goal is to become a father in the coming years. My children will need a great father to reach their potential. TRP is helping make that happen.
Edit: FP in the title should say FR. Sorry.