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    [–]textualintercourse 44 points45 points  (2 children)

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    This. Whenever discussing religion or philosophy or any type of debate, I know for a fact that the person I am discussing / debating /whatever has zero hopes for a rational thought out dialogue, I keep at it just because of the lurkers / onlookers who don't have personal skin in the game and are open to analyzing what's going on. The armchair quarterback in all of us kicks in and looks at all the possibilities instead of the two in the ring digging in their heals and not budging. The argument is for those on the sidelines watching.

    [–]ilike2partyhowaboutu 4 points5 points  (0 children)

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    Nothing makes me smile more then having a debate with someone who is never going to expand their reality past their own and I say something short and to the point and as they stammer for a rebuttal I overhear the kitchen staff laughing and agreeing with me.

    [–]ilike2partyhowaboutu 45 points46 points  (2 children)

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    When I worked for the government I was walking with a buddy to the elevators in a large building to head out for lunch... and we were talking about something and I said "Yeah one of the chicks I am seeing is really good at cooking"

    This short haired business woman in her 30's walks over and starts giving me shit for referring to a woman as "a chick"

    I calmly smiled at her and said loud enough for the other people to over hear: "Would you mind your own business!?.. I'm feeling very harassed right now and would appreciated it if you left me alone!"

    Turned that shit right around on her and she shut the fuck up.

    [–]100 Modbsutansalt 22 points23 points  (0 children)

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    You handled her feminist shit test by performing a pressure flip, which is another way of saying you put her on the defensive.

    [–]vaker 16 points17 points  (0 children)

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    Well done sir, well done.

    In OPs case I would have just shamed the feminist: "Are you upset he didn't bang you instead?" Complete with shit eating grin in her face.

    You know how they like to shame males opposing them as virgin neckbeards living in mom's basement? Just turn that shit right around on them.

    [–]1redpillbanana 64 points65 points  (0 children)

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    This is why feminists hate reversing the genders - it exposes their privileged position.

    [–]carolinadreams 27 points28 points  (6 children)

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    The problem may be that the average woman is overly empowered by the fawning idiots who will shower her with unlimited attention, validation, gifts, support etc for just the hope of sniffing her bits. Because they are never challenged they don't actually have to grow as human beings or develop any sort of intrinsic worth or ability.

    [–]Chippendork 6 points7 points  (5 children)

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    When did this shit start? I feel like everything got a million times worse once online dating started getting popular and we created a standing army of men waiting to lavish unlimited attention on any disgusting sow with an internet connection. Could just be my perception. Anybody else notice this?

    [–]2asd1100 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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    in the seventies, hippie free for all love basically removed the concept of worth from actual values. Since then it's constantly been a self worth free for all, except looser men than don't respect everyone for the simple fact that they exist. The irony is that since then both bullying and low self worth escalated as a consequence of everyone having absolute equal value, except women, when they achieve something they are twice as worthy because of patriarchy.

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      [–]Chippendork 1 point2 points  (2 children)

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      I'm not sure that can be said with authority. I certainly wasn't there. Surely the era was one of progressivist dirty tricks, but I'm not talking politics; I'm talking culture. I'm new here, but browsing around Reddit, I'm just absolutely stunned at the culture of fawning wuss men and angry women. What are they so mad about? And for the men, what good does it do to be so pathetic around women that they will never see in person? In the 90s, the internet had no divisions by race, sex, politics, or religion. Everybody believed only in knowledge, freedom, and meritocracy. There was no advertisement-driven crap content except in porn because nobody would buy that crap. One day my browser loaded MSN.com and I was shocked to see some stupid half-wit article about Britney Spears paired with an ad for paid online dating. All of the sudden, all the free web communities started getting bought out and shut down, or just starved out by search engines that mysteriously started pointing to crap after they were bought out, so we moved to another, and another and another until there was nothing left. So then the internet was basically nothing but dudes trying to get laid on AOL IMer, then Facebook, now Snapchat etc., or failing that, jacking off to porn. The internet went from being a library of unfettered knowledge sharing to a shrine to worship femininity (in men and women). A time traveller would think we've all succumbed to some Dionysian cult.

      So anyway, to me, the inflection point was when big businesses realized that they could make money by charging men for access to women, and advertising worthless crap to women after offering free attention from men.

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        [–]Chippendork 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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        Good point. I guess I'm asking because I've sort of been ignoring pop culture for the last 5 years (spending a lot of time in Afghanistan), and every time I come back to the US after a tour, it feels like I stepped into the twilight zone. Old people are on Facebook. Young girls are sending naked pictures to random dudes. Women dominate all internet discussion. Men fight over who is more feminist. Prostitution is now fully normal in the form of sugar baby arrangements. Dumb shit web sites that used to be weekend projects, now have billion dollar valuations.

        I could go on....

        [–]JenzelWashington 108 points109 points  (21 children)

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        Feminists are like religious extremists. No amount of logic, well-thought-out arguments or scientific studies will change her mind. She did you a favor by letting it go. She stopped it, because she knew there was no winning against you.

        [–]aginpro 24 points25 points  (3 children)

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        "arguing with feminists is like playing chess with a pigeon, It doesn't matter how well you do it or how well you play, The pigeon will still shit on the board and fly away."

        [–]JenzelWashington 4 points5 points  (1 child)

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        I'm stealing this.

        [–]aginpro 7 points8 points  (0 children)

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        I stole it from someone else, so go ahead.

        [–]wonderfulish 17 points18 points  (0 children)

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        I called a girl a "chick." Some other girl started giving me shit about how this girl was a "woman" and not a "chick." I asked her what she thinks about the term "dude" for guys. She said that it was different. fucking idiot.

        [–]selfsufficientnigga 63 points64 points  (15 children)

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        They are not 'like' religious extremists, they are religious extremists. Modern feminism is a religion for all practical purposes.

        [–]SweetiePieJonas 24 points25 points  (11 children)

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        When I was younger, I used to think that religion wasn't long for the world. As I've grown older, I've come to realize that it's only the traditional supernatural religions that are dying off. As religious traditions that are hundreds or thousands of years old wane in their relevance and impact on society, new secular traditions that function exactly the same way are waxing.

        Feminism is only one of them. I would, for example, describe Objectivism as a secular religion as well.

        EDIT: Some more I can think of right now: Atheism Plus, "Beliebers" and other celebrity cults of personality, radical environmentalism, certain self-help groups (don't forget that Scientology began as the self-help group called "Dianetics"), Transhumanism, Amway, and even (bring on the downvotes) the more rabid wing of TRP.

        [–]JoDoStaffShow 18 points19 points  (5 children)

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        I'd throw in unwavering loyalty to one's nation/state - even when faced with the atrocities it has perpetrated. Stateism.

        [–]SweetiePieJonas 12 points13 points  (2 children)

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        Definitely. The state religion in North Korea, which actually deified Kim Il-Sung (Kim Jong-Il's father and the first communist dictator there), is an extreme example but all nations promote some version of this.

        [–]WAFC 2 points3 points  (0 children)

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        No 'e' in statism, FWIW.

        And that's not new. It's always been hand-in-hand with religion.

        [–]SeekingAlpha 2 points3 points  (0 children)

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        Patriotism, Nationalism, Jingoism would all be better descriptions than Statism for what you described.

        Statism does not mean what I infer you think it means.

        [–]jorgander 5 points6 points  (3 children)

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        Religion in any form will always exist, simply because the average person lacks the will and intellect to think things through for themselves. As you say, we are moving from traditional God religions to others, which I would say are related to social justice (feminism, alternate lifestyles and sexualities, etc.).

        For example, social justice dictates that criticizing Russia for being anti-gay and trying to convert them to Tolerance is ok. However, it also says that God religions should be more sensitive to other cultures and ways of life.

        [–]suscitare 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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        All forms of knowledge rely on certain unsubstantiated axioms for them to be built upon. Religion often provides the justification for these unsubstantiated axioms. The book of Genesis for example.

        [–]SweetiePieJonas -1 points0 points  (1 child)

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        They don't all relate to "social justice," in fact I would say that most of them don't.

        [–]jorgander 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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        Perhaps we are defining religion differently. In this context I was using it to mean the belief(s) people have that allow them to justify effecting changes in other people. But I understand it can have other meanings, such as referring to any faith-based belief.

        [–]selfsufficientnigga 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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        I have googled for it, but apparently noone has written extensively on this observation I have:

        Feminism shares a lot of traits with christianism. There's the fake call for equality while being very exclusionary, there is the eternal victim complex, there is the pushing of the 'original sin' on everyone to enable the shaming manipulations, there is the ruthless extermination of any dissenting voices, there is destruction of 'older religions' and cooption of their motifs, and so on and so on.

        [–]Hardparty 0 points1 point  (1 child)

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        yeah before you know it they'll be asking to be tax exempt because of their berginas

        [–]Endorsed Contributornyrp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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        Bergerners

        [–]JustThrewUp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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        ALL HAIL PATRIARCHY.

        [–]1 Endorsed Contributormordanus 34 points35 points  (18 children)

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        Never let someone do that "let's change the subject" or agree to disagree crap. Just say "Ok, but (rephrase question/accusation). Never let them leave the conversation with that type of moral superiority where it's your fault that she feels like a tard. Make her acknowledge that it's her idiocy that is at fault.

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          [–]1 Endorsed Contributormordanus 2 points3 points  (4 children)

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          If he is going to get into it enough to explain that she is full of shit to bring up something stupid he shouldn't have stopped before finishing it. She still blames the guys for her bullshit. He tried to teach her she was wrong and stopped short. If he was trying to make sure everyone was just having a good time he could have just changed the subject instead of confronting her.

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            [–]1 Endorsed Contributormordanus 6 points7 points  (0 children)

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            True enough. I was raised by a group of feminist women who were all debate team champion's and lawyers and shit. I know every one of their dirty tricks and how they work a crowd. I have crushed them on facts and arguments before only to have them bring them back up years later still thinking that they won and telling everyone how dumb you are the whole time.

            Women's gossip is their weapon and they love destroying the reputation of someone they hate. So when I get into an argument with a woman I just keep it friendly and keep it on point until I make them admit they were wrong with their own mouth. The "Lets drop it" or "agree to disagree" is their way of making you out to be an idiot that won't see reason.

            [–]dancingwithcats 3 points4 points  (1 child)

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            I disagree. The others there got his point. Creating contention in a social setting wouldn't have helped. It certainly wouldn't have changed her mind, and it would have spoiled whatever good time others were having.

            Pick your battles. There are times when one doesn't need to just charge ahead full steam.

            [–]1 Endorsed Contributormordanus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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            I do pick my battles. I'm not afraid of contention and all you would have to do is frame it with a sense of humor. Amused mastery would work well here and then you get her to acknowledge how dumb her comment is and it's still kept light. There's no sense in backing down once you've started a conflict.

            [–]100 Modbsutansalt 14 points15 points  (0 children)

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            I agree in not letting them off the hook.

            "Just drop it."
            "Uh, no. You offended me by saying something quite sexist. I think you should apologize to all the men here.

            Engage their ego and often times they'll just dig a deeper hole for themselves that will further cement your "win" in the eyes of other people party to the conversation.

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            I love this community.

            [–]boydeer 1 point2 points  (3 children)

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            i tend to drop it after they refuse three times. three is a magic number.

            [–]1 Endorsed Contributormordanus 2 points3 points  (2 children)

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            I don't usually have them drop it a second time. By the time someone is to that point they are too emotional to think very logically. I had someone say "Let's agree to disagree" to which I responded "Ok, but you're still wrong." Started it back up again. "I don't want to talk about it with you" "Ok but you said you did x but really you did y." Starts them back up again. Chuckle at them, tell them it's ok to be afraid, that kind of crap.

            The people I grew up with were exceptionally harsh with arguments. I have had them bring up arguments 4 years later trying to beat me.

            Anyways, I agree with you on it that if they absolutely refuse to engage you have to just chuckle at them and do your own thing. Otherwise you end up looking like a douche bag bully.

            [–]boydeer 1 point2 points  (1 child)

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            it certainly depends on the context. and i don't mean i push aggressively three times, but rather if someone is being unfair and they affirm it three times, it's much harder to pretend anything to the contrary.

            [–]1 Endorsed Contributormordanus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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            agreed

            [–]The-Doctor-94 0 points1 point  (2 children)

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            Pushing too hard just ruins everyone's time. No-one wants to have to put up with a guy who just won't let something small go. Going too hard into the argument will probably do more harm to the argument then good anyway. Eventually they'll start to side with the defense, just because they don't want to be associated with the attack.

            [–]1 Endorsed Contributormordanus 0 points1 point  (1 child)

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            Not in my experience. It is all about how you frame it. Do the argument as amused mastery and it fits easily. I've also always been the asshole in the group that I do stuff with so that kind of behavior is almost demanded of me for some reason. To be honest I think far too many people are afraid of confrontation. They get all jittery from it and shy away every time. Get to the point that confrontation doesn't scare you and you'll be all good.

            [–]The-Doctor-94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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            It depends on the social group, really. Most people just tend to want to chill and not worry about that sort of thing. Confrontation doesn't scare me (I love being outspoken, and have gained respect from peers for it), it's just that there's a time and a place.

            [–]Endorsed ContributorpuaSenator -1 points0 points  (2 children)

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            Why do you have to prove to them their own idiocy? No one likes an asshole. In these social situations I'd just drop it. People like positive fun attitudes when going out, not confrontational attitudes.

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            It is important to go far enough that you're not taking shit

            [–]1 Endorsed Contributormordanus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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            Because it wouldn't have been me that brought the confrontational attitude. The girl in this story is the one that started the fight and started attacking people. She then couldn't back up her argument. How would it be me being an asshole to make her acknowledge her own hypocrisy? I see that as this bitch is trying to bully someone into her way of thinking and that would be me standing up to a bully. If I don't put the bully in it's place it will just pick a fight with someone else later.

            [–]NotSoBetaBeta 42 points43 points  (3 children)

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            Never waste your time trying to convince a feminist through the use of logic. Next just dismiss what ever is being said and reply with something 100x more ridiculous than what was previously said.

            [–]nninja 4 points5 points  (2 children)

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            ya she has 100s of stored ridiculous lines waiting to be used

            [–]haterandhypocrite 11 points12 points  (1 child)

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            One hundreds of them.

            [–]TheBromethius -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

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            She got a Benjamin's worth of em.

            [–]1pcadrian 13 points14 points  (1 child)

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            In the interest of not ruining everyone's night I left it at that but MAN did I want to press her.

            Looks to me like a flawless victory. Don't bother arguing with idiots, they will bring you down to their level and beat you with experience ;)

            [–]nninja 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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            exactly, anyone with half an unbiased brain would've seen you won

            [–]17 Endorsed ContributorJP_Whoregan 18 points19 points  (1 child)

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            Never argue with an idiot. People watching from afar may not be able to tell the difference.

            [–]1 Endorsed Contributorvandaalen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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            [–]1TVTestPattern 46 points47 points  (39 children)

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            You gotta let that shit go man... or get comfortable with having to school hamsters for the rest of your life.

            The proper reply to this was, "Get me a sandwich." (With a shit-eating grin & full eye contact) That dismisses the girl's comment as the childish nonsense it is, and communicates to everyone that it isn't your job to take out her trash.

            [–]draketton 27 points28 points  (1 child)

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            That's more of a reply for a one on one conversation. If you're arguing in front of your mutual social circle you really do want to press on and deconstruct her argument logically, for the sake of the spectators, not the hamster herself.

            [–]1TVTestPattern 5 points6 points  (0 children)

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            Good point

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            The proper reply to this was, "Get me a sandwich."

            It can be, but I think that his response was just fine. Sometimes, people who are wrong need to be publicly proven as such.

            [–]Toctsx 25 points26 points  (0 children)

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            Yeah I agree. His response would have made me laugh, and then go up to him later and pat him on the back or something. Telling her to "get him a sandwich" would make me roll my eyes and see him as one of those guys that never really moved past high school

            [–]SmellyJelly22 14 points15 points  (8 children)

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            The proper reply to this was, "Get me a sandwich."

            So you're telling the guy to "let shit go" and then you tell her to go get him a sandwich?

            That's a joke, right?

            [–]1TVTestPattern -2 points-1 points  (7 children)

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            lol perhaps not as clear as I'd like. Let go of buying into the hampster dialogue.

            How to do that?

            Flip the script... as in "Get me a sandwhich." Casually mocking the stereotypical sexist phrase.

            [–]SmellyJelly22 11 points12 points  (6 children)

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            What's the point of that? You would just get them angry. That doesn't solve anything and you don't win anything.

            [–]1TVTestPattern 2 points3 points  (5 children)

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            Sarcasm... that's the point. What OP said is correct IMO, and would be perfectly suited if he were speaking to a man. Same thing we are doing here...

            But not when speaking to a child like OP was in his situation. Being sarcastic allows me to frame a response in her native language so to speak. I'm going to make fun of the naive thing you just said, while my body language let's her & everyone else know I'm letting her off the hook for being a kid.

            What do you win?

            Respect for not hampstering away with her from my peers, and an end to a juvenile and pointless conversation.

            [–]SmellyJelly22 4 points5 points  (4 children)

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            Sarcasm... that's the point.

            Uhhh ... idiots are just going to interpret the sarcasm as being literal. Haven't you seen the whole furor of feminists getting mad at rape jokes?

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              [–]SmellyJelly22 4 points5 points  (0 children)

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              that wasn't the point. Point is that they take jokes literally when they don't like the subject matter. They selectively choose to not interpret things as "jokes."

              [–]1TVTestPattern -2 points-1 points  (1 child)

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              Sure... so what? You seem to really care what these chicks get mad at... who cares?

              Oh... you do...

              Is all good buddy... let go & bang poon.

              [–]magx01[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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              The point he was making is that if the conversation ends with her getting mad and thinking that she was right/"won" the argument, she walks away with an even more inflated ego and perception of her level of correctness regarding the issue at hand. It might not matter if you look at it as a localized incident, but the larger context is important too.

              [–]scramtek 5 points6 points  (8 children)

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              Genuine question: Can hamsters be educated about their confused ways?
              Wouldn't this be fighting a lost cause?

              Alternatively, what benefit is there in attempting such discourse with the hamster?
              Can they ever accept the fundamental differences between us and realise that feminist bleetings are self-defeating?
              I accept the argument of 'equality' between sexes, but doubt that it can be realised.

              [–]Deano101 9 points10 points  (2 children)

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              If you fuck a girls brains out, she'll let you teach her anything (genuine answer).

              Eidt: she'll be more open minded

              [–]scramtek 3 points4 points  (0 children)

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              Really? Out of the hundreds of girls I've been with, most may appear enthralled and eager to be educated, but I judge that to be a short-term tactic of theirs.
              They wish to appear wide-eyed and as a supplicant. But IMO, this is a ploy to drag you into a dependency-based relationship.

              Once they've got you hooked, the dynamic of the relationship slowly but surely changes. If you're unaware of the realities of male-female relationships that is..

              [–]Meglomaniac 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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              I will add to this.

              I think that you can definitely teach, one woman in a relationship, the redpill ways. if you were able to get her young and willing to listen/learn.

              I dont think you could ever teach every hamster you meet. Your best move is to say nothing.

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                [–]jcrpta 3 points4 points  (1 child)

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                This might sound non PC but it's like training a dog or a child.

                There is no shame in saying something that sounds non-PC in here. Hell, by most societal standards the very concept of the redpill is non-PC.

                [–]SmellyJelly22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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                Genuine question: Can hamsters be educated about their confused ways?

                Yes, but it takes a looooong loooong time and also usually requires them to have some personal experience showing that their ideas are stupid. Long story short: not worth it.

                [–]nninja 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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                No, no one can be "educated". You can only suggest things and let them come to the proper conclusions. This goes for men and women. Don't waste your time trying to be right.

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                  [–]anarqy 1 point2 points  (5 children)

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                  If in the context of a LTR is it ever correct to inject logic in hopes of diminishing the hamster little by little? Or do we assume that it will always go in one ear then out the other?

                  [–]magx01[S] 3 points4 points  (2 children)

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                  It usually ends up with them somehow emotionally re-validating their initial position based off of some small "win" in the conversation even if 95% of it consisted of her seeing your point and realizing that she had no rational response. Or they'll agree in front of you and then do the above once they're alone and the hamster spins until it can refortify the gates of her ego.

                  It's very rare, in my experience at least, for them to do what I and most of us would do; you know, acknowledge the logic and shift their position.

                  [–]anarqy 1 point2 points  (1 child)

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                  Yeah I've been in that situation where they say they agree but I can tell by looking at their blank eyes that no ones home in there. Kind of depressing that I'll always have to constantly battle the hamster but c'est la vie. I just have to work on accepting it.

                  [–]cashmoney_x 2 points3 points  (0 children)

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                  perhaps, or just go mgtow and stick to one night stands, fwb's, short term relationships, or go total mgtow and "ghost" (just drop out of the game entirely).

                  [–]z_omg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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                  if it's a serious relationship, it must be said, perhaps little by little. unicorns can be found, but can be made as well.

                  [–]nninja 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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                  No it's like trying to tell a bird why he's in a cage. You can suggest things and show with actions. Don't waste your time explaining.

                  [–]Aaron565 0 points1 point  (1 child)

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                  The reason why I hate this comment is because everyone dismisses her. But she reinforces her idiotic thinking pattern. Now she will be even more aggressive to the next "sexist" comment she encounters.

                  [–]1TVTestPattern 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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                  May well be the case... Not his problem

                  [–]nninja 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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                  she'll just get more huffed up, you don't need to hear that noise, he handled it right, I would've just laughed

                  [–]bonekeeper 2 points3 points  (0 children)

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                  YOU AND YOUR DAMN LOGIC! YOU'RE SUCH A JERK!

                  [–]mercuryg 5 points6 points  (0 children)

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                  It might be tempting to keep pressing her but you gotta resist man, that road leads nowhere.

                  [–][deleted] 4 points5 points  (1 child)

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                  When you argue with idiots, they'll bring you down to their level, and defeat you with experience.

                  Don't argue with women for the same reason. If they can't win the argument and aren't willing to admit they're wrong, they're going to either change the rules or change the game.

                  [–]nninja 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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                  dunno why you're being downvoted, but ya it's true, you'll never win an argument with a woman like that

                  [–][deleted] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

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                  you can never educate a hamster.

                  what OP did was psychologically tearing her apart. her changing the subject was rescuing her own sanity.

                  this is why people change subjects and resume paddling the same shit elsewhere. but women are notorious for being mentally stuck and unable to learn/adapt.

                  [–]batman50 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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                  I'm sure she is playing that scene in her mind again and again thinking in comebacks.

                  [–]DanG3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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                  You did (survived) well with it - as far as it went. It should not have been allowed to go any further (anyway). NEVER engage the hamster! You don't WANT to engage the hamster. Your one-liner was excellent and a good stand-up to her shit. If - IF - her hamster had not fallen out of its wheel and she did manage to counter your call, the best response would have been LAUGHING at her and walking away. Engaging the hamster gives it life. DO. NOT. ENGAGE. THE. HAMSTER.

                  [–]The Private ManZamarski 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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                  By using the Socratic method (asking questions), you nuked her when she couldn't answer that second question. By asking questions, you just about force answers. She had no answer. In fact, she could not even come up with one and demanded that the subject be changed.

                  Congrats on the wee victory.

                  [–]nmagod 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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                  It's NOT different and as soon as you asked the question she KNEW IT and did the fuckin' two-step to get out of answering

                  [–]CropDuster33 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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                  Lets change the subject because i'm wrong.

                  [–]B3qui 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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                  I'd just like to point out that this woman isn't an accurate representation of feminism, and by some definitions (and hopefully at the heart of the feminist movement) equality is the goal of feminism. Girls like this really upset me.

                  [–]squoig 1 point2 points  (14 children)

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                  "No, let's not change the subject. What the fuck IS the difference?"

                  Make her back down. If she wants to escalate, you escalate. She has to back down eventually or lose-- you will win a fistfight.

                  [–]nninja 4 points5 points  (11 children)

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                  Lolll there is no winning an argument with an idiot like that. Don't argue with idiots, it's a waste of your time.

                  [–]RoulantG 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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                  Fist fighting women is always a lose-lose situation bro...

                  [–]16 Endorsed ContributorTRPsubmitter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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                  I fornicated with unbridled passion with her. Disseminated my semen.

                  [–]FairlyOddParents 2 points3 points  (0 children)

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                  Wow totally happened right

                  [–]tsotha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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                  As I get older and realize just how precious my time on this earth is, the question I gotta ask is... why would you even bother associating with feminists?

                  [–]monsieurhire2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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                  I did something similar years ago. Feels good to hoist them on their own petards.

                  [–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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                  You just don't get it!

                  Sweetheart. NO ONE GETS IT! There's nothing to get.

                  I would've shamed her the fuck out of that place. No one needs such a negative buzzkill. Especially one trying to act like a queen bitch. This is probably the only way she can get attention, by yelling and being the most aggressive.

                  [–]smallpoxinLA 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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                  I have a few feminists around me that I can't stand, but they never pulled something as stupid... good that you confronted her.

                  [–]watersign 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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                  I lived with a Mangina who got offended I called girls "chicks".

                  Total whiet knight beta faggot and a total loser. Reaching 30 years old and still making sandwiches for a living and his parents paid for his house.

                  [–]LegitAnswers 1 point2 points  (1 child)

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                  You should've fucked her up bro. Feminists are society's biggest hypocrites.

                  [–]Moneyley 4 points5 points  (0 children)

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                  she probably didnt even lift before she made the comment

                  [–]mbr902000 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

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                  You should have taken her home and fucked her. While you were fucking her you could have said over and over "I'm banging the shit out of you!". For the finish, the next time your group is out, you look at your buddys and point right at her and say "I banged her"....

                  [–]Gstreetshit -1 points0 points  (0 children)

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                  I would just say something like; "how old are you? Does pg-13 offend you?" Then I would look at everyone and tell them to be sure to warn her to cover her ears anytime they may say something Rated R.

                  then I would look at her and call her a child.

                  In a calm way of course. No need to yell and make a scene like a child would do.