So this is a bit of a story but it's well worth the read.
So my cousin O met this girl V when he was a freshman in highschool. They liked each other right away and started being highschool sweethearts. They continued to date until their senior year of highschool. After that V left to California with her mother while O stayed back with his parents. After trying a long distance relationship and it didn't work out they broke up and stopped talking.
2 years pass and V messages me on facebook saying she misses O dearly and wants to get back together with him. I get them talking again and she moves back to Chicago and they find V's mother's childhood home to live in. V's mother is the landlord and this is a very important detail to the story.
Now this is where shit started to go down hill. To pay rent, O agrees to work full time and cover all expenses while his stupid girlfriend V tries to find a career for what she studied in Cali. She was unsuccessful in finding work and since O had to pay everything he has no extra money for "fun" things to do and he "never pays attention" to his girlfriend.
After almost 2 years of O paying every single bill necessary for him and V to live he has no money saved up. V didn't have a job for very long anywhere and was always at home "slaving away cleaning and washing his clothes". She tells him that he never pays attention to her and she feels unloved. He apologizes and tells her they can work it out. She HATES his video games and she HATES when me and the rest of our guy cousins come to visit him and have a good time. She wants all of his attention and she continued to be stubborn.
Well after having a Halloween party at their house she has had enough. O then tells her he is sorry and wants to work it out. 3 weeks pass and she tells him he needs to move out of her mother's house and that she is breaking up with him. He does and is so torn up about it. He then tells me and my cousin J about the details. Funny thing is he was completely beta up until he started describing the situation to us. I saw an immediate change in him as soon as he talked to us about it and this is where the red pill side of him has finally emerged.
- O realizes that even though it's his girlfriend's mother's place, he is the only one on the lease and V has no say.
- Most of the things they have O has bought and can do as he pleases with them.
- He talked to her mother and she is completely on his side.
- He pays her phone bill and goes through everything she has said. It turns out she has feelings for me and a few other guys. She was jealous of all the fun we were having with other females.
- He then formulates a plan while she is visiting her mother for Thanksgiving break.
He has dumped all of her stuff outside in the yard. He is allowing me and 2 of our cousins to move in. He has sold most of the things he bought for her for extra cash and has bought everything he's been wanting all year. Now he's just waiting for her to come back home and find that she couldn't kick him out and break up with him and take his stuff. Instead it had completely backfired and she is the one without a place to live at. She comes back next week Friday and I can't wait to see what bullshit she tries to say to him. Funny thing is he was the only person to every truly care for her. Her father is a deadbeat and her mother is off with some rich fuck. It's sad to see but this just goes to show you can go from being given love and attention from a female to a completely heartless and greedy scumbag in a blink of an eye. He was going to propose to her next January and they were planning to have a kid.
tl;dr My cousin's girlfriend was being a typical girl. Tried to kick him out of his own home and now she's homeless.