Many years ago, I used to reside in Southern California. One of the best perks of living there is that Disneyland was only a short drive away. I bought a season pass to Disneyland (they were reasonably price during the time) since a couple of my friends and I loved going to the park and getting wasted at California Adventures and then hopping over to Disneyland.
I met this girl (we can call her Lindsey) a couple of months after I had purchased my pass, she is a solid California 8 and one of the most down to earth women I have ever met, we hung out a couple of times, but nothing I would consider dating like since there were other friends involved. During one of our conversations, we got into the topic of Disneyland and she had told me that she had a season pass too. I figured this would be perfect timing and asked her if she would like to go to the park with me and have some fun, I told her it would be our first official date and she agreed to go.
I pick her up that morning and we get to the park, while were riding the trolley to the entrance from the parking lot, she pulls out her cell phone and starts texting away. I first thought it was a bit rude, but I just made the assumption that she was just quickly responding to some texts. We get into Disneyland and since I hated carrying my cell phone with me, I would usually rent a locker and put all my shit in it. I rented one and put all my crap in it, she asked if she could put her purse in it too, but she wanted to keep her cell phone with her. I thought it was a bit strange, but again I gave her the benefit of the doubt.
We start our day and start getting on rides; this day was a light off season date, so the lines were on average no more than 20 minutes long. After a couple of rides she start pulling out her phone and again texting away, this started becoming more annoying and annoying. It started getting to the point that it was constantly, I even attempted to drop a couple of hints. After a couple of rides I started plotting my next move. At the time, I was a huge follower of Tom Leykis and he would always say that if a girl is texting during a date or dinner, she is most likely setting up her next booty call. The thought of being used this way infuriated me, but I made sure to keep my emotions in check to not give her an idea of what was to come.
At around 1PM, the line for Utopia was at about a 45 minute wait, and this is when I decided to strike. I excused myself and told her that I needed to use the rest room. I walked to the locker, got my shit and walked to my car and took off. About 50 minutes later my phone starts going off.
I picked up the phone and the conversation went something like this:
"Where are you? I'm at the front of the line and you haven't gotten back."
"At home? What are you doing at home? You just left me here? Who the fuck is going to bring me home? You need to stop playing with me and come and get me, what the fuck is wrong with you?"
Very calmly I replied:
"Since you seem to be more interested in the person you have been texting all morning, you should have them pick you up." I then hung up.
This caused a massive shit storm, and she just started blowing up my line. I turned off the phone and spent the rest of the day drinking with some of my friends.
About a week later, a mutual friend of ours contacts me and said that Lindsey wants me to call her to apologize, I just laughed it off.
About 2 days later, our mutual friend contacts me again and says that Lindsey wants to apologize to me. Lindsey calls a couple minutes later and apologizes for being on the phone and that she didn't realize how rude she was being. She asked that I give her another chance, and we redo it again. I told her I would think about it.
A couple of weeks later I agree, and we do it all over again, but this time he she purposefully left her phone at home, from then till now she doesn't pull her phone out when we are together. Years later we spoke about this day, and she admitted that at first she was upset, but after that, it immediately perked her ears up and made her want me badly, to the point that it was an obsession. She said that she had our friend call me as an attempt to turn the tables, but when I turned her down she decided to concede. Now as we've gotten older, she understands her place in the relationship and fully agrees with the Alpha/Beta relationship status, since she sees it with her own family.
TL DR; My girlfriend tried pissing on me, instead I pissed on her and marked my territory.
EDIT I've received messages from people asking more questions:
Yes, I am married to this woman now. Our relationship is actually quite stellar and there is mutual respect, we just understand what our roles are in our relationship. Even though I'm married, it doesn't mean that red pill tactics are off the table.
I guess TBP picked it up and commented on how I could just leave her without her purse. In the modern world we have these things called electronic lockers, that give you a code that you can use to continuously get in and out of your locker. Disneyland was an early adopter of this technology. At the time, the code was a 6 digit number randomly generated by the system, I had given her a copy of the code slip just in case something were to happen, something my friends and I did to ensure that you could always grab your stuff in case of an accident or an emergency.
Furthermore, I am actually quite good at conversations which is one of my best characteristics. At writing, I suck at and I have horrible grammar.
- It's DisneyLAND not Disneyworld. We both lived a short drive away.