Red Pill Example? kinda. Female Solipsism example? Definitely.
So I had a feeling she was cheating as she set off a lot of red flags. Constantly laughing and smiling when texting, saying it was just her mother when I asked. Needing to stay late every night after work. When I'd call in her co-workers said she left hours ago. When I asked her what was going on she'd laugh it off and say it was just something they did to each other at the office all the time. The last straw to where I knew something was definitely up was when she went out "to get milk" at 11:30 at night and didn't come back till 2 in the morning.
Basically guy finds out his wife is cheating. The signs are pretty obvious and he's able to see what's going on clearly.
Now if there is any words of wisdom I can pass on to others in all my years of experience, its if you think your significant other is cheating, hire a fucking private investigator. They're goddamn good at what they do and they will get some evidence that really helps in the later divorce.Fast track to her birthday, several months down the road. Now I know what you're thinking, why the hell did I wait months before I confronted her and did it really need to be on her birthday? The answer to the first question is I wanted as much evidence as possible to hand off to my lawyer as well as make arrangements to find a new place to live, etc.
A good bit of advice that shouldn't be surprising to anyone here.
Answer to your second question is of course it had to be on her birthday. You see after asking her what she wanted to do on her birthday this year she was rather insisted on me going out of town with my friends as she just had to work anyways and didn't want to be reminded she was ageing.So I know something is up and after finding a bottle of champagne and two glasses hidden in my closest something in my snaps.
It's almost amazing how she can't even fathom that he can see right through what she's doing. I couldn't imagine being so god damn obvious cheating but maybe it's because I'm generally a paranoid person. I'm shocked she didn't just ask for another dick outright.
So I do what any sensible man would have done. I leave and go to my friends house pretending like I am going out of town. While there I call up her mother, father, sister and several of her friends. I tell them how I want to give her a big surprise by sneaking into her room with party streamers, kazoos and a big cake with candles. Sounds fun right?! Well boy was it.
I don't know how "redpill" this is but I applaud his acting skills to have pulled this off.
Its 8:30 in the morning and I have everyone met just outside our apartment. We all pile in the elevator (about 8 of us in total), her mother holding the cake and me reminding everyone to be as quiet as they can be. My put my key in and unlock the door, we all sneak in and make our way down the hall towards the bedroom. Each hold a kazoo and Mom holding the cake grinning from ear to ear.
The only thing that would have made it better would have been a video camera for the divorce proceedings, sounds like he had more than enough evidence though.
Well as I throw open the door and we all yell surprise. But the surprise was on us and there was my wife, bent over in doggy style position with her lover staring at us wide eyed mid thrust. Mom drops the cake, sister screams, father begins to shout. I pretend like I'm horrified to which her friends try to push everyone out while yelling at her.
This part I particularly love. There is no opportunity for her to bend others around her. She's exposed, in the most literal sense, to her most foundational support structure. There's no other explanation, she can't poison their mutual friends, no one will vouch for her shitty behavior on the spot because it's just so startling. What follows next is amazing though.
Wife, excuse me, ex-wife is sobbing and screaming how could I while the lover is desperately trying to put his pants on while running out of the place.
The following comes out later in the comments.
>As for my lovely ex, she literally just blamed everyone in the room. Blamed the parents for coming into our apartment without telling her, the sister for being a "bitch" (didn't understand that one at all), hell she even blamed the friends for not telling her about the surprise? She didn't try to explain herself to me, just called me name after name and threw stuff at me.
If you were to put Solipsism in a glass box this would be it.
It was so surreal, I had this expectation that she would be clutching me and try to stop me from leaving, telling me how sorry she was. I thought it would be like the movies. But no, there was the woman I had loved for 2 years screaming and hitting me, telling me I had ruined her relationship with this other guy. I guess in her mind she just completely stopped seeing me as her husband but more as just her roommate.
Make sure to sign her up for Rio in 2016, we wouldn't want to waste that talent in mental gymnastics.