My entire life I've constantly been referred to as "marriage material" from women my own age as well as adult women.
I used to feel great when they said that. "yeah! I'll end up with a great girl in the end." and "these girls like me so much they just don't know what to do with themselves." and "i'm too good for her right now, and she's dumb!"
After taking TRP about a month and a half ago, being called marriage material has a completely different meaning.
It meant that those girls didn't want to date me or have sex with me, but rather remind themselves that I exist after they're off the carousel and need to find themselves a provider. It wasn't nearly as much as a compliment as I thought it was.
In fact, looking back, most of the time I heard this I was quite disappointed. I wasn't looking for marriage - I was looking for some fun. I didn't understand. If I was "marriage material," and marriage should include sex, then why not "sex material" too?
If "marriage material" means some guy who they'll be "fine being with" for the rest of their lives after they've taken their ride on the carousel, I don't want to be marriage material.
If "marriage material" means a guy who is so addictive to her, a guy that could fuck any girl he wants but doesn't because he's chosen her, who could possibly run away at any moment, who never stops improving himself, then that's much better.
TRP has made me see clearly. Thank you.