If you are coming to the /r/redpill as a fat beta blob with zero personality, complaining that women suck because they don’t fuck you, then you are just as bad as the land whale feminists that complain guys don’t want to fuck them.
A core tenant of /r/theredpill is that you can’t negotiate desire. Even if you are in a relationship with a woman, she doesn’t owe you sex, and you aren’t forced to stay either. And even if you do negotiate with her for sex, you get duty sex. And anyone who has had “duty sex” or “pity sex” knows it is a soul sucking activity for both parties. Sex isn’t just about having an orgasm it’s about feeling desired by a woman. And a woman that is just spreading her legs to shut you up is not desire.
Same goes with certain sex acts. We have all seen on /r/relationships and /r/sex of girls that did a bunch of freaky shit with alphas in the past, but won’t do that for her current boyfriend. Personally I do something similar, when it comes to sex. Girls that I perceive above my SMV, I actually try to make sex good for them. I go down on them, let them spend the night. Girls that I perceive as sluts or below my SMV, I focus on myself, and kick them out of bed.
If you want your girl to do freaky shit, let her know that you are above her and she will desire you. Let her know that she never “has you” that she has to earn your company. Don’t talk to her endlessly about her day; talk to her as a reward for good behavior. It can be simple shit, for example there was this girl off Tinder I was hooking up with. Second time after we had sex she wanted to take a selfie together. I told her that I don’t think we are that close yet. She was a bit taken back and gave me puppy eyes, I kept frame. Next time she came over, she gave me an awesome scalp massage. In turn I let her take as many selfies as she wanted.
Just remember these betas that are in shitty relationships with post wall hags that don’t respect them are there on their own accord 90% of the time. To them loneliness is worse than being in a shitty relationship. It’s not as if these betas were to leave their shitty wives, they would be spinning top tier plates.