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[–]kindlebluemoon 288 points289 points  (22 children)

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You practically hit the nail on the head, a lot of women desire a guy sexually that is bad for them in the long run. So when they are younger in college will date these guys and when they are older and looking to settle down and start a family they will choose a guy like you. It doesn't mean she isn't attracted to you, she is attracted to you for different reasons. There are things that she will do for you that she wouldn't do for that guy. Like start a family, get married, cosign a loan.

Jesus fucking christ. It's almost painful to read this shit. That some guys actually view this as a positive statement.

[–]2Red_August 239 points240 points  (13 children)

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"...co-sign a loan" - now that makes me fap!

[–][deleted] 101 points102 points  (3 children)

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Ok baby, I got the loan papers. Sit over there at the desk and fill them out. Take your time. unzips pants and starts masturbating furiously

[–]ProfessorD2 39 points40 points  (1 child)

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You forgot to initial in the bottom right corner, you naughty girl!

[–]scubar 23 points24 points  (0 children)

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Yes girl give me that debt, all of it!!

[–]HeadingRed 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Whose a naughty little adjustable interest rate? Ooooh I bet you are!! Double digit interest you bad girl you.

[–]lesbianDREAMS 47 points48 points  (2 children)

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Fucking lol. I love Redpill humour

[–]widec 24 points25 points  (0 children)

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Where crude and offensive jokes don't get downvoted for being crude or offensive

[–]seattleron 13 points14 points  (0 children)

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Meanwhile, she probably got a loan out for Doug on a $28,000 10MPG truck with smoke stacks, lifts, a rebel flag painted on the hood, and a "Git--R-Done' decal on the windshield. She got the loan in her name because his credit score is a 350. Since she and Doug broke up and she couldn't pay the $580 payment, it went into debt collection and this beta is probably still paying for the truck Doug drove to this party.

God, the life of a beta is fucking damn near vomit inducing.

[–]t21spectre 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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If you're married your spouse doesn't need to cosign a loan, being a legal partnership, they are automatically responsible for the loan signature on it or not.

[–]lonGterMgoalS 36 points37 points  (0 children)

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There are things that she will do for you that she wouldn't do for that guy. Like start a family, get married, cosign a loan.

As if dude wasn't feeling bad enough people are also implying he needs his wife because his credit is shit. Another reason he isn't getting any head.

[–]kneeonbelly 68 points69 points  (0 children)

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"Oh baby fuck yeah right there...that's it...right on the dotted liHHGNNN"

Feelin like such a big man right now.

[–]dr_analog 2 points3 points  (0 children)

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Here, let me restate this in terms more familiar to theredpill swallowers.

There are things she will do to him that she wouldn't do to you. Like make him pay for every meal, and constantly remind him that her birthday is coming up, picks fights with strangers and makes him defend her, reiterate how much she loves champagne when they go out, insist on taking cabs everywhere when it's perfectly walkable, and gee wouldn't it be nice to have a bottle in the VIP room instead of standing the whole time and trying to get drinks at the bar?

Just kidding. The right woman will do ass-to-mouth and co-sign your loan. Maybe at the same time. If you can't find her it's probably because you're ugly. Swallow THAT homeboy.

[–]PornTrollio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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Well, it is the truth.

Post-wall behavior explained in a 'pc' way.

She settled, he doesn't take what he wants, but begs and supplicates.

Simple as that.

[–]HeadingRed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He asked for this- a woman more tame than he is. If you are not asking for the sex you want- and I don't mean a "um, honey, um, I do you um, think it might um, be ok if like you sucked it for a minute" then you should not be surprised when another guy wraps his arms around her, pulls her tight and says "I want your ass, now".

In my younger beta days I remember distinctly right before being dumped a girl telling me "you know, once I just want you to take me".

It's not just about being strong- if you don't let her know what you want she's just masturbating in the room with you. And then you are a vibrator with a wallet who looks good at dinner.

[–]FaithfulJinn 327 points328 points  (19 children)

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Lmao. Marring a chick who wouldnt even give him a BJ.

He brought this upon himself.

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    [–]legauge 51 points52 points  (0 children)

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    sex life is not horrible

    That's because he doesn't know what he's missing. The guy's been living on flat bread when he could've been feasting on Filet Mignon.

    [–]moresmarterthanyou 8 points9 points  (4 children)

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    sex life is not horrible... and yet wife refuses to give blow jobs....

    does not compute.

    lmao...what did he think sex life was? No bj's, no anal...what are they doing in there?

    [–]TheButtiestMan 4 points5 points  (3 children)

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    He must be thinking pure frequency over quality

    [–]AKnightAlone 8 points9 points  (2 children)

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    He must be thinking consensual intercourse in the missionary position.

    [–]life_manager 14 points15 points  (1 child)

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    "Not to brag, but we have sex at least twice a week."

    [–]AKnightAlone 17 points18 points  (0 children)

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    "She even let me go at it without a condom once."

    [–]UNSCSierra117 11 points12 points  (3 children)

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    My thoughts exactly, why would he devote all of this to her if she doesn't even see him fit for something as menial as that.

    [–]dongpal 15 points16 points  (2 children)

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    he was happy to have an option...

    [–]willeat4food 4 points5 points  (1 child)

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    how much would you bet that she was fucking other guys while they were dating?

    [–]FREEPIG 42 points43 points  (0 children)

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    Dude can't you read? She said she isn't a slut.

    [–]1FloranHunter 2 points3 points  (0 children)

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    Your misspelling makes this some dark humor!

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      [–]TheWindyCity 64 points65 points  (19 children)

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      What most guys don't realize is that a woman will do the craziest borderline degrading shit for an alpha who sparks that raw animal attraction in her. She'll lick your butthole and do it with a smile on her face if you have alpha game

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        [–]erqos 28 points29 points  (31 children)

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        Don't be the beta bucks.

        Here's a story of another angry beta bucks that just happened. He went ballistic (murder-suicide): guy finds out from his kid that his wife has a box of condoms in her purse, and when he searches it finds a note from a prison inmate asking for nude photos, so he kills her, robs a drug store for beer and smokes, and then shoots himself in his car:

        http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2720303/Revealed-Husband-sexy-note-prison-inmate-wife-box-condoms-killed-kidnapped-sons-later-committed-suicide.html

        [–]1Patriarchysaurus 50 points51 points  (24 children)

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        Wow, I feel absolutely devastated for the kid. Imagine how heavy it would weigh on his conscience--not only is his mother an inmate-loving adulterer, but in telling his father he unwittingly became the catalyst for the murder/suicide of both his parents...

        Chills man, chills.

        [–][deleted] 76 points77 points  (5 children)

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        This is why the RP transition needs to be slow and done early in life. A married man having all of the "truth" crashing down in that one moment can literally kill him.

        [–]Endorsed Contributor2comment 9 points10 points  (1 child)

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        Here, have a ♂.

        More obligatory words so automod doesn't delete this.

        [–]Upvote Me!trpbot[M] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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        [–][deleted] 6 points7 points  (2 children)

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        I wish I could give you one million gold for that comment. This sentence should be stuck somewhere on the TRP page.

        [–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (1 child)

        Aw sweet, I've never had Reddit Gold before. Didn't know there were coupons and stuff. Time to stock up on some beef jerky :). Thanks!

        [–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

        I don't want to take the thanks from you but I'm not the one who gave you gold :-) But I also thanks the kind stranger who did.

        [–]NormanoSilurian 18 points19 points  (4 children)

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        • Remember that marital infidelity carries significant risks, lads! People are murdered over this kind of shit every day.

        [–]jova33 2 points3 points  (3 children)

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        I plotted killing my wife's boyfriend. When I got to his house my brain kicked in and told me there's no way to get away with it, and I went home.

        [–]KilledBatman 1 point2 points  (1 child)

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        You sound like a very level headed person. I'm glad you saw it wasn't even worth your time or freedom.

        [–]jova33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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        Yeah, I've never been to prison, but I've been to jail for short periods and that sucked. I think prison would suck even more.

        [–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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        Sorry to hear about the wife, but good on you for realizing the your life matters more than her feelings.

        [–]erqos 22 points23 points  (10 children)

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        There's a possible silver lining in that the kid's trauma may manifest itself like Bruce Wayne's after the murder of his parents by a criminal in a dark alley. He'll grow up to become Alphaman, a caped crusader fighting against hypergamy everywhere, rescuing beta bucks that are being divorce-raped or cuckolded. There would be a symbol of a red pill on his chest. His arch-rival would be a fat feminist cunt in clown makeup called the Porker. "Too soon", I know.

        [–]alarmclock000 5 points6 points  (1 child)

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        Is that movie coming out this year?

        [–]erqos 10 points11 points  (0 children)

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        Not this year, but in 2018. At that point, a carpet-munching feminist POTUS will have truly driven the American economy into the ground and turned America into the laughingstock of the world. Feminists will have lost their clout in society at large, including Hollywood which has found that red pill movies are all the rage. While the parents are watching "Alphaman" from Warner Bros., the kids will be watching an animated film from Disney/Pixar based on the fairy tale "King Thrushbeard":

        Summary (spoilers): a haughty princess who rejects every suitor is forced by her exasperated king father to marry a peon who forces her to do menial labor to earn her keep. After being humbled through her destitute lifestyle, her husband finally reveals himself to be a shaved young king in disguise, a previous suitor whom she had rejected while mocking his voluminous beard, having called him King Thrushbeard.

        [–]dallz_beep 2 points3 points  (6 children)

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        Someone should make a humor thread. Come up with ideas for absurd feminist movie plots. It should include the usual Hollywood themes like:

        • A 90 pound girl in leather pants beats up rooms full of men twice her size.

        • A bunch of men fail a challenge. A woman tries and succeeds.

        • A bunch of men are mean. A woman comes along and has mercy on the victim, showing her moral superiority.

        • Men are too scared to do something. A woman musters the courage to go first.

        • Smoking hot guys are madly in love with an ordinary-looking girl.

        • Smart men are always portrayed as unsexy beta dorks. Smart women are always empowered and in control.

        • Men are bumbling fools, while women are super clever and shrewd.

        • Any time a guy does something of worth, he's a super good looking hottie who falls head over heels in love with a girl for no reason.

        • Hot women constantly have men drooling over them. But you must never show a woman desiring over a man.

        • Did someone cheat? Lie to their SO? Backstab? It was a man.

        • ...It was a woman? Clearly something happened to justify it, because remember, moral purity.

        Actually, wait. This basically is Hollywood these days. No need to make a humor thread, just watch some movies and you'll see all these themes and more.

        [–]erqos 1 point2 points  (4 children)

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        That's a impressively exhaustive list. Now you and I see it for what it is. But what about impressionable young minds in later generations who were not exposed to TRP? I'd imagine the bulk of them don't see through the bullshit, or at least don't want to rock the boat. This constant bombardment of feminist propaganda from mass media (along with like-minded "educators") is why you see so many effeminate manginas and entitled wanton women. That's why I stopped redditing in non-manosphere subs. Anytime I advocated masculinity as opposed to effeminacy, I was predictably deluged with downvotes, most of which were presumably from young male redditors with a few "empowered" cunts thrown in (many females on reddit are FFF: fat fugly feminists).

        [–]dallz_beep 1 point2 points  (3 children)

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        That's a impressively exhaustive list.

        I forgot about the latest spiderman movie where he literally stalks his ex gf. And of course, the male character (bad guy of course is male) was nothing, just some loser nobody technician, while a cute young blond tart is the smartest electrical engineer in the entire multibillion dollar corporation. (AHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!)

        Also, the happily ever after movies where a guy gets with a woman older than him. Actually, make that every movie where a guy ever gets married.

        But yeah, the manginas are intolerable. I find myself fitting into society less and less.

        [–]erqos 1 point2 points  (2 children)

        while a cute young blond tart is the smartest electrical engineer in the entire multibillion dollar corporation (AHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!)

        "...women, for the most part, are boring people. 95% of them spend more time on their appearance than anything else, so as a result they never really have interesting hobbies or develop respectable skill in any particular area. This, in my opinion, could be one of the reasons that women have historically under-performed in almost every activity/industry."

        That was an excerpt of the best MGTOW-ish post on TRP I've seen, from a few days ago. No posting links, so for the whole thing just append the following to the URL:

        /comments/2cwgky/trp_and_sex_drive/cjjox5g

        There are actually exceptions where a woman is bright and useful to society. It's typically when her father is greatly involved in her life, teaching her cool stuff and productive skills. But if she was mainly raised by her mother...forget it, there's little chance she'll turn out to be anything but a cunt. But yeah, I'm sick of all these females who are portrayed as brilliant or brave or pure or morally superior or strong at fighting, when typically the converse is true. And yet, I continue to watch television, although I did stop going to the movies years ago. You know, vote with your dollars. Anyway, it's a good thing we can vent anonymously online, because we'd be persecuted or shunned for expressing such views. I try not to worry about anything out of my control; I just try to be the best that I can be, free from the clutches of women, as a MGTOW which is what I identify as. And I won't let my biological hard-wired programming of melting like butter at seeing a woman's curves interfere with my convictions and clarity of mind. Hopefully, one day society will recognize its errors and correct itself somehow. But if not, that also fine, because I've done everything I can do, and I've lived my life according to my own expectations, not someone elses. That's the biggest deathbed regret for dying people, having lived according to others' expectations for them.

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          [–]erqos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

          wife to mourn you

          You mean like Robin Williams' widow right now? Because of my in-depth immersion into TRP the last few months, I see this clearly now. I'd imagine he was nothing more than a utility for her, despite her public statements. It's very blue pill of you to think otherwise. I think you definitely need to immerse yourself in TRP some more if you don't see that. As for myself, I got more than my fill. I feel like I've read enough cautionary tales to last a lifetime. As for sexual strategies, I was never really interested in that as a MGTOW, although it was certainly entertaining. Ah, now that's a problem here, entertainment. From a TRP post today:

          /TheRedPill/comments/2dbrei/mind_control/cjo7itx

          "Entertainment is the BP, it is the mind-killer because it lets you avoid making a real choice about what you want to achieve with your time. You get to enjoy this relaxed, chilled-out state and you get addicted to NOT having your mind focused on reality, yourself, and challenges.

          Every minute you want to be thinking "is this minute a product of my choices" or "is this minute happening because I'm not making a conscious choice and just letting whatever grabs my attention run away with my mind."

          Now that I feel that I have a degree in TRP education, I need to spend less time here, because it's just entertainment at this point. Plus I'm getting bored reading much of it, honestly. But I give all the credit to these guys fighting the good fight, helping other men online. But I need to concentrate on bettering myself, as selfish as it may seem to you. And not having progeny will help in that regard, because time is the most precious gift God gives anyone. I'd spent an estimated 500-1000 hours on my other reddit account, mostly from making images and other link submissions the years before, and while I don't regret it partly because it lead me here, I want to be better than that.

          [–]whitey_male 19 points20 points  (1 child)

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          It was his last beers and he went for Lite? Poor bastard.

          [–]surgeon_general 14 points15 points  (0 children)

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          Good point. That pretty much proves he wasn't thinking straight.

          [–]moosik85 12 points13 points  (0 children)

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          This is going to become more and more common. The whole over overt AF/BB current phenomena will cause a lot of angry betas to snap.

          [–]mutantradio 6 points7 points  (1 child)

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          This kind of shit makes me worry tbh. I used to have a plate who was in a relationship. She told me that he hated me for spending so much time with her. He was a controlling/jealous type. Never found out why she stayed with him, I seriously thought he was her gay best friend at the beginning. They moved away and I'm pretty sure she fucks another dude on the side.

          I never really worried about that, but what if one of them decided that I'm fully responsible for destroying their perfect relationship and they snap.

          [–]erqos 9 points10 points  (0 children)

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          Whether true or not, I'm sure she'd have loved nothing better than to see the two of you fight it out for her. I'm talking about physically pummeling each other half to death. Nothing gets them off more than seeing two guys in a bloody brawl.

          [–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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          Jesus man, it's just a woman. I mean, sure, being in that situation fucking sucks (I imagine), but cut your losses and move on.

          [–]1johnnight 6 points7 points  (0 children)

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          Yeah, I noticed that we got a lot of these this week. I also put one just like this up. It's literally: "I won’t try something with him in the bedroom that he knows I did with someone else."

          [–]PlanB_pedofile 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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          Makes me glad I was my wife's first. Had all that parking lot sex, ect years ago. Though getting old sucks.

          [–]teeelo 67 points68 points  (2 children)

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          This is some of the saddest shit I've ever read.

          Never be that guy.

          [–]DoesNotMatterAnymore 47 points48 points  (0 children)

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          Never be 'Plan B(eta)', go for Plan A(lpha)

          [–]TestosteroneFilled 4 points5 points  (0 children)

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          "However, after some more talking she ended up saying that at the time she enjoyed doing those things but she no longer wants to do them. When I pressed further about why, she told me that I am lucky she has sex with me now."

          http://redditlog.com/snapshots/926277 This is from the same story he posted in a different subreddit. Damn, what a sad sad story, made my stomach sick. The comments are absolutely cringe worthy if you're a man and have any ounce of self respect. All of them are "she was raped! She found herself and now she loves you, you're lucky! It's her PAST. Don't JUDGE HER!"

          [–]rp_divorced 91 points92 points  (6 children)

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          I was beta bucks. And I went to way too much marriage counseling.

          My ex looked me in the eye in the middle of a counseling session and told me "if we get divorced, I'm going to rock my next husband's world!"

          I stupidly asked "why don't you do that for me?" and got a laundry list of all the additional beta bucks stuff she wanted from me. Even if I did it, she still wouldn't rock my world. I was smart enough to know that.

          Take it from me, guys, embrace RP or you'll end up just like the guy quoted above.

          [–]quirkofalltrades 6 points7 points  (1 child)

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          As soon as my wife had said that, I would have said fuck you and lawyered up.

          [–]rp_divorced 7 points8 points  (0 children)

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          There is a lot of interest in my story so I'll put together a post to give the gory details. Sometimes real life is better than fiction. Get your popcorn ready.

          [–][deleted] 12 points13 points  (1 child)

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          I wish you would develop a bit what came out of those counseling sessions and what your ex wife was telling you. I think it would be actually very useful for beta guys to realize in what kind of situation they are in, most of the time they don't even realize.

          [–]rp_divorced 4 points5 points  (0 children)

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          Several people have said the same thing so I'll put together a detailed post that will serve as the manual of what not to do.

          [–]The_Floating_Dick 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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          if we get divorced, I'm going to rock my next husband's world

          Oh I'm sure she will rock his world alright

          [–]tk425 0 points1 point  (0 children)

          Wow. Are you sure your ex didn't have borderline personality disorder? This can cause much fucked up shit to come out of a womans mouth. Beta or not, this is a cruel thing to say indeed.

          [–]Newb_Gaines 49 points50 points  (5 children)

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          If a woman doesn't gobble your cock like it's cake then she isn't attracted to you and is fucking you (or, rather, letting you fuck her) for other reasons.

          [–]MildlyFunnyUsername 11 points12 points  (0 children)

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          man this sheds light on an old ltr

          [–]100 Modbsutansalt 1 point2 points  (1 child)

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          Pretty much nails it. If she's not enthusiastic about having sex and whatnot, odds are high that you're her beta bucks and the sex you're getting is vanilla duty sex. Being the "bad boy" you hear chumps whine about has given me the best sexual encounters of my life.

          [–]throw8way0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

          bsutansalt, this is throw8way0. Enjoy the orangered. It makes a nice change to the red.

          [–]Average_Black_Man 55 points56 points  (12 children)

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          It's funny how many people on that dumbass sub recommend going to couples therapy. what the actual fuck do they think that's going to accomplish? I pity these people because they haven't figured out all the lies they've been told.

          [–]DoesNotMatterAnymore 25 points26 points  (3 children)

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          They just try to act like someone who cares, but let's just be honest for a second, they don't give a flying fuck about this guy.

          [–]rj88631 14 points15 points  (0 children)

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          Yeah. Rather than actually make him feel better they are defending her actions. Lel.

          [–]life_manager 5 points6 points  (1 child)

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          Your statement struck a chord with me. It made me realize that people would rather go out of their way to defend something they believe to be true, than address what's really at play.

          For those who don't get it:

          The people advocating counseling would rather see this guy spend more time and money on bullshit "counseling" because if someone really told him what was going on, then their version of "perfect love" would get shit all over. They don't care about him, they're defending this unrealistic, utopian viewpoint on love, and don't give a damn how much money, or time it would cost "fix it." And if counseling doesn't work, they'll back it up with even more slopped on shit, like "Well, it just wasn't meant to be."

          [–]dreckmal 4 points5 points  (0 children)

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          That is the blue pill, tight there. It is people who believe in shit they refuse to think about, which they also defend furiously.

          [–]Idle_Redditing 18 points19 points  (1 child)

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          Some people honestly believe that shit even when it consistently fails to work.

          I remember being in therapy (just me, not couples) and thinking that so much of what I was told was bullshit while they tried to convince me it was true with more bullshit. In hindsight I actually paid to waste time arguing with dumbass therapists.

          I don't go to such quacks anymore. I will never go again unless it's court ordered and I'll lie my way out.

          [–]rpkarma 2 points3 points  (0 children)

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          CBT worked wonders for me. I learnt it on my own, sans psychologist, and had far better results than the thousands of dollars wasted in their office.

          [–]hepatosplenomegaly 2 points3 points  (0 children)

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          It's an easy answer that any dumbass can think of, and make themselves feel like they're wise for doing it.

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          The worst and what drives me crazy is the fact that those people pity us and think we are dumb asses who haven't reach their level of humanity and understanding.

          [–]Lilcheeks 3 points4 points  (0 children)

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          The comments on this one are absolutely horrible. The guy is being lead in all the wrong directions.

          [–]1FloranHunter 4 points5 points  (0 children)

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          What actually happens is being see "relationship trouble" and pattern-match it to "couples counseling". No original thought actually takes place - that already happened by the people that started promoting couples therapy in the first place.

          [–]tk425 0 points1 point  (0 children)

          that said, you can't tell a bluepiller a redpill fact and expect them to believe it. The truth hurts

          [–][deleted] 56 points57 points  (15 children)

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          You can't buy a sports car from the 80s with 500,000 miles and poor maintenance and expect it to perform as well as it did when the first guy drove it. Classic case of salvage title/damaged goods

          [–][deleted] 20 points21 points  (10 children)

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          cute analogy but the point was more like dale earnhardt could have won with that shit car. be dale earnhardt not the guy puttering around in the minivan.

          [–]lemonparty 21 points22 points  (8 children)

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          Dale could win with that car. He'd never buy it in the first place though. Be Dale.

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          hard to tell what type of miles it has on it, unless the odometer is right (she tells you honestly upfront and why would she).

          pretty hard to find a hot virgin and then you've got other potential problems (could be a lemon)

          you're right though if marriage was equal to the buying. there's no excuse for marrying a chick who doesn't do shit in bed.

          [–]kneeonbelly 7 points8 points  (3 children)

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          I'm at like four degrees of separation from the original point cause of all these fucking car analogies.

          [–]PetrichorJunkie 20 points21 points  (2 children)

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          Dude, it's obvious... Try to follow along: When you buy a car it might be a lemon. If it is a lemon, then you need to juice that fucker and make some lemonade. But if you are making lemonade, you also need sugar and water. The more water you add, the more diluted it gets, but the more sugar you add makes it sweeter. Following along? Good.

          Now when you add too much sugar, that shit gets thick and sticky, and causes your girl to fuck alphas way better than she will ever fuck your timid ass. Also she will co-sign a loan for a lemonade stand/car dealership. Simple, bro.

          [–]bringer_of_fight 3 points4 points  (0 children)

          "Instructions unclear, lemon stuck in gas tank"

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            [–]Thedaviddepablo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

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            20% ?!? What are the women? Cars.

            They lose no less than 100% value the moment ( as someone else on this sub said) they take on some other guys world

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            Hey now, I drive a minivan! They are excellent though really, utility is amazing.

            [–]BluepillProfessor 12 points13 points  (0 children)

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            Enthusiastic oral sex comes standard on all new models I thought. Was this a factory special?

            [–]BasedGodCometh 9 points10 points  (2 children)

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            He actually stood there and listened to another man talk about his wife like that? That alone is pathetic.

            [–]CUNTRY 1 point2 points  (1 child)

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            I can't actually imagine that scenario. So you're at a party and your SO's ex decides to talk about them fucking? The guy stands there and let's him continue talking? Really?

            More than anything in this story - this is telling.

            [–]t21spectre 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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            I get the impression Alpha Ex is probably an intimidating built guy and Beta hubby is a soft office desk job type.

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              [–]MajorStyles 9 points10 points  (2 children)

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              The more men eat the red pill, the fewer houses will be sold in suburbia. These neighborhoods depend on the paychecks of beat males for long term funding.

              [–]1 Endorsed Contributorvandaalen 4 points5 points  (1 child)

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              Holy shit.

              This gave me kind of an epyphany. These suburbs are just built top be giant social clubs and recreational parcs for bitches so they can spend the day in the backyards with their like-minded and exchange gossip.

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              so they can spend the day in the backyards with their like-minded and exchange gossip

              Close, their out at the Starbucks and the mall shopping with the girls spending all their hubbies hard earned money.

              [–]shutayooface 23 points24 points  (5 children)

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              '"I have heard from other people that women see guys in two different ways, guys who are made for fucking, and guys that they settle down with. Does this mean she isn’t really attracted to me?"

              http://therationalmale.com/2013/12/03/saving-the-best/

              The above link deals with a situation very similar to the one described. It explains very precisely what is going on and would be a valuable read for the OP."

              That's the post I made in response to the thread, the one and only post I've ever made on that sub...I was banned. But so far they've left the post up?!

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                [–]shutayooface 7 points8 points  (0 children)

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                I pm'd the OP with the link. Maybe he'll check it out.

                I am amazed at the absurd lengths some will go to prevent men from checking out RP for themselves.

                [–]surgeon_general 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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                Just like the guy that this thread is about, the guy in your link wasn't having a good sex life. "She would never give a blow job, only would do certain positions and found almost every sex act degrading." These guys are just not recognizing dealbreakers. It comes from a mindset of pure desperation.

                [–]mizzoufan1990 22 points23 points  (1 child)

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                FACT: If you put your hand on the back of her head she'll keep your penis in her mouth for more than 5 seconds

                [–]prodigyx 2 points3 points  (0 children)

                Back in college I was hooking up with a random chick, I took her head and pushed it down towards my dick. She resisted, spouted some bullshit about how she was "raped" once, don't try to force me to do anything, blah blah blah.

                So I got dressed and left. Didn't argue, didn't beg, didn't ask her about what had "happened" in her past. I just walked out and said, "I'll see you around".

                Couple months later she showed up to one of my parties. Said she wanted to catch up so I took her upstairs. First thing she did was rip my shorts off and start sucking my dick. I didn't let her stop until I was done. Overall great BJ, 8/10.

                [–]1favours_of_the_moon 8 points9 points  (0 children)

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                Perhaps her hot friend would be more amenable.

                [–]Loodu 11 points12 points  (2 children)

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                100$ she still thinks about her ex during sex.

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                Doubt it otherwise she wouldn't be such a lame fuck.

                [–]t21spectre 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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                100$ she still thinks about her ex when she uses her Hitachi Magic Wand

                FTFY

                The husband is likely getting boring duty sex.

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                Holy crap I am glad there is a thread on this. I linked to the recent gold comment of /u/Shady_Mother_Fucker for my comment in the thread. It got me banned from /r/sex and my comment is no longer there!

                The rest of the comments are tiring and sad. They prefer their cherry picking and hamster wheels to reality. I will never understand that.

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                  [–]Endorsed Contributorscottishredpill 14 points15 points  (1 child)

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                  "That was rape!" - Said about surprise morning sex between a married couple, or any other male initiated sex that lacked enthusiastic verbal consent.

                  I was out the other night for our works summer day out. Was sitting talking to a group of people, 3 guys and 2 women, all married except for myself (currently in an LTR) and one of the guys. We got onto the topic of sex., and I casually come out with "when I'm horny I just throw her over my shoulder, take her to the bed and fuck her. She doesn't have a choice, sometimes she'll give some token resistance, but a bite of her neck and rub of her clit, she will start begging for the cock, whispering 'you always know how to get your own way'"

                  This was meet with shocked looked from the guys, who then all started to accuse me of rape, while the girls were smiling, and nodding.

                  [–]1whatsazipper 2 points3 points  (0 children)

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                  Well, when guys behave like that, you know which women are starving for a good fuck ;)

                  [–]srtor 12 points13 points  (0 children)

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                  Fuck /r/sex and those moronic mods. Any viewpoint, not agreeable to them, is a ban. WTF?

                  [–]DoesNotMatterAnymore 2 points3 points  (4 children)

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                  Don't try to act like a smart ass. Don't do it, it's pointless, even if you intentions are good. Message him, lead him here, just like i did.

                  I usually explain what happened to him (using RP theories), gave him a detailed link about his current situation (http://therationalmale.com/2013/12/03/saving-the-best/), finally r/TheRedpill, mentioning that he should read the f* sidebar.

                  This is what you do, if you really want to help him.

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                  I was not being a smart ass intentional or otherwise. That comment was better than anything I could have said and it was directly pertinent to his situation.

                  Are you suggesting a sugar coating for the red pill?

                  [–]DoesNotMatterAnymore 1 point2 points  (1 child)

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                  Are you suggesting a sugar coating for the red pill?

                  Not even that. On my main, i semi-sugar coat my true RP meaning, and they still dislike it. Just don't bother, help the OP directly.

                  [–]Ratcliff01 9 points10 points  (10 children)

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                  This guy needs redpill. I can SEE all the ways he can fix his relationship.

                  [–]1Hyooge 10 points11 points  (7 children)

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                  I don't think he can. He is an innate loser and his resenting wife knows it.

                  I've found it almost impossible for a girl to change her mind about finding you attractive for the right emotional reasons let alone one's wife who's spent 8 years getting to know you.

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                    [–]JBiebers 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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                    There is more to this than you might think- a friend of mine literally turned his life upside-down after working a 9-5 office job, unhappily married. He dropped everything and joined the military at 27. When he returned, he fucked around for a year and then got back to his crying wife.

                    [–]1 Endorsed Contributorvandaalen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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                    Anybody advocating anything other than secretly lawering up and hitting it is telling him the wrong thing.

                    [–]lubeoil 19 points20 points  (0 children)

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                    She isn't a slut that she'll give a blowjob to every fucking guy out there man. She only sucks cock that deserves it.

                    Know what that means? She don't fuckin like you. There's about 5 seconds of attraction right here.

                    And from what I read, I don't like you.

                    Oh man~ Sluts goin around tellin people they're not sluts. Women have an entirely different meaning for every fuckin word, and it runs on how they feel.

                    His wife is not a slut because she won't suck dick. What she ever-so-wonderfully managed to omit was that she won't suck EVERY dick, the kinda dick that she don't like.

                    She likes Doug's dick. Doug's dick she wants to suck on. It is her lollipop, and Doug's her daddy.

                    You, the husband. My man~ you are just what she thinks about when she wipes her ass with toilet paper. Exit only. Shit material. You are shit to her.

                    [–]bongwaterblack 16 points17 points  (0 children)

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                    She wants to put it in the past, and he wants to put it in her butt. Seems like a fair trade to me.

                    [–]lonGterMgoalS 24 points25 points  (28 children)

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                    Dude stood there and allowed "Doug" to describe what a freak his wife is and didn't confront him or knock him the fuck out .......

                    but he doesn't know why his wife isn't a freak for him.

                    His lack of self respect is sad. His wife knows it too. She probably avoided the talk because she didn't want to hurt his fragile feelings.

                    [–]lemonparty 41 points42 points  (20 children)

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                    Isn't it funny how two guys can talk about the sexual history of a woman, but if one of the two is currently with her then it's suddenly like you're attacking her sacred honor or something?

                    When, in reality, absolutely nothing is different. The woman's sexual past is reality whether you know about it or not. Punching the guy is the intellectual equivalent of plugging your ears and going "LALALALAL I CANT HEAR YOU!" If the world allowed it, the only sane response would be for the Beta who can't even get a beej off of this woman to walk over and punch her in the face.

                    [–]lonGterMgoalS 20 points21 points  (7 children)

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                    Punching the guy is the intellectual equivalent of plugging your ears and going "LALALALAL I CANT HEAR YOU!

                    Knocking him the fuck out has nothing to do with her ...per se. He is disrespecting him to his face. Any man that stands there while another man says the shit Doug said has no one to blame but himself for having a wife who doesn't give him blowjobs.

                    I bet you if he knocked him out he would've gotten the best fucking blow job of his life in the car before even making it home.

                    If he had even an ounce of self respect his sex life would be better. If he had any self respect he wouldn't have married her in the first place with such a shit sex life.

                    [–]The_Floating_Dick 0 points1 point  (5 children)

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                    He is disrespecting him to his face.

                    He's just telling the facts, even if he means to show disrespect. If the guy did fuck her in the ass in the tent - that already happened and you can't do anything about it. It's like getting mad at gravity for hurting your knees.

                    [–]lonGterMgoalS 7 points8 points  (4 children)

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                    Facts or not what Doug pretty much said was

                    "You know that woman you chose to spend the rest of your life with? The mother of your kids that you provide for? The woman who you shared vows with? I slaughtered her ass. I rammed my dick in her face and ass and she loved it. She was my dirty whore and you now get the pleasure of going back home and having that visual of me with her when you go to sleep every night."

                    Did he have sex with his wife, yes but the OP in the story probably knew she wasn't a virgin. It's still disrespectful to have another guy describe the specifics in detail about it to his face.

                    Are you married? Maybe I see it differently because I'm married but I'll be damned if anyone thought they could stand there and say that shit to me. My wife would have her own hell to deal with when we left but he would never say a thing about me or my wife ever again.

                    OP in the story even said he wanted to hit him but his punk ass didn't do it. He ignored his natural urge the same way he has probably ignored every other natural alpha urge.

                    [–]The_Floating_Dick 0 points1 point  (3 children)

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                    I simply believe that some strange guy, who isn't a threat, shouldn't be able to get you out of emotional balance up to the point of you attacking him.

                    Indeed, the urge to punch him is natural, I can understand it and even imagine me doing it, but I think this comes from a weak place. I think you shouldn't let yourself get so attached to a woman, that you attack a guy, who tells you about having fucked her. Especially if his words are true.

                    [–]lonGterMgoalS 1 point2 points  (2 children)

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                    Indeed, the urge to punch him is natural, I can understand it and even imagine me doing it, but I think this comes from a weak place.

                    Sounds like something society shames men for. Fuck that! Anger isn't weak. Standing up for yourself isn't weak. Having strong sexual urges isn't weak. Being dominant isn't weak. These things being labeled "weak" or wrong is what little boys and men are taught now. Then they come here lost because it's not true.

                    Weak would be if he punched him without reason. If he punched him for only being her ex. That's weak, but that wasn't the case.

                    [–]GrandCzarOfRedPill 7 points8 points  (7 children)

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                    He married a woman who didn't give him bjs, her ex disrespects him by detailing the freaky things he did to his wife and you think punching her in the face is the right move?

                    The hamster is strong with you. Blaming someone else for his lack of self respect and poor decisions is weak.

                    [–]100 Modbsutansalt 1 point2 points  (2 children)

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                    If anyone should be getting punched in the face by the OP it's himself, if for no other reason than putting himself in that position in the first place and putting up with a shitty relationship for so long. Don't even get me started on marrying a woman like that who wasn't really attracted to him.

                    [–]GrandCzarOfRedPill 2 points3 points  (0 children)

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                    If that encounter didn't knock some sense into him he's a lost cause.

                    Mind boggling how men will marry a woman without having phenomenal sex be the main reason. If sex is anything less than that then marriage shouldn't even be a thought.

                    [–]throw8way0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

                    bsutansalt, this is throw8way0. Enjoy the orangered. It makes a nice change to the red.

                    [–]joncho 2 points3 points  (0 children)

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                    Yeah, but the guy was not telling him stuff randomly, the guy was faking friendly attitude while throwing all that stuff to his face intentionally. I would not be surprised if he had narcissistic traits and was getting off from it. And the guy stood there like a dummy without shooting back or anything. That says it all.

                    [–]winnnnnnnnn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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                    I'm gonna have to agree with the above poster. This isn't about her past. This is about the fact that a guy thinks he can brag to you about things he did in the past with a girl your currently involved with. Its telling that a complete stranger felt comfortable enough to overstep his boundaries in such a blatant way. Is it any wonder this guy isn't getting any blowjobs. I bet he doesn't lift either.

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                      [–]Rhinexheart 5 points6 points  (0 children)

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                      I really want to believe this happened

                      [–]1Watermelon_Salesman 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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                      That is prime /r/thatHappened material.

                      [–]Workchoices 3 points4 points  (0 children)

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                      Punch him? Should be thanking him. Doug has awared OP as to what he is and what his wife is, as much as that hurts.

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                        Yah but more people would be calling him an asshole.

                        [–]1Hyooge 5 points6 points  (1 child)

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                        I pity this man and many others like him who are in almost inescapable positions with their wife denying them the sex that should be present in a relationship as significant as marriage. It's a massively common example that shows social creations like marriage cannot trump biology.

                        The level of sex in any relationship (excluding women trying to get you to commit) is an indicator of what your partner thinks of you. Every single girl in the entire world will be a sex nutter for the right man so make sure you are that man.

                        The only men who can get away with a consistently sexually fulfilling marriage are the men who get women craving them.

                        [–]Chirp_Downvote_Celly 4 points5 points  (0 children)

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                        The level of sex in any relationship (excluding women trying to get you to commit) is an indicator of what your partner thinks of you. Every single girl in the entire world will be a sex nutter for the right man so make sure you are that man.

                        This. This. A thousand times this.

                        And I would add that if she is not consistently coming on to you for sex, at least in a healthy comparison to how many times you are coming on to her, you are not that man.

                        If you think you are in some sort of gray area between those extremes, you're not. If there is any doubt your SO wants you and not just your beta bucks/lifestyle you provide, it's going to be the latter. You can fix that in some cases, but just know that you aren't the man she's fantasizing about banging in public or doing anal with.

                        [–]watersign 3 points4 points  (0 children)

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                        he got the used up left overs. derp

                        [–]the_doodabides 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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                        To make a learning moment out of this, how can a guy find an accurate history of his girl ? How can you sift through the BS and figure out she was a complete and utter whore ?

                        [–]TheWindyCity 2 points3 points  (1 child)

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                        Funny how people accept redpill truths when they're put in fanciful idealistic terms. "She won't have freaky sex, but don't worry it's because she just loves and respects you more" lol alpha fucks, beta bucks strikes again!

                        "I have heard from other people that women see guys in two different ways, guys who are made for fucking, and guys that they settle down with. Does this mean she isn’t really attracted to me?"

                        "You practically hit the nail on the head, a lot of women desire a guy sexually that is bad for them in the long run. So when they are younger in college will date these guys and when they are older and looking to settle down and start a family they will choose a guy like you. It doesn't mean she isn't attracted to you, she is attracted to you for different reasons. There are things that she will do for you that she wouldn't do for that guy. Like start a family, get married, cosign a loan.

                        And a lot of the sexually adventurous things, she will only do with the other guy. Not because she wants to spite you, but because she doesn't feel right doing them with you. "

                        [–]hohamocha 3 points4 points  (0 children)

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                        She won't have freaky sex, but don't worry it's because she just loves and respects you more"

                        How is he judging her as a slut if she is giving only him, her husband, anal sex/blowjob? The guy practically asked her for more blowjobs/anal sex, many times, asking her to give more effort, and she refused. If she respected him, she'd give him her all.

                        No she don't want to have freaky sex with him because she doesn't respect him as much as she respects her alpha ex. If she did, she would have freaky sex with him if he asked for it.

                        [–]hashtagpound2point2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

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                        Am I wrong for being upset? Is this type of behavior normal where a woman will be sexually adventuruous with guys that she doesn’t settle down with? Is there something that I am lacking? I have heard from other people that women see guys in two different ways, guys who are made for fucking, and guys that they settle down with. Does this mean she isn’t really attracted to me?

                        This guy could use a dose of TRP right now. All of those questions have very simple answers, but he's not going to get them from /r/sex.

                        [–]RedPillWisdom 3 points4 points  (0 children)

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                        Marry a virgin, or be the one who claims the prize then marries her. Otherwise, marriage is a bad risk. If their N count is above zero, it could be a hundred, and she can lie about it all being in the past, she is too prim and proper to suck a dick, even if she has swallowed bushels of dicks. Or she could be a tornado in the sack, and your neighbor's bed too. Either way, who wants to pay for her upkeep in sweat, blood and decreased life expectancy? Not. Worth. It.

                        Spin plates, fuck whoever you want, but only put a ring on the finger of a woman with an N count of one, you.

                        [–]AkihiroDono 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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                        I came here looking for a thread on this, knew it had to exist.

                        I guarantee you this guys wife has cheated on him. Probably with the EX he had the pleasure of meeting.

                        The OP is one of the saddest excuses for a man I've ever had the displeasure of reading a post from. Then you have the the replies : Half hamstering women and half beta men.

                        [–]100 Modbsutansalt 0 points1 point  (2 children)

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                        [–]lonGterMgoalS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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                        Unfortunately he didn't post one here, where he would've gotten the right guidance and tools.

                        Poor schmuck is probably making appointments with a marriage counselor at this very moment when he should be making an appointment at his local gym for a membership and a consultation with an attorney.

                        [–]throw8way0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

                        bsutansalt, this is throw8way0. Enjoy the orangered. It makes a nice change to the red.

                        [–]hohamocha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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                        The right thing to do would have been to leave it alone with the ex and tell his wife that I'm going to go fuck other women that will do anal/blowjobs if you won't do it.

                        [–]themaxx77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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                        I haven't done anything to treat her shitty, I haven't called her names. I haven't spoken to her much after all this but that's mainly because I want to avoid conflict until she is ready to talk about this.

                        He "wants to avoid conflict" - that's his problem right there

                        [–]IndigoCup 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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                        The comments are even worse.

                        "It's in her past"

                        Are you fucking kidding me? She's clearly treating this new guy second rate compared to Doug. He needs to man up and claim what's rightfully his

                        [–]cooltrip 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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                        He has what his pathetic betaness and inferiority deserves.

                        So redpillers remember, you have to perform an important mind-turnaround:

                        A woman has to prove you her virtues and good qualities that make her deserve and earn her love relationship with you. A woman is not unprovenly decent and worthy until she proves you she's an unworthy mean slut and so she deserves your relationship's breakup, that is, a woman doesn't have to earn your detachment or separation, since your detachment was already the zero starting-situation in the first place before you met her; on the contrary, she has to deserve and to earn the changing of that zero starting-situation, she has to deserve and to earn your acceptance and love, by means of proving you she's not a slut and she's the kind of woman you'd want to love if you had all the information about her life. If she has had former sexual partners, then she'll have to make up for it, and she'll have to make you the most important and special man in her life, much more than her former partners (so she'll have to submit to you much more than she ever submitted to any former partner). Otherwise, you'll get the bad things your behavioral inferiority deserves.

                        Oh, and another piece of advice: only approach women THAT EARN your approaching. Your approaching is a very important and valuable privilege, as important and valuable as you yourself; so don't approach women you don't know well "for free".

                        Remember: considering her inferiority and natural condition of need to be protected and helped, she's not "your prize", but, as a man, YOU are the prize in her life. So don't award mean pathetic sluts who are not interested in you and who will only use you until they find a man better than you.

                        If you are an alpha, your self-esteem, both absolute and relative to women, is a necessary and definitional part of your alphaness. Don't be a clown of superiority; don't be a clown of inferiority; don't be a clown of women; don't be a clown, be A MAN.

                        [–]Jenni-o 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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                        "The thing which really gets at me is that this Doug guy is in many ways a loser/redneck type guy. He continuously complained that all of his bosses were assholes. He even boasted about going to prison for punching his boss in the face."

                        This guy sounds dominant to me. An idiot, but definitly a no shit taking mother fucker. He saw the dude's wife and made her his cock's slave with no questions asked on her part. When mr. nice guy shows she puts on her "I'm an angel, primp and proper" face.

                        [–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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                        Oh Lord, I don't know why I bother reading any of these BP threads.

                        I now understand people who yell at the screen in movie theaters telling the main character to get the fuck out of the house.

                        [–]∞ Red Pill VisionaryRollo-Tomassi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

                        From Open Hypergamy:

                        http://therationalmale.com/2014/08/07/open-hypergamy/

                        Nobody marries their 'best sex ever'

                        According to a recent study by iVillage, less than half of wedded women married the person who was the best sex of their lives (52 percent say that was an ex.) In fact, 66 percent would rather read a book, watch a movie or take a nap than sleep with a spouse.

                        Amanda Chatel, a 33-year-old writer from the East Village, says, “With the men I’ve loved, the sex has been good, sometimes great, but never ‘best.’ It’s resulted in many orgasms and was fun but, comparatively speaking, it didn’t have that intensity that comes with the ‘best’ sex.

                        “I knew [my best sex partner] was temporary, and so the great sex was the best because the sex was the relationship,” she adds. “We didn’t have to invest in anything else.”

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                        To be totally honest, personally I tend to, and I'm sure most guys do, see two kinds of women too: the one that I would bang like if she was a porn star and the one that I would fall in love with and/or have a life with.

                        The thing is, when you start to have a life with a girl, share your everyday life, I find it totally and utterly impossible to still fuck her like a porn star.

                        This is a catch 22, you can either have hot sex or a stable life, not both, at least for me.

                        I think watching porn at a young age tend to accentuate this. I envy the guys who had an early sex life, usually by the time they are 25 they are able to settle and have a healthy sex life together with a grounded relationship. When you are beta like me until you are 30-40 you are fucked, you always have the craving for the new girl and all the stuff that I should have done when I was 18.