"My feelings: I like him. I love that he's smart, he's cute/grounded/funny etc. But I don't have that butterfly feeling. Our kiss was nice. Having drinks was nice. Dinner was nice. Everything about the situation was just... nice. I don't know how else to put it. No big excitement, no rush of running to tell my friends about the great date I just had. No thinking about ripping his clothes off the second I get him alone."
It just amuses me how female brains just short circuit when they question their own drives and rationalization hamster mobius loop ensues.
She unconsciously explains why TRP is so important and shows how female hamster ideals belie her biological agenda. When women say they want a nice guy, they are projecting a mental ideal of what they should want...but what they really motivates them to jump your bones is tingles, butterflies & unicorn butt rainbows that only a Alphas can give.