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Seems like the boyfriend is doing the good thing of cutting contact.
Hi Reddit, I am a 20 yr old female in a relationship with a 23 year old male.
I was at a party with my good friends and my boyfriend of 3 months and we all decided to play drunk truth or dare. A group question came up that asked "have you ever had sex with more than one person at a time?" and I answered no for obvious reasons, but it didn't end there. Straight away, my highly drunk friend says "don't you remember that fivesome you had in the toilets last year?" in front of my boyfriend. I was speechless and I could see that my boyfriend was not impressed at me at all. To make matters worse, it confirmed that my "number" was a lie as I told him that I'd only had sex with 3 other guys throughout my life.
Ever since that night (2 days ago), he's hardly said a word to me and claimed to be "too busy" to see me or talk. I've tried to explain that the past is in the past, but he's been very apathetic with his replies (when I actually get them).
/relationships, how can I fix this? I really love him, he's responsible, good job and kind hearted but he doesn't seem to want anything to do with me
tl;dr: Boyfriend found out that I had a fivesome and that I lied about the number of people I've had sex with in my life.
EDIT 1- I've told him the truth that it wasn't a "gangbang" and that it was just 4 girls (including myself) with one other guy, yet he's still not impressed. Really getting anxious here.
Surprised one user had the guts to be straight up honest with her with this comment
"edit: To reflect your edit, only one thing to say. Do you honestly expect him to be impressed that you took part in acting out another guy's harem fantasy?"
EDIT - The fivesome was apparently between 4 girls and 1 guy.