"As a woman, a strong one, (at least I'd like to think so) I love it when I'm giving head or I'm being spanked because it's sex! You get to do the shit you won't normally do! It's a control thing. I'm usually doing the firing or the "dirty work" so when I have sex I love to just enjoy my man, do what you want, spank me, slap me, cum all over me, anything that will put me "in my place" or give you control because sometimes I need a break, I mean, who doesn't?"
"Yes! You have perfectly explained exactly what I am unable to articulate! Maybe it's just me, but I am a woman who holds strong values, opinions and positions in my work and volunteer life. When it comes to sex, I don't want to be in charge anymore. It's my time to finally take a break! I won't be passive and I won't let you walk all over me, but I do need the control."