You know this bitter, harsh taste of the red pill that men have to swallow:
--> there is no such thing as everlasting love. The moment you stop improving and you lost the admiration of your significant other, it’s over.
--> Women don’t care if you’re a good person. They care that you have dominant, alpha traits to give them the tingles and impregnate them; or provider, beta traits to support them and provide for them and their offspring
--> Women are only attracted to guys of higher value than them, and they are hypergamous. As long as they can safely branch swing to a guy with higher value, most of them will do it. They’ll rationalize it by feeling that the love is gone between you two
--> Don’t trust women. Lying and manipulating is to them what resolve and hard work are for us: our weapons in life
--> You’re only as important to others as what you bring to the table: so lift, grow, become better. No free pass for any man.
Well, this is a (very resumed) tough pill to swallow, but no matter at what age you swallow it, you can still grow and improve, get better women, follow your interests, try and build the life you want.
Women, on the other side, have a very tough pill to swallow too:
--> Since you can remember, life has always been awesome: people love you, treat you nice, opportunities present themselves, you’re never alone. You have no reason to doubt that it will never change. Well, it will. And it will change abruptly when you hit 30. Nobody tells you that, and you’re unprepared.
--> You think you’re attracted to nice guys, but really you’re not. You like charismatic, strong men that you can’t manipulate –men that are socially above you and treat you accordingly. Unfortunately, a lot of those men are assholes. Deal with it.
--> You think you have a great personality because everybody tells you so, and that you have a sense of humor because everybody laughs at your jokes: newsflash, people only do so because you’re young and hot. In ten more years people will start treating you like shit (like people treat men all the time)
--> Nobody cares that you have a degree. You can climb the corporate ladder as a single, independent woman, and think you’re happy, and you will be for a few years, but you’ll probably end up alone, or in an unfulfilling relationship, and you’ll be miserable. You’ll wish you married that nice guy you turned down when you were young, and who ended up becoming an amazing man. Now he doesn’t even look at you.
--> No matter what feminists tell you, you won’t feel fulfilled if you don’t have a household or a family of your own. You don’t realize it now because you’re young and everything revolves around you, but when you’re older you’ll notice that your life feels empty. Just look at those 50years old women with no kids or loving husband, they are truly miserable and bored to death.
--> You’re young and have all the power in the world, but it’s granted to you for a limited time. Don’t waste it in multiple meaningless flings. Find a good man, use your love and knowledge to push him to become great. Build a household with him. You only have limited time to find prince charming and build the life that will make you happy
A guy that finds the red pill in his 30s, 40s, even 50s, can still change his life for the better. For a girl it’s not always the case, there are mistakes that cannot be undone. They can hit the gym at 40 and change their attitude, but for a lot of them it won’t change anything, and the realization that they made poor choices will hurt them. That’s why women don’t swallow their own red pill.