I see young men here go through similar patterns. At 50, I have both lived and viewed men's stages of pedestaling and truth.
Stage 1: we all worship the mysterious vagina.
We've caught glimpses of them in magazines and on TV. These princesses with their mysterious bodies are our goal. We know it's the end-all-be-all of happiness, so will say anything at all to touch one in real life.
We open doors, compliment ugly shoes, laugh at any joke. Once we discover physical intimacy indeed is incredible, we rinse & repeat. Often to our eternal unhappiness.
Most men stay in this stage forever.
Stage 2: as we swallow the pill, many men find it bitter.
A few men figure it out. Driven by unhappiness, they look for answers and find good ones here.
Our world is changed.
"They're not princesses, they're whores! Plates! Greedy! Society fooled us! Feminists bitches!"
We still want to fuck them though, so turn to ... game. Many young men here are in this phase, where they basically see a woman's brain as no more than a lock to her pussy. Yes, there are tactics that work and a generation of pickup artists find some moist happiness.
Guys refine their lines and tactics. They learn to be neg and much more. After all, it's just a game and she's just a plate.
You will get your dong well-serviced at this stage, but at some point most will want deeper connections.
Stage 3: we discover they're people.
They're not "good" or "bad" any more than you could say such a term about men.
Yes, there are generalities that make our knowledge powerful.
They crave leaders and mentally strong, confident men. They want to be protected, both physically and emotionally. In turn, they will bring sensuality, caring and sometimes servitude to the man who they've allowed to lead them. When they don't, it's our job to remind them of their role or find another who does.
Few things compare to having a sexy first-mate and living in a partnership that benefits you both.
Perfecting this stage is a lifelong endeavor and this sub is a great place to learn.
Gentlemen, the Red Pill is worth the journey.
Take it when you can, get past the bitterness as quickly as possible and welcome to living a life that few men will experience.