Quick Aside: I know this is a sore subject; Masturbation is the Slut of male rationalization. Try and control your anger. Feel free to disagree with me but try and keep it rational and emotional free.
I'm not here telling you not to masturbate or that masturbation is wrong, the same way I won't tell sluts not to be sluts. Human beings have desires and urges and you are free to satisfy them as you will.
But…and there's always a big hairy but…in the same fashion I criticize sluts for their lack of self control, I criticize chronic and constant masturbation even harsher because I hold men to a higher standard.
- Before You Can Control Others, You Must Control Yourself.
A man being in control of his sexual urges is key to not letting women control you. I used to masturbate at least once a day, every day since I was about 16. Every time I felt the sexual urge I had to satisfy it. This translated to my workings with women. I was so used to getting off every time I was turned on that the second a woman turned me on I was hers. It made me look desperate and needy. Women controlled me because they knew if they turned me on I had to get off. This doesn't work anymore. The second I learned to say no to myself, I learned to say no to women as well.
2.Masturbation Is Porn Or The Past.
I'm 100% against porn. I can't be more clear about this. Porn becoming an acceptable cultural norm is one of the key contributors to what has made society what it is: we've made it impossible to separate slutty from sexy. Masturbating to porn only reinforces this twisted normality. Everything in porn is fake. Those women are not having a good time. They are putting on a show, an act, it's lying of the highest order.
You know that feeling that comes .5 seconds after you finish jacking off, where the porn is still playing and you feel utterly disgusted and ashamed at what you're getting off to? Yeah, that's your inner monologue speaking.
Even worse is dipping into the spank bank. I used to jack off to my old conquests and it kept me stuck in the past. I was so satisfied with what I had done that I stopped focusing on what I wanted to do.
3.Masturbation Is A Gateway to Beta Complacency.
I used to masturbate before I went out at night to try and calm my sexual urges. It's like not bringing your credit card to the casino to prevent spending too much money, very stupid. What it would do was make me not want to get women. It killed my masculine instinct that made me want to fuck everything around me. Without that killer instinct I became boring and supplicating. Masturbating made me feel satisfied and complacent with my sex life. I got the satisfaction I wanted from jacking it and couldn't bring myself to getting it up to talk to real women. The second I stopped beating my meat, the only way for me to get off was to actually find a woman to sleep with.
Did this lead me to becoming a ravenous savage? Did it lead to me fucking some subpar women? Did it force me into busting my ass to ensure I could sleep with enough women to keep me satisfied and sane? Yes, yes it did. Unhealthy, but that's when we get to part 3.
4.Moderation Is The Pinnacle of Manhood and Masturbation Murders Moderation.
The quest for too much sex and too much masturbation are equally destructive on a man. Both cause your world to revolve around sex and makes you a slave to your urges.
The world pushes you to masturbate because it says its healthy. Like all things society has to encourage you to do, there's always a reason. Keeping betas sexually satisfied makes them easier to control. It keeps them less tense, less prone to violence, less inclined to cause trouble.
I'm not going to advocate nofap or any shit like that because 0 is just as bad as 100. What I'm saying is think about what masturbation is and how it makes you feel. Are you doing it because you have to or because you want to?
Most importantly, does it make you happy afterwards.