I had a record of over 400 down votes on a comment which I assume is because somebody linked the thread to The Blue Pill, Two-X, or Ask-Hamsters. So I will repeat my argument and delve a bit deeper for all the non-panty sniffing White Knights who violently accused me of "raping" my wife.
The Sex God Method by Daniel Rose answers and explains the age old question: What do women want?
As it turns out, what women want more than anything is a MAN. A strong, solid, horny, MASCULINE man who knows what he wants and is willing to go for it without hesitation or fear.
Understand a basic biological fact: A LOT of your woman's entire metabolisms is reserved to run her sex organs- Vagina, Uterus, Ovaries. Your woman is MADE (or evolved) to have sex. LOTS of sex. LOTS and LOTS of hard pounding sex. Her body is not made for gentle, delicate loving. She is programmed to want to be rammed hard and deep and filled up with Alpha seed. It is what she CRAVES more than anything.
Now if we put that fact alongside two others we come to an interesting conclusion:
Most BP Betas are NOT giving their woman hard thrusting, frenetic, deep pounding sex, nor are they flipping her around the bed and fucking her hard in multiple positions. Instead they spend hours performing cunnilingus and making sure she has an orgasm first.
The new definition of RAPE has been expanded to include basically any type of sex a woman decides later she didn't really want.
Thus, all you BP faggots gently 'making love' to your women are not doing what she REALLY wants! If they want pulsing, hard pounding fun....every time you have sex (which is probably not very bloody often) you are a RAPIST. Chew on that motherfuckers.
Now on to my comment which currently has 407 downvotes in the thread: "We are not going to have sex every day any more":
I have a very similar story in my 20+ year marriage. ON OUR HONEYMOON my wife informed me (after YEARS of sex multiple times a day) that: "I don't have to have sex every day."
Dumbass Bluepill me told her: "Of course not dear."
Fast forward through 2 decades of denials, shit tests, games, withdrawal of affection, and sex twice a month- an ovulation and a pity fuck every month like clockwork.
When I unplugged my wife admitted (rather belatedly I think) the proper response would have been: "Fine, you don't have to have sex with me every day- but I need to have sex with YOU every day" (followed by grabbing her, throwing her on the bed and fucking her silly after kissing her mouth shut).
Shit test passed 20 years late.
Women WILL ALWAYS try to cut back the sex in order to seize control of the relationship.
Don't "ask" for sex; TELL her what you are going to do to her body and then do it.
ANY woman who refuses her man is CHEATING on him and is NOT a GF or wife; the response should be complete withdrawal of affection and time until the GF or wife returns- or until you make it permanent and get somebody better.
Not surprisingly the White Knights and fems lost their shit. The main objection from the Blue Pill faggots and womyn was the statement:
"Don't ask for sex. Tell her what you are going to do to her body and then do it.
I think many of them are so used to begging for sex that they could not wrap their heads around a MAN actually grabbing his woman and fucking her senseless. Sorry to destroy the Blue Pill/Disney/Twue Wuv fantasy but shooting the messenger is not going to change the truth of the message. I attempted to engage a few of them with the following reply:
Oh for the love of God read the sidebar. Women are responsive. They want you to take control. They want you to be the man and take charge. The number one female fantasy is to be overwhelmed and taken by a strong male who cannot control himself.
You apparently don't disagree with point 1 (women will always try to take control of the relationship using sex) so I will start with 2 and REPEAT: Don't "ask" for sex, TELL her. Asking is Beta. Asking is TOTALLY anti-seductive. Basic PUA 101 is to assume the close. You should TELL a girl you are going to fuck her good- not ask (or beg) her for her favor. If you show some passion and get really, really horny, then chances are you will get your girl really horny and then both of you can be happy for a few minutes.
Rapist? Does EVERY fucking post have to have the obligatory caveat- Oh, by the way, if she says "no" you have to stop? If the girl is not DTF, if she verbally objects or pushes you away or turns away you stop. Well no fucking shit Einstein. Thanks for reminding us.
Others lost their shit because I argued that sexual denial was a violation of the marriage contract just as much as cheating with another person.
And on point 3- when you got married for all of human history until about the last 30 years it was ASSUMED you were not going to be trapped in a no sex marriage. Of course we are SO MUCH more enlightened today. The only thing men can do is withdraw affection and cooperation if they are not getting affection and cooperation and you want to say that is also abusive? Fuck you.
I was in a /r/deadbedrooms marriage for 3/4 of my 20+ Year tenure so I know exactly what I am saying and I stand by every word:
When you get married there are 2 promises exchanged.
1.You both agree to be exclusive sexually ("Forsaking all others")
- you both agree to satisfy the other sexually ("to have and to hold from this day forth").
Moreover you agree to do these things "in sickness and in health, for richer or poorer, so long as you both shall live."
If you cheat you violate the first provision of the marital agreement.
If you refuse your partner sexually you violate the second.
According to The Sex God Method, you need 4 elements to be a sex god: D-E-V-I
Dominance: Manhandle your woman! Wrestle her to the ground. Throw her against the wall and kiss her while you put your hands down her pants. Pick her up and throw her down on the bed while you rip off her clothes and then fuck her into the matress. Pull her hair and move her head around so you can kiss her lips while thrusting hard (make sure you grab a big handful of hair at the skull cuz it hurts if you grab higher than the base or grab a smaller amount- all in baby). Choke her while you fuck her senseless (be very, very careful! Start with 0 pressure and just a hand on the throat- in fact, start by holding the BACK of her neck and move slowly- I would argue you should never cut off her air but some girls really dig it- google erotic asphyxia for more but from a medical standpoint I just think it is dangerous).
Emotion: Give your woman a roller coaster ride of emotions. Whisper in her ear how much you love her then spank her ass. Tell her how her pussy feels squeezing your dick. Comment how she is such a horny slut for your cock because you can feel her dripping all over it. Have her stare into your eyes the entire time you are fucking her and order her to cum just before you do.
Variety: Keep her guessing what position you are going to put her in next. Get her sizzling like a steak on the grill then flip her over and fuck her some more. Cum inside her from different positions. Don't be predictable.
Immersion: RELAX! I like to give my wife a long, sensual backrub, rubbing her body all over and gently touching her intimately for just a second, teasing and building as we go. Immersion means the total absence of thoughts. The only thing in the word is the two of you and your sex organs.
Rape- REAL RAPE- is FAILING to give your woman the kind of sex she wants and craves. Stop raping her by your pathetic attempts and gentle lovemaking you Blue Pill faggots and start FUCKING her. REAL Rape is FAILING to satisfy your woman just so you can continue the Disney/Twue Wuv meme.
So my BP frenemies, you have been given the keys to the kingdom and the secret of the universe. Ignore it at your peril or wait until your woman cheats on you with one of those "Alpha" guys who throws her down on the bed and cave mans her into multiple orgasms.
Edit 1: I did not know the shit storm this post would cause nor that I would attract a brigade of Blue Pill followers but that is what has apparently happened.
For my Blue Pill Brothers and Sisters and everybody from two-X or Ask Hamsters let me be clear. As stated MANY times by me and others downthread and above in the Original Post "real" rape is bad. Is that clear enough? Genuinely forcing yourself sexually on another person who does not consent is "rape." Rape is not good. Rape is bad. Rape is terrible. Rape is awful. No sane person condones Rape. Rape is a soul destroying act of aggression. That said, real Rape is NOT: I went home with him, took off all my clothes, got in bed with him, let him finger me to 2 orgasms and he was aggressive and we had great sex and I came all over the place like Niagara Falls but he didn't call me the next day so Hamster. "Real" Rape is bruises and broken jaws, or the use of threats or force. Real rape is shattered looks destroyed emotions and psychological agony. There is not a fuzzy line, it is a bright and clear line.
If you don't know the difference between aggressive, hard pounding, sweaty, dripping sex with your lover and "Rape" then please go to another thread.
Edit 2: I may not have been clear enough below so let me be clear. Since I unplugged and read Daniel Rose's book, I often have this kind of sex with my wife. I throw her against the wall and aggressively make out with her. I pick her up on my shoulder and carry her upstairs before throwing her on the bed. I rip off her clothes. I hold her by the neck and even choke her. I pull her hair and spank her ass. Other times I spend an hour giving her a slow sensual back rub. I may spend 1/2 hour just on her feet then teasingly up the inside of her legs until she is going crazy and demands that I take her. VARIETY!
HOWEVER: My wife is a ball busting, hard-nosed, strong, extremely intelligent lawyer who makes more money in a month than most people make in a year. There has never, and will never, be a time when I am unclear whether she consents. Sure there are always Last Minute Defense she might playfully throw up but her consent is NEVER in any doubt. Never.
So if you attempt any of these techniques that is the first thing you need- a CLEAR line of communication. You can't just go by her level of arousal (she may not even be aware of it) so this is actually one time- and about the ONLY time- when you need to listen to what she is actually SAYING, not what she does. Sure they joke all the time about don't picking up the bar of soap- except it is not a joke. Be warned. Have a safe word etc (Our 'Safe' word is Mr. Mr. Mxyzptlk backwards three times).