You'll often hear women say a variety of disingenuous things about what a man needs to do or be in order to get a woman.
Caring, supportive, sensitive, smart, non-judgmental, "can handle my sarcastic nature! derp!", etc.
Well actually these are all wishful thinking, first of all. It's the hamster convincing herself that she really DOES value these morally good things.
And indeed, no one is against support or care. No one hates a caring human. But the reality is that these factors simply aren't valued either. They're irrelevant to whether or not you get sex.
What you do is you use the Garbage Man Test™: Would these things still apply if the man was a garbage collector (any type of low value man).
If the answer to that test is no, then she's full of shit.
The reality is that women don't go after garbage men at the expense of higher value men because he was "sensitive, caring and supportive!".
No, these are accessory factors that they require for their beta bucks. On the other hand, they will hamster away the apparent absence of these factors for their alpha fucks. In other words, they will come up with alternate explanations as to why they fucked the non-supportive, insensitive, aloof, no bullshit alpha.
Examples: "Oh, I never go after these types of guys!" (except she just did). Or they will try to romanticize the fact that she is inconsistent: "He's totally not my type! It was so strange it just happened!" (this allows her to distance herself away from her actions).
So just remember the Garbage Man Test™. The bullshit you hear some chicks spout about their ideal man only applies if the man is already high enough value in her mind.