I've read quite a few post on TRP advocating that showing weakness or fear in front of any women, more specifically your SO, will make the women perceive you as weak and eventually leave you.
Now I can understand showing weakness to a woman you first met will not get you laid because you made a bad first impression. But, when it comes to your SO, if something doesn't go your way, or something bad happens to you, you are allowed show your discomfort, your fear or sadness. Your allowed to admit your mistakes or failures to her.
WHAT YOU ARE NOT ALLOWED TO DO IS DWELL ON YOUR FAILURES, AND ACT LIKE A BITCH FOR DAYS OR WEEKS AND DO NOTHING ABOUT IT. What your women wants to see you do after you fail, is accept your failure like a man, strengthen your resolve, and go back out and attain whatever your after in full force. WHEN FAILURE HAPPENS, (and it will happen, it must happen, you cannot succeed without failure), SHE WANTS THE COMFORT IN KNOWING THAT HER MAN CAN PICK HIMSELF UP AFTER HE FALLS AND CONTINUE FIGHTING. SHE WANTS TO SEE YOU ENTER MONK MODE. WOMEN LOVE MEN THAT ARE IN MONK MODE. (i used that term to my gf by accident and she thought that meant no sex).
what triggered this was some guys on TRP posting that they lose their SO after they open up to her, or when they didn't get a job or when they get injured or when they get sick. Then they conclude it's because they showed weakness.
When you open up to her, you tell her your fears, but also show your comfortable in your own skin and you don't let it affect the way you roll in life. When you don't get a job, we can show your disappointment but your just gearing up for the next opportunity. When you get sick or injured, don't be depressed about it, be optimistic and when you feel better take life with full force. Basically fellas, if you show an increase in energy after your go down.. your lady will beg you to fuck her brains out. (personal experience)