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[–]100 Modbsutansalt[S] 64 points65 points  (1 child)

Improving SMV

  • Fitness & Fashion
  • Social Attributes
  • Status
  • Game

Fitness & Fashion

  • Being fit is itself an attractive quality. It evokes feelings of safety and protection and overrides height issues for short men
  • Body fat should be under 20%. 10-15% is attainable AND maintainable
  • Obesity epidemic means 33% of American's are clinically obese and another 33% are clinically overweight. This translates to being at a healthy body composition nowadays is effectively a form of peacocking. And being 10-15% bf plus being jacked most certainly is!

High Intensity Interval Training (sprints)

  • Tabata protocol -- 8 rounds of 20 seconds maximal effort + 10 second recovery
  • Prowler sled
  • Stick to the core lifts

Diet -- “You can't out-train a bad diet”

  • Keep it simple = Paleo or Zone

No such thing as “cardio” (intensity is key)

  • James Steele II
  • Doug McGuff

Weight training – Stick to the big lifts

  • Squats
  • Deadlift
  • Press (bench, overhead press)
  • Pull (pull-ups, rows)

Beginners: stick to the basics!

  • Starting Strength is a fantastic program for beginners and intermediates alike
  • New Rules of Lifting
  • Forget the high volume workouts found in muscle magazines!

Stick to a schedule

  • Intermittent Fasting
  • Routines help stay on track and avoid slips
  • Pick a gym that's on your route to/from work
    -- Morning person = closer to home
    -- Afternoon person = closer to work

Rest and Recovery is critically important

  • A meal following a workout is advised
  • Most people do well with somewhere in the 7-9 hours of sleep range
  • Many people overtrain and have no idea they're doing it until an injury occurs

Fashion tips:

  • Shoes AND belt should match each other and your outfit

Black vs Brown

  • Clothes should properly fit; avoid bad fit disease

Example 1 (bad)
Example 2 (good)
Example 3 (bad)
Example 4 (good)
Example 5 (bad)
Example 6 (good)

Here are a couple before and after pictures of what is achievable just by getting your fitness and fashion in order:

Before After

Before After

The pictures speak for themselves.

Women do the same too, only their tools are a bit different

  • Fashion
  • Showing skin
  • Faking hallmarks of fertility, which are the cornerstone of what men are attracted to
    -- Pushup bras
    -- Implants
    -- Makeup
    -- Corsets
    -- Hair coloring, wigs, and extensions

All of these things are analogous to men lying about having a high status job or any other way of emulating high status.

Before After

Yes that's the same woman.

Checkpoint

  • If you're not working out already, why not?
  • If you think you are fashion savvy, why didn't you dress sharp for class?
  • How does this section apply to your goals? Take a few minutes and modify them accordingly

SOCIAL ATTRIBUTES

  • Reading People
  • Body Language
  • Verbal Communication
  • Eye Contact

Reading People

  • IOIs & IODs: 3 most important are:
    -- Laughing
    -- She touches you
    -- Re-initiates conversation
  • Proximity
    -- Women stop somewhere in roughly a 10' bubble -- You have about 1 minute to approach

Body Language

  • Think about your posture & take up space
  • Slow down body movements
  • Be mindful of where you are facing
  • Mirror body language (and height)
  • Eliminate fidgeting & pecking – mood killers
  • Keep your hands out of your pockets!
    -- Sign of insecurity and nervousness
  • Hand gestures should stay about waist height or slightly below
    -- Hold your drinks at this level

Verbal Communication

  • Tone, pitch, projection, pacing
  • Slow down!
    -- Take a moment to think about what you're trying to say, not what you're going to say – there's a difference
    -- You're important, they'll wait
  • “Pregnant pauses”
  • Eliminate filler words as best you can
  • Rehearsing helps immensely
    -- “Perfect practice makes perfect”

Eye Contact

  • Far too many people are afraid to make eye contact these days
  • Stare people down as you pass them to get in the habit of making eye contact
  • Try to notice their eye color
  • Pause for a second before looking away
  • If you're hesitant or insecure, look at their nose or imagine you're checking to see if they have unibrow – they won't know the difference!

Checkpoint

  • What did you just learn?
  • How can this help achieve your goals?

STATUS

Status is KING!

  • Education can take years, so focus on areas that will have solid ROI
    -- No guarantee you'll move up the corporate ladder
  • Far easier to build fresh social alignments (with elevated status at the start) than changing your status within existing social circles
  • Host events based on your interests
    -- Invite women out to these events so they see you at your best / most attractive

GAME

  • What drive social alliances?
  • First impressions
  • External vs Internal
  • Breaking Rapport
  • Qualification
  • “Gift of gab”
  • Training Wheels

What drive social alliances?

  • Propinquity
  • Mere-exposure effect
  • Investment – Second most important element
  • The person least invested controls the relationship
  • Build investment mutually like a layered cake
  • Qualification drives the process
  • Start out investing slightly less than the other person
    -- Helps get them to “chase”
  • Investment
    -- Example of what NOT to do -- How many of you text like this?
  • Scale back how much interest you're showing (3:2 ratio)

First impressions

  • You have roughly 6 seconds
  • Forget the “3 second rule” – it burns up half this time just standing there
  • How you move plays an important part
  • Being rejected: They don't know anything about you as a person, they're just rejecting your approach methodology

Approaching

  • What you say to break the ice (open) isn't actually all that important
  • How you say it is what matters
  • Should not put them on edge or make them defensive (build comfort)
  • The entire point is to transition into a real conversation

Direct vs Indirect

  • Each has it's own merits
  • Direct is better for situations where time is limited and/or seeing if they're naturally interested
    -- See also: Bell Curve

External vs Internal Game

  • External Game, aka Outer Game is all of the things you do and say
  • Techniques / Gambits (pickup)
  • Structured approach

Internal Game is your beliefs, self-worth, character

  • Disabusing yourself of “blue pill” thinking
  • Understanding of the sexual marketplace

Breaking Rapport

  • Saying “no”, back-turns, playful teasing, getting physical, they all fall under a larger umbrella of something called “flirting”
  • Break rapport as soon as you have comfort
    -- Bigger the rapport break, the more comfort is required to smooth things over
    -- Longer you wait to rebuild comfort, the more comfort is required
  • Statement of Intent – “sexy”

Physical

  • Touch her with something cold
  • Pick her up and spin her
    -- Displays strength which evokes feelings of safety & protection
  • Playfully push her away
  • Stop speaking and just stare
    -- Builds tension which itself is a rapport break
  • Physical and verbal escalation are forms of rapport breaks

Teasing

  • Give her a silly nickname
  • Mimic her in a funny way
  • Tell her she's old if she's really younger

Disagreement

  • Say “no”
  • Say “I bet you can't xyz”
  • When asked to do something, don't comply and instead ask “why?”
  • Cancel a plan you made
  • Dislike something she likes

Non-supplication

  • Take a sip of her drink without asking if you're holding one for her
  • Ask for some form of compliance before doing something she requested
  • If she's not investing, challenge her on it
    -- "Come on, don't be gay”

Verbal

  • If she's teasing you, just look at her and say “Weak”
  • Verbal mind-games
    -- Ask her which sentence is correct, “The yolk of the egg is white,” or “The yolk of the egg are white.” When she answers explain that the yolk of the egg is yellow.

Disqualification

  • Saying you like a trait she doesn't have
    -- “I like blonds” and she's a brunette
  • Have her see you talk to other women
  • Preselection plus the rapport break is mighty powerful stuff
  • Mention your “girlfriend”
    -- Can later recover by explaining your girlfriend is actually a girl...friend and that you have lots of them, just like she probably has lots of guy friends
  • Powerful tool for mitigating problems during an interaction
    -- Disqualify objections before they are made
  • Also useful for breaking rapport (flirting) and can be used to frame others (3rd parties) in a negative light
    -- Useful for getting others to want to fulfill expectations and getting them to qualify themselves to you

Sexual

  • Large physical escalation
  • Saying something about her is “sexy”
    -- As a rule of thumb I always do this so she knows my intent – avoids the “friend-zone”
  • Turning the topic of conversation to sex
    -- People → Relationships → Sex

[–]100 Modbsutansalt[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

GAME Continued...

Qualification

  • Arguably the most important long-term aspect of Game
  • “Don't stick your dick in crazy”
  • Screens for women who are a good match
    -- Remember the Bell Curve
  • Drives investment
  • Combats ASD
    -- You are demonstrating interest in more than just her looks!
  • Prince Charming is discriminating because he has options
    -- Is a type of preselection
    -- Being choosy shows you're not afraid of her
    -- Beggers can't be choosers
    -- Gets the rationalization hamster going -- Does he have options? Do I have competition? (built-in dread game)
  • Best when based on real things about your life
  • Don't punish investment, even if it wasn't up to your standards – change topics
  • Reward with some form of haptics, aka “kino”
    -- This is the basis of escalation!

  • Qualification statements and hoops are two methods I like to use because they're simple and effective
    -- Qualification statements can invoke the natural human instinct to want to live up to expectations

  • Small qualification hoops are typically yes/no questions
    -- Are generally boring “interview” questions
    -- Build minimal investment
    -- If she answers and then goes into a longer answer, that's an indicator she's interested in the subject and might like you

  • Medium qualification hoops typically follow yes/no questions

  • Large hoops are open-ended and/or very personal questions

Note: If they won't commit to answering a question, shrink the hoop down a level

Also, qualification and disqualification used in tandem is extremely powerful.

Checkpoint

  • How do rapport breaks and qualification correlate to your goals and desires?
  • Come up with a few examples of each

“Gift of gab”

  • Goal of conversing is to develop investment
  • Guys usually do the heavy lifting at first
  • Vertical vs Horizontal
  • Horizontal is surface stuff that doesn't dig deeper
  • 4WH
  • Thoughts & Emotions
  • Check-ins
  • Have a few topics in mind and screen for common interests
    -- Common topics for professional types are Relationships / People, Hobbies, Career / Job, and Travel
    -- Younger women typically are interested in Beaches, Shopping, Movies, Partying
    --Choose topics that will be of interest to your type of women
  • Don't be afraid of the occasional awkward silence -- Can be thought of as rapport breaks
  • Build commonalities
    -- You give a little, they give a little
    -- Multilayer cake
  • Statements...then questions
    -- Texting should flow this way too
  • Reward, statement, question – in that order -- Essentially qualification and escalation
  • Personal stories should focus on the topic, not yourself

Training Wheels

  • Keep it simple: revisited
  • Approach and stay until they tell you to leave or they walk away
  • Embrace awkward silences
    -- They're a form of rapport break
  • If they break the silence with “sooo....” that's a form of investment on their part
    -- You broke rapport, now they're seeking comfort with you!

Instigate – Isolate – Escalate

  • Approach
  • Build comfort
  • JUSTIFY WHY YOU ARE TALKING TO THEM
  • Break rapport
  • Build comfort
  • Lock-in
    -- If doing so is a rapport break, then build comfort
  • Qualify, qualify, qualify! -- If it's a rapport break, build comfort immediately after
  • When they jump through hoops, escalate
    -- Escalation is often a rapport break, so build comfort afterwards
  • Build commonalities
  • Builds comfort & rapport
  • When you have comfort, break rapport
    -- This is the building blocks of flirting; it's emotional stimulation
  • Seed reasons to stay in touch
    -- Swap contact details by calling back to the above reasons you seeded earlier in the conversation
    -- “What's the best way to stay in touch?”

[–]100 Modbsutansalt[S] 47 points48 points  (12 children)

Iron Rules of Tomassi -- This is not a full list of his "rules" and are merely those I felt were core ones to grasp as quickly as possible for those freshly freed from the Matrix.

Frame is everything. Always be aware of the subconscious balance of who’s frame in which you are operating. Always control the Frame, but resist giving the impression that you are.

  • Always be on the lookout for Shit Tests, aka Fitness Tests

NEVER, under pain of death, honestly or dishonestly reveal the number of women you’ve slept with or explain any detail of your sexual experiences with them to a current lover.

Any woman who makes you wait for sex, or by her actions implies she is making you wait for sex; the sex is NEVER worth the wait.

NEVER allow a woman to be in control of the birth control

  • Always use protection and CYA
  • Paternity fraud is a real issue—get paternity tests!
  • Child support is a ridiculous system you do NOT want to suffer, not to mention there's no guarantee/requirement the money will even be used on the child's needs. Tom Leykis calls it “vaginamony” for a reason.

Women are utterly incapable of loving a man in the way that a man expects to be loved. What this means is that women are incapable of loving men in a way that a man idealizes is possible, in a way he thinks she should be capable of.

  • Don't buy into the Disneyesque/rom-com version of relationships
  • See also: Briffault's Law

It is always time and effort better spent developing new, fresh, prospective women than it will ever be in attempting to reconstruct a failed relationship. Never root through the trash once the garbage has been dragged to the curb. You get messy, your neighbors see you do it, and what you thought was worth digging for is never as valuable as you thought it was.

Always let a woman figure out why she wont fuck you, never do it for her.

Never Self-Deprecate under any circumstance. This is a Kiss of Death that you self-initiate and is the antithesis of the Prize Mentality. Once you’ve accepted yourself and presented yourself as a “complete douche” there’s no going back to confidence with a woman. Never appeal to a woman’s sympathies. Her sympathies are given by her own volition, never when they are begged for – women despise the obligation of sympathy. Nothing kills arousal like pity.


Heartiste's 16 Commandments of Poon

  • Never say ‘I Love You’ first
  • Make her jealous
  • You shall make your mission, not your woman, your priority
  • Don’t play by her rules
  • Adhere to the golden ratio
  • For every 3 texts or “I love you”, reply with 2 of your own
  • Keep her guessing
  • Always keep two in the kitty (spin plates)
  • Say you’re sorry only when absolutely necessary
  • Connect with her emotions
  • Ignore her beauty
  • Be irrationally self-confident
  • Maximize your strengths, minimize your weaknesses
  • Err on the side of too much boldness, rather than too little
  • Fuck her good
  • Maintain your state control (Frame control)
  • Never be afraid to lose her

Checkpoint:

  • What risks do we take becoming Red Pill aware?
  • How does this help us?

[–]improvy 6 points7 points  (7 children)

Great List.

Can someone elaborate on those:

  1. "Always let a woman figure out why she wont fuck you, never do it for her."?

  2. "Never Self-Deprecate under any circumstance." Isn't agree and amplify is kind self deprecating? Can some one provide example of positive vs negative self deprecating?

[–]100 Modbsutansalt[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Isn't agree and amplify is kind self deprecating? Can some one provide example of positive vs negative self deprecating?

Agree & amplify is typically being cocky funny, a rapport break unto itself. Self-deprecating humor is something that should only be attempted by those who have a mastery of game for it often can lead to a woman losing attraction/interest in those who do so. You're effectively making yourself look weak and like a pussy when done incorrectly, so it is best avoided if at all possible.

[–]1runnerrun2 7 points8 points  (2 children)

"Always let a woman figure out why she wont fuck you, never do it for her."?

If a woman seems hesitant about having sex, one of our tendencies is to agree with the negative, kind of like beating her to the punch of rejecting you. We tend to do this in an effort to save face. However in reality if she hasn't rejected you, the option is still open for sex and a woman having some doubt is perfectly normal.

You can tie this one in with an old salesman adage. When you've presented the price to the customer, the first one to speak loses.

It's going to save you a lot of needless grief if you understand this one!

"Never Self-Deprecate under any circumstance." Isn't agree and amplify is kind self deprecating? Can some one provide I'm example of positive vs negative self deprecating?

A friend went on a date with a woman whose number he had gotten and she seemed pretty impressed with him. On the date at one point he told her "I'm pretty shy and don't socialize easily with people" - totally destroying the positive image the woman had of him. She pretty much visibly lost interest at that point and left not much after.

If you are positively self-deprecating, make sure it's just being humble!

[–]100 Modbsutansalt[S] 5 points6 points  (1 child)

kind of like beating her to the punch of rejecting you.

Often out of a sense of protecting one's own ego. It feels better to terminate things prematurely on your own than to face being sexually rejected.

totally destroying the positive image the woman had of him. She pretty much visibly lost interest at that point and left not much after.

♂ Exactly.

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[–]1pcadrian 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The way I interpret the first one is don't talk a woman out of fucking you. Basically don't do dumb things that imply you are a low SMV male. Neediness, reactive.

Agreeing and amplifying is so over the top (if done correctly) that it's obvious that what's being said is not true. On the other hand, with self-deprecating is done either to make the other person feel sorry, or to get people to laugh (both of which are approval seeking behaviours).

I know this is very general and abstract, I wish I could come up with some good examples. Can't think of good ones right now. Hopefully someone else can chime in.

There was a very recent post by IllimitableMan where he goes over shit tests (post was called "Everything you need to know about shit tests", blog link here), and he has some great examples of agreeing and amplifying there.

[–]anonaq456 -2 points-1 points  (1 child)

For 1. I believe what he is referring to is to not do something stupid. For example, if she rejects you, then you call her a slut, she will be quite offended and probably will never sleep with you

[–]1pcadrian 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's how I'm thinking of it too.

[–]1runnerrun2 2 points3 points  (3 children)

Fuck her good

There was a post a while back that was excellent on this subject. Basically, good sex comes from having and holding a tight frame, even being unashamedly selfish about what you want and how it's going to go.

The reason women have rape fantasies and like fifty shades of grey has nothing to do with actually wanting to be raped or dominated (they don't), it comes from the desire to be with a man who is in total control of the experience.

Having sex with you should be like entering your world. Only under these circumstances can women really let go and enjoy sex to the fullest.

This one would fit nicely in your summary imo.

(I mention it bc this one helped me personally to get rid of some occasional jitters, the last woman I had over had orgasm after orgasm, this works)

[–]trpfieldreport 2 points3 points  (2 children)

Among the most important lessons I drew from TRP is Sex God game.

I laugh at my old sex life, when I thought I was good at what I was doing. LOL.

I guess I thought because she was moaning, I was doing good. Then I remembered that a cucumber can make her moan too.

Sex God game is a fucking game changer.

[–]Diddlydangerous 1 point2 points  (1 child)

Are you talking about the sex god method by daniel rose? or some other sex god game referenced on trp?

[–]trpfieldreport 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Applying "Sex God Method" is Sex God game.

I haven't actually read the material in it's entirety as much as understood the concepts and applied them.

Primarily - treating a woman like your personal sex slave in bed is about as good as it gets.

[–]100 Modbsutansalt[S] 33 points34 points  (3 children)

The Sexual Marketplace

  • Defined
  • Fantasy vs Reality
  • The Bell Curve
  • Hidden Realities of the Dating Paradigm

Defined

  • Gary Becker was the first to describe human behavior in terms of economics
  • Roy Baumeister further refined the idea
  • A heterosexual community can be analyzed as a marketplace in which men seek to acquire sex from women by offering other resources in exchange.
  • Societies will therefore define gender roles as if women are sellers and men buyers of sex.
  • Societies will endow female sexuality, but not male sexuality, with value (as in virginity, fidelity, chastity).
  • The sexual activities of different couples are loosely interrelated by a marketplace, instead of being fully separate or private, and each couple’s decisions may be influenced by market conditions.
  • See also: Briffault's Law
  • Economic principles suggest that the price of sex will depend on supply and demand, competition among sellers, variations in product, collusion among sellers, and other factors.
  • Prostitution is illegal and Age of Consent laws were created in order to raise the cost of sexual access by lowering supply. Artificially props up older women's sexual market value, which (surprise, surprise) are the very people who demanded those laws
  • Research findings show gender asymmetries (reflecting the complementary economic roles) in prostitution, courtship, infidelity and divorce, female competition, the sexual revolution and changing norms, unequal status between partners, cultural suppression of female sexuality, abusive relationships, rape, and sexual attitudes.
  • Male and female sexuality not valued equally. This is what allows for money = sex.
  • The sexual revolution considerably lowered the price of sex (to women's detriment). See also: women in college and those 30+ respectively bemoaning hookup culture and “no good men”

Fantasy per the Feminine Imperative

http://i.imgur.com/dwtTfG6.png

  • Supported by and propagated throughout the mainstream media.

Reality

http://i.imgur.com/IfXNnAq.png

  • SMV is not equal; changes as we age and differs dramatically between men and women

Hidden Realities of the Dating Paradigm

  • The entire paradigm flip-flops as we age. By mid to late 30s men have the power and continue to do so for the rest of our lives.
  • Settling down in your 20s is a mistake as you don't realize your full potential until your 30s
  • Sexual Market Value (SMV) can be improved manually

The Bell Curve

http://i.imgur.com/2zesOwr.png

  • Green represents women naturally attracted
  • Yellow is where most women fall; game matters!
  • Red represents women who no matter what you do they're just not going to be into you
  • Goal is to minimize the red and maximize the green sections though self-improvement

I wrote more on this here.

Checkpoint

  • Think back to your goals and standards & expectations. How does this section apply to them?
  • Take a few minutes and refine as needed

[–]bustanutmeow 1 point2 points  (2 children)

You have made a mistake with green/orange. But good write-up otherwise.

[–]100 Modbsutansalt[S] 1 point2 points  (1 child)

Yeah, I'm colorblind and that was pointed out before. One of these days I'll get around to fixing it.

[–]bustanutmeow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

[–]JustSoha 10 points11 points  (0 children)

“In case of emergency, break glass for dick”

i swear i imagine a little red box with a tiny cock inside

[–]seedang 11 points12 points  (4 children)

man we really need a wiki of some sort for all of this

[–]whatnowtrp 2 points3 points  (3 children)

perhaps a trp wikia? http://www.wikia.com/Wikia

[–]seedang 4 points5 points  (1 child)

Something we have domain/server control of would be preferable. I would be more than happy to pay and host all of it honestly. It's not expensive.

[–]whatnowtrp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One could set up a mediawiki on a vps or something like that.

[–]Still_Redder 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Look at what happened when people try to use large "institutions" (e.g. kickstarter and the "Rape Book") for redpill/PUA purposes: huge backlash.

Better to keep things amongst ourselves. Or, as /u/needang suggested, a site/domain where we're in control.

[–]Adun4184 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Haven't read this all in detail but it looks like an outstanding guide. However, I didn't see anything about comfort tests. Might want to add it because it's crucial in an LTR and something I didn't know about until recently, unfortunately.

[–]1runnerrun2 5 points6 points  (1 child)

Excellent level-headed summary. One thing was new for me:

Alpha = Dopamine = Exciting

Beta = Oxytocin = Bonding

Hadn't heard the neurotransmitters linked into those concepts before. I do know dopamine speeds up the internal clock of the brain (neurons firing faster = faster thinking), any good sources on how they link into alpha/beta?

[–]100 Modbsutansalt[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Dopamine

http://www.psychologytoday.com/basics/dopamine

There's no quick blurb to quote to put this into context. You've got to read the sub articles. Once you do you'll see why this is associated with risk taking and excitement.

More: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dopamine

Oxytocin

http://www.psychologytoday.com/basics/oxytocin

Oxytocin is a powerful hormone. When we hug or kiss a loved one, oxytocin levels drive up. It also acts as a neurotransmitter in the brain. In fact, the hormone plays a huge role in pair bonding.

More: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Oxytocin

[–]cy6 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks for posting this. I have read about the TRP so many times but never really got a comprehensive picture of it. This is the formalization of what has been obvious to successful males forever.

[–]kasper0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Finally a perfect representation of what the Red Pill is all about in bite sized pieces.

[–]Chuckit_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You beautiful, beautiful man.

[–]el_Technico 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is great guys, everyone involved should be very proud.

[–]moveon4ever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Paleo or Zone. What is zone? Thank you

[–]human_bean_ 0 points1 point  (3 children)

I have one rule myself above all others: think less, do more. No matter how good your ideas, if you can't execute, they are meaningless.

[–]100 Modbsutansalt[S] 4 points5 points  (2 children)

An old martial arts instructor of mine had a similar line of reasoning:

The person who knows 5 techniques, but can perform them in a live situation 100% of the time will almost always triumph over the opponent who knows 100 techniques, but can only perform them 50% of the time.

Not to mention it's far easier mastering only a handful of techniques rather than learning how to do everything in the book. This is why really all I believe most guys need to learn is how to put their best food forward, how to handle shit tests, and just stop being scared of women and fucking go for it.

[–]Boozt 2 points3 points  (1 child)

I've heard similar. "I fear not the man whose done 1,000 different kicks. I fear the man whose done 1 kick, 1000 times."

[–]Namaste1994 1 point2 points  (0 children)

-Bruce Lee

it's a great quote in relation to this.

[–]Overzealous_BlackGuy 0 points1 point  (1 child)

So what if you break rapport with a joke, or something silly? Maybe i skipped it but i did not see anything about this.

[–]KillYourselfLiving 11 points12 points  (0 children)

  • Never apologize

  • Play it down and make fun of her anger

  • Keep frame

If you follow these steps you are almost unable to break rapport with a joke or an opinion

Maybe don't go full retard and tell a muslim girl that the holocaust hit the wrong race/religion... you get the point

[–]jreed11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great post.

[–]villarm006 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hope this is in the E book, got some studying to do. Respect brothers, great post and comments.

[–]shotthesheriff727 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is amazing. Thank you.

[–]EpicPlacebo -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You sir, are awesome.

[–]im_a_fuckin_boss -2 points-1 points  (8 children)

not to reign on your parade, but i think it's "keep it simple stupid" not "stupid simple" lol

[–]100 Modbsutansalt[S] 13 points14 points  (5 children)

I know, but I like my version better.

[–]SwagYoloJesus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The most TRP response ever.

[–]aptway 3 points4 points  (2 children)

I actually read it as "stupidly simple," as in a stupid person would be able to execute the level of simplicity.

Come to think of it, I recall a study which claimed that more intelligent teens had less sex than their stupid peers...

[–]SeekingTheWay 2 points3 points  (1 child)

of course. i would guess most of us are pretty inteligent, maybe too much to the point we overthought everything in the puberty when our stupid peers just kissed the girl with no thoughts

[–]alpha_n3rd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this this this; a little knowledge is a dangerous thing

[–]TrimHer 5 points6 points  (1 child)

I like to use "reign" in the context of exerting power over a populace, instead of hamfucking it into the wrong saying, butt too each his own.